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            <title type="text">Doggy style: perfect the most popular position for more pleasure and intensity</title>
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                                            Doggy style is one of the most popular positions, but did you know that you can experience even more control and fun with little tricks and pro tips? In this guide, we&#039;ll tell you how to get the most out of this intense position - including tips from the professionals at Steel...
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                 The  doggy style  is one of those positions that instinctively combine closeness, tension and intense penetration. But real pleasure only arises when technique, communication and sensitivity harmonize. This guide refines the classic - sensual, safe and full of inspiration. 
 Why the doggy style is so popular 
 The position enables  deep, rhythmic penetration  and gives the active partner natural control over speed and intensity. At the same time, it allows the passive partner to surrender, to feel, to breathe - and to consciously experience their own body reactions. The position is versatile, changeable and creates space for playful dominance, closeness and fantasy. 
 Professional tips for the perfect doggy style 
 1. The right preparation 
 Sensual foreplay opens the body and mind. Gentle kisses over the back, caressing hands on the hips and calm breathing create trust. The transition to doggy style should be slow, inviting and pleasurable. 
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 2. Use the right height 
 A  cushion under the  passive partner&#039;s  pelvis  changes the angle - the entry becomes gentler, the depth more intense, the control more precise. Small adjustments create big differences in sensation. 
 3. Lubricant for smoothness 
 High-quality lubricant ensures smooth movements and less friction. The  BIOglide anal lubricant  has a particularly natural and long-lasting effect, ideal for deep, rhythmic thrusts and longer sessions. 
 4. Take control 
 The active part determines the tempo and depth - but true pleasure comes from the interplay: slow, deep movements followed by shorter, faster impulses. Hands on hips or thighs stabilize and intensify the sensation. 
 5. Involve your hands 
 The back, bottom and thighs are sensitive areas. Stroking, light scratching or gentle  spanking  with a paddle from our range intensifies closeness and pleasure without overstepping boundaries. 
 6. Communication 
 Even without eye contact, communication remains the most important element. A quiet &quot;That good?&quot; or a confirming moan can work wonders. Trust creates freedom - and this freedom gives pleasure. 
 Variations of the doggy style 
 1. The &quot;lazy doggy&quot; 
 The passive partner lies flat on their stomach. The position is less intense, but more relaxed - ideal for transitions or for slow, sustained sessions. 
 2. The &quot;standing doggy&quot; 
 Perfect for spontaneous moments: The passive partner stands bent forward, the active partner stands behind them. Intense, direct and wonderfully unplanned. 
 3. Doggy with restraints 
 With  handcuffs  or a  collar , the doggy style takes on a tingling BDSM note: power play, focus and devotion merge. 
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 Important aspects for beginners 
 1. Not too deep, not too fast 
 The passive partner should be able to relax completely. Start gently - thrusts that are too fast or too deep can be uncomfortable. Breathe together and increase slowly. 
 2. Take breaks 
 If the position becomes too intense, a short break can help. Rebalancing, repositioning, finding your feet again - this creates safety and ultimately increases pleasure. 
 3. Supportive toys 
 A small vibrator, a soft plug or a discreet Anal toy can enhance the experience without being too demanding. 
 Tips in three stages 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with a cushion under the pelvis, a slow pace and lots of communication. 
  Tip for advanced users:  Combine doggy with gentle spanking or rhythmic tempo changes for more intensity. 
  Tip for experienced users:  Experiment with restraints, controlled dominance and precise angles. 
 Tips for all levels - doggy style step by step 
 Level 1 - Beginner 
 Concentrate on comfort: cushions, lots of lubricant, gentle pace. Talk about pressure, depth and angles. 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 Vary positions, increase tension with light dominance elements, play with grips and rhythmic patterns. 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 Incorporates toys, works with rituals, breath control or longer sessions with controlled breaks. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 Level 1 - Beginner 
 Simple scenario: Dominant &amp;amp; receptive. Uses safewords, clear agreements and short, playful moments. 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 Expands the setting: restraints, collar, clear rules, longer scenes with stronger dynamics. 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 Deeper psychological elements: controlled surrender, restraints, rituals or guidance through voice and touch. 
 Conclusion 
 The doggy style is much more than a classic position - it is a playground for lust, fantasy and sensuality. With fine adjustments, good communication and the courage to try variations, it becomes one of the most intense experiences of all. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-15T07:30:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Cunnilingus - properly lick can not everyone</title>
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                                            Some women do not like oral sex. What is meant here is that they do not like to be licked. No wonder, because not everyone can lick properly.
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                 Some women do not like    during oral sex   . What is meant here is that they do not like to be licked. No wonder, because  not everyone can lick properly . Women lick women better than a man will ever get. Myth or yet a bit of truth?     For a woman to enjoy  cunnilingus , she must not only have a good  &quot;pussy licker&quot;  but also love herself. Only those who don&#039;t feel icky down below can really let themselves go and enjoy the special caresses of their partner. 
 The sexual part does not have to look beautiful, it has to work. You have your own body taste, even down there and also a body scent. 
 If you are a normally clean person, your partner will definitely love your smell and taste and not find it repulsive. So stop thinking about such things and just let yourself go. 
 What is cunnilingus actually? 
   Cunnilingus means oral sex.  What is oral sex you ask yourself now? Good question! Everyone probably knows the basics. But only a few know what the whole thing is. Oral sex does not mean to just go ahead and lick. 
 Oral sex for the woman is only nice if the man makes some effort.  It is not ice cream  that you lick here and also nothing that you have to suck out with your mouth. Cunnilingus depends on a lot of sensitivity. 
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 Sensitivity,  a skillful tongue  and at the same time always paying attention to your partner&#039;s reaction. If you have these things on it, you can lick pussy properly! 
   
 With caution and attention the woman comes 
 Approach the woman&#039;s intimate zone with a careful tongue. Also, always be attentive so that you do not miss what she likes and what not. You can experiment with your tongue and  change the rhythm . Your fingers should also come into play. 
  When we talk about using your fingers , we are by no means talking about wildly &quot;poking around&quot; in the woman. What is meant here is rather the gentle stroking of the back, breasts or groin.  Treat the lady&#039;s clitoris with care.  Be tender so that you don&#039;t hurt her. 
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    Cunnilingus techniques    
 When your best part is bitten, it hurts. It&#039;s the same with a woman&#039;s clit. It is very sensitive. Don&#039;t scrub it with your tongue, don&#039;t suck it too hard and don&#039;t bite it. Play around the little pearl gently with a skillful tongue. She will thank you for it. 
 Every woman is different 
 The problem for many men is that women are often very different in their private parts and also in the desired form of stimulation. 
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 A technique that reliably brought one woman to climax may be uncomfortable for another woman or may not stimulate her at all. For this reason, there is no patent remedy to ensure a satisfactory climax during cunnilingus, but always just suggestions. 
 If you can vary your clit licking technique and are willing to learn new things, you can bring almost any woman to climax with your mouth. 
 Licking properly means paying attention to reactions 
 So there is no manual to lick a woman properly. But there are techniques and advice that will help you get better at licking a vagina and using your tongue, lips and possibly your teeth. The most important thing is the reactions of your partner. 
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 If you pay attention to her reactions, you can find out much faster which touches she particularly likes and which technique is not likely to be successful. The better your feeling for your partner&#039;s reactions, the better your cunnilingus performance will be. 
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 It&#039;s a lot of fun to try out the different techniques and find out how you can bring your partner to climax with your mouth. Just remember that there are many different ways and you just have to find the right one. 
    Cunnilingus Tips    
 Even if you are already a real cunnilingus expert and manage to bring your partner to climax with your mouth, you will still find some tips and advice on these pages that you might not have known before. Why not just try something new. 
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 Maybe you&#039;ll find exactly the form of stimulation that makes your performance even better and ensures even more intense climaxes. After all, everyone can improve. In addition, it is also nice for your partner when new elements are brought into play every now and then. 
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                            <updated>2022-01-26T13:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Facesitting Guide: History, techniques &amp; safety</title>
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                                            There are many different types of sexual stimulation. The Facesitting is one such variant, which can be classified as both soft and hard. This depends on the wishes and needs of the partners involved.
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  Facesitting Guide: In-depth insights into history, techniques and safety  
 Facesitting is probably one of the most intimate forms of oral sex: sensual, physically very direct and - depending on the dynamic - with a clear note of dominance and devotion. In this guide, we will look together at the history, positions, BDSM elements, safety and specific role-play ideas at different levels so that you can enjoy this practice responsibly and with pleasure. 
 The history and origins of Facesitting 
 Facesitting is not a modern invention. Many cultures have depictions and stories in which a person literally sits &quot;on top&quot;, expressing power, worship or devotion. What was once often seen as a symbol of dominance is now, for many couples, primarily one thing: an intense, playful form of oral sex that focuses on closeness, trust and sensual control. 
 Facesitting as a sexual practice 
 At Facesitting, one person - often the vulva-bearing partner - sits or kneels on the face of the partner below. The partner pleasures them with their mouth while they control the intensity, position and duration. For many, it is precisely this mixture of oral sex, physical contact and power imbalance that makes Facesitting so exciting. 
 Depending on the role dynamics, Facesitting can be : 
 
 be very tender and cuddly 
 be experienced in a playful and dominant way 
 Be part of a BDSM dynamic with a clear distribution of power 
 
 The important thing is always:  consensual, safe and respectful . 
 Popular positions and variations Facesitting 
 There are many ways in which you can sit on your partner. Try them out slowly and pay attention to what is comfortable and pleasurable for you. 
  Classic Facesitting : You sit frontally on your partner&#039;s face. Your thighs frame their head and you can support yourself with your hands or knees. The focus is on intense oral stimulation and closeness. 
  Reverse Facesitting : You sit with your back to your partner&#039;s face, looking down at their feet. Many find this perspective particularly erotic because you can look at his body &quot;from above&quot;. 
  Sideways Facesitting : You sit sideways on his face or neck area. This can be more comfortable and often allows you finer weight control and more freedom of movement. 
  Kneeling Facesitting:  You kneel over his face without giving up all of your weight. Ideal if you want to be very careful with your partner&#039;s breathing because you can quickly move out of the way or brace yourself. 
   Jeanssitting  a dressed, relatively &quot;harmless&quot; variation. You sit on his face with jeans or other items of clothing. For some, this is more of a fetish and mindgame - your partner feels your weight and closeness, but no direct skin contact. 
   Reverse (naked)  you are naked, sit backwards on his face and pretty much decide exactly how you want to be pampered. Ideal to play with control, looks and small movements. 
   Fullweight  the appeal here lies in using (almost) all of your weight.  This is only for experienced couples with very clear agreements  and a good feeling for body weight, breathing and signals. If in doubt, support yourself more and be more careful - safety first. 
   Asphyx elements  some couples fantasize about reducing their breathing. For safety reasons, you should be extremely careful here:  no breathing games without a lot of experience, a clear safety signal and constant presence . If you are unsure, it is better to leave this area out - there are plenty of pleasurable alternatives without risk. 
   Bound  : Here Facesitting is combined with bondage. The lower part is fixed and has to surrender completely to the situation. This can be very intense psychologically - that&#039;s why safewords, trust and good bondage knowledge are an absolute must. 
  Important:  You often read about extreme variations such as Facesitting under water (&quot;drowning&quot;).  This is strongly discouraged for safety reasons.  Breath reduction plus water is a highly risky combination - it does not fit in with responsible BDSM and can be life-threatening. 
 
  More inspiration about oral sex &amp;amp; BDSM:   Oral sex guide &amp;amp; tips   BDSM guide &amp;amp; inspiration   Bondage &amp;amp; restraint  
 
 Risks &amp;amp; precautions during Facesitting 
 Facesitting is intense - both physically and emotionally. This makes a few clear safety rules all the more important. 
  Breathing control &amp;amp; safety:  The biggest risk is the restricted breathing of the partner lying on the bottom. 
 
 Support yourself with your hands or knees instead of putting your full weight on their face. 
 Pay attention to body reactions: Restlessness, palpitations, tension or feelings of panic are immediate stop signals. 
 Agree on a clear safety signal that also works without speech - e.g. tapping your leg three times. 
 Stay focused: Facesitting is not a moment for &quot;switching off&quot;, but for being alert. 
 
  Hygiene:  The proximity of your mouth and genitals makes hygiene particularly important. 
 
 Take a shower beforehand or freshen up together - this can already be part of foreplay. 
 Pay attention to clean hands, oral hygiene and well-groomed intimate areas. 
 Dental dams or other barriers can be useful for sensitive health or changing partners. 
 
  Communication &amp;amp; consent:  Facesitting only works well if both partners feel safe. 
 
 Talk about fantasies, no-gos and possible fears in advance. 
 If breath control or BDSM elements are involved, safewords are mandatory. 
 No one is &quot;persuaded&quot; to do anything - pleasure comes from voluntary action, not from pressure. 
 
 Facesitting &amp;amp; BDSM - when power plays a role 
 Facesitting can be wonderfully integrated into a D/s or BDSM dynamic. The person on top often takes on the dominant role, while the person on the bottom experiences surrender, being at the mercy of others and service with their mouth. 
  Clear roles &amp;amp; agreements:  Talk about how you feel: 
 
 Do you want to show power as a top/dominatrix - or rather playfully seduce? 
 Does your sub want to be used, worshipped or &quot;used and praised&quot;? 
 How harsh can the tone of voice be - rather loving or rather strict? 
 
