What is a ball gag?
A ball gag is a gag that is put in the mouth to prevent a person from talking and speaking. Generally, gags are often referred to as "gags" in the BDSM scene.
A gag by no means helps to banish noises completely from the bedroom. However, it can be used to suppress or soften loud screams, e.g. when the sub bites into it instead of screaming, to have another outlet for the pain.
Why is a ball gag used?
The motivation for using it can be purposeful, for example to prevent the passive life partner from speaking as well as screaming, but it can also be applied at the request of the bottom, as he finds the sensation arousing and it helps him to empathize with his role in the power structure of bizarre bondage role play.
Some people also feel the humiliation, among other things because of the uncontrollability of salivation, as erotic beyond exciting. Another incentive for the use of gags lies in the thereby symbolized defenselessness of the bottom. The eyes of gagged people appear larger, and wearing them usually leads to a tense expression on the face of the person concerned. Together with the limited possibilities for verbal communication, this usually intensifies the intensity of the erotic game between the active Top and Bottom.
How do I put on a ball gag?
The ball is placed in the mouth behind the front teeth. To prevent spitting out or pushing out with the tongue, the gag is held behind the head of the wearer with a strap. Some beginners use an elastic band instead of a fixed strap to hold the gag in place.
With the strong press of the tongue, the gag can be pushed out in an emergency. As with almost all gags, the slave can continue to make sounds, but is very limited in pronunciation.
How do I get my partner to use a ball gag?
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