Sissy & Forced Feminization - Guide & Training Plan
In the BDSM world, the term sissy describes a man who is forced into a female role through playful coercion, dominance and clear feminizing rules. Clothing, posture, obedience, chastity and use by a dominant person shape the sissy step by step - until she deeply internalizes her role.
The arousal arises from loss of control, submission and the conscious humiliation of being feminized and used. This game always remains consensual, but intense and emotionally demanding.
What makes a sissy?
- feminine clothing, lingerie, stockings, pumps
- Make-up, wig, feminine posture & language
- Obedience, willingness to serve, role surrender
- Chastity & erotic control
- Use (often with strapon) and clear dominance
A sissy rarely "chooses" the role actively - she is led into it, pushed into it, controlled. This is exactly where the attraction lies: the mistress decides, the sissy obeys.
Signs that there is a sissy inside you
- The thought of feminization makes you hot.
- You want to be led, to submit.
- You respond to humiliation and clear commands.
- Strapon-Fantasies, chastity or plug training excite you.
- You want to be "used" instead of "using".
Tools for forced feminization
Depending on the style of play, different toys are used to intensify the training:
- Chastity cages - sexual control & discipline
- Strapons & dildos - for active use of the sissy
- Anal plugs & plug sets - for stretching & preparation
- Shackles & bondage - for control & fixation
- Paddles, whips, floggers - for discipline & posture correction
These tools create the basis for true devotion and deep feminizing transformation.
Sissy training in 3 stages
The following training plan guides a sissy in a structured way from the first steps to deep feminization.
LEVEL 1 - Beginner Sissy
- daily compulsory lingerie (briefs, stockings)
- Morning ritual: present kneeling, head lowered
- Rules: no orgasm without permission, feminine posture, polite language
- first make-up: lip gloss, mascara; light wig
- practice "sissy walk" for 10 minutes
- Body care: shave & lotion
LEVEL 2 - Advanced Sissy
- permanent chastity under the supervision of the mistress
- Start plug wearing times (10-20 minutes, increasing) - e.g. with Anal plugs
- Strapon-Training: from tongue to first penetration - see strapon selection
- Rules of etiquette: kneel when asked, hands behind, eyes lowered
- Mandatory clothing under everyday clothing: briefs, stockings, if necessary Buttplug
- Tasks: Prepare room, clean toys, report how she has served
LEVEL 3 - Deep Feminization
- full female role: dress, pumps, wig, full make-up
- Plug duty for several hours (safe & consensual)
- Sissy is actively used: strapon positions, commands, fixations
- Discipline: violations lead to punishments (spanking, extra plugging time)
- emotional submission: daily devotional formulas, gratitude, devotion
- Symbolic submission: wearing a collar - collars
At this level, the sissy is no longer a "player" - she is property, servant and object of pleasure, fully anchored in her role.
Combined recommendations according to training level
For level 1
For level 2
For level 3
Conclusion
Sissy training is a powerful erotic dynamic that combines control, humility, pleasure and role reversal. With clear rules, feminizing discipline and the targeted use of toys, a deep devotion is created that leads the sissy permanently into her role. A well-managed sissy is not just dressed up - she is transformed.