  Safewords &amp;amp; signals:  Especially when your mouth is busy, you need non-verbal emergency brakes. An agreed knocking signal, a small object that the sub can drop - all of these can contribute to a safe framework. 
  Respect boundaries:  Humiliation, verbal play, bondage - all of these can be incredibly arousing for some, but too much for others. Don&#039;t make BDSM the standard, make it your playground  together . 
  Aftercare:  Intense Facesitting - especially with elements of power, bondage or breathing - can resonate emotionally. Plan time afterwards to cuddle, talk, drink water and ground yourselves again. 
 Hygiene &amp;amp; feel-good factors during Facesitting 
 Cleanliness is not only a health factor, but also contributes enormously to relaxation. If you feel fresh, you can allow closeness much better. 
 
  Body hygiene:  A quick shower, fresh towels and possibly an intimate wash gel without aggressive fragrances are usually enough. 
  Oral hygiene:  Brushing your teeth, mouthwash or chewing gum beforehand can work wonders. 
  Clean environment:  Fresh bed linen, a clean sheet or blanket create a pleasant setting. 
  Health:  Open wounds, infections or severe irritation in the mouth or genital area are a good reason to postpone the game. 
 
 Experiences &amp;amp; feelings around Facesitting 
 Many people who love Facesitting describe it as a mixture of pleasure, power, closeness and sometimes a little loss of control - on both sides. 
  The person on top often experiences  
 
 a feeling of control and self-confidence 
 strong arousal due to the focus on their pleasure 
 the sensual knowledge that their partner is &quot;at their mercy&quot; 
 
  The person on the bottom often experiences  
 
 intense closeness to the partner&#039;s smell, taste and warmth 
 Devotion, service, perhaps also the feeling of being used - in a positive, consensual way 
 very direct access to fantasies of dominance and submission 
 
 Just as important:  not everyone has to like Facesitting.  If you notice that the situation is stressing you out rather than arousing you, take the pressure off. It&#039;s just one type of play among many, not a &quot;must&quot; for fulfilling sex. 
   
 Role play ideas with Facesitting - level 1 to 3 
 Facesitting can range from gentle lovemaking to a very dominant BDSM ritual, depending on the intensity. These role-play ideas will give you an idea of how you can play at different levels - always with safety and consent as the basis. 
 Level 1 - gentle, curious, playful 
 
  &quot;Spoil me very slowly&quot;:  You start with cuddling and a mountain of pillows. He lies comfortably, you just kneel loosely over his face, support yourself a lot and let him catch his breath in between. The focus is on closeness, laughter and trying things out - not on perfection. 
  &quot;You can stop at any time&quot;:  You agree on a simple knocking signal in advance. You only sit on his face for a short time, keep taking your weight off and quietly ask: &quot;Is that so nice?&quot; - ideal for losing your initial fear of contact. 
  Oral sex with facial proximity:  You sit next to his face at first and he pampers you with his tongue while you slowly move closer and occasionally bring a thigh or your hip a little closer to his mouth. 
 
 Level 2 - clear focus on dominance 
 
  &quot;Your place is under me&quot;:  He lies down on his back, you sit frontally or reverse over his face and give clear instructions - for example, how intensely he should lick or when he should take a break. A slightly strict tone can be very appealing here, as long as you respect your boundaries. 
  Reward &amp;amp; service:  You let him do something for you first (massage, household chores, small task). His &quot;reward&quot; is to spoil you with his mouth while you are enthroned above him. You decide how long - and whether he even reaches orgasm himself. 
  Jeans or underwearFacesitting:  You remain partially clothed (e.g. in underwear or jeans) and use Facesitting more as a gesture of power and closeness. He feels your weight, your warmth and your control, while you playfully determine when he gets more intense contact. 
 
 Level 3 - intense &amp;amp; BDSM-oriented (for the experienced) 
 
  Bound Facesitting : He is secured with soft restraints (e.g. hands on the bed), you have defined safe signals and clear boundaries. You consciously and confidently sit on his face, but remain alert to his signals at all times. Being tied up reinforces the feeling of being at his mercy - therefore only with a lot of trust. 
  Ritualized &quot;throne&quot;:  You set up a little ritual: He kneels, kisses your thighs or bottom before you sit on his face. Certain words, positions or gestures mark the beginning and end of the scene for you - this deepens the D/s dynamic. 
  Combination with other kinks:  He might wear a collar, you use a light gag (as long as breathing and safe signal are clearly regulated) or blindfold him. Facesitting thus becomes part of a larger BDSM setting - with the clear rule: If something becomes too much, the safe signal applies without discussion. 
 
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 Instructions &amp;amp; tips for your first (or next) Facesitting 
 1. Talk before you start  Talk about fantasies, boundaries, taboos and health issues (e.g. breathing problems, panic tendencies, neck problems). Agree on a safety signal and clarify who will take on which role. 
 2. Start slowly  You don&#039;t have to start with intensive variations straight away. Start kneeling over your face, for example, with lots of support and breaks. You can stop at any time, laugh, start again - sexuality can be playful. 
 3. Find the right position  Experiment with pillows under your head or hips, different angles and support points. Comfort is not a luxury, but a prerequisite for pleasure. 
 4. Keep an eye on your breathing  Consciously look down from time to time: Does your partner seem relaxed? Are they breathing calmly? If not, take some weight off or take a break. It&#039;s always okay to take a breath. 
 5. Use feedback &amp;amp; small signals  A gentle squeeze, a lick, a twitch - these are all feedback. Ask calmly: &quot;That okay?&quot;, &quot;More?&quot;, &quot;Too intense?&quot; - Communication is sexy. 
 6. Plan for aftercare  When you&#039;re done, take your time. Cuddle, laugh, talk briefly about what you liked and what you want to do differently next time. This builds trust - and the desire to repeat the experience. 
   
 Conclusion: Is Facesitting something for you? 
 Facesitting can be an incredibly intense, sensual and powerful form of oral sex - if you communicate openly with each other, respect each other and take your boundaries seriously. Maybe it&#039;s exactly the ritual that deepens your eroticism, maybe it&#039;s just an exciting thought that doesn&#039;t necessarily have to be put into practice. 
 The important thing is:  You decide together.  If you both feel safe, seen and desired, Facesitting can become a very special highlight of your sexuality - somewhere between tenderness, dominance and lots of physical closeness. 
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            <title type="text">Rimjob - Rimming: Pleasure instead of disgust</title>
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                                            The rim job gives many a feeling of disgust. Some don&#039;t even know what it is and others love it almost more than anything else. Rimming divides the minds and of course the buttocks!
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                 Rimjob, i.e. stimulation of the anus with the tongue, is a very popular practice among both women and men. Nevertheless, many people are disgusted and have hygienic concerns, which are absolutely unnecessary with the appropriate measures. 
 It is important to pay attention to hygiene  and also to take special care during stimulation, because rimming is experienced as very intense. 
 What is a rimming job? 
  Rimming  or the rimming job is a special sexual preference. It is a fetish that involves the human posterior. The technical term for rimming is anilingus. 
 It involves licking the butt hole with the tongue. It is a particularly intimate way to make love. Not everyone likes it, but now more and more couples practice it. 
 Just try it 
 If you haven&#039;t had any experience with  butt licking , you shouldn&#039;t judge too hastily. Maybe it is something very pleasant after all. Man, like woman can enjoy and practice the rimjob. 
 The anus 
   The anus is a pure nerve center, to these erogenous zones our body responds directly. Feelings will definitely not be absent here.  
 All you need is trust and a little bit of overcoming. Often men can enjoy getting a  rimjob  more than giving one. 
 This is because men not only have a nerve center in the anus, but also the prostate. This is located directly behind the anus and can be well stimulated with the tongue. 
   
 But also the woman can come to orgasm. She also has many nerve endings in and around the anus. If the clitoris is also massaged a little, there is no stopping the ladies. So what&#039;s stopping you from giving it a try? 
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 A clean thing 
 You don&#039;t dare to go for it because the butt is considered dirty? Well, that&#039;s not entirely untrue. It&#039;s already a body part full of bacteria. And a butt is never completely odorless. 
 But if you and your partner are clean people, the risk of infection is very low. And who knows, maybe you will find the scent of the butt quite beguiling. Kiss my ass or can sometimes not only be a saying, but also an invitation. 
   
 Go on a hike 
 If you are still a bit shy about the rimjob, you can slowly go on a hike. The lady may be spoiled orally beforehand, so around and in the vagina. Then the tongue may like to wander into the anal area. 
 But please always keep in mind that the buttocks are a source of bacteria. Never go from butt to vagina, otherwise there is a risk of infection. But the other way around always works. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;390&quot; ]  As a woman you can switch from blowjob to rimjob with the man. Start nicely with the glans and let your tongue move further and further down and then back. Also a gentle penetration into the anus with the tongue is not excluded. 
 
 
 A rimjob does not have to be dirty 
Even though a person&#039;s rear end is not completely odorless, it is not necessarily dirty. Still, of course, it&#039;s not the cleanest body part you&#039;ll choose to lick, either. The anus has entire colonies of bacteria. If you don&#039;t want to expose yourself to these, reach for appropriate tools.
 Use licking cloths 
If you want to keep the rimjob a clean affair, use lick wipes. These are thin sheets that are used to protect against infection. The foils are kept extra thin so that your partner&#039;s tongue can still be felt very clearly. 
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 So a lick cloth takes nothing away from the authenticity of the rimjob. Rimjob / anilingus has the meaning to explore and stimulate the anus region of the partner. Nevertheless, licking cloths can also be used for the vaginal area. 
 Questions and answers: 
 1. Can vagina and anus be licked at the same time? 
Switching from vagina to butt is not a problem. However, the other way around is absolutely taboo! So you must not switch back and forth under any circumstances. First spoil your wife&#039;s vagina and then move to the rear region. The other way around you can cause bad infections in the vagina. 
 2. Are lick wipes flavored? 
Lickcloths are usually not flavored, as they are not meant to spoil the authenticity of anilingus. They don&#039;t let through quite as much of the body odor, but they don&#039;t completely mask it either. You can add flavor by perhaps combining a flavored lubricant with the lick cloth. 
 3. Is there any way to cover up the typical butt smell/taste? 
It will never be possible to completely cover up the butt smell. However, there are flavored lubricants that give off pleasant scents and tastes. Especially for beginners it makes the rimjob a little easier. 
 
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            <title type="text">The best blowjob of his life - Guide</title>
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                 The dream of many men is the blowjob. To be spoiled orally simply by the partner or even the partner and to surrender completely to the touches of tongue and lips is enormously pleasurable. Many men call the blowjob as an absolute favorite sexual practice and would not like to do without it. 
 But a perfect blowjob needs some preparation and practice by the active partner. We show you in our blowjob guide, what a blowjob is, what you should pay special attention to during the blowjob and how you can offer your partner a perfect blowjob. 
 What is a blowjob? 
 A blowjob is the stimulation of the penis through the mouth of the partner. During the blowjob, the lips, the tongue, the teeth and the entire oral cavity can be used to bring the partner to climax. The blowjob is also colloquially called &quot;blowing&quot;, even though the activity has much more to do with sucking. 
 Classic blowjob 
 In the classic blowjob, the man remains passive and allows his partner to pleasure him with his mouth until he climaxes. The blowjob is also called French sex and can be enhanced with a variety of tools. Thus, condoms with flavor are particularly popular with many couples. 
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  5 myths about the blowjob - sex tips 
 Around the blowjob are some myths, which can hardly be eradicated. So that you do not also fall for these myths and possibly use the wrong technique during the blowjob, we show you in our guide the most popular myths and explain to you where the mistakes lie with these. 
 Blowjob is a form of safe sex 
 This myth is completely wrong. Because even during an unprotected blowjob, a wide variety of diseases and infections can be transmitted. Whether HIV, syphilis or gonorrhea: all these diseases can be transmitted easily through oral sex. 
 So if you haven&#039;t known each other for a long time and don&#039;t have any tests yet, you should use a condom in any case. Condoms with aroma, such as the Fun Factory Color Moments, are especially pleasant for the blowjob, but the aroma masks the taste of the condom clearly. 
 Deeper is always better 
 It is repeatedly claimed that the depth of penetration also plays an important role in the blowjob. At the latest since the movie &quot;Deep Throat&quot; this myth is enormously widespread. While such a deep throat may feel great for the man, as the throat of the active part provides additional tightness, this technique is not easy to learn and achieve. 
 Gag reflex 
 This is because the suppository in the throat normally triggers a gag reflex. And let&#039;s face it, the feeling is neither particularly sexy nor particularly desirable. Moreover, since most of the nerve endings in the penis are located at the glans, the stimulation from such a deep blowjob is rather low. 
 Stimulating the glans with lips, tongue and (carefully) teeth is much more effective and can stimulate and excite the man&#039;s pleasure much more. 
 Swallowing is mandatory 
 Many men love it when their partner swallows the sperm after the blowjob. But this has nothing to do with the actual pleasure gain. Because seriously, once the sperm is in the mouth, the man has long since reached the peak of pleasure. Whether you swallow the sperm or simply spit it out into a cloth, it doesn&#039;t really matter anymore for the man&#039;s pleasure. 
 It is much more important that you continue to stimulate the man during the climax and thus guide him to a perfect climax, without you hastily jerking back. Because this is rather a real abortionist and for many men the reason why they prefer swallowing. 
 Because a woman who claims to swallow will keep the penis in her mouth until the end and thus also stimulate it. 
 The teeth must not be used during the blowjob 
 This myth arises mainly from the male fear for their best piece. Because the teeth can quickly cause enormous injuries during a bad blowjob. But gentle nibbling or a light scratching of the teeth on the glans can be enormously stimulating. 
 Just try it yourself and pay attention to the man&#039;s reaction. Such careful stimulation with the teeth can even massively enrich the blowjob. 
 Blowjobs are a sign of oppression 
 We owe this myth mainly to the porn industry, which has shaped it through various positions and by treating the woman as a willing piece of meat. In fact, the blowjob in and of itself is simply a sign of affection and love that you want to give to your partner. 
 Finally, the pleasure is based on reciprocity and also the man will want to return this affection to the woman manifold. So it is a give and take, which can be lived out through different practices and different preferences. By the way, approximately 30 percent of women feel pleasure themselves when they spoil their partner with a blowjob, because this blowjob can trigger a certain feeling of power. 
 After all, at this moment the ladies are masters of their partner&#039;s pleasure and arousal. 
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 Problems with a blowjob 
 Anyone who has ever tried a blowjob will be familiar with many of the problems listed here. Of course, not all of the problems from our blowjob guide will apply to you, but some of the problems will have you nodding your head in knowledge. 
 
