Blackmailing is quite a risky fetish for all involved. It is about blackmail. Blackmail is not uncommon in BDSM, but not everyone knows about this exciting fetish.
It belongs to the category of power play. There is a dominant part that blackmails and a submissive part that lets himself be blackmailed.
What is the blackmail fetish about?
Blackmailing can be about money, objects or even actions. Probably the most common form is blackmailing for money. Often a special account is created, on which a certain sum must always be. The blackmailer can dispose of this sum at any time.
A credit card can also be created or cash can be handed over.
Objects of all kinds may also enter the blackmail game. For example, the blackmailed person must buy the blackmailer new shoes or clothes.
But luxury goods such as a television, whirlpool and so on could also come out of it.
The third variant in blackmailing BDSM is to blackmail actions. So the submissive part can be forced to do all the housework and to do the shopping.
Just everyday things that the Dom doesn't feel like doing. But it can also become more intense and really go into exposure by forcing the sub to do something in public that he is uncomfortable with. Sexual acts can also be blackmailed.
The Blackmail Contract
Very important and top priority is the Blackmail contract! Without this nothing runs, because it is a safeguard for both sides. In the contract the conditions are negotiated. This way, the blackmailer has something in his or her hand, so that you as the blackmailer don't go overboard.
So you can't demand more than was contractually agreed. On the other hand, as the blackmailer, you have the assurance that your sub won't go to the police and report you. On the surface, extortion is still a criminal offense.
But with the contract you are in a legal gray area and can prove that it is a "game" based on reciprocity.
One way of extortion, however, is the promissory bill. If you have a promissory bill in your hand, you can also play with it. However, you are not protected by law. Of course, you are not allowed to blackmail anyone despite the promissory bill. The Blackmail contract should therefore not be waived.
BDSM Blackmailing with knowledge and power
Setting up a contract is not that difficult now. To reach your goal with threatening messages is more difficult. Of course you have to have something in your hand with which you can blackmail your counterpart. You have to radiate power and need knowledge about the person you want to blackmail.
Already at the first meeting, the person should tell you something about himself, which is enormously embarrassing or could even get him into trouble. You can then threaten to tell everything to his family or publish it on the Internet. Photos are always worth their weight in gold. Hardly anyone wants to find naked pictures of themselves in the world wide web. But also screenshots of your chats can be used for blackmail.
Just the fact that he or she lives for it and loves to be blackmailed is a fact that is sure to embarrass him or her when others find out about it. As time goes on, you can always acquire new knowledge about the person and use it against him. If you know about image editing, you can also invent him into embarrassing situations.
Keep contact
For anything that needs to be properly put in writing, such as the blackmail contract, email communication is useful. Negotiating and drafting the contract in person is also possible. In the case of personal contact, the forced part could also be there when you go shopping.
So he can directly pay your purchases and even carry the goods home.
Everything else can be handled via chat. Enough platforms exist in the meantime to be able to communicate online. A live chat can be held so that the blackmailed person has to watch you debit his money or spend it.
No matter if in person or only via SMS or chat, the contact must be maintained. Threats are always made when the blackmailed person starts to get cross.
Set limits
It is also important to set boundaries when blackmailing. Blackmail BDSM is divided into three levels. It is structured like a traffic light.
Green: You blackmail only money that is really left. There is no financial damage.
Yellow: The blackmailed person has to do without luxury goods to keep you happy.
Red: It goes to the Dispo, to funds that are not available. You drive him to ruin. (Red may only be threatened, but never put into action!)
