Tasks for slaves that make you really horny

Inventing tasks for slaves is not an easy game. The mistress has to keep him busy, challenge him - and make him horny at the same time. Many ideas sound hot in theory, but quickly lose their effect in everyday life. As you can see, the job of a dominatrix or mistress is more demanding than many people think. It's not just about strictness, but also about imagination, timing and a keen sense for your sub.

If you force your slave to clean your shoes, it's best to wear them on your feet. He has a job to do - and will be mesmerized by your beautiful feet at the same time. If, on the other hand, you simply give him a pair of shoes to clean, he'll quickly run out of steam. The incentive is simply missing. Always try to find tasks for slaves that are directly related to you and touch him emotionally and physically.

So close to the body and yet so far away

Erotic tasks for slaves that are directly related to you are almost mean - but that's often the attraction. He may find it difficult to fulfill his tasks to your satisfaction. For example, let him lick your shoes clean while you wear them. He concentrates on every millimeter, feels your closeness - and yet is not allowed to touch you directly.

If he touches you anyway, you can punish him or let him start the task again. Make him face the wall. He must not move a millimeter while you step closer and closer to him, playing with your fingers, your breath, your voice. If he doesn't obey, a consequence will follow. You can extend this game as much as you like.

Tasks for slaves are not subject to any rigid guidelines. You have a free hand - within the framework of your agreements. Be creative and show him that he is very close to you and your body and yet very far away at the same time. It is precisely this area of tension that makes submissive tasks so exciting.

Combine tasks for slaves with punishments

The purpose of tasks for slaves is to fire him up, focus him - and get him hot. Getting him hot is all you need at first. The second idea behind this is education: you can design tasks in such a way that he could theoretically do them, but it gets harder and harder.

Towards the end, make it almost impossible for him to completely satisfy you. This gives you the perfect reason to punish him or guide him more strictly. Of course the tasks also turn your slave on, but it's often the consequences that make him really horny because they make his devotion tangible.

Forbid him to touch you without being asked. He is not allowed to touch himself, he has to be tied up, endure blows, words and commands. He may even be banned from having an orgasm or kept in chastity if it suits you. Important: always consensual, clearly agreed and with a safeword - then the game can be intense and yet safe.

Specific tasks for slaves that get really hot

So that you don't just have theoretical inspiration, but can get started straight away, you will find specific tasks here that can challenge, occupy and arouse your slave at the same time. Adapt each task to your experience, limits and your specific D/s dynamic.

