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BDSM Guides & Inspiration: Knowledge, Safety & Ideas

Explore BDSM with clear guides on consent, safety, relationships, toys and different types of play. Whether you are a beginner, part of a couple or looking for fresh ideas, this section helps you approach BDSM consciously and at your own pace.

Fisting Stories: My trip ends with Fisting Premiere

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 04/04/2022 10:00 1 Comments

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Fisting Stories: My trip ends with Fisting Premiere

I was in a really bad mood today and was planning to get really drunk. A few hours ago, I had caught my boyfriend doing another woman nicely from behind while he thought I was in the office. I was home early for once because I had been fired by my boss and wanted to get a supportive hug from my partner.

Tags: Sex Geschichten, Fisting Geschichten

Keuschheitsgürtel Geschichten: Die Freuden des Keuschheitsgürtels

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 01/04/2022 05:00 0 Comments

Ich hatte vor einigen Wochen eine wahnsinnig interessante und erotische Frau im Internet kennengelernt und mich bereits zweimal mit ihr getroffen. Unsere Vorlieben und sexuellen Interessen waren einander sehr ähnlich und die Chemie zwischen uns stimmte von der ersten Sekunde an. Sie stand total drauf, ihre Sexpartner zu dominieren und ich liebte es, mich von einer strengen Herrin unterwerfen und kontrollieren zu lassen.

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Sklave

Strapon Stories: Twisted worlds

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 26/03/2022 12:00 0 Comments

"Nadja, get on your knees and suck my cock!" Sergei said to me at least once a week and I hated it! He was so unkempt! Sergei never paid attention to what he ate and drank. He didn't think much of personal hygiene. So he would stick his sweaty little cock out at me...

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Strapon, pegging geschichten

Spanking stories: He spanks me and I love it!

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 18/03/2022 08:45 0 Comments

The shackles are put on
You like spanking stories? Then you will love my life, because my life is one spanking story! Yes right, I like to get my ass full! Who can claim to get spankings from their man and love it too? I can!

Tags: Strafbock, BDSM Geschichten, Sklave

Feminization history: Forced feminization by my dominatrix

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 16/03/2022 12:00 1 Comments

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Feminization history: Forced feminization by my dominatrix

When my dominatrix called me her sissy for the first time, I had no idea what was in store for me. But that was to change very quickly. Read for yourself the story of how my mistress carefully and consistently introduced me to the female world of eroticism.

Tags: Nylon Fetisch, Fetisch Geschichten, Nylon Geschichten

Golden shower stories: The golden shower of my mistress

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 11/03/2022 12:00 0 Comments

As my mistress's slave, I had tasted blood from the very first moment. My very first Facesitting had already made me so horny that Lady Svea had to work my best piece with the whip. Otherwise I would have cum far too soon and I wasn't allowed to do that.

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Erotische Geschichten, Facesitting Geschichten

Facesitting Stories: My mistress favorite place

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 10/03/2022 12:00 0 Comments

The shackles are put on
For the umpteenth time, I paced back and forth in the small room. I was just too nervous to sit still. My stomach was cramping in a pleasant way, a layer of sweat had formed on my back. I had been in this state since last night.
Around 19:00 my phone had rung. I could not believe my ears. It was the lovely voice of my mistress Svea.

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Erotische Geschichten, Facesitting Geschichten

Knife Play: Tips and tricks for safe play

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 14/02/2022 08:00 0 Comments

Knife Play is an erotic game that focuses on the fascination of knife play. Although Knife Play is a game on a knife's edge, a knife does not necessarily have to be used. There are also other ways in which you can enjoy knife play without putting yourself or your partner in danger. In this guide, you will learn everything about knife play, from the basics to tips and tricks for safe play.

Primal Prey - Catch for adults

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 12/02/2022 09:00 0 Comments

Playing catch when you're already an adult? Yes it can be fun, especially if it is Primal Prey. Because this is the adult game of tag. It's suitable for those who are a bit kinky and want to get back to the original instincts. Speed, overpowering, rawness and submission are always present in Primal Prey.

Impact Play - a quick-witted BDSM game

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 12/02/2022 09:00 0 Comments

Impact Play is a very quick-witted game from the BDSM world. The word "impactful" is meant literally here. Impact means impact or effect. Play means game in German. In this case, impact stands for the impact on the human body with the hand or striking tools. You could also use edge play or spanking as a definition.

What is CMNF?

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 08/02/2022 09:00 0 Comments

CMNF is not just about any letters. The letters are significant. It means Clothed Man, Naked Female. Clothed man, naked woman. It is a special love game that requires nothing more than yourselves.

