Discover the world of femdom. Learn all about power and control in relationships, different practices and safety tips for beginners and experienced couples.
The term CBT stands for the so-called Cock and Ball Torture, i.e. the torture of the man's penis and testicles. This type of game is clearly assigned to the field of BDSM and
Delve into the fascinating world of BDSM and discover the hidden psychological aspects that make these practices so appealing. From power games and control to trust and intimacy, learn how BDSM can contribute to self-discovery and self-affirmation. Learn why BDSM is an enriching and fulfilling experience for many people. Prepare to change the way you look at BDSM!
Do you want to live out your wildest fantasies and get to know yourself better? Then the Kinky Guide is for you! Discover a world of sexual preferences and learn how to live out your kinks in a safe and healthy way. Find appropriate accessories and other resources to explore your kinks.
Learn how BDSM affects the brain in this guide. We highlight the psychological aspects of BDSM, from the role of endorphins to the processing of pain and pleasure. Also discover tips on how to practice BDSM safely and healthily, and more resources to deepen your understanding.
Sensory deprivation is one of the most exciting practices in the field of BDSM and kink. It involves deliberately restricting or even completely eliminating a person's senses, thereby enabling an even more intense experience.
Objectification means that a person is made into an object. In BDSM, this is usually practiced in an erotic or sexual context. The dominant partner considers and treats the submissive partner as an object to be used for his pleasure or satisfaction.
You may have heard of subspace, but what exactly is it? Subspace is a state that a sub (short for submissive) is in during a BDSM session. It is a state of deep relaxation and trance where pain and humiliation are pleasurable and where the lines between pain and pleasure are blurred.
Intox Play is a term used to describe the use of drugs such as alcohol or drugs during BDSM sessions. This can lead to lowering inhibitions and feeling braver to try certain practices.
Edgeplay is probably one of the most exciting types of play in BDSM. This is partly because it is very dangerous for body and soul to "play" in such a way.
Edge means edge, boundary or also edge. So if you dare to play edgeplay, you are playing dangerous, borderline games that can involve real injuries.
Edge means edge, boundary or also edge. So if you dare to play edgeplay, you are playing dangerous, borderline games that can involve real injuries.
The degradee is the submissive part in all respects. This is a person who feels pleasure when he is humiliated or degraded. This is about humiliation for pleasure. Because exposing, insulting or similar, usually leads to sexual pleasure gain, which can be increased to the almost immeasurable.
The Brat tamer translation is easy to explain. Brat comes from English and means something like cheeky or defiant. In English, it is also referred to as bratty. The term tamer means tamer and of course also comes from English. So a brat tamer is a tamer of rebellious people. A "brat tamer" so to speak. Brat tamer in BDSM therefore means a game between power and rebelliousness.
Find out everything about BDSM branding in our guide. Whether painful devotion or jewelry for eternity, we explain! From the history of branding as body jewelry to performing branding on the sub - including instructions and aftercare. Discover the different types of branding and find out whether it's right for you and your sub.
As the mistress of the keys, I alone have your cock at my disposal. You are a chastity! That means I lock your penis away. I can do this with a Chastity cage or a chastity belt. The key becomes my property. What will you do to make me release your best piece?
Blackmailing is quite a risky fetish for all involved. It is about blackmail. Blackmail is not uncommon in BDSM, but not everyone knows about this exciting fetish. It belongs to the category of power play. There is a dominant part that blackmails and a submissive part that lets himself be blackmailed.
Switch means to change. If you are a switcher in BDSM, it means that you like to switch roles. Short and sweetly explained, switch means to be sometimes dominant and sometimes submissive. Yes, this can actually be possible and exerts a very special charm. You don't have to commit yourself at all. Also in BDSM you can always be what you want. So be a BDSM switcher full of lust and passion!
Mistress sounds polite and nice, but the truth behind the term is a dominance that scares some and fascinates others. Learn what it means to be a dominatrix, how you can use your charms and tools and what BDSM play is all about. Find out if you are suitable as a dominatrix and become more self-confident and stronger with the help of trained dominas.
Bdsm punishments are practically part of the everyday life of many BDSM lovers. It is a perpetual power game between Dom and Sub. If the sub does not obey, he will be punished. The BDSM punishments can be very imaginative.
The ruined orgasm can be very frustrating, but is still a popular practice in the BDSM scene. When an orgasm is ruined, it doesn't mean that you haven't come. You already have your orgasm. But this one is anything but satisfying
Are you curious about the world of BDSM needle play? Find out what it feels like and what there is to consider. Discover why some BDSM lovers find this type of play so arousing and how you can prepare yourself for aftercare. But be careful: the risk of injury is high and the application requires trust, hygiene and caution!
