Kinky party can also be called a fetish party. But what exactly it is, can not be defined so easily, because there are many forms and types of parties. In addition, each party is freely determined by its participants. There is rarely a fixed schedule that declares a party to be a kinky party. Nevertheless, we will do our best to explain to you now what a Kinkyparty is.
Kink explained again
In order to know what a Kinky Party is, you first have to find out what Kink means. You can find the exact explanation in our blog about Kink Sex. Therefore, here now only briefly explained. Kink means bending, different, not straight. So a kinkster is someone who is open to unusual sex practices. Kink can almost be equated with fetish. But only almost! Feel free to read the corresponding kinkster blog. Now we come to the party ...
Music, dance and common preferences
At Kinky Party or Fetish Party many think of sex orgies with a lot of audience. Everyone is doing it with everyone, without shame and consideration. Yes, for some maybe a very nice thought, but still not quite right. At least this is not the most common arrangement at BDSM parties.
First and foremost, fetish parties are simply a gathering of like-minded people. Everyone has a fetish, in some direction, is just into kinky sex. But, it's not about orgies, it's about dancing, enjoying together and making the fetish itself tangible.
At most kinky parties music from the 80s is played, because this music meets the taste of most people. There is dancing, sitting together and talking. Of course, the topics of conversation usually relate to the respective fetishes. There is an exchange of experiences and preferences. You just get to know each other.
Nothing must, everything may!
Of course, there are also fetish parties where something more is going on. As a rule, there are special corners or rooms, in which it is allowed to live out. Some conversations simply make you want more. Then it may also come to sexual acts or the living out of various fetishes. But it is only an optional provision. Nothing must happen!
The outfits are most important
At kink parties the outfits are the most important thing. In the right dress you show your belonging and there is a kind of togetherness, a group that gets along well. The outfit can also determine the direction of the Kinky Party. Because depending on what you wear, you can express what you want and who you are. Let the others know your fetish by your outfit.
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Hardcore BDSM Party
However, a fetish party can actually be held like an orgy. However, this must always be announced in advance. Each participant must know from the beginning what he is getting into. So there are far more than just plain fetish parties. There are also real hardcore BDSM parties.
Here there are then different areas where different sex practices can be lived out. A good location to maybe try something new. But even at the more extreme sex parties there is always one thing in the foreground: Everything can, nothing must!
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How to find a fetish party
Fetish parties are not advertised on radio or TV. But all the more on the Internet. Especially nowadays kinky parties are very easy to find, because it also goes around on the social medias. Facebook, Instagram and Co now offer a good platform to create and share such events. But always be careful when creating, because if you choose the wrong words, the event will be deleted again directly!
A far safer source therefore still offer the good old Internet forums. Find a fetish forum and you will get closer and closer to your party. It is the only optimal place to make events of this area known.
You will be amazed at the locations that actually exist for these parties. Yes, it can be small, cozy and private parties in apartments or converted basements. But it also goes bigger and more pompous. So also gladly times whole houses for the mad party are rented or converted shorthand concert halls. So it can also be really big, loud and diverse.
Acceptance and safety
At all Kinky Parties, acceptance and safety are of course in the foreground. No one should consider someone else's fetish as a perversity or dismiss it as uninteresting. Every party guest has a special preference and this should always be accepted. Ask each other questions if a fetish is perhaps not known or understood. This is how you get to know new things.
If you do not only want to talk, but also to act out, all parties must agree to the actions. Be and make clear beforehand what it is all about. If one part has no more desire or becomes panicky, the fetish game must be ended. No one may be pushed or forced to do anything.