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            <title type="text">The beginner&#039;s guide for your first visit to a swingers club</title>
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                                            Curious about your first visit to a swingers club? Our guide will tell you everything you need to know - from the most important rules to professional tips to make you feel completely at ease.
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                 Have you heard of swingers clubs and are curious about what really happens there? Or maybe you even want to try it out yourself but don&#039;t know what to expect? 
 Don&#039;t worry - this guide is made just for you. Here you&#039;ll find out everything you need to know to prepare for your first visit. We&#039;ll explain what a swingers club is, what the rules are and how you can best prepare for your first experience. 
 No complicated terms or unnecessary shame - just helpful information and pro tips for newbies. By the end, you&#039;ll know exactly what&#039;s important and what to expect. 
 What is a swingers club? 
 A swingers club is a place where couples and singles come together to share sexual experiences in an open and respectful environment. The focus is on the freedom to explore your own boundaries and meet other people with similar interests. 
 The club usually offers various rooms and facilities to create a relaxed atmosphere in which everyone can act according to their preferences. The most important feature: everything happens on a voluntary basis and respectful interaction is the top rule. 
 What rules apply in a swingers club? 
 Regardless of whether you are a beginner or already have experience - the rules in a swingers club are crucial for everyone involved to have fun. Here are a few basic rules: 
 
  Respect : no one is forced to do anything. A &quot;no&quot; always means &quot;no&quot;. 
  Cleanliness : Personal hygiene and cleanliness are a matter of course, both before and during your stay. 
  Condoms are compulsory : In most clubs, condoms are strictly compulsory to ensure everyone&#039;s safety. 
  Communication : Clear communication with your partner is the be-all and end-all. 
  Maintain anonymity : What happens in the club stays in the club. Discretion is a basic rule. 
 
 How do I dress for a visit to a swingers club? 
 The dress code in swingers clubs varies, but the general rule is: sexy but stylish. Some clubs prefer elegant clothing such as evening wear, while others opt for seductive lingerie. Here are a few tips: 
 
  For men : a well-fitting shirt and neat shoes make a good impression. 
  For women : Lingerie, a sexy dress or even an elegant swimsuit - you decide what you feel comfortable in. 
  Pro tip : Many clubs have special theme nights (e.g. masked balls or lingerie parties). Find out in advance so that you are properly prepared. 
 
 What can I expect in a swingers club? 
 When you enter a swingers club for the first time, you may be surprised at how relaxed and friendly the atmosphere is. Many newcomers have the idea that there will be sexual activity straight away - but this is not the case. 
 The evening usually starts in the bar or lounge, where you can get into conversation in peace. From there, you can explore the different rooms, which often have themed areas such as whirlpools, dance floors or private rooms. 
 How do I behave as a beginner? 
 As a newcomer, it&#039;s perfectly fine to just watch at first. Nobody expects you to get active straight away. You can take a relaxed look around and let the atmosphere take effect on you. It is important that you always communicate openly - both with your partner and with other guests. 
 If you feel uncomfortable or have any questions, don&#039;t hesitate to speak to the staff. The staff are trained and will be happy to help you. 
 What should I avoid? 
 There are a few things you should avoid as a beginner: 
 
  Pushing or being pushy : Everyone has the right to say &quot;no&quot; and this should be respected. 
  Drinking too much alcohol : Sure, having a drink to relax is okay, but excessive alcohol consumption can disrupt the atmosphere and cause you to break the rules. 
  Having the wrong expectations : Not every visit ends with sexual activity. It&#039;s primarily about feeling comfortable and having new experiences. 
 
 What professional tips are there for the first visit? 
 
  Familiarize yourself with the club : Many clubs offer guided tours or information evenings. Use this opportunity to find out more before your first visit. 
  Stay relaxed : The first visit can be exciting, but don&#039;t put any pressure on yourself. It&#039;s okay to just observe and enjoy the atmosphere. 
  Set clear boundaries : Discuss with your partner beforehand what is and isn&#039;t okay for both of you. 
  Pro tip : The more relaxed you are, the more you will be able to enjoy the evening. Communication and respect are key. 
 
 Conclusion: Your first visit to a swingers club - relaxed and confident 
 Your first visit to a swingers club can be exciting and overwhelming at the same time. But with the right preparation and an open mind, it can be an unforgettable experience. Take the time to look around and take a relaxed approach to the evening. With the tips above, you will quickly find your way around and be able to enjoy the special atmosphere. 
 Suitable products for your first visit 
 
  Elegant lingerie for women  
  Neat outfits for men  
  Condoms and lubricants  
  Wellness products for relaxation afterwards  
 
 Further resources 
 
 [What you should consider on your first visit to a swingers club] 
 [Testimonials from swingers club visitors] 
 [How to prepare for a visit to a swingers club as a couple] 
 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">A committed relationship or casual dating?</title>
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                                            Casual dating or a committed relationship? Both options have their advantages and disadvantages. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out which differences really matter, when casual dating is the better choice and how you can communicate expectations clearly and openly. Tips included!
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                 Have you met someone but aren&#039;t sure whether you want a committed relationship or casual dating? Don&#039;t worry, you&#039;re not alone. Many people wonder which path suits their current needs better. In this guide, you&#039;ll learn the key differences between casual dating and serious relationships, when casual dating might be the better choice and how to communicate expectations openly and honestly. Find out what&#039;s best for you and your situation! 
 What is casual dating and what makes it different? 
 Casual dating means that you date someone without a firm commitment or long-term expectations. It&#039;s about having fun, meeting new people and enjoying the freedom. There is often less emotional commitment in such relationships, but more flexibility and non-commitment. 
 Advantages of casual dating: 
 
 Freedom and flexibility 
 No long-term commitments 
 Focus on fun and ease 
 Possibility to date several people 
 
