A handjob can be much more than "just jerking off with your hand". Used correctly, it is a sensual ritual: slowly building up tension, targeted touches, loving attention for his best piece. Whether as foreplay, in between or as the main act - with a little imagination and technique, the handjob becomes an intense experience that he won't soon forget.
- 1 The handjob variations at a glance
- 2 The one-finger handjob
- 3 The two-finger pincer
- 4 The doorknob
- 5 The flattener
- 6 The two-finger screw
- 7 The fakie handjob
- 8 Flip the switch
- 9 Two-hand techniques
- 10 Light a fire
- 11 Slippery gripping
- 12 Endless tunnel
- 13 Milking the bull
- 14 The twister
- 15 The handjob quickie: the washing machine
- 16 Tips for all levels - handjobs step by step
- 17 Video about handjob tips
- 18 Conclusion: What are you waiting for?
The handjob variations at a glance
Whether alone or with a partner - taking intensive care of the penis can be incredibly satisfying. But if a handjob is always the same, it quickly loses its appeal. With a few new grips, varying the speed and lots of feeling, you can open up completely new sensations.
Two things are particularly important for many of the following variations: plenty of personal lubricant and, if you like, a cockring. Lubricant ensures that every touch glides softly, warmly and pleasurably instead of rubbing. A cockring can support the erection and ensure that the handjob is enjoyed for longer.
We describe most variations as if the man is lying comfortably on his back and relaxing. So grab the lube, the man by your side - and simply try out our handjob instructions.[emotion emotion_id="414" ]
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The one-finger handjob
Perfect for beginners: slowly warm up his body and build up tension without going straight to the point.
Stroke one finger, preferably the index finger, in gentle circular motions around the glans. If present, play with the foreskin, gently push it back and forth and stroke the frenulum with a lot of feeling and patience. You will be amazed at how intensely he reacts if you take your time.
Vary the pressure, sometimes as light as a feather, sometimes a little firmer, and observe his reaction. Less is often more.
The two-finger pincer
This technique quickly brings tension to his body and is ideal if he is already a little aroused.
Form a pincer with your index finger and thumb and grasp the glans from above. Position your fingers so that you can stimulate the exact transition from glans to penis shaft. Use plenty of lubricant to keep everything soft and slippery.
Now make gentle twisting movements - as if you were carefully opening and closing a bottle - while your hand also glides gently up and down. By now at the latest, he'll be begging for "more".
The doorknob
This handjob variation is ideal for the start or as a playful change in the middle.
Use plenty of lube and grip the man's glans with all your fingers. Your hand forms a kind of soft cap over the tip.
- As if you were turning a slippery doorknob
Turn your hand slightly back and forth. The lube creates an intense, all-round stimulating sensation - he will squirm with pleasure beneath you. The more lube, the softer and smoother the sensation.
The flattener
Here you combine pressure and movement to create a very intense but controllable stimulation.
Place your flat hand on his penis and press it gently against his abdominal wall. Now slide your hand slowly up and down the shaft without releasing the pressure completely. You can perform this technique with one or both hands.
Use lubricant to intensify the sensation considerably. If you incorporate your upper body into the movement, the handjob also looks incredibly sexy - a treat for the eyes and body.
The two-finger screw
This is where it gets specific and intense. Form a circle with your thumb and index finger and place it gently over the tip of your penis. Make sure that the ring is tight enough to feel intense, but never painful.
Now slide it slowly down and up again with light pressure while adding minimal twisting movements. A sort of delicate "screw-top" that moves over the most sensitive area - perfect for taking him to the edge of orgasm.
The fakie handjob
Your hand position plays the main role in the fakie handjob.
Make a fist and wrap it around his member with plenty of lube. Important: The thumb points downwards, towards his feet. The narrowest part of your fist will hit his glans first.
When you slide up and down, it often feels amazingly similar to a real act for him - tight, enveloping and very realistic.
Flip the switch
Here you combine the fakie handjob with the classic "normal" hand position.
Let your fist slide up and down the shaft once with your thumbs down and then again in the normal position. Playfully switch back and forth again and again - like flipping a switch. This way, you constantly change the pressure points and the feeling without changing the speed too much.
