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Spanking Guide: Techniques, Safety and Toys

Spanking combines controlled impact, erotic tension and clear consent. This guide helps you choose suitable techniques, safe target areas and the right intensity.

New to the game? Start with our spanking guide for beginners and compare spanking toys such as paddles, floggers and crops.

Go deeper with Impact Play or explore consensual BDSM punishment—always with limits, a safeword and aftercare.

Spanking combines controlled impact, erotic tension and clear consent. This guide helps you choose suitable techniques, safe target areas and the right intensity.

New to the game? Start with our spanking guide for beginners and compare spanking toys such as paddles, floggers and crops.

Go deeper with Impact Play or explore consensual BDSM punishment—always with limits, a safeword and aftercare.

Flogger for a gentle introduction to the world of whips

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 10/02/2022 08:00 0 Comments

A flogger is a whip that is popular as a beginner's model. So if you are new to whipping or being whipped, buy a flogger. It is not as hard as other whips and gentle stroking is also possible. Despite the harmless strength, this whip also belongs to the BDSM area

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

The cane - a punishment that leaves its mark

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 19/01/2022 08:00 1 Comments

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The cane - a punishment that leaves its mark

The cane is loved in some areas and hated in others. It is often used as a walking aid. It is a stable aid for people who cannot walk properly without it. However, it is also often used for chastisement. Until well into the 20th century, many schoolchildren in Europe had a great fear of the cane, as it was used there as a punishment for disobedient pupils. The cane is still used today in some places outside Europe.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

Caning - pleasure with the cane

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 15/05/2019 15:30 1 Comments

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But it is not for nothing that caning is also used as an instrument of torture in many countries. If used incorrectly, it can quickly lead to injuries. We'll show you how caning works and what you need to watch out for.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

Was Spanking im BDSM bedeutet

Spanking ist einvernehmliches Impact Play mit Hand oder Toy. Der Reiz entsteht aus Rhythmus, Erwartung, Kontrolle und dem Wechsel zwischen sanften und deutlicheren Impulsen. Entscheidend sind vorher vereinbarte Grenzen, ein Safeword und aufmerksame Kommunikation.

Technik und Körperzonen

Beginne mit lockeren, gut kontrollierbaren Schlägen und steigere langsam. Geeignete Zonen und Intensität hängen von Person, Erfahrung und Toy ab. Empfindliche Körperbereiche, Gelenke und Organe verlangen besondere Vorsicht; die Hinweise des jeweiligen Herstellers gehen immer vor.

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Paddle, Flogger, Gerte oder Peitsche?

Paddles treffen flächiger, Flogger verteilen den Reiz über mehrere Riemen. Gerten und Peitschen können gezielter wirken und verlangen mehr Übung. Vergleiche passende Spanking Toys nach Material, Länge, Flexibilität und gewünschter Intensität.

Mehr Wissen für kontrolliertes Impact Play

Für den Einstieg hilft die Spanking-Anleitung für Anfänger. Vertiefe Technik und Begriffe unter Impact Play und plane nach intensiven Sessions ausreichend Ruhe, Nähe und Aftercare ein.