 Long hair can quickly become a problem during a blowjob. If there is no hair elastic within reach, the blowjob often becomes an artistic torture. 
 The pubic hair of the man can also become a problem. Pubic hair between the teeth, on the tongue or even in the throat is a real turn-off. 
 Even the best blowjob can drag on. After a few minutes of oral gymnastics, a distinct and severe pain in the jaw joint sets in, which gets worse by the minute. 
 The tongue also suffers from a prolonged blowjob. The licking and sucking is exhausting work and makes you long for the end of the blowjob. 
 One twitch of his pelvis and the tip of his penis pushes dangerously close to your uvula. The following gag reflex is neither sexy nor nice. 
 If the man is particularly persistent, the blowjob quickly becomes boring for the woman. Because at some point all techniques are exhausted and you&#039;re just waiting for HE to finally finish. 
 A blowjob is nice when we offer him from us. However, if your partner loves blowjobs, this gift can often become a chore. Not a nice thought. 
 Swallow or spit is a question that you should better ask yourself before the blowjob begins. Because letting the penis slide out of your mouth just before orgasm is often like a cold shower for the man. 
 
   The best blowjob of his life! 
 If you want to really spoil your partner, a blowjob is often the method of choice. Your partner can relax and completely devote himself to his feelings, while you take care of his best piece. With a little preparation and our blowjob guide, you can give your partner your full attention and direct and guide his desire at will. 
 Start the blowjob best with a joint shower or with a relaxing bath for your partner. This not only ensures relaxation, but also the cleanliness of his best piece. After all, you should also have your fun and not be disgusted by him. 
 If you shower together, you can even start the blowjob in the shower and give him a taste. In any case, he will not get any cleaner. However, if you feel like a spontaneous blowjob, you can simply put a&amp;nbsp; condom &amp;nbsp;on your partner. 
 Especially&amp;nbsp;condoms with aroma&amp;nbsp;offer you a good possibility to cover the taste of the rubber and to increase the fun factor for you. 
 A comfortable position is important 
 A blowjob is especially hard on the muscles of the jaw and neck. If your partner lies on his back and you spoil him from above, this will put a lot of strain on your neck muscles in the long run. In any case, it is more relaxed if you kneel in front of your partner and thus spoil him with the blowjob. 
 Find a pleasantly soft cushion for your knees so that they are not put under additional strain in this position. Now you can take care of his best piece in peace. Try different positions to find the best solution for you. 
 Whether the man stands, sits or lies down can significantly influence the angle and the possibilities during the blowjob. 
 Take your time and vary your technique 
 Even if many women hardly believe it: men also appreciate a certain amount of foreplay. So take your time with the blowjob and do not start directly at his best piece. For example, slowly work your way down his body and cover it with kisses. 
 Stroke his skin, run your fingertips over his body and circle his pleasure muscle. This foreplay does not have to last extremely long, but it can significantly increase the man&#039;s sexual tension and thus also significantly shorten the duration of the blowjob. 
 Once you have reached his best piece, you should vary your techniques and tease him in different ways. Especially the glans and the frenulum - the ligament at the back of the glans - are particularly sensitive and often react to the lightest touches. 
 With your lips and tongue, you can already trigger enormously intense feelings here without taking him directly into your mouth. 
 Use your hands for more feeling 
 When you take the penis into your mouth for the blowjob, the depth of penetration is often not really important. Because the main stimulation comes from the play of your tongue and the sucking effect that you trigger. However, it is helpful to gently embrace the penis shaft with your hand and thus support the movements of your head. 
 For the man it feels more intense, because he has the feeling to penetrate deeper into you. But even without the hand on the member, you should not let your hands become idle during the blowjob. There are many erogenous zones in the intimate area of the man, which you can pamper with your fingers and hands during the blowjob. 
  Gently stroke his testicles , slide your fingertips over the insides of his thighs or caress his buttocks. If you and your partner want to, you can also stimulate the man&#039;s prostate with a finger or a suitable prostate stimulator during the blowjob. However, make sure to  use plenty of lubricant . Many men talk about an enormously intense orgasm when the prostate massage is rounded off with a blowjob. 
 Blowjob and the use of teeth 
 Teeth and blowjob are a delicate combination. Many men are afraid of hurting themselves when they feel their partner&#039;s teeth during the blowjob. When you take the man deep in your mouth and suck on the penis and move your head, you should protect the teeth with your lips. Because here the use of the teeth is rather unsuitable. 
 When gently pampering the glans of the shaft with lips and tongue, on the other hand, you can gently use your teeth to intensify the stimulation even more. Just pay attention to your partner&#039;s reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. Deep throat, on the other hand, is a technique that requires a lot of practice. 
 Because you have to learn to suppress the gag reflex so that the man can practically push into your throat. If you want to do this and the technique excites you and your partner, you can practice with a cucumber or a sex toy, for example, and approach it slowly. In this way, you will become less sensitive to the gag reflex over time and can spoil your partner especially deeply and intensively. 
 Swallow or spit: The Gretchen question 
 Sperm is not particularly tasty, but rather salty and slightly bitter. Therefore, you should consider beforehand whether you want to swallow or spit out the sperm. A handkerchief can help you to get rid of the sperm quickly. Important for the man is not necessarily whether you swallow, but that you pull the blowjob through to the end. 
 Because to let the penis slide out of the mouth before the orgasm or when it is reached is a real option only in porn movies. For the man, this rather means that he is not stimulated any further at the exact moment of his climax and the orgasm is therefore much less intense than he would have expected from the blowjob. 
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            <title type="text">Dirty talk: How to make it hot - practical tips for beginners &amp; advanced users</title>
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                                            Go on, tell me something dirty!&quot; Many of us have dreamed of this sentence, perhaps heard it ourselves or said it ourselves. Even though our eyes and sense of touch play an important role in sexuality, our other senses are also involved in many ways. Dirty talking is one of the...
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  Dirty talk  is the art of arousing lust with words: dirty, playful, sometimes cheeky - but never disrespectful or hurtful. Our fantasies run not only through hands, lips and looks, but also through what we hear. A well-placed sentence can explode the tension, even in long-term relationships. 
 &quot;Go on, tell me something dirty!&quot; - many have heard, said or secretly wished for this phrase. Dirty talking helps you to express your desires more clearly, deepen roles and make your love life more intense without becoming a crude porn copy. It can be sensual, playful and sophisticated. 
 
  More inspiration &amp;amp; advice:   Sex tips &amp;amp; guides   BDSM &amp;amp; Bondage  
 
 What is dirty talking anyway? 
 Dirty talking refers to any form of deliberately erotic language in a sexual context. These can be very direct sentences such as: 
  &quot;Come on, take me already.&quot;  
 as well as imaginative announcements: 
  &quot;I&#039;m about to tie you up and coax every drop of lust out of your body.&quot;  
 Playful requests or submissive phrases are also included - for example in a D/s setting: 
  &quot;Mistress, may I wear your plug to obey you?&quot;  
 Dirty talk allows roles to be lived out even more intensively: a mistress appears more confident with the right words, a sub can express submissiveness, devotion or greed without falling out of character.  Dirty talking is therefore a tool for making fantasies audible.  
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  Dirty talking and BDSM: perfect partners 
 In  BDSM , dirty talk is almost a classic: it reinforces power imbalances, makes role play more lively and provides important feedback without disrupting the flow. A cool silence can be very intense - but specific words can increase the pressure even further. 
 Feedback is particularly important during anal practices, spanking, bondage games or intense toys. Phrases like: 
  &quot;Beg for me to finally insert your plug.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;Tell me how much you want my spanking.&quot;  
 can make dominance and submission audible without destroying the frame. In this way, the active part (top/dom/domina) can strengthen its role, while the passive part (sub/bottom) expresses desires, limits and lust. 
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  Suitable play partners for your words:   Spanking &amp;amp; chastisement   Tying up &amp;amp; fixing  
 
 Basics: How to integrate dirty talking into your love life 
 The first step is often the hardest: jumping over your own shadow. Many people find dirty talk fascinating - but at the same time there&#039;s the fear of sounding &quot;ridiculous&quot;. The good news is that  your partner is usually much less critical than you are . 
 It&#039;s helpful to start by talking about it in a calm atmosphere -  without actually being in bed : 
 
 Which words do you find erotic, which not at all? 
 What is not acceptable (taboos)? 
 How rough or how playful can the language be? 
 
 Maybe pet names like &quot;doggy&quot; or certain swear words turn you off -  then they have no place in your dirty talk . The more clearly you define taboos and no-goes beforehand, the more relaxed you can play later. 
 Once you&#039;ve overcome the first hurdle, dirty talk quickly feels surprisingly natural. The important thing is that you don&#039;t have to be poetic or perfect. It&#039;s enough if you honestly express what you feel or want at the moment. 
 Dirty talking in practical use 
 Imagine you are handcuffed to a bed or even a pillory and don&#039;t know exactly what is going to happen to you. Silence can heighten the tension - but words turn a moment into a mental movie. 
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 When your partner stands in front of you with a tube of anal lube and announces with a smile: 
  &quot;I&#039;m about to shove a plug up your naughty slave butt - and you&#039;re going to feel every second of it.&quot;  
 can cause your arousal to skyrocket. Even small comments have a strong effect: 
  &quot;Oh, you&#039;re so tight today.&quot;  
 while a finger or toy carefully penetrates can intensify pleasure and devotion - even if a gag makes it impossible for you to answer. 
 Comment calmly on what you&#039;re up to or what you&#039;re feeling. Phrases like: 
  &quot;You&#039;ll wear this plug until you&#039;ve satisfied me the way I want it.&quot;  
 can be a threat, a promise and an incentive at the same time. It remains important: Consensuality, safewords and respect always come first. 
 
 What you should pay attention to when dirty talking 
 Whether in &quot;vanilla sex&quot;, BDSM or fetish games:  Words can heal - but they can also hurt.  That&#039;s why boundaries are just as important here as with physical practices. 
 
 Remain respectful - even if you are playing with humiliation. 
 Don&#039;t attack true insecurities or traumas (body, past, family, etc.). 
 Make sure you don&#039;t overrun taboos even in the throes of pleasure. 
 Agree on safewords or stop signals for harder, humiliating forms of dirty talk. 
 
 Some words stick in your mind and can&#039;t simply be forgotten after the session. Ask afterwards:  &quot;Which sentences were hot for you? Where was the limit?&quot;  This will help you grow into it together and build trust. 
 Why you&#039;ll love dirty talking 
 Dirty talk can enrich your love life on many levels because.. 
 
 ...it creates new tensions - even in everyday life. 
 ...it allows you to express your sexual desires more clearly. 
 ...you can give and demand feedback without falling out of character. 
 ...it can be integrated into almost any sexual practice. 
 ...you can finally express parts of your head cinema. 
 ...it gives role-playing games a whole new depth. 
 
 Dirty talking brings more thrills, more openness and often also more closeness - because you say things to each other that would otherwise only happen in your fantasies. 
 Dirty talking in everyday life - more than &quot;just&quot; in bed 
 Dirty talk doesn&#039;t have to be limited to bed. It can quietly permeate everyday life and create that subliminal, simmering tension that gets the evening started in the morning. 
 Examples: 
 
 A short, ambiguous message at the office:  &quot;I want you all to myself tonight.&quot;  
 A sentence on the phone after a stressful day:  &quot;When you get home, I&#039;ll show you how I&#039;m going to distract you.&quot;  
 A whispered promise while shopping: &quot;  When we get home, you&#039;ll undress first.&quot;  
 
 Such sentences don&#039;t have to be extremely dirty. A clear indication that you are thinking about your partner sexually is often enough. Important:  Never hold out the prospect of something you don&#039;t actually want  - dirty talk loses its magic if it&#039;s just empty words. 
 