Two-hand techniques
Two hands not only bring variety, they also take the strain off your muscles - and also give him the wonderful feeling that "one hand is not enough".
Many two-hand techniques work in different positions: He lying down, you next to him, on top of him or between his legs. Find out which position you like best - and don't forget his reaction on his face.
Light a fire
Place your palms on the left and right of the shaft of his penis, as if you were rubbing a small stick between your hands.
Now gently rub the penis between your palms. If you also incorporate a slight up and down movement, you will create a consistent, warm stimulation. Ideal for warming up or for longer, calmer play.
Slippery gripping
Very slippery, fast movements can sometimes lead to uncontrolled, unpleasant touching. This variation gives him stability and gives you control.
Hold the penis directly on the shaft with one hand and give him clear guidance. With the other hand, hold the upper part and continue to stimulate it with a firmer or gentler grip. This way you "ground" him and keep the action under control at all times.
Endless tunnel
For this handjob variation, you need both hands and plenty of lube.
Guide your first fist to the tip of the penis from above and let it slide slowly down to the base of the shaft. As soon as the glans is free, place your second fist on top and repeat the same movement.
Alternating gives him the feeling of "endless penetration", especially if you gently increase the speed or vary the pressure in between.
Milking the bull
This technique is similar to the endless tunnel, but in the opposite direction.
Place one fist closer to the shaft and stroke towards the glans. When the first fist releases the tip, the second starts further down and follows the movement. The repeated "upward stroking" makes it feel as if you are consciously "milking" it again and again - intense and demanding.
The twister
Place both hands on top of each other around the penis as if you were holding a thick handle.
Now turn your hands in opposite directions - the upper one to the left, the lower one to the right - and move them slowly up and down at the same time. The opposite rotation creates a spiral stimulation that can bring him very, very close to orgasm in a very short time.
The handjob quickie: the washing machine
If you want it to be quick, intense and effective, the 'washing machine' is perfect.
Enclose his member with both hands and interlock your fingers to create a compact, grippy 'tunnel'. Move your hands up and down and add a slight lurching rhythm from left to right - almost as if you were moving laundry in a drum.
Hardly any man can withstand this combination of pressure, speed and changes of direction for long before the orgasm overtakes him.
Tip for advanced users: Combine variations (e.g. e.g. one-finger handjob to start, then doorknob, then washing machine). Alternate speed and pressure.
Tip for experienced users: Supplement handjobs with cockring, testicle massage or light CBT elements - always only in consultation and never painful.
Tips for all levels - handjobs step by step
- Take your time to "explore" the penis with your hand, without any pressure to perform.
- Start with slow, simple up-and-down movements and a gentle technique such as the one-finger handjob.
- Ask yourself: "Is it that comfortable? Would you like slower, firmer, faster?"
- Use several variations in one session, change tempo, hand position and amount of lube.
- Experiment with two-hand techniques and different grip strengths.
- Consciously incorporate phases of tension in which you repeatedly stop him shortly before orgasm.
- Combine handjobs with other kinks, e.g. B. eye masks, light bondage or dominance games.
- Play with tease & denial: get him hot, make him wait before you release him.
- Work with clear signals or words for when he is allowed to come - this intensifies the psychological component enormously.
Video about handjob tips
Would you prefer to watch the movements instead of just reading them? Then a video can provide additional inspiration. Use it as a stimulus, but always adapt the techniques to your own preferences and limits.
Conclusion: What are you waiting for?
A handjob is anything but "boring manual labor" if you use it consciously, with lots of variety and feeling. With lube, a few new techniques and open communication, you can break your routine and discover lots of new sensuality. Observe his reactions, have fun trying things out - and enjoy it when he completely loses himself under your hands.
Kannte nur 2 Möglichkeiten
Was es nicht alles für Handjob Möglichkeiten gibt. Mir waren bislang nur zwei ganz Einfache bekannt. Einmal die Faust, also alle Finger / die komplette Hand um den Penis schließen und dann halt rauf und runter. Und bei kleineren Penissen eben mit zwei Fingern. Schon spanend, dass man mit den Händen so wahnsinnig viel anstellen kann, um einen Mann zu befriedigen. Ich werde mal die eine oder andere Technik ausprobieren. Vielen Dank für die tollen Tipps.