 But there are also disadvantages that you should consider. Emotional attachments can still develop, and sometimes it gets complicated when one person expects more than the other. Clear communication is key here. 
 What makes a serious relationship? 
 A serious relationship is the opposite of casual dating. It&#039;s about emotional depth, trust and long-term prospects. You share your life with a person and build a strong bond based on honesty and respect. 
 Benefits of a serious relationship: 
 
 Deep emotional connection 
 Reliability and security 
 Long-term perspective for the future 
 Mutual growth and development 
 
 Of course, a committed relationship requires more commitment and dedication. There is less room for spontaneous decisions, but more emotional stability. 
 When is casual dating the right choice for you? 
 You may be at a stage in your life where you want to focus on other things - such as your career or personal development. Casual dating could be a good option if you&#039;re looking for romantic or sexual encounters but don&#039;t want to make a long-term commitment. 
 Pro tip: If you choose casual dating, it&#039;s important that you set clear boundaries from the start and communicate them. No one should be emotionally hurt because expectations have been left unclear or unspoken. 
 When should you consider a serious relationship? 
 Are you longing for a deep emotional connection, trust and planning for the future together? Then a committed relationship might be the better choice for you. In a serious relationship, you invest time and emotions to create a stable foundation for the future with your partner. 
 Pro tip: Before you get into a relationship, be sure you&#039;re ready to do the emotional work that a relationship requires. Honesty and communication are key to building a happy partnership. 
 Clarify expectations: Communication is everything 
 Whether you choose casual dating or a committed relationship, the most important thing is that you communicate your expectations openly from the start. Misunderstandings often arise when unspoken assumptions are made. 
 How to clarify expectations: 
 
 Be honest with yourself: What do you really want? 
 Talk openly and early on with the other person. 
 Listen to what the other person wants and respect their wishes. 
 Regular conversations about the status of your relationship help to avoid misunderstandings. 
 
 Steeltoyz offers a range of products that are suitable for both casual dating and serious relationships - from sensual accessories to erotic toys that can enrich your experiences together. 
 Conclusion: find your own way 
 Whether it&#039;s casual dating or a serious relationship - in the end, it all comes down to what suits you best at that moment. There is no right or wrong. As long as you communicate your wishes and expectations clearly, you can have fulfilling and exciting experiences in both options. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Polyamory and open relationships: Everything you need to know</title>
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                                            Polyamory or an open relationship? In this guide, you&#039;ll learn how to deal with jealousy, set clear rules and build fulfilling relationships through open communication.
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                 Nowadays, there are many different relationship models, and polyamory and open relationships are becoming increasingly accepted and popular. But what exactly is polyamory and how does it differ from an open relationship? 
 In this guide, we clarify the most important questions, give you an overview of the basic rules of these types of relationships and how you can deal with challenges such as jealousy and communication. 
 By the end, you&#039;ll know exactly how polyamory works, what rules you should follow in open relationships and how to overcome emotional difficulties. 
 What is polyamory and how does it work? 
 Polyamory describes the concept of having several romantic or sexual relationships at the same time, in which everyone involved is informed about the other relationships and accepts them consensually. In contrast to a monogamous relationship, where the focus is only on one romantic relationship, polyamory allows the participants to have several romantic relationships openly. 
 Polyamory is based on honesty, transparency and the consent of all partners. Each relationship within a polyamorous network is individual and can vary in emotional intensity. However, the key principle is that love and affection need not be limited to a single person. 
 Advantages of polyamory: 
 
 Freedom to maintain multiple emotional connections 
 Deeper understanding of love and relationships 
 Transparency and openness in communication 
 
 However, polyamory also has its challenges, particularly in coping with jealousy and the need to divide time and energy between multiple partners. 
 Rules and communication in open relationships 
 Open relationships are similar to polyamory in the sense that they allow partners to have sexual or romantic connections outside of their primary relationship. The difference, however, is that open relationships often focus more on the sexual aspect than on romantic attachments. 
 Rules in open relationships: 
 
  Communication : openness and honesty are key. Both partners need to feel comfortable expressing their desires, boundaries and fears. 
  Set boundaries : It is important to define clear boundaries. These can include whether to talk about outside connections, how often you meet with others, or what type of relationship is allowed. 
  Trust : Trust is the foundation of any open relationship. Without trust, jealousy can quickly become a problem. 
  Health and safety : Having regular conversations about sexual health and using contraception responsibly is a must. 
 
 Open relationships offer the freedom to have sexual experiences outside of the main relationship without the feeling of breaking relationship rules. However, the success of such a relationship depends heavily on how well both partners can communicate with each other and agree on the established rules. 
 Jealousy and emotional challenges in polyamorous relationships 
 Jealousy is a natural human emotion that can occur in polyamorous and open relationships as well as in monogamous relationships. The difference is that polyamory often requires consciously dealing with and managing jealousy rather than suppressing it. 
 Tips for coping with jealousy in polyamorous relationships: 
 
  Self-reflection : jealousy often stems from insecurities or fears. Think about where your jealousy comes from and talk about it openly with your partner. 
  Open communication : Tell your partner how you feel and listen to their perspective. Sometimes it helps to understand that your partner still loves and appreciates you, even if he or she has other relationships. 
  Build trust : Trust is the counterbalance to jealousy. Polyamorous relationships require a conscious strengthening of trust by being honest with each other and supporting each other emotionally. 
  Redefine boundaries : When jealousy arises, it can help to review and renegotiate established boundaries to ensure everyone is comfortable. 
 