  For extra thrills during play:   Erotic games &amp;amp; sex games   Fetish guide  
 
 Combining dirty talking with fetishes 
 For many, dirty talk is a small fetish in itself: the desire for words, vocal tones and phrasing. It becomes particularly exciting when you combine dirty talk with other preferences, for example: 
 
  Tease &amp;amp; denial:  You get your partner hot and then make him wait. 
  Bondage games:  Whispered threats while he/she is restrained. 
  Role play:  Nurse, teacher, boss, dominatrix, etc. 
  Fetish clothing:  Nylons, latex, leather, high heels. 
 
 An example of Tease &amp;amp; Denial: You walk past your partner and whisper in his/her ear: 
  &quot;I&#039;m not wearing any underwear today - but you&#039;re still not coming too close to me until I say you can.&quot;  
 and then consciously go about your other business. The longer the tension is built up, the more intense the release can be later on. 
 In doctor/nurse role-playing games, sentences like: 
  &quot;I think I urgently need an injection.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;I need to examine you thoroughly - please undress slowly.&quot;  
 go down very well. In dominant scenarios, a sentence like: 
  &quot;Kneel down, you little shoe licker.&quot;  
 is arousing - provided you have explicitly agreed that such humiliation is okay beforehand. 
 Humiliating dirty talk - sensitive zone 
  Humiliating dirty talk  is used especially in dominatrix games or D/s relationships. The dominant part reprimands the sub, sets rules and can - if desired - also &quot;downgrade&quot; with words. 
  &quot;You are my obedient toy.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;You serve me, otherwise you will be punished.&quot;  
 can be incredibly arousing if they are embedded in a safe, familiar setting. Harder words can also have their place - but only if  both sides consciously choose them  and can handle them mentally. 
 Important: 
 
 Talk in advance about which terms are allowed. 
 Use safe words in case a formulation goes too far emotionally. 
 After the session (aftercare), check how certain phrases made you feel. 
 
 Humiliating dirty talking requires a lot of trust, responsibility and aftercare - then it can feel like an intense, protected game, not like an attack. 
 Dirty talking with a difference: notes, messages &amp;amp; pictures 
 You don&#039;t always have to whisper your sentences in your ear. Sometimes an unexpected sentence around the corner has an even stronger effect. Ideas: 
 
 Small notes in your jacket pocket:  &quot;You&#039;re mine tonight.&quot;  
 A text message:  &quot;Think of me when you shower today.&quot;  
 A short voice message in a low or particularly soft voice. 
 
 
  But be careful:   Messenger, social networks &amp;amp; clouds are rarely really secure.  Only send pictures or texts that you can live with in case they do fall into the wrong hands. 
 
 If you want to combine dirty talk with sex toys, you can write, for example: 
  &quot;Tonight you&#039;ll finally learn what that new plug is for.&quot;  
 or take a photo of your favorite toy - without your face - and send a dirty sentence. The titillation starts long before you actually touch each other. 
 90 sample sentences for dirty talk 
 30 examples of &quot;classic&quot; dirty talk 
 1. &quot;I want to feel you.&quot; 2. &quot;Your body drives me crazy.&quot; 3. &quot;I can&#039;t stop thinking about you.&quot; 4. &quot;You make me so hot.&quot; 5. &quot;I want you here and now.&quot; 6. &quot;Your touch drives me wild.&quot; 7. &quot;I want to explore every inch of you.&quot; 8. &quot;You&#039;re my biggest temptation.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to feel, taste and touch you.&quot; 10. &quot;Your body is perfect for me.&quot; 11. &quot;I love the way you move.&quot; 12. &quot;I want to drive you to climax.&quot; 13. &quot;You&#039;re my secret sex dream.&quot; 14. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to undress you.&quot; 15. &quot;Your voice turns me on.&quot; 16. &quot;I want you close to me.&quot; 17. &quot;Your eyes drive me crazy.&quot; 18. &quot;I want to feel you come.&quot; 19. &quot;You&#039;re my sweet secret.&quot; 20. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to kiss you.&quot; 21. &quot;Your lips make me weak.&quot; 22. &quot;I want to satisfy you so much that you&#039;ll never forget me.&quot; 23. &quot;You&#039;re my most beautiful sexual dream.&quot; 24. &quot;I want to feel your hands all over my body.&quot; 25. &quot;Your movements drive me crazy.&quot; 26. &quot;I want to lose myself completely in you.&quot; 27. &quot;You are my favorite sin.&quot; 28. &quot;I can hardly wait to be alone with you again.&quot; 29. &quot;Your closeness makes me hot.&quot; 30. &quot;I want to experience you again and again.&quot; 
 30 examples of dirty talk in the context of BDSM 
 1. &quot;I want to tie you up and show you who&#039;s in charge.&quot; 2. &quot;Your submissiveness turns me on.&quot; 3. &quot;You get just as much as I want - no more.&quot; 4. &quot;Your quiet pain excites me.&quot; 5. &quot;I want to dominate you and use you as we please.&quot; 6. &quot;Your humility drives me wild.&quot; 7. &quot;There&#039;s a punishment for every misstep.&quot; 8. &quot;Your devotion is mine.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to dominate and subjugate you.&quot; 10. &quot;Your mixture of fear and lust turns me on.&quot; 11. &quot;I will torture you - and you will love it.&quot; 12. &quot;Your submission is beautiful.&quot; 13. &quot;I&#039;ll train you the way I want.&quot; 14. &quot;Your submission excites me.&quot; 15. &quot;I control you - body and mind.&quot; 16. &quot;You obey, and I reward.&quot; 17. &quot;I want to subdue and guide you.&quot; 18. &quot;Your devotion makes me hungry for more.&quot; 19. &quot;For every rule there is a consequence.&quot; 20. &quot;Your way of giving yourself to me turns me on.&quot; 21. &quot;I punish you so that you learn to serve me.&quot; 22. &quot;Your humility is my greatest thrill.&quot; 23. &quot;I want to mold you until you are perfect for me.&quot; 24. &quot;Your devotion is mine alone.&quot; 25. &quot;I want to dominate and control you.&quot; 26. &quot;Your devotion is my favorite gift.&quot; 27. &quot;I demand your obedience.&quot; 28. &quot;Your submission makes me addicted.&quot; 29. &quot;I lead - you follow, that&#039;s our order.&quot; 30. &quot;Your devotion makes every session more intense.&quot; 
 30 examples of dirty talk in the context of fetish 
 1. &quot;I can&#039;t stop thinking about your high heels.&quot; 2. &quot;Your leather jacket drives me crazy.&quot; 3. &quot;I want to feel you in your latex clothes.&quot; 4. &quot;Your nylons turn me on.&quot; 5. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to touch your boots.&quot; 6. &quot;Your corset barely lets me breathe - with lust.&quot; 7. &quot;I want to experience you in your mask.&quot; 8. &quot;Your tights are amazing.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to kiss your ankle boots.&quot; 10. &quot;Your vinyl clothes make me hot.&quot; 11. &quot;I want to feel you in your latex suit.&quot; 12. &quot;Your high heels are my downfall.&quot; 13. &quot;I want to lick your boots clean.&quot; 14. &quot;Your leather gloves excite me.&quot; 15. &quot;I love it when you dress in leather.&quot; 16. &quot;Your nylons drive me crazy.&quot; 17. &quot;I want to feel it when your boots are on me.&quot; 18. &quot;Your shiny vinyl clothes turn me on.&quot; 19. &quot;I want to own you tightly laced in latex.&quot; 20. &quot;Your high heels drive me crazy.&quot; 21. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to kiss your ankle boots.&quot; 22. &quot;Your leather clothes are my favorite look.&quot; 23. &quot;I want to see you dominate in your latex suit.&quot; 24. &quot;Your nylons on my skin are indescribable.&quot; 25. &quot;I want to wear your boots as a sign of your power.&quot; 26. &quot;Your vinyl clothing makes me forget everything else.&quot; 27. &quot;I want to lose myself in your leather scent.&quot; 28. &quot;Your high heels make every step you take erotic.&quot; 29. &quot;I can hardly wait to touch your latex body.&quot; 30. &quot;Your fetish clothing makes you my ultimate fantasy.&quot; 
 When you use dirty talking consciously, respectfully and with a wink, it becomes a powerful tool of pleasure. Combined with matching  sex toys, restraints or fetish clothing , it becomes a game that touches both mind and body. At Steeltoyz, you&#039;ll find the toys and accessories that will turn your words into tingling reality. 
 
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            <title type="text">Our guide: Handjob variations for every occasion</title>
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                                            Whether alone or with your partner. Taking intensive care of a man&#039;s best piece is enormously satisfying and feels very intense. However, a handjob can lose some of its appeal over time if it is always done in the same way. However, if you add a little variety to your performa...
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                 A handjob can be much more than &quot;just jerking off with your hand&quot;. Used correctly, it is a sensual ritual: slowly building up tension, targeted touches, loving attention for his best piece. Whether as foreplay, in between or as the main act - with a little imagination and technique, the handjob becomes an intense experience that he won&#039;t soon forget. 
 The handjob variations at a glance 
 Whether alone or with a partner - taking intensive care of the penis can be incredibly satisfying. But if a handjob is always the same, it quickly loses its appeal. With a few new grips, varying the speed and lots of feeling, you can open up completely new sensations. 
 Two things are particularly important for many of the following variations: plenty of personal lubricant and, if you like, a cockring. Lubricant ensures that every touch glides softly, warmly and pleasurably instead of rubbing. A cockring can support the erection and ensure that the handjob is enjoyed for longer. 
 We describe most variations as if the man is lying comfortably on his back and relaxing. So grab the  lube , the man by your side - and simply try out our handjob instructions.[emotion emotion_id=&quot;414&quot; ] 
  Ideas for suitable accessories:   Lubricant &amp;amp; stimulation creams   cockring made of stainless steel   cockring made from silicone  
 The one-finger handjob 
 Perfect for beginners: slowly warm up his body and build up tension without going straight to the point. 
 Stroke one finger, preferably the index finger, in gentle circular motions around the glans. If present, play with the foreskin, gently push it back and forth and stroke the frenulum with a lot of feeling and patience. You will be amazed at how intensely he reacts if you take your time. 
 Vary the pressure, sometimes as light as a feather, sometimes a little firmer, and observe his reaction. Less is often more. 
 The two-finger pincer 
 This technique quickly brings tension to his body and is ideal if he is already a little aroused. 
 Form a pincer with your index finger and thumb and grasp the glans from above. Position your fingers so that you can stimulate the exact transition from glans to penis shaft. Use plenty of lubricant to keep everything soft and slippery. 
 Now make gentle twisting movements - as if you were carefully opening and closing a bottle - while your hand also glides gently up and down. By now at the latest, he&#039;ll be begging for &quot;more&quot;. 
 The doorknob 
 This handjob variation is ideal for the start or as a playful change in the middle. 
 Use plenty of lube and grip the man&#039;s glans with all your fingers. Your hand forms a kind of soft cap over the tip. 
  - As if you were turning a slippery doorknob  
 Turn your hand slightly back and forth. The lube creates an intense, all-round stimulating sensation - he will squirm with pleasure beneath you. The more lube, the softer and smoother the sensation. 
 The flattener 
 Here you combine pressure and movement to create a very intense but controllable stimulation. 
 Place your flat hand on his penis and press it gently against his abdominal wall. Now slide your hand slowly up and down the shaft without releasing the pressure completely. You can perform this technique with one or both hands. 
 Use lubricant to intensify the sensation considerably. If you incorporate your upper body into the movement, the handjob also looks incredibly sexy - a treat for the eyes and body. 
 The two-finger screw 
 This is where it gets specific and intense. Form a circle with your thumb and index finger and place it gently over the tip of your penis. Make sure that the ring is tight enough to feel intense, but never painful. 
 Now slide it slowly down and up again with light pressure while adding minimal twisting movements. A sort of delicate &quot;screw-top&quot; that moves over the most sensitive area - perfect for taking him to the edge of orgasm. 
 The fakie handjob 
 Your hand position plays the main role in the fakie handjob. 
 Make a fist and wrap it around his member with plenty of lube. Important: The thumb points downwards, towards his feet. The narrowest part of your fist will hit his glans first. 
 When you slide up and down, it often feels amazingly similar to a real act for him - tight, enveloping and very realistic. 
 Flip the switch 
 Here you combine the fakie handjob with the classic &quot;normal&quot; hand position. 
 Let your fist slide up and down the shaft once with your thumbs down and then again in the normal position. Playfully switch back and forth again and again - like flipping a switch. This way, you constantly change the pressure points and the feeling without changing the speed too much. 
   