The CNC kink is already one of the most extreme preferences that can be found in the BDSM field. The meaning of CNC is not so easy to explain. Pronounced / written out it means "consensual non consent". This means as much as agree to something that you do not agree
What is a slave in the BDSM field, knows everyone who has a little idea about this scene. It is a submissive part that goes through a lot to please his Dom. But not all slaves are the same. There are differences
Impact Play is a very quick-witted game from the BDSM area. Impact is meant here word literally. Impact means impact or also effect. Play means game in German. Impact stands in this case for the impact on the human body with the hand or impact tools. You could also use edgeplay or spanking as a definition.
As a kinkster, you are someone who wants to act out sexually and doesn't necessarily prefer the socially accepted sex. Kinky / Kinkysex stands for bent sex, for extraordinary. Now this does not have to be a particularly pronounced BDSM fetish. Alone, if you are into soft role-playing, you are a bit Kinky.
In the framework of BDSM, there are quite a few abbreviations that can confuse beginners in this field. Especially when it comes to topics that are often only marginally related to a BDSM session itself. Some of these abbreviations are FLR and TPE. But also the role of Female Supremacy is mentioned again and again in this context. We have tried to bring a little light into the darkness for you and to explain these terms and their connections clearly and understandably.
Slut is by no means always something negative. Yes, it can be an insult. But it can also be meant positively when it comes to sexual things. In this small blog post we would like to enlighten you about the term slut in the BDSM area.
Slut is by no means always something negative. Yes, it can be an insult. But it can also be meant positively when it comes to sexual things. In this small blog post we would like to enlighten you about the term slut in the BDSM area.
Masochism belongs to the BDSM division. It is a preference that is not understandable for everyone. With this preference, everything is different. Not even the word comes, as usual from English or Latin. It is a derivative of the author's name Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. The latter achieved great fame with works such as "Venus in Fur". The theme of the novella revolved around the devotion of a man to his wife
Edging games can take place in a variety of ways. It is integrated into other sex practices. For example, this sex technique is often experienced in cuckolding or other domination games.
Golden shower is an alternative name for urine. This term is mainly used by the people who like to get aroused by this body fluid during sexual games. The number of these people
Locktober sounds a little like a sale or something similar. But it is rather a renunciation, something like Lent, but somehow also quite different. You can still eat and drink anything you want. There is only one thing you are not allowed to do during Locktober: have sex, jerk off, or find sexual climax in any other way. In short, your thing will be locked away!
Brat is a very obscure word, at least for laymen. In the BDSM scene, however, it is an everyday word, a very popular sex practice. It is a term which comes from English. The Brat translation is naughty or spoiled. It is also called bratty.
As a lick slave or lick slave you let your tongue dance and prove how agile and receptive it is. There are different types of lick slaves, which are also called lick servants. The word servant evokes less bad memories than the word slave. So if you talk about this fetish in public, you are more salon-able if you title your sub as a lick servant.
Vanilla or also vanilla sex are terms for normal sexual intercourse. Often vanilla is brought to word in the BDSM area to show a clear demarcation. There are vanillas, kinkys, BDSMers and so on.
In many books and films on the subject of BDSM, you can also find the breath reduction. Many people wish to experience this for themselves once. But this practice is definitely associated with dangers.
The term Sadomaso is mainly used by the media and is hardly represented in the BDSM scene. This is partly due to the rather negative connotation of the word, but also because sadism and masochism are only a small variety of BDSM
Tunnel games are delightful, but also dangerous. Whoever gets involved in this kind of BDSM game should be able to go beyond his own limits. If you are still a newbie in the BDSM scene, don't start with tunnel games right away. They might scare you away.
Many men are particularly sensitive on their testicles and enjoy the stimulation of this area very strongly. With the scrotum infusion is a game type of BDSM available, which makes use of exactly these feelings and includes a whole new form of stimulation
In the BDSM scene, everyone has their place. There is the dominant part and the submissive part. Or not? No! There is also the switcher! This can slip into both roles.
Ageplay is a term from the field of BDSM, in which one or both partners assume different ages in fantasy and act them out in play.
I am dominant and like to live that out in sexual games. But I am not a sadist. I do not inflict pain to intoxicate myself with it, but I experience my sexual pleasure through the submission of the sub to my commands.
Whoever takes the dominant part in a BDSM relationship automatically and by definition has more rights, but also more duties. Because it is up to the Dom both to provide for the safety of the sub