 Emotional challenges, such as feeling like you&#039;re not getting enough time or attention from your partner, can also arise. One way to deal with this is to &#039;compartmentalize&#039; - this means looking at relationships as separate and distinct connections rather than comparing them to each other. 
 Pro tip: Schedule regular conversations with your partners to talk about emotions, needs and expectations. This helps to avoid misunderstandings and promote a healthy dynamic. 
 Conclusion: Open communication and clear rules are key 
 Polyamory and open relationships offer alternative ways to experience love and romance. However, they require a high level of communication, trust and self-reflection. By understanding your own needs and those of your partner, you can build fulfilling and respectful connections in both polyamorous and open relationships. 
 Whichever form you choose, it&#039;s important that everyone involved feels comfortable and that jealousy, insecurities and emotional challenges are addressed together. This way, you can experience love and freedom at the same time in an open or polyamorous relationship. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Friendship Plus</title>
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                                            Friendship Plus - the perfect mix of friendship and eroticism. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out how to set clear rules, avoid jealousy and create an exciting, non-committal dynamic - without jeopardizing the friendship.
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                 Friendship Plus - an exciting mix of intimacy and passion. You have a good friend with whom you have always got on well and suddenly this special tension arises between you. 
 You don&#039;t want to give up the friendship, but at the same time you want to enjoy the sizzling eroticism that has developed. But as with any intimate relationship, there are rules and challenges that you should be aware of. 
 In this guide, you&#039;ll find out how to have a successful friendship plus without bringing emotions or jealousy into play. And, of course, how you can enjoy the erotic appeal without jeopardizing the friendship. 
 What is a friendship plus? 
 Friendship Plus describes a relationship in which two people have a close friendship that is complemented by sexual intimacy. Eroticism is at the forefront, without romantic commitments. It is the best of both worlds: Intimacy and affection, coupled with the freedom to let go without the pressure of a relationship. 
 Advantages of a friendship plus: 
 
 You can live out your sexual needs with someone you trust. 
 No obligations or pressure of expectations, like in a committed relationship. 
 The ability to date other people while enjoying the sexual connection. 
 A casual, fun-oriented dynamic without emotional dependency. 
 
 But a friendship plus also requires clear rules and boundaries to maintain the balance between friendship and eroticism. 
 Rules and boundaries for a friendship plus 
 For a friendship plus to work, it&#039;s important to set clear boundaries from the start. Here are some rules to help maintain the erotic tension without compromising the friendship: 
 
 
  Communication : openness is key. Talk early on about what you both expect from the friendship plus. Is it just about occasional sex, or is there room for emotional support? 
 
 
  No expectations : A friendship plus should be based on the principle of freedom. It is important that neither of you develop romantic expectations, as this can disrupt the dynamic. 
 
 
  Fidelity and dating : Clarify whether it&#039;s okay to date other people alongside your friendship plus or whether you prefer exclusivity. You need to agree on what is allowed in terms of other relationships. 
 
 
  Respect each other&#039;s boundaries : It&#039;s crucial that both partners respect their personal boundaries. If one of you no longer wants to continue, this should be accepted without drama. 
 
 
 Erotic pro tip: Create a space where you can talk about your sexual preferences. This not only improves the quality of your sexual encounters, but also ensures a deeper understanding of each other. 
 Avoid emotional challenges and jealousy 
 Even if a Friendship Plus is primarily focused on fun and non-committal eroticism, emotional challenges can still arise. Especially if one of you develops feelings that go beyond mere physical attraction. 
 This will help you avoid jealousy and emotional entanglements: 
 
 
  Open communication : Talk regularly about how you feel. If something changes - whether in terms of your friendship or your sexual encounters - you need to talk about it before misunderstandings arise. 
 
 
  No comparison with others : If one of you is also dating other people, jealousy can quickly arise. Avoid comparing yourselves to each other&#039;s other relationships. Remember that your friendship plus is something special. 
 
 
  Maintain emotional distance : It&#039;s easy to confuse intimate moments with romantic feelings. Avoid mixing your lives too much to keep the difference between friendship plus and a romantic relationship clear. 
 
 
 Erotic pro tip: Keep your dynamic playful. Avoid having too many emotional conversations that go beyond what is necessary. The appeal of a friendship plus lies in the lightness and erotic play. 
 How to end a friendship plus without losing the friendship 
 Even the most erotic friendship plus can end at some point. Maybe one of you develops feelings for someone else or it just gets too complicated. The most important thing at this point is not to lose the friendship when you end the sexual part of your relationship. 
 This is how you proceed if you want to end the friendship plus: 
 
 
  Be open and honest : Tell your friend honestly why you think it&#039;s time to end the erotic part of your relationship. Emphasize that the friendship is still important to you. 
 
 
  Respect emotions : Whether you or your friend makes the decision - respect each other&#039;s feelings. It can be difficult when an intimate connection ends, so give the other person space to process their emotions. 
 
 
  Strengthen your friendship : After ending your friendship plus, consciously do things that have nothing to do with sex to bring the basis of your friendship back into focus. This way, you can maintain the intimacy without it becoming awkward. 
 
 
 Pro tip: Try to make the transition gentle by slowly scaling back intimacy rather than ending everything abruptly. This will help you deal with the changes better and keep the friendship alive. 
 Conclusion: Friendship Plus - combining eroticism and friendship 
 Friendship Plus can be a wonderful way to combine the physical and emotional benefits of friendship with the allure of erotic encounters. However, it is important that you set clear rules from the start and communicate your expectations openly. 
 This way, you can maintain a balance between friendship and passion without emotions or jealousy disrupting the dynamic. And when the time comes to end the sexual component, you can do so without jeopardizing the friendship. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide for sex meetings: Everything you need to know</title>
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                                            Are you planning your first sex date? Our guide gives you the best tips on preparation, safety and successful communication so that you can enjoy the experience to the full.
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                 Are you curious about sex meetings and want to know how to organize your first meeting safely and confidently? Don&#039;t worry, you&#039;re not alone! 
 Many people are interested in these types of encounters, but have reservations or don&#039;t know how to get started. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out everything you need to know to make your first sex date successful and enjoyable. 
 We&#039;ll clarify important questions, give you professional tips and guide you through the process step by step. 
 By the end of this guide, you&#039;ll know how to plan a sex date safely, what to look out for and how to prepare so you can make the most of the experience. 
 What is a sex date? 
 A sex date is an appointment between two or more people that focuses mainly on intimate, sexual encounters. The focus is on all participants openly communicating their needs and desires. Such a meeting can be spontaneous or planned and depends on the preferences of the participants. 
 For many people, the attraction of a sex meeting is the opportunity to live out their fantasies and have sexual experiences in a safe and clear setting. It is important that all parties participate with full consent and feel comfortable doing so. 
 Where can I arrange a sex date? 
 There are various platforms and options for arranging a sex date. Here are some options: 
 