 Two-hand techniques 
 Two hands not only bring variety, they also take the strain off your muscles - and also give him the wonderful feeling that &quot;one hand is not enough&quot;. 
 Many two-hand techniques work in different positions: He lying down, you next to him, on top of him or between his legs. Find out which position you like best - and don&#039;t forget his reaction on his face. 
 Light a fire 
 Place your palms on the left and right of the shaft of his penis, as if you were rubbing a small stick between your hands. 
 Now gently rub the penis between your palms. If you also incorporate a slight up and down movement, you will create a consistent, warm stimulation. Ideal for warming up or for longer, calmer play. 
 Slippery gripping 
 Very slippery, fast movements can sometimes lead to uncontrolled, unpleasant touching. This variation gives him stability and gives you control. 
 Hold the penis directly on the shaft with one hand and give him clear guidance. With the other hand, hold the upper part and continue to stimulate it with a firmer or gentler grip. This way you &quot;ground&quot; him and keep the action under control at all times. 
 Endless tunnel 
 For this handjob variation, you need both hands and plenty of lube. 
 Guide your first fist to the tip of the penis from above and let it slide slowly down to the base of the shaft. As soon as the glans is free, place your second fist on top and repeat the same movement. 
 Alternating gives him the feeling of &quot;endless penetration&quot;, especially if you gently increase the speed or vary the pressure in between. 
 Milking the bull 
   
 This technique is similar to the endless tunnel, but in the opposite direction. 
 Place one fist closer to the shaft and stroke towards the glans. When the first fist releases the tip, the second starts further down and follows the movement. The repeated &quot;upward stroking&quot; makes it feel as if you are consciously &quot;milking&quot; it again and again - intense and demanding. 
 The twister 
 Place both hands on top of each other around the penis as if you were holding a thick handle. 
 Now turn your hands in opposite directions - the upper one to the left, the lower one to the right - and move them slowly up and down at the same time. The opposite rotation creates a spiral stimulation that can bring him very, very close to orgasm in a very short time. 
 The handjob quickie: the washing machine 
 If you want it to be quick, intense and effective, the &#039;washing machine&#039; is perfect. 
 Enclose his member with both hands and interlock your fingers to create a compact, grippy &#039;tunnel&#039;. Move your hands up and down and add a slight lurching rhythm from left to right - almost as if you were moving laundry in a drum. 
 Hardly any man can withstand this combination of pressure, speed and changes of direction for long before the orgasm overtakes him. 
  Tip for beginners:  Choose one or two techniques and practise them slowly - rather intensively than frantically.   Tip for advanced users:  Combine variations (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. one-finger handjob to start, then doorknob, then washing machine). Alternate speed and pressure.   Tip for experienced users:  Supplement handjobs with cockring, testicle massage or light CBT elements - always only in consultation and never painful. 
 Tips for all levels - handjobs step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner: 
 
 Take your time to &quot;explore&quot; the penis with your hand, without any pressure to perform. 
 Start with slow, simple up-and-down movements and a gentle technique such as the one-finger handjob. 
 Ask yourself: &quot;Is it that comfortable? Would you like slower, firmer, faster?&quot; 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Use several variations in one session, change tempo, hand position and amount of lube. 
 Experiment with two-hand techniques and different grip strengths. 
 Consciously incorporate phases of tension in which you repeatedly stop him shortly before orgasm. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Combine handjobs with other kinks, e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. eye masks, light bondage or dominance games. 
 Play with tease &amp;amp; denial: get him hot, make him wait before you release him. 
 Work with clear signals or words for when he is allowed to come - this intensifies the psychological component enormously. 
 
 
 Video about handjob tips 
 Would you prefer to watch the movements instead of just reading them? Then a video can provide additional inspiration. Use it as a stimulus, but always adapt the techniques to your own preferences and limits. 
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 Conclusion: What are you waiting for? 
 A handjob is anything but &quot;boring manual labor&quot; if you use it consciously, with lots of variety and feeling. With lube, a few new techniques and open communication, you can break your routine and discover lots of new sensuality. Observe his reactions, have fun trying things out - and enjoy it when he completely loses himself under your hands. 
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                            <updated>2020-05-18T17:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex on the sofa is not boring</title>
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                                            Sex on the sofa is considered boring by many. This is partly because for many it is nothing more than a bed. What is there great possible, apart from the conventional bedroom positions? The sofa sex is absolutely hot, erotic and spontaneous! If he is boring, it&#039;s up to you!
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                  Sex on the sofa  is considered boring by many. This is partly because for many it is nothing more than a bed. What is there great possible, apart from the conventional bedroom positions? The sofa  sex is absolutely hot , erotic and spontaneous! If it is boring, it is up to you!     A couch or an armchair can become a desired lust object. Turn your armchair into a lustful sex armchair. Let the sex on the couch become something special. It doesn&#039;t take much to do this, except for determined positions and maybe some muscle. 
 Positions that turn the simple sofa into an experience couch 
 You see your partner sitting on the couch,  writing on the cell phone  or gambling on the console! Use your chance and push the everyday life aside. Take a seat and ride the gentleman so that he quickly forgets games and Co. The sofa offers the ideal place for riding games. 
    So that you also have guaranteed your fun, you can clear your legs a little out of the way. Take the riding position again, but stretch your legs upwards and put them on your partner&#039;s shoulders. However, your partner should hold you tightly so that you don&#039;t fall off the couch. In this position he can hit your G-spot perfectly!     The missionary position also works on the couch. Yes, this is where the typical bedroom sex comes out again. But!!!! On the sofa there are guaranteed numerous decorative pillows. With these you can change the simple missionary position ideally. Just a small pillow under your pelvis can make a lot of difference. 
      Spooning is actually the typical position for falling asleep. So off to the couch for a nap! Or would you rather not sleep? You lie in front, he lies behind. Angle your legs a bit and stretch your buttocks backwards with pleasure. He will feel your round buttocks in the groin and think of everything but sleeping.     Feel free to get creative with armchairs, couches, decorative pillows, armrests and backrests. Create a great love nest and try out something new. You can also try out something from the Kamasutra. But keep in mind that the couch is narrower than your bed. 
 You don&#039;t have to buy a new sofa 
 Now you have had sex on the sofa. Does that mean you have to get a new couch? After all, others still want to sit on it. Of course, you don&#039;t have to get rid of the couch right away. Everybody has sex on the sofa or the armchair. 
   
 Of course, you don&#039;t have to tell your guests, who usually sit on it, right away. It&#039;s best to always put a blanket or something similar on the seat so that you don&#039;t leave any stains on the sofa.  If your body fluids do end up on  the seat, then simply dab them out with some dish soap or soap and water. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-21T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex in the bath - always a challenge</title>
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                                            Sex in the bathroom is always a real challenge. In fantasy wonderful sex positions happen, wild, uninhibited and totally easy to realize
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                 Sex in the bathroom is always a real challenge. In the imagination, wonderful sex positions occur, wild, uninhibited and totally easy to realize. But when you actually want to realize them, disillusionment sets in quickly. In the shower it still works, but  sex in the bathtub , is that possible?     Sex in the tub is possible, but it will never be really comfortable. However, this should not prevent you from simply doing it. The only important thing is that you directly assume not to be able to perform any kamasutra works of art in the tub. 
 Bathtub sex in common positions 
 If you want to have bathtub sex, it is certainly not about trying out the best position. It&#039;s simply about being close to each other and giving in to your desire. Bath sex can be planned or spontaneous. It is  best to avoid standing positions , as the risk of slipping is simply too high. Lying, sitting or kneeling you can also have fun in the hot tub. 
   
    Doggystyle  is very popular, but think about your knees, they could quickly start to hurt. Otherwise, the missionary position and the rider position also work. The latter, however, requires a lot of muscle strength in the upper part. Alternatively, you can simply use  the edge of  the tub. One sits on the edge of the tub and the other spoils him orally. 
 Make yourselves comfortable 
 If you plan to have sex while bathing, then make yourselves comfortable. Make sure the  bathroom is warm  and comfortable and that the lighting is pleasant. Place a few candles, but in such a way that you can&#039;t knock them over during the act. Buy a good smelling bubble bath and have a wiper ready to wipe up the overflowing bath water afterwards.    Also prepare a  lubricant  that is silicone-based. Toys can also be used in the bath. Make sure you have everything ready beforehand so that you don&#039;t have to get out of the tub in between. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;387&quot; ]  If it doesn&#039;t work out with sex in the bathtub or you get too cold in the middle of it, try to maintain the mood. 
   
 Grab cozy bath towels, a fragrant body lotion and make yourself comfortable on the sofa or in bed. You will then come up with suitable sex games ideas. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-21T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Masturbation - even alone you can have fun</title>
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                                            Self is the woman, even when it comes to sexual satisfaction. Men can do great things with you, but sometimes solo sex is also quite nice. You can explore yourself in many different positions.
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                 Self is the woman, even when it comes to  sexual satisfaction . Men can do great things with you, but sometimes solo sex is also quite nice. You can explore yourself in many different positions.     Yes, a woman satisfies herself. That&#039;s not uncommon and there&#039;s nothing wrong with it. After all, men do this too. So female masturbation should no longer be a taboo subject. 
  On the contrary , as a woman you can always explore yourself anew and try out a lot. 
 Find your favorite position 
 When women masturbate, they do it exactly the way they like it. It doesn&#039;t matter where or in what position. Everything that makes you happy is allowed. You can let your hands slowly caress your body and explore you completely. Maybe you will also find a few, previously undiscovered erogenous zones. 
 Many women prefer masturbation while lying down. The supine position is often used for this. You lie on your back in bed and simply massage your clitoris until you come. 
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 The prone position also allows for relaxed masturbation. On the subject of relaxation, it should be mentioned that a woman can even masturbate herself to sleep. If the position is comfortable and your body is completely relaxed, it may react by falling asleep instead of orgasming. 
   
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 So better make sure that no one can come into your room and find you in appropriate pose.    Masturbation while sitting or standing  is also possible. Some women even satisfy themselves in a squatting position. Each lady has her own preferences. 
 Sextoys and other aids 
 For men, yes, there is this typical cliché of porn film, lubricant and tissues. But is that really only something for men? No, you as a woman can also use all kinds of tools for masturbation. You can also watch a hot porn movie and get wet with lube. 
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 Sex toys like vibrators, dildos and co can also be used. However, not every lady likes this silicone, latex or plastic toys. In that case, maybe high quality stainless steel toys would be an interesting alternative. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-01T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Expressing sex desires instead of giving up orgasms</title>
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                                            Repeated sex without orgasm leads to frustration, which can then burst out of you very unflattering. So rather express sex wishes, instead of doing without orgasms
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                 Sex is part of every relationship. But if the sex is bad, then the relationship will suffer at some point.  Repeated sex without orgasm leads to frustration , which can then burst out of you very unflattering.  So it&#039;s better to express your sex wishes  instead of foregoing orgasms.      It actually sounds quite simple to express sex wishes.  But of course it is not. Everyone has a certain sense of shame. Then you don&#039;t want to offend your partner if you suddenly start to criticize and express your wishes. In addition, the right time should be chosen.  And finding the right time is a big challenge.  
     
 It&#039;s best to talk casually 
 Sex should already play a role at the beginning of the relationship. So it&#039;s best to talk about what you like in bed. This way you will quickly find out if you are on the same sexual wavelength. 
  Of course, it&#039;s not a good idea to start right away on the first date.  But after the third date, the time for this topic is already ripe. On the first date it would lead in the wrong direction. 
 Here you should only bring up the subject if you are more interested in hot sex rather than a committed relationship. However, if you have clarified the topic quite at the beginning,  the first joint sex is no longer so difficult . After all, it is already known what each of you likes. 
   
 Express your wishes during sex 
 You can express your wishes during sex.  However, you  must be  careful not to be too brisk , you must not complain and correct everything. Your partner also wants to have fun. 
 So don&#039;t become a lust killer when you express your wishes during sex.  Many actions are much better than many words.  Just show him what you want. 
 You can really lead him to where he should go. If he caresses your clit too hard, then take his hand and guide him a little. He will quickly understand and respond. In return, he can also guide you a little in the right direction.     If you are bad at talking, you don&#039;t have to despair. Many things are easier to write than to say. So, if you lack the courage to talk or show it directly,  write a letter to your lover , even if it sounds childish at first, it can save your relationship and your sex life. 
   
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                            <updated>2019-05-27T17:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The best way to seduce your man</title>
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                                            A man wants to be seduced, he wants to be driven crazy again and again. This does not require changing ladies, but only something creative of a single woman
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 A man wants to be seduced, he wants to be driven crazy again and again.  This does not require changing ladies , but only something creative of a single woman.     You do not need to be afraid that your man cheats on you or even leaves you,  if you only seduce him again and again properly . You have to stay creative so that everyday life doesn&#039;t rule over you in bed at some point as well. 
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 Of course, every man has his own preferences. But certain things heat up every guy in any case. A few of these things we would like to tell you here now. 
   
 Make the man hot with words 
 The power of words is greater than you think.  Dare to talk dirty  and see how your partner reacts to it. You are also allowed to think sexually in everyday life and to express this specifically. Don&#039;t hold back when you feel so much desire. 
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 Even in the seemingly most unfavorable moments, your husband will, for example, jump at the phrase &quot;I&#039;m horny &quot;. He will not let you sit with your horniness, but become horny himself. So you can have beautiful spontaneous sex. Hau quietly erotic sayings out, which can only come to mind.  The men are on it!  
     
