In the gay scene, both in Germany and internationally, the term cruising is more than well known. The actual term of cruising comes from the English seafaring language, but in the gay context it designates a special form of contact. Cruising refers to fast, often anonymous and easy-to-get sex.
Cruising in public space
Cruising is a term that has been established for several years. It is extremely widespread, especially in the gay scene, where it is often practiced. With certain signals, items of clothing or colors, gay men signal their willingness to have sex anonymously, which can thus be easily and uncomplicatedly perceived by the persons concerned.
As a rule, cruising is practiced mainly in the appropriate bars, but also in public spaces. Whether in parks, shopping streets or other environments, almost everywhere attentive men can come across suitable partners for their own activities.
The codes can differ regionally clearly
There are no internationally established codes in cruising, but the codes in question are usually introduced by the community through the use of the same.
They arethus established and self-establishing practices, which are often shaped by different currents within the community. Thus, for example, after a move, you must first find out by observation which codes and possibilities the current local scene can offer you.
These are semiotic codes, but they are often easy to decipher.
The advantages of cruising
When cruising, the usual social conventions are bypassed or broken. Formal introductions and getting to know each other are not necessary to enjoy sex together. In many cases, cruising even does away with the spoken word altogether, especially when the opportunity for sex is immediate.
Thus, no agreements need to be made. The actual sexual contact often comes without any problems without further communication and can therefore be enjoyed absolutely anonymously and freely.
Dangers of Cruising
Basically, cruising is not without dangers. For example, you should not take any valuables and only a little money with you if you are looking for quick sex. Because there are also here in this scene some cheaters and thieves, who have it less on the sex, but much more on your wallet.
In addition, there may also be dangers from homophobic attacks. Therefore, when cruising, pay attention to your surroundings and adapt your behavior to the environment in case of emergency. This is especially true for vacations in foreign countries where, for example, homosexuality is punishable.
In these areas you should refrain from cruising if possible and exercise restraint. In addition, you should always pay special attention to adequate protection when cruising in order to avoid sexually transmitted diseases.