Kinkster - live it up!

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 08/02/2022 09:00 1 Comments

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As a kinkster, you are someone who wants to live out their sexuality and does not necessarily prefer socially accepted sex. Kinky / kinky sex stands for kinky sex, for the unusual. This doesn't have to be a particularly pronounced BDSM fetish. If you like soft role play alone, you're a bit kinky.

Sadism as part of sadomasochism: Understand the dynamics.

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 27/01/2022 13:30 0 Comments

Slut is by no means always a negative thing. Yes, it can be an insult. But it can also be meant in a positive way when it comes to sexual matters. In this short blog post, we would like to enlighten you about the term slut in BDSM.

Tags: bdsm, sadismus

Slut as a symbol of sexual freedom and self-determination

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 27/01/2022 08:00 0 Comments

The ponygirl - a variety of BDSM with many facets

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 25/01/2022 15:15 0 Comments

In the BDSM segment, there are many types of play that seem unusual at first glance. Ponygirls are also very popular in the BDSM scene. But what are ponygirls and what makes this type of play so appealing? We'll show you why you should definitely pay attention to ponygirls.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

From beginner to masochism expert: tips and tricks

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 25/01/2022 08:00 0 Comments

Masochism belongs to the BDSM category. It is a preference that not everyone can understand. Everything is different with this preference. Not even the word comes from English or Latin, as usual. It is a derivation of the author's name Leopold von Sacher-Masoch. He achieved great fame with works such as "Venus in Furs". The theme of the novella revolved around a man's devotion to his wife.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

The punishment book in the field of BDSM

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 25/01/2022 08:00 0 Comments

The punishment book is a tool in the field of BDSM, which can be used to document upcoming punishments for the or the sub and at the same time increase the anticipation of these punishments. The form and appearance of the punishment book can vary greatly. The important thing is that all parties involved agree to the use of a punishment book.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

Edging - Experience mega orgasms: how it works

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 24/01/2022 08:00 0 Comments

Edging Games can take place in many different ways. It is integrated into other sex practices. For example, this sex technique is often used in cuckolding or other domination games.

Tags: BDSM Ratgeber, BDSM

Locktober - on into a chaste month!

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 18/01/2022 11:00 0 Comments

Locktober sounds a little like a sale or something similar. But it is rather a renunciation, something like Lent, but somehow also quite different. You can still eat and drink anything you want. There is only one thing you are not allowed to do during Locktober: have sex, jerk off, or find sexual climax in any other way. In short, your thing will be locked away!

Tags: BDSM Ratgeber, BDSM

Brat BDSM - Snot brat who needs education

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 16/01/2022 11:00 0 Comments

Brat is a very obscure word, at least for laymen. In the BDSM scene, however, it is an everyday word, a very popular sex practice. It is a term that comes from the English language. The Brat translation is naughty or spoiled. It is also known as bratty.

Tags: BDSM Ratgeber, BDSM

Lick slave - let your tongue dance

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 16/01/2022 11:00 1 Comments

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As a lick slave or lick slave you let your tongue dance and prove how agile and receptive it is. There are different types of lick slaves, which are also called lick servants. The word servant evokes less bad memories than the word slave. So if you talk about this fetish in public, you are more salon-able if you title your sub as a lick servant.

Tags: BDSM Ratgeber, BDSM

Raising a cuckold - how to do it right

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 12/12/2021 16:15 10 Comments

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If you're planning to train your partner to be a cuckold, you need to get it right from the start. If mistakes creep in, your plan can fail. There are certain points, like a kind of guide, that you can follow to get everything right, just read on, learn and then practice diligently...

The Hotwife: The Cuckold and his Cuckoldress

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 01/12/2021 16:15 0 Comments

Cuckolding is a somewhat different, unusual type of love relationship between a man and a woman. However, these are often the strongest relationships, as there are simply no secrets and no taboos.

In a cuckold relationship, the woman in particular is allowed to live out her sexuality to the full. However, the man also gets his most secret desires fulfilled.

Tags: Dreier, Hotwife

Distribution of roles between Hotwife, Cuckold, Bulls and Lover

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 01/12/2021 16:15 1 Comments

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Distribution of roles between Hotwife, Cuckold, Bulls and Lover

When it comes to cuckolding, there are always several parts involved. Everyone has a fixed role. In the cuckolding scene, there is the hotwife and her cuckold. They are in a fixed relationship. Then there are the Bulls, whereby there is always an Alpha Bull. Last but not least, the Hotwife has fun with various lovers, but they are never intended to be long-term...