  Online dating sites and apps : There are specific platforms that focus on casual dating or sex meet-ups, such as adult dating sites. Here you can search specifically for people who have similar interests. 
  Swinger clubs and events : Many people use swingers clubs or special events to meet like-minded people and socialize in a safe environment. 
  Private networks : Some also use private contacts or circles of friends to organize open and relaxed sex meetings. 
 
 Pro tip: Make sure you choose platforms that are reputable and value safety and discretion. Read reviews and use platforms with a good reputation. 
 How do I communicate openly and safely before the meeting? 
 Honest and clear communication is the key to a successful sex date. Here are some tips on how best to structure the conversation: 
 
  Openness : Share your expectations, wishes and boundaries right from the start. Also ask about the other person&#039;s preferences and needs to avoid misunderstandings. 
  Safety : Talk about contraception and protective measures, such as the use of condoms. Also be aware of possible health risks and discuss these topics openly. 
  Trust : Build trust by communicating regularly and leaving the other person feeling comfortable. 
 
 Pro tip: A short phone call or video chat before the meeting can help build trust and clear up misunderstandings. 
 How do I prepare for a sex date? 
 Preparing for a sex date is important to make sure you feel comfortable and confident. Here are some steps you should follow: 
 
  Hygiene : thorough personal hygiene is a given. Make sure you arrive at the meeting freshly showered and well-groomed. 
  Outfit : Wear something that you feel comfortable in and that also emphasizes your sensuality. For men, this can be smart casual clothing, for women a sexy but comfortable outfit. 
  Safety precautions : Inform a trusted person about the meeting if you feel unsafe. This will give you an extra safety net. 
 
 Pro tip: Bring condoms and lube, even if you&#039;ve discussed this beforehand. Safety should always come first. 
   
 How do you behave on your first sex date? 
 It&#039;s important to stay relaxed and respectful on the first date. Here are some tips on how to behave: 
 
  Relax : Stay relaxed and easy-going. A relaxed conversation beforehand helps to break the ice. 
  Respect : Respect the wishes and boundaries of the other person at all times. &quot;No&quot; always means &quot;no&quot;, and that should be absolutely clear. 
  Consensus : Everything that happens should be wanted and agreed upon by both parties. Don&#039;t hesitate to ask questions if you are unsure. 
 
 Safety and consensus: the be-all and end-all 
 Safety and consensus are the cornerstones of every sex encounter. Make sure that everyone involved feels comfortable and is on the same wavelength. Contraception should always be used to minimize the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. 
 Pro tip: If you feel uncomfortable or something isn&#039;t going the way you imagined, it&#039;s perfectly fine to break off the date. Your well-being comes first. 
 What should I consider after the date? 
 After the meeting, it is important to talk openly and honestly about the experience if you want to. A short follow-up conversation or an exchange via message can help to clear up misunderstandings and round off the experience. If you felt good, it&#039;s always a nice gesture to let the other person know. 
 Pro tips for a successful sex date 
 
  Self-confidence : The more confident you feel, the more you will be able to enjoy the date. Trust your instincts and be honest with yourself. 
  Communication : Keep communication open and respectful before, during and after the date. 
  Set boundaries : It&#039;s perfectly fine to set clear boundaries and communicate them. 
 
 Conclusion: Your sex date - safe, relaxed and exciting 
 A sex date can be an exciting and rewarding experience if you prepare well and follow the right steps. Communication, safety and respect are the keys to getting the most out of the encounter and having fun in the process. 
   
 Suitable accessories for your date 
 
  Condoms : Indispensable for safety during sex encounters. 
  Lubricant : For a more pleasurable experience. 
  Discreet storage : A small bag for your accessories that you take with you to the meeting. 
 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T09:45:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about GILF</title>
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                                            Find out all about the fascination of GILFs, why mature women are attractive and how to treat this preference with respect. Tips for beginners and fans.
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                 GILF is an acronym for &quot;Grandmother I&#039;d Like to F***&quot; and describes the erotic attraction to mature, significantly older women who are often already grandmothers. This always refers to adult, unrelated persons. In this GILF guide, you&#039;ll find out why mature women can be so attractive, how to treat this preference with respect and what you should look out for when flirting, dating or entering into a relationship with an older woman. 
 As with the well-known MILF phenomenon, GILF is based on the desire for experience, inner peace and a special erotic aura. It is crucial that all encounters are consensual, respectful and free from familial dependencies. 
  More sensual guides about pleasure &amp;amp; experience: 
 
  Smoking - Smoking as fetish and passion  
  FLR, TPE and female dominance in a relationship  
  Sex positions in the car - the ultimate guide  
 
 
 1. What makes GILFs so attractive? 
 The attraction of mature women is based on various factors that often become more intense over time. Many people describe their GILF preference less in terms of age and more in terms of certain characteristics: 
 
  Experience:  mature women often bring a depth of life and sexual experience to the table. They know their bodies, know what they like and can communicate this clearly. 
  Self-confidence:  As they get older, their composure often grows as well. Many GILFs radiate inner strength and independence - qualities that can have an extremely erotic effect. 
  Mature beauty:  Wrinkles, gray hair or a body that does not conform to perfect ideals are experienced as an expression of history, character and authenticity. 
  Erotic charisma : The mixture of experience, self-confidence and maturity often creates a deep sensual aura that goes beyond mere looks. 
 
