Typical problems with SM sex

Do you also like hard SM sex in its different variations? Then some of the points we mention here are certainly familiar to you.

As an SM lover, there are always problems during sex that don't tend to play a role in classic vanilla sex. We will show you the most common problems that can occur during SM sex. Maybe you will find yourself in one or the other point.

Darn handcuffs

As nice and exciting as handcuffs make sex, they rarely work smoothly. Either they don't close properly, they are too tight or they are made of such a light material that they can break during hard sex.


And the worst thing is and remains the key. As small as this is, he likes to get lost once. Then, in the worst case, sex gets really loud when you have to use the grinder to remove the parts.

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Caring neighbors

It's nice when your neighbors care about you. However, if they misinterpret the sounds of your lovemaking, the police can quickly show up at your door. It's extremely embarrassing to have to explain to the officers that shouts like "No" were actually more like a moaned "Yes". So, if you have thin walls and noisy neighbors, it's better not to play SM too loudly.

Carpets are the enemy

Hard sex over tables and benches. Not only on the bed, but also on the various furniture and especially the floor turn you on? Then better do without carpet in your apartment.
 
Because the friction marks from the carpet on knees and elbows are not only easy to see, but also painful for a long time.

Traces of sex - visible for a long time

Actually, all SM lovers should keep a cat. Because cats are the perfect excuse for scratches and visible traces, which can definitely occur during hard SM sex. If you don't have a cat, you have to look for other, believable excuses.
 
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Hot wax - only conditionally erotic

As tempting as the thought of playing with hot wax may be, in reality it often looks different. On the one hand, it is surprisingly tedious to have to iron the wax out of textiles.
 
On the other hand, it can also quickly lead to burns if the wax is too hot or the wrong distance is chosen. And those are memories you don't like to wear on your body.

Hard sex and the special gait

Women know the problem. After really hard sex, sitting and also walking is definitely a challenge. How do you explain to others your gait or the gentle seat cushion on the chair? Not to mention intimate shaving or waxing.
 
For this you really need a few days of abstinence, before the places are good enough resilient again and can be processed by you.
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