 Sex in unusual places 
   Men love sex in unusual places.  So do not always pull him only in the direction of the bed.  Sex on the kitchen table  can also be quite tingling. Look for great places where you can also vary the positions a little. Often  a simple wall  or a small  changing room  is enough, to which he can push you to the edge.    
   
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 Also in the  shower  it can be neatly wet in all respects. For most men, oral intercourse is also part of it. So you should be able to give your partner a blowjob. To blow properly, that he comes, is not easy, but you will manage that too. Tips on how to give a blow job properly can be found  here , among other places. 
   If you want to have sex in bed again, leave out the pajamas and jump into bed naked.  Naked women in bed do not need great seduction talents to get the man around.  
 
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                            <updated>2019-05-25T19:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Men - good sex everyone feels differently</title>
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                                            What do men like in bed? Or what do men like in women? These are questions to which there is no blanket answer. Every man has different needs and desires.
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                 What do men like in bed? Or what do men like in women? These are questions to which there is no blanket answer. Every man has different needs and desires.  Good sex is always in the eye of the beholder.      Even if there is no secret recipe for good sex and no regular answer to what men want, a few tips can help. Probably the most important tip is:  Communicate with your partner!!!!  Only by talking and trying things out can you find out together what you&#039;re into. 
  You can dare to ask your boyfriend directly about his preferences . That way he knows that his needs are important to you. Maybe he doesn&#039;t even know what he likes yet. Then you can get started right away and experiment together. 
 What turns men on when they have sex 
 Of course, there are certain things that turn many men on. So it is already times the female body itself. What are men into when it comes to the female body? Clearly, the breasts and the buttocks.  But the eyes also play an important role.  
     
 Many men love it when they  can look into the eyes of their partner  during  sex . Often they also want to see as much of the woman&#039;s body as possible in general. In this regard, the  riding position  is highly recommended. The man can see you completely in action. 
 He can look you in the eyes or look at your breasts as they move beautifully. Everything that pleases the man, he also wants to touch. So find positions in which the man can not only see, but also feel. Do you know the floating position? Here he can touch your buttocks, breasts and back. 
   
 Be self-confident, but let yourself be dominated 
   Men find it terrific to have a confident woman in bed . A woman who is not ashamed of her body, who doesn&#039;t care about bodily fluids and who is ready to participate in any position. At the same time, the man wants to be able to dominate. 
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 You need to be confident, but also be able to subordinate. Numerous men make it really hot when they can suppress the woman a little bit during sex. If you like it very pronounced, you will quickly find yourself in the SM and BDSM scene. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-22T10:30:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Sex with a woman better than with a man?</title>
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                                            Women have fantasies that are very far-reaching. Fantasies of sex with a woman are not excluded. Is this now something bad or reprehensible? No, it is not! Such fantasies may even be lived out.
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                 Women have fantasies that are very far-reaching. Fantasies of sex with a woman are not excluded. Is this now something bad or reprehensible? No, it is not! Such fantasies are even allowed to be lived out.      The first lesbian experience  may be a bit difficult and feel strange. Or you may feel comfortable right away and enjoy it. Or maybe you are one of those women who immediately notice that they don&#039;t like it. You can only find out if you simply try it out. 
 Woman and woman can harmonize very well. Because who knows better how the woman wants to be caressed than a woman. During  lesbian sex  you can even experience multiple orgasms, which is often a real rarity with a man. 
 Women love longer and more tenderly 
 The fact is that women are very changeable in bed. They can be prickly, but also very passionate and loving. A man often does not understand these transformations and tries to put the woman in a certain drawer. 
 If the woman likes it rough, the man tries to implement this every time. At the same time she would rather like to have a lot of tenderness and gentleness. This is a good point to try it with a woman after all. First lesbian sex does not mean that it must take place in this way again and again. 
 Women love longer and more tenderly, but they can also exercise some SM sometimes. Women among themselves are able to communicate even during sex and make clear what is desired.  Even caressing for hours is not a problem  and does not lead to falling asleep, but to passion. 
 Creativity in bed 
 A man often represents a great inhibition threshold for women as far as creativity in bed is concerned. New positions are not even tried, because you could embarrass yourself in front of your partner. The fear of looking stupid during sex is very big for women.     
  Women among themselves try however very gladly  failed sex positions . Lesbians therefore obviously have better sex. But do we have to be lesbians to have sex with a woman? 
 You are far from being a lesbian 
 You are not a lesbian just because you think about having sex with a woman. Even if you find one you like, you are not a lesbian. It is just a sexual desire that you would like to live out. It is exciting to simply feel something other than the typical male body. 
 Delicate, fragrant skin and the softness that men don&#039;t radiate are a temptation. You are only a lesbian when you realize that you are not interested in men. You then feel magically attracted only by women and have rather an aversion to the male sexual organ. 
 If you love men and women equally, you get the stamp of being bi. But for a brief escape into a novel sexual world, you don&#039;t have to be any of those things. Do not worry about such divisions, but just live yourself out. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">French sex in bed for him and her</title>
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                                            Sex is very diverse, this is reflected not only in the many possible positions, but also in the possibilities of pampering art. A particularly beautiful form of pampering is sex in French.
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                   French sex can be extremely pleasurable for both women and men. There are certain techniques that can increase the pleasure even more    
   We show which methods and possibilities can be used to experience French sex even more intensively.   
 Sex is very diverse, this is shown not only in the many possible positions, but also in the possibilities of pampering art. A particularly beautiful form, of pampering is the sex in French.     With French woman and man can be equally spoiled. But first you have to know: What is French?! Of course, it is a language. But that is not the point in this case. 
 We are talking about a special sex practice. So the question is rather:  What does French sex mean?  To make it short, it is oral sex. 
 French for the lady 
 Oral sex in French is not a quick number, but something  for real connoisseurs . It is also often compared with a multi-course menu of the French star cuisine. The man has the opportunity to enjoy you fully. 
  He may taste, smell and feel you . All senses are used during oral sex. You just sit back and enjoy. The man can show what he can do during French sex. He has to prove gentle fingers, tender lips and a skillful tongue. 
 With these talents, he must be able to really put you in exstasy. Connoisseurs know that we are talking about cunnilingus here. Gentle kisses are breathed on body and pubic. The tongue goes exploratory and playful ahead. 
 French for the man 
 French oral sex for the man is also called fellatio. French sex is about seducing with persistence and a lot of sensitivity. You must really enjoy each other. The woman may now also feel, smell and taste. 
  The fingers are allowed to come into play . While lips and tongue spoil the glans, the woman can massage the shaft of the penis a little. This way, the man can experience oral sex even more intensely. The tongue can glide from the glans down the shaft. 
 You can give the tongue a break in between and continue only with the lips. Spread gentle kisses on the groin, penis and testicles. When you are ready, look deep into his eyes once again and then let his best piece disappear into your mouth. 
 If you have a strong gag reflex, put only the glans in your mouth. It is not necessary to get it in as far as possible. 
    Some men like to feel a slight pain . In this case, you can use your teeth and nibble a little in between. 
 But always do this with special care and gentleness. Men who prefer to have oral sex in the old French way, reject bites and nibbles completely and want to be spoiled only with tongue and lips. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Ladies, this is how you make your men happy</title>
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                                            That men have special preferences during sex is nothing new. But that you can make your man happy even with little things, is certainly something new for you. Not every man wants to experience particularly unusual things.
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                 That men have special  preferences during sex  is nothing new. But that you can make your man happy even with little things, is certainly something new for you. Not every man wants to experience particularly unusual things.     More and more surveys confirm it, men can also be made happy with little things during sex. It does not always have to be fancy things that cost you a lot of effort. Sure, there are guys who are into certain fetishes, but usually it&#039;s pretty normal things that turn a man on. 
 Scratch me, bite me, give me dirty names 
 Your fingernails and teeth are not weapons, but real  sex instruments . Many men are into it when you scratch their backs, give little love bites and offer dirty talk. Dirty talk means that you make him hot with words. Explain to him what a bad girl you are, that you have dirty fantasies and more.    What many ladies don&#039;t know is that men like confident women in bed. Some women don&#039;t like being on top because they feel downright exposed and watched. When you ride your partner, show him that you are doing well and having fun. 
 Do not be shy, but live yourself quite obviously. Other pleasures bring the &quot;titty fuck&quot; the blowjob and general experimentation. 
 Fancy things like bondage or role-playing games 
 Of course, not all men are happy with a lustful look or special touches. Some like then but rather something quite unusual. What usually always goes down well is lingerie. If you get yourself a  sexy costume  you can experience exciting role plays.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;397&quot; ] 
 Depending on the costume, maybe some bondage can be incorporated. As partners, you are sure to be on the same wavelength in every way. So don&#039;t let any sexual secrets come up. Try out and test what you both really like. 
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 In the end, it&#039;s a great thing if you make your man happy. But your desire and your fun in sex must not be lost in the process. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-18T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sexting - how to get your partner really excited about your date</title>
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                                            Many people think that sexting is just sending nude pictures. But there are many more ways to get your partner really hot with dirty talk and text messages.
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                 Sexting is on everyone&#039;s lips. With the smartphone, classic phone sex has been supplemented in many relationships by the writing of erotic messages.  Sexting  means more than just sending naked pictures: It&#039;s playful dirty talk via text, voice message or picture, designed to arouse desire, curiosity and anticipation for the real thing - between two consensual partners of legal age. 
 In this sexting guide, you&#039;ll find out how to turn your partner on step by step without crossing any boundaries, how to put your fantasies into words and what you should pay attention to when it comes to data protection, consent and mutual trust. 
  More inspiration for hot words &amp;amp; dates: 
 
  Dirty talking - this is how it gets hot  
  Express your sex desires - instead of giving up orgasms  
  Guide for sex meetings  
  Guide to erotic stories  
 
 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with slightly erotic, but not yet explicit messages. Compliments, hints and little fantasy snacks are ideal for testing how your partner reacts to sexting - without immediately sending nude photos. 
 Three different ways of communicating about sexting 
 When  sexting , you can use three levels to communicate with your partner and get them hot for you: Text, voice and pictures. You don&#039;t have to use everything at once - what&#039;s important is what suits you, your relationship and your everyday life. 
 1. Classic sexting text messages 
  Text messages are the basis of every sexting conversation.  You can send them via messenger, text message or chat and build up an erotic fantasy step by step. The advantage: texts can be read and replied to discreetly, even when other people are nearby. 
 Short messages that arouse curiosity (&quot;I can&#039;t stop thinking about last night ...&quot;) are an ideal way to start. With each subsequent message, you can get a little more specific and slowly move on to more explicit dirty talk - as long as the other person is positively involved. 
 2. Sexting voice messages 
  The second variant of sexting is voice messages.  Your voice, your laughter, a whispered word - all of these often have a more intimate effect than text alone. Your partner immediately hears how much you are in the mood and can empathize with you even better. 
 The disadvantage: voice messages are usually only available in a discreet environment. If your partner is at home, this can be extremely exciting. If they are in public or at work, it can be awkward. Ask beforehand whether it&#039;s a good time for a hot voice message. 
 3. Sexting pictures and clips 
  The third option for sexting is pictures or short clips.  They can increase arousal enormously because they combine fantasy and reality. It doesn&#039;t have to be a completely naked picture - a detail, a shadow, a look over the shoulder often have a much more erotic effect. 
 Important: Only send intimate pictures to people you trust and only with explicit mutual consent. You always decide for yourself which parts of your body you want to show. If you have any doubts, it&#039;s perfectly fine to deliberately avoid pictures when sexting and concentrate on words. 
   
 Increase the intensity of sexting 
 Sexting is basically a modern form of phone sex - just via Messenger. However, it&#039;s not necessarily about both of you having an orgasm straight away, but about  building up excitement and anticipation for your next date . Your messages can therefore function like a short erotic novel series: each chapter a little more intense than the previous one. 
 Start with hints, slowly increase the intensity and carefully test how the other person reacts. If they like your messages, the answers will be longer, more imaginative or more explicit - a good sign that you can go further. 
 Tips for your sexting kick-off 
 You can  simply start sexting with an introductory sentence , for example: 
 &quot;I&#039;m just imagining your hands slowly moving over my body.&quot; 
 This sends a clear message:  I desire you and think about you.  Further messages along these lines can further fuel your partner&#039;s mental cinema. You are gently introducing him to your fantasy and laying the foundation for more intense dirty talk. 
  Tip for advanced users:  Use sexting as a bridge between everyday chat and a real date. Deliberately plan a short &quot;storyline&quot;: more teasing messages during the day, more explicit messages in the evening in a safe environment. This way you stay in touch without it feeling artificial. 
 Sexting examples: From flirting to dirty talk 
 Sexting examples to get you started 
  Increase the tension in several stages. For example, you could say:  
 &quot;Imagine what I&#039;m wearing right now. It clings to my body and shows you everything.&quot; 
 Or: 
 &quot;I&#039;m lying in bed and dreaming of you. My hands are wandering over my body and I imagine they are yours.&quot; 
 Also a message like: 
 &quot;I&#039;m so hot for you, I&#039;ve had to do it to myself twice today.&quot; 
 can show very clearly how much your sexting partner cares about you. At this point at the latest, they usually get into the game and respond with their own fantasies. 
 Dirty talk examples when sexting 
 If you both feel comfortable, the messages can become more explicit. For example, you can write: 
 &quot;I want to feel you inside me now.&quot; 
 Or in an even more direct form of dirty talk: 
 &quot;I want to feel your best piece pulsating between my lips right now.&quot; &quot;I&#039;m imagining you fucking me really hard during sex right now.&quot; &quot;When I see you, I&#039;m going to sit on your face during sex!&quot; 
 Sentences like this clearly show how much you desire the other person. They  boost their ego  and often get your own arousal going too. If you feel unsure about direct dirty talk, you can get additional inspiration in the guide  Dirty Talking - how to get hot . 
 Sexting erotic tips &amp;amp; questions to lure him out of his shell 
 Instead of just sending statements, you can also actively involve your partner in sexting by asking questions. This will give you a better sense of where his fantasies are heading. 
  Examples:  
 &quot;Do you know how wet I get when I think about you?&quot; 
 &quot;How would you react if I stood naked in front of you right now?&quot; 
 Questions arouse curiosity and invite longer answers. At the same time, you can gradually feel out boundaries - for example, whether he finds certain practices exciting or prefers to stick to more tender fantasies. 
   