  Tip for beginners:  If you notice that you are particularly attracted to GILFs, first perceive this preference without judgment. You don&#039;t have to explain or justify it to anyone straight away. The only important thing is that everyone involved is of legal age and not related and that you treat your fantasies with respect. 
 2. Dealing with the GILF preference 
 If you are attracted to mature women, it is important to live your GILF preference consciously and respectfully. The term itself is often used humorously or in pop culture, but it can also be perceived as objectifying. 
 
  Respect comes first:  she is not just a &quot;GILF&quot;, but a complete person with a history, feelings and boundaries. Be careful not to reduce her to her age or her role as a grandmother. 
  Language with sensitivity:  Use the word GILF more as a euphemism in private conversations, not as a label in public. Terms such as &quot;mature woman&quot; or &quot;experienced partner&quot; are often more pleasant. 
  No family relationships:  Real-life relationships between relatives are taboo. GILF fantasies relate to older women who are strangers or loosely known, never to family members. 
 
 As with all sexual preferences, as long as everything is consensual, legal and respectful, your GILF preference is a private part of your sexuality. 
 3. Tips for dating mature women 
 If you don&#039;t just want to fantasize, but really want to get to know a mature woman, an authentic, appreciative approach will help you more than flat pick-up lines. 
 
  Confident, but not pushy:  Many older women appreciate young partners who know what they want without coming across as arrogant. Show interest, but leave her room to decide for herself. 
  Genuine interest in her person:  Listen, ask about her life, experiences and passions. Your attention shows that you perceive them as a person - not just as a fantasy figure. 
  Communicate about expectations:  Some GILFs are looking for adventure, others for a committed relationship. Talk about your expectations early on to avoid disappointment. 
  Talk about the age difference in a relaxed manner:  If the difference is big, discuss it openly. Humor and honesty take the pressure off many insecurities. 
 
  Advanced tip:  If you have already had experience with more mature women, be careful not to unconsciously compare every new encounter with previous partners. Every GILF is a unique personality with individual boundaries and desires. 
 4. GILFs in pop culture 
 GILFs appear again and again in films, series and the adult industry. Older women are often portrayed as particularly alluring, confident and sexually very experienced. 
 
  Movies &amp;amp; series:  Stories about relationships with significantly older women or about &quot;late&quot; sexual self-discovery show that attractiveness is not a question of age. 
  Adult entertainment:  Categories relating to MILF and GILF have a firm place in the adult entertainment industry. They reflect fantasies, but are not always a realistic picture of real relationships. 
  Art &amp;amp; literature:  Mature women appear as a muse, a symbol of experience, wisdom and self-determined sexuality. 
 
 Pop culture images can inspire, but are always stylized. For your own encounters, only the real desires and boundaries of the people involved count. 
 5. Advantages and challenges of a relationship with mature women 
 A relationship with a significant age difference can be wonderful, but also challenging. In the GILF context, everyday life plays a major role alongside eroticism. 
 
  Possible advantages:  Maturity, clarity and life experience often lead to less drama and more honesty. Many older women have learned what is good for them - and what is not. 
  Possible challenges:  Different life stages, children, grandchildren or social expectations can create pressure. Comments from those around you sometimes demand extra security and cohesion. 
 
 It is important that you as a couple decide for yourselves whether you want to go down this path together - not those around you. 
  Tip for experienced couples:  If you have been in a relationship with a significant age difference for a long time, it can help to regularly talk about future topics: Health, family celebrations, career plans. This will keep your relationship stable and realistic. 
 Tips for all levels - GILF step by step 
 Whether you&#039;re just fantasizing, want to experience first dates with more mature women or are already in a committed relationship: This overview will help you to consciously shape your GILF preference. 
 Level 1 - explore curious fantasies 
 
 Accept your attraction to GILFs as a part of your sexuality without judging it. 
 Study the image of mature women in the media and ask yourself which aspects really appeal to you: charisma, calmness, experience? 
 Start by talking about your preference with trusted people or in anonymous communities if this helps you to feel more confident. 
 
 Level 2 - first dates and encounters 
 
 Seek contact with mature women via suitable platforms or in real life - always respectfully and without any secret ulterior motives. 
 Be honest, but not crude: You can mention her age as something positive without reducing her to the term GILF. 
 Talk about expectations early on: Are you interested in a fling, a casual liaison or a committed relationship? 
 
 Level 3 - committed relationship with age difference 
 
 As a couple, consciously face your environment: if questions or comments come up, decide together how you want to react. 
 Plan your future realistically: differences in health, career or retirement can shape your everyday life. 
 Actively nurture your sexuality - with openness, humor and mutual curiosity. Maturity does not mean the end of pleasure, but a different pace and focus. 
 
 More fantasies can be added at each stage - from playful dates to special preferences or fetishes that you want to discover together. For example, guides such as the article on  bondage for beginners  can provide inspiration if you want to expand your dynamic in a playful way. 
 6. Conclusion: live your GILF preference with confidence 
 GILF is more than just a buzzword from movies or chats. It&#039;s often based on the desire to meet mature, self-confident women who know who they are and what they want. If you are attracted to older women, you can accept this preference - as long as you act respectfully, honestly and consensually. 
 With clear communication, mindfulness and mutual appreciation, a relationship or affair with a mature woman can be just as fulfilling, intense and loving as any other. The decisive factor is not the year of birth, but how you treat each other - with respect, openness and genuine desire for each other. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about the erotic market</title>
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                                            Discover our comprehensive guide to the adult market! Find out all about current trends, product categories and valuable tips for buying erotic products. Enrich your love life with high-quality articles from Steeltoyz.
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                 The erotic market is a diverse and growing segment that has developed significantly in recent years. With increasing social change and openness towards sexuality, the range of products on offer in this area has also increased enormously. This guide gives you a comprehensive overview of the adult market, from current trends to tips for buying products. 
 1. The adult market through the ages 
 The adult market has changed significantly over the last few decades. While the topic of sexuality was taboo for a long time, we are now experiencing a new openness. Online stores and specialized stores have made access easier and the variety of products has grown enormously. There are also more and more innovative products that are specially tailored to the needs of modern customers. 
 2. The most important product categories in the adult market 
 The adult market is divided into different product categories that have been developed for different needs and preferences. Here is an overview: 
 
