What is squirting: the female ejaculation

Squirting is for many women and also men the holy grail of female pleasure. When a woman squirts with pleasure for the first time, it is a real surprise for many men and also women. Often panic spreads: Did I just urinate in bed or even on my partner?

Don't worry. Many men feel the squirting of the partner as the utmost form of recognition and love it when the woman squirts. And also many women feel the climax through squirting more intense and fulfilling and hardly want to do without it.

Squirting: A definition

Squirting is a form of female ejaculation. This is mostly triggered by intense stimulation of the G-spot and cannot be controlled willingly by women. Basically, it is claimed that every woman could squirt, but only some of the women ever come to this pleasure.

This is partly due to the different anatomy of women and the different stimulation of the G-spot area. In addition, the entrance of the urethra, through which squirting takes place, is pulled very far inward in many women when they become aroused and is therefore hardly accessible.

Such an anatomy can make squirting enormously difficult. But do not worry. Because squirting can be practiced and the exercises together with your partner can be highly exciting and pleasurable even without squirting.

The G-spot and the prostate

During the development of our sexual organs, man and woman are still enormously similar in the first months as an embryo. So it is not surprising that many physical features are built the same in both men and women.

The prostate, also known as the prostate gland, lies close to the urethra and vas deferens and can be made to secrete secretions by stimulation. This is known as prostate massage in men and can lead to effusion without climax. Such an area is also present in women.
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The G-spot is similarly close to the urethra and can secrete a secretion in case of stimulation, which is pushed outward during squirting. The reason why not all women ejaculate is mainly due to the lack of stimulation of the G-spot and the low excitability of this region in some women.

In addition, the urethral entrance is closed during arousal in many women. Thus, a female effusion can occur, which, however, flows back into the bladder due to anatomical reasons and does not penetrate to the outside. This, so-called retrograde ejaculation, also occurs in men and is called dry orgasm.

A sign of such an orgasm is a strong urge to urinate after sex. If you pay attention to this as a woman, you can quickly determine if you have had such an orgasm. If the liquid is rather light and odorless when you go to the toilet, this is usually the secretion that was released during squirting.

Every woman can squirt?

There are different theories about squirting. While one theory says that squirting is just the secretion of urine, other theories know better. However, the fact is that most women are able to squirt if they train and practice hard enough.

This is because men can't have a prostate orgasm right away either, they have to train and practice this ability as well. Therefore, it is important that you take enough time to slowly introduce yourself or your partner to squirting and discover this form of sexuality.

After all, many women react completely differently to stimulation of the G-spot. This is because it is differently pronounced, can be reached differently well and is also differently excitable. So it is definitely worthwhile to take your time to explore the possibilities with your partner's body or your own body.

Even if you or your partner are not able to squirt, you will have a lot of fun trying and practicing.

Urine or not? That is the question

The question of urine comes up again and again and is a factor of uncertainty for many women. Because hardly any woman wants to urinate unintentionally in bed or on her partner during sex. This leads to a cramping posture, which makes squirting almost impossible. But the liquid that is secreted during squirting is transparent and hardly smells.

Therefore, it is not very likely that it is urine. So, as a woman, you don't have to worry that your partner will be disgusted. Quite the opposite. Many men get excited by the thought that their partner can and does squirt.

After all, this is an ultimate proof that the partner can be stimulated sufficiently strong. You can hardly give your partner a better award.

Learn squirting: a guide

The basis for squirting is a well-trained pelvic floor muscles. You can easily train them with love balls. You will notice a real increase after just a few weeks. Among other things, you need these muscles to voluntarily stop the stream when urinating. Just try it out and you will feel the muscles you need.

But that's not all. The G-spot is responsible for squirting. You have to stimulate it long and intensively. And you have to stimulate it intensively until it triggers an orgasm. The easiest way to do this is with a partner or with a suitable toy.

In any case, it is important that you use enough lubricant,
as this reduces friction and makes the whole game more pleasant.

If you want to stimulate your partner's G-spot, you can insert two or three fingers into her vagina and feel the G-spot on the top of the vaginal wall. You will find a slightly rough spot, about the size of a coin, which will enlarge slightly when stimulated. The higher the woman's arousal, the more intensely she can enjoy stimulation of the G-spot.

In any case, it is helpful to go to the toilet and empty the bladder before the act. This gives the woman a safe feeling and provides more peace and relaxation. Now massage the G-spot with your fingertips in a "come here" motion. The resulting feelings of pleasure can radiate to both legs and are a good indication that you are on the right track.

The woman can now assist the process by knowingly tensing and relaxing the pelvic floor muscle. Just squeeze as if you need to urinate and then relax again. If you repeat this regularly, you will feel how the arousal increases more and more.

If the G-spot is now stimulated further and more and more, the woman will eventually feel the need to go to the toilet.

You are now on the right track and close to climax.

Because the bladder is empty, the feeling is only triggered by the stimulation of the G-spot. If you now once again tense the pelvic floor muscle and press, then you start to squirt. Don't be afraid. It is not urine, but the secretion of your G-spot, which now leaves you.

Squirting with sex toys

Not always your partner's fingers or your own fingers are able to stimulate the G-spot sufficiently. Fortunately, there are some sex toys that can help you in this case. You can use commercially available G-spot vibrators, which are shaped in such a way that you achieve intense stimulation.

The strong vibrations and the smooth surface of the vibrator help you to stimulate the G-spot comprehensively and intensively. So with a little practice you can also enjoy squirting and make a whole new experience. In addition, you can also use normal vibrators if you do not want to buy an extra G-spot vibrator.

The stimulation is also possible with these, but due to the anatomy it is much more difficult, because the G-spot can only be hit with difficulty.

Squirting: Don't put yourself under pressure

Not every woman wants to squirt and can share this experience with her partner. If you find that you don't like the feeling or are disgusted by squirting, you should simply not do it. Also, it is not always possible to reach such a climax.

Many women report that they could only experience such a squirting climax with a single partner or that it just happened to them once. As long as you don't put yourself under pressure, you can practice at your leisure and continue to discover your body alone or together with your partner.

And let's be honest. Even if squirting doesn't work out. At least then you will know exactly where your G-spot is and how intensively you react to its stimulation. This is also important and can give your sexuality a new boost.

Enjoy the stimulation - whether with fingers or sex toys - and don't worry so much about squirting. If it happens, it's nice, but if it doesn't, it's not the end of the world. The important thing is that you and your partner are satisfied.

If you are interested in squirting and want to experience it yourself or with your partner, there are many possibilities. In our guide you will find many tips and ideas on how you can provide the necessary stimulation.

You can get the right toys and lubricants quickly and easily at Steeltoyz. So you can experience squirting yourself and enjoy it with all your senses.

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