Sex in the bathtub calls for more attention to space and support than a fantasy might suggest. A cramped or slippery bath can make contact uncomfortable. There is no need for acrobatics or to carry on through discomfort: choose what feels comfortable for both of you and move elsewhere when the bath no longer suits you.
Bathtub sex in common positions
Closeness matters more than finding an impressive position. Whether the moment is planned or spontaneous, check that you both want it. Avoid standing on slippery surfaces. Sitting or reclining may give better support, but no position is suitable if either person feels unstable or uncomfortable.
Limited space and hard surfaces can put pressure on knees or wrists. Do not assume that a particular position or the edge of the bath will support you. Change position or leave the bath if you cannot stay comfortably supported; continuing in bed is a sensible option.
Make yourselves comfortable
Keep the bathroom comfortably warm, with clear lighting and a dry, unobstructed place to step out. Keep candles away from towels and movement, or choose electric lighting instead. Have towels ready and wipe up spilled water. Do not rely on scented bubble bath to make intimate contact comfortable.
Have a suitable lubricant ready and follow its instructions for use with condoms and toys. Oil-based products can damage latex condoms. Only submerge a toy if its manufacturer expressly allows it; splash resistance alone is not enough. Keep mains-powered devices and charging cables away from the bath.
If the bath becomes uncomfortable or either of you feels cold, stop and get out carefully. Keeping the mood going is never more important than comfort or either person’s wish to stop.
Dry off with clean towels and decide together whether to rest, move to the sofa or go to bed. Another activity does not have to follow, and body lotion is not a substitute for a suitable lubricant.