  Sex toys:  from classic vibrators and dildos to innovative gadgets such as app-controlled devices, the range is huge. Simple models are recommended for beginners, while more advanced users will enjoy products with additional functions. 
  Love swings and bondage accessories:  For couples looking for variety, there is a wide range of products that can make their love life more exciting. Bondage sets, handcuffs and love swings are just a few examples. 
  Erotic clothing:  Lingerie, corsets and other erotic outfits play a major role in the erotic market. They are not only sexy, but can also boost self-confidence. 
  Lubricants and care products:  These products are essential for a pleasurable experience. They come in different varieties, from water-based to silicone-based lubricants. 
  BDSM and fetish products:  This niche has grown in popularity in recent years. From whips to latex outfits, every lover of extreme play will find the right product here. 
 
 3. Trends and developments in the erotic market 
 The adult market is constantly changing and new trends regularly conquer the scene. The following developments are currently particularly noteworthy: 
 
  Technology in the bedroom:  more and more sex toys are app-controlled, offering completely new possibilities. Virtual reality pornography and interactive gadgets are also opening up new dimensions of pleasure. 
  Sustainability:  Sustainability is also playing an increasingly important role in the erotic market. Products made from environmentally friendly materials, reusable packaging and fair production conditions are becoming increasingly popular. 
  Personalization:  Tailor-made products that can be individually adapted to customers&#039; needs are on the rise. This could be personalized dildos or lubricants specially tailored to the body, for example. 
  Inclusivity:  The market is becoming increasingly diverse. Products for all genders, sexual orientations and body shapes are being offered to meet the needs of a broad target group. 
 
 4. Tips for buying erotic products 
 When buying erotic products, there are a few things to consider in order to have the best possible experience: 
 
  Educate yourself:  Before you buy a product, you should inform yourself extensively. Read reviews, look at test reports and compare different models. 
  Pay attention to quality:  High-quality products are made from safe materials such as silicone, which is hypoallergenic and easy to clean. Avoid products made from cheap materials that may be harmful to your health. 
  Try new things:  The adult market offers an enormous variety. Be open to new things and try out different products to find out what you and your partner like best. 
  Discretion:  When buying online, make sure that the store offers discreet packaging and delivery to protect your privacy. 
  Care and cleaning:  Invest in suitable cleaning products for your toys to ensure their longevity and maintain hygienic standards. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
 The adult market offers something for everyone, regardless of individual preferences and needs. Whether you are looking for new experiences, want to spice up your love life or are simply curious - the variety and innovations in this market are impressive. Take advantage of the numerous offers, inform yourself thoroughly and let yourself be inspired. With the right selection of products, you can take your love life to the next level. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about Joyclub</title>
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                 Joyclub is one of the best-known and largest erotic communities in the German-speaking world. With a large number of members, numerous functions and a lively community, Joyclub offers a wide range of opportunities for people who are looking for new erotic experiences or want to exchange ideas with like-minded people. This guide will tell you everything you need to know about Joyclub. 
 1. What is Joyclub? 
 Joyclub is an online community that specializes in erotic topics. The platform offers members the opportunity to exchange ideas with other people, make contacts and take part in various events. Joyclub is much more than a dating platform - the focus here is on a shared interest in eroticism and respectful interaction. 
 2. The most important functions of Joyclub 
 Joyclub offers a variety of functions that enable members to network and actively participate in community life: 
 
  Profiles and photos:  each member can create a personal profile and upload photos. These can be shared privately or publicly, depending on preference. 
  Forums and groups:  Joyclub has numerous forums and groups on a wide variety of erotic topics. Here you can exchange ideas with like-minded people and have interesting discussions. 
  Events and parties:  Joyclub offers an extensive events section where members can find and register for erotic parties and events. 
  Chat and messages:  Members can communicate directly with each other via the chat and messaging functions, making it easy to make new contacts. 
  Testimonials:  In this section, members share their personal experiences and adventures, which can be particularly helpful for newcomers. 
 
 3. How do I find my way around Joyclub? 
 For newcomers, Joyclub can seem overwhelming at first, but with a few tips, using the platform will quickly become second nature: 
 
  Fill out your profile carefully:  A meaningful profile is the key to success on Joyclub. Make an effort to describe your interests and upload authentic photos. 
  Participate actively:  The more active you are in forums and groups, the more attention you will attract. It&#039;s worth joining discussions and writing your own posts. 
  Communicate respectfully:  Joyclub attaches great importance to respectful interaction. Be friendly and respectful in your messages and chats to have a positive experience. 
  Attend events:  Take the opportunity to take part in the numerous events and parties. Here you can not only have fun, but also meet interesting people in real life. 
 