Tags: Dreier, cuckold

Cuckold - How do I tell my wife?

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 01/12/2021 16:15 2 Comments

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You dream of being a real cuckold and your wife has no idea? Then tell her! Really don't make a secret of it! Most women secretly dream of having sex with strange men and suppressing their own partner. However, only very few women would say so. Of course there are ladies who don't think much of cuckolding, but most women are real hotwives!

Tags: Dreier, cuckold

A real cuckold swallows sperm! - Swallow your own sperm!

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 29/11/2021 00:00 2 Comments

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A real cuckold swallows sperm! - Swallow your own sperm!

As good as every man it goes through the head, as probably the own sperm tastes. Once the desire is really there, often the urge to taste sperm is also there. Often, however, this will disappears again very quickly. At the latest when the load is squirted. The sex drive is gone, the man is fully satisfied and the sperm is then indifferent to him. Sometimes even a kind of disgust or shyness arises before the own love juice. But there are ways to lose this.

Vanilla sex - that's totally okay too!

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 12/10/2021 15:15 0 Comments

Vanilla or also vanilla sex are terms for normal sexual intercourse. Often vanilla is brought to word in the BDSM area to show a clear demarcation. There are vanillas, kinkys, BDSMers and so on.

Cuckold: Creating a cuckolding fantasy world

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 06/10/2021 16:15 1 Comments

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Cuckold: Creating a cuckolding fantasy world

Cuckolding is a coveted sex practice that is on many people's minds. However, not everyone dares to practice it. It often remains a secret fantasy that not even your partner knows about. That's a shame, because living out these thoughts can be very beneficial to a relationship...

BDSM Stories: From mistress to slave

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 04/09/2021 10:00 0 Comments

I am Hera, yes of course this is not my real name, but what does this concern you?! I rule over all of you and you are only my slaves. Bound by my beautiful face, I can and will do whatever I want with you. You want to resist me? Do it and I will punish you!!!!

Tags: Strafbock, BDSM Geschichten, Erotische Geschichten, Sklave

Dominatrix Stories: As a dominatrix every day is different

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 24/08/2021 10:00 0 Comments

As Mistress Catherine, I pursue my profession as a dominatrix six days a week. In my professional field, every day is experienced anew. It is never the same. My life could not be more varied. I have been doing my job for several years and have many stories to tell. A few of them, I would like to share with you.

Creampie Cleanup - lick them really clean!

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 01/07/2021 16:15 1 Comments

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Creampie Cleanup - lick them really clean!

To lick a sperm pussy properly clean, there are several methods and positions. So it will always be a new experience. It is important that the tongue is always used in full passion. Gladly it is seen by the woman if you lick her clean with the tongue so that she comes directly again. ...

Tags: Dreier, Cuckold

BDSM Stories: Whipped by new neighbor - And it felt so good

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 10/06/2021 12:00 0 Comments

I loved living in the center of Cologne and my apartment in the middle of all the hustle and bustle and all the different people was like a secret retreat for me. From my balcony I could watch people in the cafes and while shopping and enjoyed the hustle and bustle around me

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Erotische Geschichten

BDSM Stories: The Professor

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 12/05/2021 05:30 0 Comments

It was already late in the evening and the university institute was almost deserted. Everything was quiet and deserted. But a strange noise from one of the offices caught my attention. I quietly walked to the end of the hallway and saw one of my professors from undergrad, who I had quite a crush on a few years ago. He seemed to have something like a riding crop in his hand ....

BDSM Stories: Give it to me with all the whips there are!

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 15/04/2021 05:00 2 Comments

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BDSM Stories: Give it to me with all the whips there are!

Oh please please, let me be your slave. With this thought in mind I get up almost every morning. I want to feel these strokes on naked skin, I like to feel the different textures. In addition, this slapping sound, the pleasant burning on the skin. It makes me so insanely hot!...

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Sklave

BDSM Stories: CFNM - Clothed Female Naked Male

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 30/03/2021 12:00 0 Comments

The room sounded large. He felt warm light on his skin, heard the breathing of people around him, but he could see nothing. A few minutes ago, they had pulled the mask over his eyes. He could feel the thick leather strap wrapped around his head, holding the mask in place. Gentle hands guided him along.

BDSM Story: Our new ponygirl - training begins

30/03/2021 12:00 1 Comments

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BDSM Story: Our new ponygirl - training begins

Today is an exciting day here at the farm. A new young lady has signed up and will spend her first day with us today. We are a special training farm. Because with us, budding ponygirls are trained.

