Pegging is a term that comes up again and again. But what is actually meant by this practice? We'll tell you exactly what pegging is, how you can best bring up the subject, and what you need for pegging together. It's simple and easy to understand.
What is pegging anyway?
Pegging sex is a practice in which the woman performs anal on the man. She wears a so-called strapon and can satisfy the man anally with it in the most different places. It is a sexual role reversal, which is often used in the field of BDSM to actively subdue the man.
The strapon - different variations of pleasure
The strapon is a strap-on dildo, although this term has become misleading. There are two different variants of the strapon. Once a dildo with harness, which is actually strapped around.
These come in different sizes and designs. For example, also with dildos for the woman, so that this is also stimulated or with vibration function. Alternatively, so-called strapless straps are currently on the market. These have a special shape and are first inserted vaginally in the woman.
Due to their shape and curvature, they can be held there by the vaginal muscles. During the penetration of the man, the intimate area of the active lady is thus also stimulated much more strongly. However, you have to move a little more carefully with this variant.
Interested in pegging? Talk about it
No matter if you are a man or a woman, it is quite possible that the idea of pegging just won't let you go. To be able to completely swap roles for once and to be able to feel the emotions of the opposite sex to some extent is more than just tempting. If this interest exists, then speak it best.
Because open communication is especially important in the sexual area of a relationship. Of course, there can be rejecting behavior. But then you know in any case where you are and can say goodbye to the thought of pegging for the time being. However, maybe your partner is open-minded and interested in the topic and you can delve deeper into the matter together.
Important tips for the active woman
If you as a woman have no experience with pegging, you should proceed with particular caution. Even if anal intercourse is possible for you without any problems or pain, this does not have to be the case for your partner.
So here are the most important tips:
- Use anal lube. Lots of lubricant!
- Gently stretch the anus. Use your fingers or small vibrators to prepare your partner for pegging.
- Start with a small strapon
- Penetrate very slowly and carefully and pay attention to the reactions of the man
- Position yourself and your partner so that you massage his prostate with the strapon. He will thank you for it.