 4. Advantages and challenges of Joyclub 
 As with any platform, Joyclub offers both advantages and challenges: 
 
  Advantages:  Joyclub offers a large and active community, a variety of features and a safe environment for sharing erotic topics. 
  Challenges:  For beginners, the platform can seem complex at first, and it can take time to build a network and find the right contacts. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
  Joyclub  is a unique platform for anyone who is interested in eroticism and wants to network with like-minded people. With an active community, numerous functions and many events, Joyclub offers countless opportunities to gain new experiences and make exciting contacts. Whether you are new to the world of eroticism or already experienced, Joyclub has something for everyone. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about MyDirtyHobby</title>
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                                            Find out everything about MyDirtyHobby! Discover the world of amateur erotica, find tips for users and get insights into the experiences of creators and fans.
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                 MyDirtyHobby is one of the leading platforms for amateur erotica in German-speaking countries and has established itself as a meeting place for both creators and fans. The platform allows users to create their own content, share it with others and even earn an income. 
 At the same time, MyDirtyHobby offers fans the opportunity to consume exclusive and authentic content directly from their favorite creators. In this comprehensive guide, you&#039;ll learn everything you need to know about MyDirtyHobby - from how to register and set up a successful profile to tips on how to maximize your success. 
 1. What is MyDirtyHobby? 
 MyDirtyHobby was founded in 2006 and is now one of the largest and most popular platforms for amateur eroticism in Europe. Here, users can upload their own erotic content, be it in the form of photos, videos or live streams, and share it with an interested community. 
 In contrast to many professional porn sites, MyDirtyHobby focuses on authentic, unadorned eroticism that comes directly from the users themselves. The platform is aimed at anyone who wants to document their own sexual adventures, as well as fans who appreciate these genuine experiences. 
 2. Registering and setting up your MyDirtyHobby profile 
 Registering with MyDirtyHobby is straightforward and can be done in just a few steps. Here&#039;s how to get started: 
 
  Registration:  Visit the MyDirtyHobby website and click on &quot;Register&quot;. You must enter a valid e-mail address and choose a secure password. 
  Set up your profile:  After registering, you can customize your profile. Choose a username that suits you and upload a profile picture. This picture should be appealing but not too explicit and make you want more. 
  Description:  Fill out the profile description carefully. This is your chance to introduce yourself and your preferences. Describe what kind of content you want to create on MyDirtyHobby and what makes you different from other creators. 
  Visibility and privacy:  MyDirtyHobby offers various privacy settings. You can define who can see your profile and your content and whether certain content is only available to paying members. 
 
 3. Create and upload content on MyDirtyHobby 
 Your success on MyDirtyHobby depends heavily on the quality and regularity of your content. The following tips will help you look professional while remaining authentic: 
 
  Technical quality:  make sure your photos and videos are taken in good resolution. Good lighting and a stable camera stand are crucial for appealing results. 
  Authenticity : MyDirtyHobby users appreciate real, credible content. Be yourself and show your natural side instead of over-staging everything. 
  Variety of content:  Offer a mix of different formats - short clips, photo sets, longer videos or small series. Regular updates ensure that your fans stay interested. 
  Live streams : Live streams are a great way to interact directly with your fans. Schedule fixed broadcast times and announce them in advance so that as many viewers as possible tune in. 
 
 Recommended accessories &amp;amp; inspiration for MyDirtyHobby-Creator 
 
 Content ideas &amp;amp; fetish topics for your profile 
 With the right guides and stories, you can quickly find exciting topics that are perfect for clips, photo sets or live shows on MyDirtyHobby: 
 
   CBT Sex -    Guides   - ideal if you want to produce harder cock &amp;amp; ball play or CBT content. 
   Golden showers &amp;amp; golden showers   - gives you an overview of urophilia and creates a basis for fetish videos and special content. 
   Anal plug-Guide   - inspiration for Anal content, preparation, safety &amp;amp; types of play with plugs. 
   Hotwife &amp;amp; Cuckold   - perfect basis for cuckold scenarios, tease &amp;amp; denial and domination content. 
   Erotic fetish stories   - use stories as the basis for series, role-play or POV videos. 
 
 Take your time to choose one or two topics and develop recurring formats from them. This will create a recognizable style on MyDirtyHobby that will retain fans and increase your income in the long term. 
 
 4. Monetize your content 
 MyDirtyHobby offers various ways to earn money with your content. The most important options at a glance: 
 
  Pay-per-view:  You can offer individual videos or photo sets for sale. You set the prices yourself and users pay for direct access. 
  Subscriptions:  Offer your fans a subscription that gives them access to exclusive content. This allows you to build up a predictable, regular income. 
  Tips:  During live streams and in private messages, fans can send you tips to show their appreciation. 
  Merch &amp;amp; extras:  Many creators also offer personalized products or services - such as signed photos, individual videos or special fan packages. 
 
 5. Tips for fans: How to get the best out of MyDirtyHobby 
 As a fan, you can also make the most of MyDirtyHobby to discover exciting, exclusive content: 
 
  Find your favorite creators:  use the search function to find profiles that match your preferences. Subscribe to them so you don&#039;t miss out on new content. 
  Interact with creators:  Comment, like and write messages to build a personal connection. Creators appreciate active, respectful fans. 
  Use favorites:  Save your favorite content so you can access it quickly at any time. 
  Stay respectful:  Behind every profile is a real person. Respectful interaction ensures that the community on MyDirtyHobby remains pleasant for everyone. 
 
 6. Security and data protection on MyDirtyHobby 
 Your security and privacy should always be a priority when using MyDirtyHobby. Pay particular attention to the following points: 
 
  Maintain anonymity:  Use pseudonyms and avoid revealing personal information that could give away your identity. 
  Secure payment methods:  Use the secure payment methods offered by MyDirtyHobby. If possible, use anonymous payment methods such as prepaid cards. 
  Use blocking functions:  If you come across unwanted messages or abusive behavior, use the platform&#039;s blocking and reporting functions. 
 
 7. Legal aspects of using MyDirtyHobby 
 When creating and publishing content on MyDirtyHobby, it is important to observe the legal framework: 
 
  Copyrights:  Only publish content that you have created yourself or for which you own the rights. Using copyrighted material without permission can have legal consequences. 
  Consent:  If other people can be seen in your content, make sure that you have their express consent to publish it. 
  Protection of minors:  Make sure that no minors appear on your content. MyDirtyHobby is for adults only. 
 