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  When sexting, make sure you also respond to his messages : Respond to his fantasies, ask counter-questions, describe how his words turn you on. This creates a real dialog instead of two one-sided monologues. 
 You&#039;ll be amazed at the effect  dirty talk via text message  can have. When you finally see each other, the pent-up tension is often released in a particularly intense real-life encounter - regardless of whether you are more romantic or wild with each other. 
  Tip for experienced users:  Combine sexting with your favorite kinks - such as bondage or role-playing games - and build up scenes in your messages that you will later act out. Make sure you take your time to clarify what you want to keep and what you want to experience in real life. 
 Safety, consent &amp;amp; data protection when sexting 
 As erotic as sexting is, it always comes with a few risks. So that you can enjoy your fantasies without worrying, you should follow a few basic rules: 
 
  Only between adults:  Sexting is only for people of legal age. Minors must not be involved - not even in fantasies or as visual material. 
  Consensual:  No one is obliged to send intimate pictures or explicit texts. There is no place for pressure or blackmail in sexting. 
  No sharing:  Intimate photos, videos or messages must not be forwarded or published without consent. This is not only disrespectful, but also punishable by law depending on the country. 
  Data protection:  Use the most secure messengers possible, protect your cell phone with a code or Face ID and consider whether you want to show your face in nude photos or not. 
 
 If you notice that sexting is stressful, overwhelming or arouses unpleasant feelings, this is a sign to slow down or change the game. Open communication, as recommended in guides on topics such as  committed relationships or casual dating , will help you find the right balance. 
 Tips for all levels - sexting step by step 
 Depending on how familiar you are with sexting, different priorities may be important. These levels will help you find your way. 
 Level 1 - playful hints 
 
 Start with flirty messages, compliments and light hints (&quot;I can&#039;t wait to see you again ...&quot;). 
 Avoid naked pictures and very explicit dirty talk for the time being until it&#039;s clear that you both feel comfortable with it. 
 On occasion, talk briefly about whether you would like to expand sexting - just as you openly discuss other sexual desires. 
 
 Level 2 - conscious sexting with a story 
 
 You build up little stories: What would you do if we were alone right now? What would our next date be like? 
 You experiment with voice messages and perhaps first, more covert pictures. 
 You explicitly clarify what should happen with the messages (do not forward, do not save, etc.). 
 
 Level 3 - erotic ritual as a couple 
 
 Sexting becomes an integral part of your relationship - perhaps fixed &quot;sexting evenings&quot; or hot messages before a planned date. 
 You incorporate your preferences, e.g. bondage, role-playing games or certain positions that you are already looking forward to reading about. 
 After intense periods of sexting, you consciously plan time offline together to enjoy all the things you&#039;ve longed for in peace and with lots of physical contact. 
 
 Conclusion: Sexting as a fun extension of your relationship 
  Sexting  is much more than just a quick exchange of nude pictures. It can be a sensual extension of your relationship that connects you in everyday life, builds up tension and lets you look at your cell phone with a smile. If you pay attention to consensuality, safety and mutual respect, dirty talk via text message becomes a powerful tool to increase your desire and deepen your relationship. 
 In the end, it&#039;s not how explicit your messages are, but how honestly they show your desire and how much you feel seen as people. Then every written word becomes a small promise of what can happen between you on your next date. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-18T07:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Masturbation - Erotic tips for the women</title>
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                                            Masturbation has long ceased to be a taboo subject. More and more women enjoy masturbation and thus take care of their own well-being.
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                 Masturbation has long ceased to be a taboo subject. More and more  women enjoy masturbation  and thus ensure their own well-being. In addition, women who regularly masturbate together with their partner climax significantly more often. 
 A good argument for solo pleasure. We&#039;ve  put together a few tips  that will help you have even more fun during masturbation. 
 Make sure you have the right setting 
 First of all, the  basics .  Take time for yourself and your body and make yourself comfortable . Just make sure that you can&#039;t be disturbed and enjoy the time with you and for you. 
 Of course, you can also come to climax in a flash, when the horniness takes possession of you, but a real pleasure is but rarely. So take your time, make sure you have a comfortable posture and just try out some of our tips and techniques. 
 Try different positions 
 Most women masturbate lying on their back. This is obvious, but not always the right choice for everyone. Try different positions. No one can see you and you can try out for yourself which variant excites you the most. 
 Whether lying on your stomach, on your back with your knees drawn up or kneeling on all fours. In each position, the stimulation feels different and can lead to different results. 
   
 Use everyday objects for your masturbation 
 It doesn&#039;t always have to be your fingers that trigger climax. Friction and pressure can also be optimally dosed in women by other objects. For example, kneel over a  firm pillow  and move your pelvis along it. 
 Even a  tennis ball  firmly  clamped in the pubic area  can provide enormous irritation. Use your imagination and you will find many objects in your apartment with which you can certainly masturbate. 
 Sextoys - toys for intense climaxes 
 You can also replace your fingers with sex toys. Vibrators and dildos come in all shapes, sizes and colors. Discover the different vibrations and their effect on your body. You can not only delay your climax, but also climax multiple times with many of these toys. Just try out the different possibilities. 
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 Water to help with masturbation 
 Lying in the bathtub to satisfy yourself is not uncommon. But you can  also use water for stimulation . For example, with a shower head with a massage jet, you can stimulate your  clitoris  really intensively. But always make sure that you do not direct the water jet directly at your vagina, as water penetrating here can damage your health. So stimulate your love pearl specifically and with varying intensity.   [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;409&quot; ] 
 Masturbation with your partner 
 You can also involve your partner in masturbation. It can give you a strong kick if he can and should watch you doing it. In addition, he can learn something and possibly bring you to climax even better and more precisely in the future. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-17T15:30:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Erotic massage for women: With erotic massages to the goal</title>
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                                            Foreplay is very important for a woman to actually experience an orgasm. But it is important that you also hit her erogenous zones. Erogenous zone woman, you can not google, you have to feel it!
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                 Foreplay is very important for a woman to actually experience an orgasm. But it is important that you also hit her erogenous zones. Erogenous zone woman, you can not google, you have to feel it!     With erotic massages to the goal, that is almost guaranteed. Every woman likes to be caressed and massaged. If you also hit the erogenous zones of the woman, you have as good as won. Erogenous zones are located somewhere else in every woman, but one spot is always a precision landing. 
  The clitoris! Please do not start massaging directly.  Feel your way slowly. Be a little creative before you start with the direct clitoral massage.    [emotion emotion_id=&quot;409&quot; ]   
 Massage in different positions 
 Erotic massage for women can always look different. If you want to spend a lot of time massaging, you can try out numerous massage positions and keep repositioning the lady of your heart. However, if you want to go straight to the target, the supine or prone position is very useful. 
 You can move from top to bottom. In the supine position, the groin is an exciting place before you start with the  clitoris massage . The aroused vagina will then practically lift itself towards you. If the woman is in the prone position, the buttocks are naturally the main focus for a while. 
 Almost unnoticed you can advance to her vagina. You can massage her vagina and become more and more intense. The orgasm in the woman can even occur at this stage. 
   
 Massage to orgasm 
 Women love to experience multiple orgasms. You don&#039;t have to use sensual massage only as foreplay by any means. You can already trigger the orgasm in the woman with it.  Massage her to orgasm, again and again.  In order for her to &quot;come&quot; you don&#039;t have to massage the vagina directly. 
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  Massage around it and touch the intimate parts almost casually.  These are moments when the woman practically starts to quiver. The &quot;accidental&quot; intimate touches during the massage makes every woman hot and awakens exciting fantasies. If you want to cause the orgasm by direct touches of the intimate area, then you should have skillful fingers. 
 The clitoris is sensitive, so treat it accordingly. Be gentle and do not press directly on it. Just above the clitoris is a perfect point to massage the woman to climax. 
   
 Foreplay is not always desired 
 Erotic massages are a great experience, but sometimes a woman wants things to get down to business quickly and directly. Go for the signals of the woman.   
 If you gently touch her erogenous zones on the neck, ear, groin and other areas of the body, but she grabs you directly, then go for it and get going too! Also the fast sex can have its charms and is desired from time to time not only by the gentlemen. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-16T14:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex positions in the car - the ultimate guide</title>
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                                            Sex in the car doesn&#039;t have to be uncomfortable. It always depends on the position and, of course, the vehicle. The bigger the car, the more you can let off steam in it.
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                 Sex in the car has a very special appeal for many couples: a bit of adventure, a hint of the forbidden and the feeling of being very close to each other as the world passes you by outside. At the same time, the limited space presents you with a challenge. This is exactly where well thought-out  sex positions in the car  come into play - they decide whether you can tense up or relax and enjoy yourselves. 
 In this sex guide, you&#039;ll find out which vehicles are suitable for sex in the car, how to prepare and which sex positions in the car are particularly comfortable, sensual and safe. The focus is always on consensuality, respect for your boundaries and compliance with legal rules. 
  More inspiration on positions &amp;amp; special places: 
 
  Sex in the shower - achieve your goal with skill and feeling  
  Perfecting doggy style - more pleasure &amp;amp; intensity  
  The best Blowjob of his life - guide  
 
 
 Big cars for free love - but smaller is also possible 
 The more space you have available, the more relaxed your  sex positions in the car  will be. Vans, minibuses and station wagons are ideal because you can fold down the seats or lie down crosswise. However, a normal Golf-sized five-door car is also sufficient if you consciously choose where you position yourself - for example, on the back seat or across the seats. 
 It gets trickier in very small cars, but not impossible. The front seat is often enough for a Blowjob, while the driving part must of course always be parked. If the interior is really cramped, you can also turn the car into an outdoor playground: The hood offers a surprising amount of space for passionate moments, as long as it is stable enough and no longer hot from driving. 
 Sometimes the interior says &quot;no&quot;, but the hood clearly says &quot;yes&quot; - so you can flexibly incorporate your car into your fantasy.  [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;414&quot; ] 
   
  Sex on the hood  offers an additional thrill: you are no longer constricted, have more freedom of movement and the feeling of freedom is even more intense - but at the same time, the risk of being seen increases. So choose your locations carefully and make sure you are discreet. 
  Tip for beginners:  Try out your first sex position in the car in a very quiet, private place - for example, in a secluded private parking lot. Take your time, test comfortable cuddling positions first and talk openly about what feels good. This way, you can combine adventure with safe, relaxed pleasure. 
 Sex positions in the car - good preparation is everything 
 Preparations for sex in the car 
 Before you jump into your favorite  sex positions in the car , it&#039;s worth doing a little planning. This is especially true if it&#039;s your first time having sex in the car. 
 
  Choose a place:  Look for a place where you won&#039;t disturb anyone and are on the safe side legally - secluded, private areas are ideal and never places with a lot of public traffic. 
  Create comfort:  Blankets and cushions make the seats, hood or trunk much more comfortable. A towel is also handy in case it gets a little damp. 
  Prepare the interior:  Clear bags, bottles and sharp objects out of the way so you don&#039;t bump or injure yourself. 
  Communication:  Talk about boundaries and desires beforehand. You can find inspiration on how to talk about your fantasies in the guide  Expressing your sex desires - instead of giving up orgasms . 
  Lube &amp;amp; condoms:  Mucous membranes often dry out more quickly in the car. A small bottle of personal lubricant and condoms should therefore be in your &quot;car sex bag&quot;. You can find tips on choosing them in the  lube guide for beginners . 
 
 Classic sex positions in the car 
 The classic positions also work in the car - slightly modified and adapted to the available space. 
 
  Missionary:  Particularly comfortable on the folded back seat or in a station wagon. One person lies on their back, the other kneels or bends over them. Cushions under the bottom or back provide more comfort. 
  Doggy style:  Ideal for the back seat or trunk. One person kneels or supports themselves with their hands, the other stands or kneels behind them. The backrest provides stable support. 
  Cowgirl:  Perfect if one person is sitting - for example in the back seat or passenger seat (parked!). The upper part sits astride the seated partner and determines the speed and depth. 
 
 Creative positions for adventures in the car 
 If you feel safe, you can experiment with creative  positions in the car  and turn your quickie into a little journey through your imagination. 
 