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Ponygirl

Breathplay - Breath reduction the dangerous game in BDSM

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 25/03/2021 13:00 0 Comments

In many books and films on the subject of BDSM, you can also find the breath reduction. Many people wish to experience this for themselves once. But this practice is definitely associated with dangers.

BDSM Story - Spanking and Bondage Adventures

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 28/01/2021 08:30 0 Comments

There he was again. Only a few meters separated my desk from the desk of my new colleague Alex. He was a real eye-catcher

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Sklave, Femdom Geschichten

Bondage stories: First experience with bondage games

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 04/01/2021 12:00 0 Comments

One day I was dancing with my friend Vanessa in the hottest club. Both of us were not averse to a sensual adventure and enjoyed it very much to give pleasure to the gentlemen present with mutual caresses. Vanessa had already chosen a suitor and made out passionately with him in a corner of the dance floor.

Tags: BDSM Geschichten, Bondage Geschichten

BDSM Story: My Webcam Slave

31/12/2020 10:00 0 Comments

Finally it was time to enter the chat room. The cam of my slave was already turned on. With a double click I enlarged the picture to the whole screen, leaned back in my chair and enjoyed the sight.
As always, she was sitting at her desk in front of her PC, so I could see her from the waist up. She was wearing the black leather collar and a green bra to go with it. Her long black hair was tied back in a tight braid. She was sitting upright so that her breasts were clearly visible in the camera picture. Her head was slightly lowered, her gaze submissively directed at the camera.
Everything was exactly as I had ordered. With the hint of a smile, I brought her image back to normal size and typed in the first message.

Flagellation - the English education in all its facets

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 02/12/2020 08:00 0 Comments

Many people are especially fascinated by flagellation. We will show you what is behind the concept of English education, what to look out for in these games and what dangers and possibilities these sexual SM games offer.

Tags: Spanking, Rohrstock, BDSM Praktiken

Tunnel games - the appealing danger

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 21/06/2019 13:00 0 Comments

Tunnel games are exciting, but also dangerous. Anyone who gets involved in this type of BDSM game should be able to go beyond their own limits. If you are still new to the BDSM scene, don't start with tunnel games straight away. They could scare you off.

The money mistress - addiction, danger or rather harmless?

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 19/06/2019 12:00 0 Comments

If you want to give satisfaction to a money slave through your money donations, this can make many men happy. It is important that you set the limits of the donations to the money mistress exactly and do not exceed them. Because a money mistress can also become an addiction and endanger you financially.

The punishment trestle - BDSM furniture for perfect bondage

By: Marcel von Steeltoyz 07/06/2019 17:00 0 Comments

The punishment buck is the perfect bondage instrument, which can be extended with many accessories and which allows various games. We'll show you what makes a good punishment buck and what you can expect.

Rapeplay - A game between dominance and submission

By: Nancy von Steeltoyz 05/06/2019 14:00 0 Comments

Rapeplay is a very fiery love game. It is about dominance and submission. Rape means rape and play means to play. It is therefore rape play and not real abuse!

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What is BDSM and bondage?

BDSM is the abbreviation for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission and Sadism & Masochism. Bondage refers to a person being tied up or restrained, while Discipline stands for punishment.

Dominance refers to a person being in control, while submission means that someone submits. Sadism refers to the pleasure of pain and masochism to the pleasure of submission and sensations of pain.

Together, these aspects form a world that is exciting and fulfilling for many people. However, it is important that everyone involved respects their boundaries and that everything happens voluntarily and with pleasure.

Tips and inspiration for beginners

Set your boundaries:

Before you get involved in the world of BDSM and bondage, it is important that you know your boundaries and communicate them. You can do this, for example, by agreeing a 'safeword' that you will use if you become uncomfortable.
Use the right equipment: Invest in high-quality restraints, whips, etc. to avoid injuries. Find out beforehand exactly which equipment is suitable for which practices.

Use condoms:

When trying out sexual practices, you should always use condoms to avoid STI's.

Practice:

Especially with more complex practices, it is important that you approach them slowly and carefully. Practice with gentle versions first and then gradually increase.

Respect the rules of BDSM:

There are certain rules and etiquette that should be followed in the BDSM community. Find out about these and make sure you adhere to them.

Use safewords:

As mentioned earlier, it's important that you agree on a safeword to let each other know if you become uncomfortable or want to end the session.

Enjoy the experience:

Remember that BDSM and bondage are a way to live out and explore your sexuality. Have fun and enjoy the experience!

Communicate with your partner:

The be-all and end-all in the BDSM world. Make sure you talk to your partner about your desires, preferences and boundaries to ensure an enjoyable and safe experience.