First Visit to a BDSM Studio: Preparation and Rules What should you expect in a BDSM studio? Learn about preparation, communication, boundaries, hygiene and respectful conduct.
We have compiled helpful advice and tips for you from experienced experts on what you should pay attention to during your first visit to an SM studio. Because curiosity alone is important, but with a little preparation you can enjoy your visit much more intensively and really savor it.
Finding the right SM studio
In the for sale area it is important to distinguish between pure prostitutes and real SM studios. Although many prostitutes also offer SM practices, they can usually only fall back on very limited equipment and facilities. No wonder, the equipment of a complete studio costs about 20,000 euros.
For this reason, real SM studios can usually already be identified via their website and examined on the basis of the presented photos. Many studios also offer free viewing appointments for potential new visitors, where you can take a look at the studio at your leisure.
Pay attention not only to the furnishings, but also to the cleanliness of the entire studio. If for some reason you feel uncomfortable in the studio, you should simply look for an alternative. You need to feel comfortable so that you can really let yourself go in the studio during the appointment.
The choice of Domina or Dom
In most SM studios, there are several ladies or gentlemen to choose from. Often these offer a different service or different focuses. Let yourself be guided by your gut feeling when choosing and first decide on a play partner.
In addition, some studios already offer questionnaires for their new visitors, which help to narrow down your own fetish and your own wishes and preferences. You can fill out the questionnaire and send it to the studio and the lady or gentleman of your choice can tell you whether he or she can imagine these possibilities with you.
An important sign of professionalism is the preliminary talk before the appointment. A good dominatrix always takes enough time for you and asks about your wishes, your experiences, your limits and your taboos.
In this conversation, a code word is usually defined, with which you can stop the current treatment, if it goes beyond your pain or stress limit.
The code word tells the dominatrix or dom immediately and unmistakably that this treatment reaches your limit or even exceeds it. This is important because even a very good dominatrix can not immediately feel and know every limit with a new guest.
Dive into a whole new world of pleasure
Many SM studios offer different focuses and offers for their customers. No matter if you dream of an enduring clinic treatment with Frau Doktor, if you want to be chastised by a dominatrix at St. Andrew's cross or if you want to be exploited and used by the dominatrix in lingerie, not all wishes can be fulfilled in every SM studio.
You alone know your preferences and your fetish and must choose the right studio accordingly. Do not be disappointed if the first visit can not always burn off the ultimate in sexual fireworks in you.
On the one hand, the nervousness during the first visit can influence your desire, on the other hand, guest and dominatrix must also fit and harmonize with each other.