  Reverse cowgirl:  The person sitting on top turns to face the windshield or the backrest. This gives you a different angle and a new intensity of stimulation. 
  Sitting position:  Both sit next to each other or slightly offset. The focus is on physical closeness, lots of touching and intense kissing - perfect for romantic sessions with less acrobatics. 
  &quot;Bedroom&quot; position:  One person lies across the back seat, the other kneels or stands in front of it. This position is reminiscent of a comfortable bed position, only in a compact form. 
 
  Tip for advanced users:  Let the vehicle &quot;guide&quot; you in your sex positions in the car. Try out how the backrest, center console or edge of the trunk can support you. Slowly alternate between two or three familiar positions instead of constantly testing new orientations - this will keep you focused and pleasurable without straining. 
 Tips for safe and comfortable sex in the car 
 Comfort and safety determine whether sex in the car feels hot or hectic. You can stay relaxed with a few simple measures: 
 
 Adjust seats and backrests so that your knees, back and neck are not twisted uncomfortably. 
 Use additional cushions or rolled-up blankets as padding to avoid pressure points. 
 Try out the position with clothing or underwear first to notice where it pulls or pinches. 
 If you want to use toys, look for simple models without long cables and only use them when the vehicle is stationary. For more variety,  BDSM toys  can inspire you  to play sexy bed games  - many can also be used discreetly in the car. 
 
 Precautions when having sex in the car 
 As exciting as sex in the car is - your safety and privacy come first. So make sure you pay attention to the following points: 
 
  Never while driving:  any sexual acts belong only to the stationary vehicle. Distraction at the wheel endangers you and others. 
  Lock the doors:  Close doors and, depending on the situation, windows too. This protects you from unwanted surprises and gives you more security. 
  Check light sources:  Interior lighting, display lights or headlights can make you unnecessarily visible. Consciously turn them on or off. 
  No public display:  Be careful not to force anything on anyone. Choose places where you cannot be observed and respect laws and local residents. 
  Safer sex:  Condoms and, if necessary, gloves will protect you - especially during spontaneous adventures. The guide to  the best condoms for a safe sex life  provides helpful information. 
 
 Positions for the driver&#039;s seat 
 The driver&#039;s seat is only a playground when the engine is off, the handbrake is on and the key is removed. 
 
  Missionary light:  the driving partner leans back, the other half kneels on the seat, half in the doorway. Lots of physical contact without anyone landing on the steering wheel. 
  Variations of Doggy:  The receiving partner rests with hands on the seat or dashboard, the other stands sideways in front of the open door. Be careful not to operate any levers or buttons. 
 
 Positions for the passenger seat 
 
  Cowgirl:  One person sits with their seatbelt fastened (or unbuckled if the car is stationary), the other sits astride the lap. Ideal for intense eye contact and kissing. 
  Reverse cowgirl:  The seated person enjoys while the upper part faces the dashboard. Exciting for all those who like eye contact. 
 
 Positions for the back seat 
 
  &quot;Bedroom&quot; position:  The person lying down makes themselves comfortable across the back seat, while the active part kneels or stands in front of it. Very cozy and comparatively back-friendly. 
  Sitting position:  You sit half on top of each other, legs intertwined. Intense cuddling, lots of skin and closeness - perfect for slowing down. 
 
 The best positions for small cars 
 
  Missionary in compact:  One person lies in the back seat, the other kneels between your legs. Pillows for the neck and under the bottom help a lot. 
  Sitting position:  Both sit in the back seat, one person swings onto the lap of the other. Less acrobatics, more body contact. 
 
 Positions for more freedom of movement in the car 
 
  Doggy style:  Particularly suitable in the trunk or with the back seat folded down - you have room to move forwards and backwards. 
  Reverse cowgirl : The forward orientation creates a feeling of width, even though you only have a few centimetres of space. 
 
 Positions for spontaneous sex in the car 
 When the moment suddenly feels right, simple, quick sex positions in the car are your allies. 
 
  Doggy style:  Quickly set up in the trunk or at the open door, without a lot of rearranging. 
  Reverse cowgirl:  Slide over your lap, move your skirt or pants a little to the side - done. Always remember: safety before speed. 
 
   
 Leave the car alone - and yourselves too 
 Despite all the passion, it&#039;s worth taking a quick look at the technology. Sharp edges, delicate fabric or fine fabric in the vehicle quickly react sensitively to buttons, zippers or high heels. 
 Think about wipeable seat covers or lay out a blanket to prevent liquids from leaving stains. Bra fasteners or hard rivets can cause scratches on the hood - either remove them completely or work carefully with a soft carpet pad. High heels on the seats, headliner or hood are sexy, but risky for the material. 
 Also important: engine off, handbrake on, gear out or in &quot;P&quot;. This way you can concentrate fully on yourself without having to worry about the car starting to move unnoticed. 
  Tip for experienced drivers:  If you regularly enjoy sex positions in the car, set up a small &quot;car sex box&quot;: Blanket, pillow, condoms, lube, wet wipes and a discreet toy if necessary. That way, you&#039;ll always be prepared - and can decide spontaneously whether you&#039;d rather live out your lust in the car or at home. 
 Tips for all levels - sex positions in the car step by step 
 Whether you&#039;re curious, experienced or a real car lover: With the right level, you can increase the intensity and safety of your play together. 
 Level 1 - for curious beginners 
 
 Start with cuddling and passionate petting in the back seat before venturing into the first simple sex positions in the car. 
 Choose one or two uncomplicated positions (e.g.&amp;nbsp;sitting position or a gentle missionary variant) and stick with them for the time being. 
 After your adventure, talk about what felt good and what you want to change next time - in peace and quiet, perhaps in bed again. 
 
 Level 2 - for advanced players with a desire for variety 
 
 Combine several positions in the car, such as cowgirl in the back seat, doggy in the trunk and finally an intimate cuddling position. 
 Play with props such as blindfolds or light restraints - but only if you trust each other and the safety rules are clear. 
 Consciously plan places where you will be undisturbed and postpone spontaneous ideas if the surroundings are not suitable. 
 
 Level 3 - for experienced &amp;amp; outdoor fans 
 
 Combine car sex with excursions or short road trips - you stop in safe, discreet places and take time for your favorite positions. 
 Develop your own rituals, such as a fixed place, your &quot;standard blanket&quot; or certain codes that you use to get in the mood for an adventure in the car. 
 Consciously alternate between car sex and cozy sessions at home. The  exciting ideas for sex games for two  can inspire you for new impulses in the bedroom. 
 
 Conclusion: Enjoy sex positions in the car in a pleasurable, safe and relaxed way 
  Sex positions in the car  are a wonderful way to experience your sexuality in a playful, spontaneous and intense way. With the right preparation, clear communication and an awareness of safety and legal boundaries, the car can be transformed from a mere means of transportation into your own personal place of pleasure. The important thing is not the acrobatic peak performance, but that you are close, trust each other and find out together which positions in the car really excite you. 
 If you pay attention to each other, respect your boundaries and regularly check what feels good for you, sex in the car and varied  positions in the car  can revitalize your relationship in the long term - regardless of whether you are travelling in a large estate car or a compact city runabout. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-15T14:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Erogenous zones of the man: In these places make your man crazy with lust</title>
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                                            Tenderness and intimacy for two is wonderful. If you want to put your partner in a special mood, you should know these special points on his body in any case.
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                 Tenderness and intimacy for two is wonderful. If you want to get your partner in the mood, you should know these special points on his body in any case. 
 We will tell you the most important erogenous zones of the man, with which you can put your partner in absolute ecstasy.      1. The head   The scalp is enormously sensitive and touch-sensitive. A tender and gentle scalp massage can not only relax your partner enormously, but also serve as the perfect prelude to an intimate tryst. Touch the scalp gently with your fingertips or carefully with your fingernails and circle gently on it. Your partner will be able to relax almost immediately.      2. The groin   A man&#039;s groin is not only crisscrossed with many nerve endings, but also clearly points to his member. Caress and kiss your partner&#039;s groin gently or demandingly and experience the building arousal up close. Tender touches on the groin will drive almost any man crazy. 
       3. The buttocks of the man   Many men worry about their buttocks and consider them to be unattractive. Gently caress the buttocks of your partner or even reach out and touch them. These touches alone make many men hot for more. If you also whisper in his ear that you find his butt sexy, the excitement of the man will increase significantly. After all, if you feel sexy, you usually want to have sex much more. [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;387&quot; ]     4. The pen is  OK, this point is not really surprising. But the penis offers many different touch points that you can stimulate quite differently. The underside of the penis, for example, is very often ignored, although it is particularly sensitive. This is where the important nerves run along the shaft 
 Stimulating the underside of the penis with your tongue or fingers can provide an enormous increase in arousal. The glans is also very sensitive and is happy about any stimulation. But on the underside of the glans is the glans frenulum. No point of the male body is more sensitive than this area. Stimulate your partner at the frenulum only carefully. You will find that no man can resist such stimulation.   [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;414&quot; ]     5. The test icles  The testicles are especially sensitive, but they also react enormously to touch. Take the scrotum gently in your hand, tickle and stroke it or caress the testicles with your lips or tongue. When aroused, the scrotum gently contracts. You can increase your partner&#039;s arousal enormously with targeted grips.    [emotion emotion_id=&quot;382&quot; ] 
       6. The perineum   The area between the testicles and the anus is very sensitive and crisscrossed with nerves. Stimulate this area with your fingers to provide even more arousal. Especially as additional stimulation during a blowjob, this area is a guarantee for the highest sexual pleasure.      7. The prostate   The prostate is also called the G-spot of the man. If your partner allows it, you can stimulate the prostate with your finger or a vibrator through the anus. Men can climax just by stimulating the prostate. Many men love gentle stimulation combined with a blowjob. [emotion emotion_id=&quot;394&quot; ] 
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                            <updated>2019-05-15T11:30:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text"> Sex in the shower - with skill and feeling to the goal</title>
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                                            Sex in the shower is not possible? Yes it can! With a little skill and a lot of feeling you will reach your goal! There are a few positions that work even in the smallest shower stall.
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                  Sex in the shower is not possible?  Yes it can! With a little skill and a lot of feeling you will reach your goal! There are a few positions that work even in the smallest shower cubicle.     Especially in the hot summer, you would prefer not to touch each other at all. Every closeness leads to even more heat and you almost seem to melt. Nevertheless, you will certainly not want to do without sex. 
 Sooner or later, the desire simply overcomes you. This is also good, because the sun, the heat and especially the many naked skin, evokes enormous feelings of pleasure, which you may live out with pleasure. So that it doesn&#039;t get too hot for you, try having sex in the shower! 
 Out of bed, into the shower 
 The bed heats up practically by itself. The sheet alone is considered annoying in the summer. Sweating during sex is already horny, but if you are already sweating, the sex desire will pass quickly. So out of the feathers and into the cool wet! 
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 This does not mean the public swimming lake, but the shower at home. In the shower it is pleasantly narrow and through the water nice and cool. The narrowness of the shower cabin can be helpful to you to be able to take practical sex positions. The cabin walls make it possible for you and your partner to support your arms and legs. Well, is your imagination already running away with you? 
 That&#039;s good, because that&#039;s exactly what&#039;s needed here! Be a little creative and just live out your mental cinema. If you don&#039;t have any idea how it could fit with you, the woman and the shower cabin, here are a few practical tips that you can follow. 
 With these positions you succeed in sex in the shower 
 Even though you don&#039;t have to get very hot anymore, a massage can be very eroticizing. Use your shower head and the refreshing water jet for tingling massages on the erogenous zones. Especially as a woman, the shower head is enjoyed sometimes in the intimate area. Here you can both stand normally in the shower and take turns holding the shower head. The shower massage can also be well combined with oral sex.   
     If you really want to get down to business,  doggy style is a popular  sex play position . You both fit into the shower stall and have a good grip. The woman bends forward slightly and supports herself against the shower wall. The man bends his knees slightly and penetrates his partner from behind. Here you just have to be careful not to slip away on the wet shower floor.     Passion is important and may be lived out with pleasure. If you exchange hot kisses, then you can keep this position directly. The woman wraps her arms and legs around her partner and leans with her back against the shower wall.  The man simply stands and lifts his partner onto his penis.       Sex in a sitting position is also a comfortable and, above all, safe way to have sex in the shower. Sitting down, you can&#039;t slip away as quickly. The man sits on the edge of the shower tray and the woman simply sits on top of him. This goes face to face, but also the other way around. 
 Always pay attention to safety 
 At this point, we don&#039;t want to tell you about contraception here, just about the risk of accidents in the shower. When having sex in the shower, always pay attention to your safety and, of course, to the safety of your beloved. Get yourself a shower mat, also known as an anti-slip mat. 
 It doesn&#039;t look very classy, but it will ensure that you  don&#039;t slip away. &amp;nbsp; Water washes away your body fluids. So there can be painful friction if you don&#039;t use a lubricant. Get a silicone-based lubricant. This will not be washed away directly by the water and will provide pain-free sex. 
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 Before you dive deep into the harmonious rhythm, make sure you&#039;re both comfortable and really secure and firm.       And if you do not harmonize in the shower, then take it with humor and simply change the location. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-13T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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