• 1.Shoe and foot service: Your slave kneels in front of you, slowly removes your shoes, massages your feet and may then clean them carefully - with a cloth, brush or tongue, depending on your agreement. If he touches you anywhere else, you will receive a penalty point.
• 2.Household chores: He only does household chores (dusting, cleaning the bathroom, tidying the kitchen) in a collar or with a marking accessory. After each completed task, he must present himself to you and ask for the next task.
• 3.Stand still punishment: He must remain in a certain position (e.g. hands behind his head, legs slightly apart) while you slowly walk around him, examine him and comment on him. Every wobble leads to a small additional task or light chastisement.
• 4.Writing task "Why I serve you": Have him write a handwritten text in which he explains why he wants to serve you, what limits he feels and what he is grateful for. He must read the text to you while kneeling.
• 5.Presentation ritual: At a set time each day, he must present himself to you in a certain position (kneeling, head lowered, hands behind his back) and wait for your signal - without speaking until you allow it.
• 6.Chastity challenge: If he wears a Chastity cage or voluntarily abstains from masturbation, he will be given small daily tasks (compliments, massages, acts of service). Points are awarded for obedient days - which you can later convert into rewards or additional games.
• 7.Preparation of the playroom: He is responsible for ensuring that the room is perfectly prepared: toys arranged, candles or lights set, towels ready, water provided. At the end, you check everything - for every little thing forgotten, a small punishment follows.
• 8. Personal hygiene according to your rules: Determine how he has to shave, groom or dress when he serves you. The task: He appears before you exactly as you have specified - and accepts your control without comment.
• 9.Gaze reduction: Give him the task of not looking you directly in the eye for an entire evening, unless you expressly allow it. Any violation will be punished with a predetermined consequence (e.g. a certain number of strokes or additional services).
• 10.Servant on call: For one evening, his only goal is to anticipate your wishes: Bring a drink, fetch a blanket, give you a massage, without you having to say everything. At the end, you evaluate his attention.
• 11.Ritualized greeting: Determine how he should greet you when you see each other (e.g. kissing your hand, kneeling, certain words). The task: This greeting must be done correctly and with full devotion every time.
• 12. Controlled speaking: He may only speak if he asks permission beforehand. His task: To formulate answers briefly, respectfully and clearly. Any violation will earn him an additional command or a small punishment.
• 13.Fantasy diary: Let him collect his fantasies in a small book over several days - but only fantasies in which he serves you. At the next session, read out selected passages and decide which of them may become reality.
• 14. Dressing service: You decide that he assists you with dressing or undressing: Close zippers, adjust stockings, lay out clothes. He must keep a respectful distance and observe your body language closely.
• 15.Exercise in patience and frustration: He sits or kneels near you while you are doing something else (reading, working on your laptop, talking on the phone). The task: He remains calm, does not impose himself and waits until you turn your attention to him. Small provocations on your part are expressly permitted.
• 16. Praise and humility list: Have him make a list of ten things he admires about you and ten things he sees as "needing improvement" in himself. This list is the basis for new tasks - and shows you how strongly his devotion is anchored.
• 17.Obedience under time pressure: Give him a series of small tasks (e.g. fetching water, straightening pillows, bringing you a certain toy) and set a clear time limit. If he fails to do so, a mild punishment or withdrawal of a small reward will follow.
• 18.Night task: Set a time limit for him to send you a short, honest message before going to bed - about three sentences about how he served you, what he learned and what he is looking forward to tomorrow. If you don't receive the message, an "educational reminder" awaits the next day.

Important: You don't have to use all the tasks at once. Choose a few, combine them with your favorite practices and gradually increase the intensity. Your slave should feel challenged, but not overwhelmed.

Tasks by level: how to increase the intensity

Depending on experience and dynamics, you can divide tasks for your slave into different intensity levels. This keeps the game manageable - and you can increase it step by step.

Level 1 - gentle everyday tasks & basic obedience

• Light household chores (point 2), presentation ritual (5) and greeting formula (11).
• Simple controlled speech (12) - only in clear play situations.
• Small tasks of short duration: e.g. report once a day, kneeling, how his day was.

Goal: Routine, basic obedience and a familiar feeling for your roles.

Level 2 - intensive service & playful strictness

• Shoe and foot service (1) with clear rules, punishment for standing still (3) and service when dressing (14).
• Presentation rituals at fixed times (5) and evening service "on call" (10).
• First elements of chastity challenge (6) or lowering your gaze (9), if it suits you.

Goal: Obedience under slight tension - punishments and rewards are used more consciously.

Level 3 - deep devotion & structured training

• Regular fantasy diary (13) and praise/duties list (16) as a basis for training tasks.
• Obedience under time pressure (17) and more complex scenarios in which several tasks are combined.
• Longer chastity phases (6) or recurring night tasks (18), always with a safeword and clear boundaries.

Goal: To consciously deepen your D/s structure - without compromising your everyday life or mental health.

Don't forget communication, safety & aftercare

As exciting as tasks are for slaves: The basis always remains consent, trust and clear communication. Talk openly about what types of tasks really excite him, what motivates him - and what would go too far for him.

• Agree safewords or clear stop signals.
• Check in regularly: "How does that make you feel?"
• After intense scenes, take time to cuddle, talk and ground yourselves (aftercare).

Tasks for slaves can then become a powerful tool to deepen your D/s dynamic: he lives his devotion, you live your leadership - and both enjoy the growing closeness that arises from consciously lived power and voluntary submission.