The doggy style is one of those positions that instinctively combine closeness, tension and intense penetration. But real pleasure only arises when technique, communication and sensitivity harmonize. This guide refines the classic - sensual, safe and full of inspiration.
Why the doggy style is so popular
The position enables deep, rhythmic penetration and gives the active partner natural control over speed and intensity. At the same time, it allows the passive partner to surrender, to feel, to breathe - and to consciously experience their own body reactions. The position is versatile, changeable and creates space for playful dominance, closeness and fantasy.
Professional tips for the perfect doggy style
1. The right preparation
Sensual foreplay opens the body and mind. Gentle kisses over the back, caressing hands on the hips and calm breathing create trust. The transition to doggy style should be slow, inviting and pleasurable.
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2. Use the right height
A cushion under the passive partner's pelvis changes the angle - the entry becomes gentler, the depth more intense, the control more precise. Small adjustments create big differences in sensation.
3. Lubricant for smoothness
High-quality lubricant ensures smooth movements and less friction. The BIOglide anal lubricant has a particularly natural and long-lasting effect, ideal for deep, rhythmic thrusts and longer sessions.
4. Take control
The active part determines the tempo and depth - but true pleasure comes from the interplay: slow, deep movements followed by shorter, faster impulses. Hands on hips or thighs stabilize and intensify the sensation.
5. Involve your hands
The back, bottom and thighs are sensitive areas. Stroking, light scratching or gentle spanking with a paddle from our range intensifies closeness and pleasure without overstepping boundaries.
6. Communication
Even without eye contact, communication remains the most important element. A quiet "That good?" or a confirming moan can work wonders. Trust creates freedom - and this freedom gives pleasure.
Variations of the doggy style
1. The "lazy doggy"
The passive partner lies flat on their stomach. The position is less intense, but more relaxed - ideal for transitions or for slow, sustained sessions.
2. The "standing doggy"
Perfect for spontaneous moments: The passive partner stands bent forward, the active partner stands behind them. Intense, direct and wonderfully unplanned.
3. Doggy with restraints
With handcuffs or a collar, the doggy style takes on a tingling BDSM note: power play, focus and devotion merge.
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Important aspects for beginners
1. Not too deep, not too fast
The passive partner should be able to relax completely. Start gently - thrusts that are too fast or too deep can be uncomfortable. Breathe together and increase slowly.
2. Take breaks
If the position becomes too intense, a short break can help. Rebalancing, repositioning, finding your feet again - this creates safety and ultimately increases pleasure.
3. Supportive toys
A small vibrator, a soft plug or a discreet Anal toy can enhance the experience without being too demanding.
Tips in three stages
Start with a cushion under the pelvis, a slow pace and lots of communication.
Combine doggy with gentle spanking or rhythmic tempo changes for more intensity.
Experiment with restraints, controlled dominance and precise angles.
Tips for all levels - doggy style step by step
Level 1 - Beginner
Concentrate on comfort: cushions, lots of lubricant, gentle pace. Talk about pressure, depth and angles.
Level 2 - Advanced
Vary positions, increase tension with light dominance elements, play with grips and rhythmic patterns.
Level 3 - Experienced
Incorporates toys, works with rituals, breath control or longer sessions with controlled breaks.
Role play step by step - depending on the level
Level 1 - Beginner
Simple scenario: Dominant & receptive. Uses safewords, clear agreements and short, playful moments.
Level 2 - Advanced
Expands the setting: restraints, collar, clear rules, longer scenes with stronger dynamics.
Level 3 - Experienced
Deeper psychological elements: controlled surrender, restraints, rituals or guidance through voice and touch.
Conclusion
The doggy style is much more than a classic position - it is a playground for lust, fantasy and sensuality. With fine adjustments, good communication and the courage to try variations, it becomes one of the most intense experiences of all.