 8. Conclusion: Use MyDirtyHobby sensibly 
 MyDirtyHobby offers a unique platform for anyone interested in amateur erotica - whether as a creator or a fan. With the right strategy, regular content and a focus on quality and authenticity, you can build a loyal fan base and have fun creating content at the same time. 
 Always think about security, data protection and legal requirements. Then you can enjoy the variety that MyDirtyHobby offers to the fullest - whether you&#039;re in front of the camera yourself or supporting your favorite creators. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Clit massage - how to make your partner tremble</title>
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                                            Hey you, would you like to pamper your partner in a wonderful way and give her relaxation and pleasure at the same time? Then a clitoral massage is just the thing for you. In this guide, I&#039;ll show you how you can discover a new dimension of pampering for your partner with a cl...
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                 A gentle, loving clitoral massage can rock her world - with no stress, no pressure to perform, just mindful touch, patience and lots of communication. Instead of &quot;quick and easy&quot;, it&#039;s about slowly building up her desire, reading her body and finding out together what feels really good for her. 
 In this guide, we&#039;ll show you step by step how to perform a clitoral massage so that your partner feels safe, desired and fully seen. You&#039;ll find out exactly where the clitoris is located, how to involve the entire vulva area, which toys are suitable - and why consensuality, trust and a loving approach are more important than any technique. 
  More pleasure &amp;amp; knowledge about clitoral massage: 
 
  What is squirting? Female ejaculation  
  Erotic massage for women - reaching climax with touch  
  Finding the right personal lubricant - guide to slippery pleasure  
  Exciting ideas for sex games for two  
 
 
 Table of contents 
 
  Pussy massage - more than just foreplay  
  Where is the clitoris located?  
  How to start a clitoral massage correctly 
 
  The first touches  
  Inner labia &amp;amp; wet area  
  Touching the clitoris - but not directly  
 
 
  Urethral area &amp;amp; G-spot  
  Clitoris massage with toys  
  Tips for all levels - clitoral massage step by step  
  The most important point: safety, communication, consensuality  
 
 Pussy massage - more than just foreplay 
 Pussy massage focuses on the entire intimate area: outer labia, inner labia, clitoris, urethral orifice and vaginal entrance. The aim is not to bring her to orgasm &quot;quickly&quot;, but to build up her arousal layer by layer. A clitoral massage can last 30-60 minutes - at this pace your body can really relax and open up. 
 Many women experience clitoral massage as a sexual practice in its own right. It is more than foreplay: a sensual ritual in which she doesn&#039;t have to do anything and can simply receive. Your focus is on her pleasure, her reactions, her breathing and what she signals to you. 
  Tip for beginners:  Consciously plan time for the clitoral massage - without TV, cell phone or pressure to &quot;deliver&quot;. Tell her beforehand that today is all about her and that she doesn&#039;t have to give anything back. This feeling of security and devotion alone can be enormously arousing. 
 Where is the clitoris located? 
 The clitoris is much bigger than most people think. The visible button above the vaginal opening is just the tip of the iceberg. The clitoral complex runs like an upside-down &quot;Y&quot; in the body: 
 
 Clitoral head (the visible tip) 
 Clitoral hood (the small fold of skin that protects the tip) 
 Clitoral hood along the labia minora 
 deeper roots that go into the pelvic floor 
 
 So when you give a clitoral massage, you are always stimulating more than just &quot;the spot&quot;. By including the labia, the area around the entrance to the urethra and the entrance to the vagina, you reach the entire structure - and often achieve more intense orgasms. 
 How to start the clitoris massage correctly 
 A good clitoral massage starts long before you touch the clitoris directly. First create an atmosphere in which she can let herself go: 
 
 pleasant, warm light or candlelight 
 a comfortable position for her (lying on her back with a pillow, legs slightly open) 
 clean hands, short nails, gloves if she likes them 
 always have a suitable lubricant ready - depending on her preferences, e.g. according to this guide:  finding the right lubricant  
 
 Talk to her: What kind of touch does she like? Are there any no-goes? Would she prefer soft, gentle and cuddly or more intense, dominant and powerful? A clitoral massage is all about communication. 
 The first touches 
 Start far away from the clitoris and work your way slowly. Stroke your thighs, bottom, stomach and mons veneris. Let your hands warm up and &quot;get to know&quot; her body. 
 
 Calmly stroke the mound of Venus with the flat of your hand 
 gently knead the outer labia without tugging 
 use pressure rather than tickling strokes 
 
 Observe her breathing, small twitches, a soft sigh - these are all signs that her arousal is increasing. 
 Inner labia &amp;amp; wet area 
 As soon as she is noticeably aroused and some moisture can be seen or felt, you can turn your attention to the labia minora. They have more blood flow and are very sensitive. 
 Glide two well-moistened fingers slowly along the edges of the labia minora. You can: 
 
 stroke upwards from the entrance to the vagina with light pressure 
 gently press the labia against each other 
 make small, circular movements without hitting the clitoris directly 
 
 Touch the clitoris - but not directly 
 Many women find direct, rapid friction on the clitoris too intense or even unpleasant - especially at the beginning. Therefore, when massaging the clitoris: start indirectly. 
 First focus on the clitoral hood and the surrounding area: 
 
 gently run a finger over the foreskin, from bottom to top 
 slowly stroke the area above the clitoris from left to right 
 place two fingers to the right and left of the clitoris and apply light pressure inwards 
 
 You can vary the pressure, increase or decrease the speed slightly - but always in conjunction with her reactions. Feel free to ask her to tell you if she wants &#039;more&#039; or if something is getting too much. This won&#039;t make your clitoral massage any less sensual, but even more intense. 
 Urethral area &amp;amp; G-spot 
 Below the clitoris, between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina, is the area around the entrance to the urethra. It is very rich in nerves and an extremely erogenous zone for many women. 
 Medium, circular pressure can be particularly effective here. Instead of rubbing, place a finger and draw small circles. Again, pay attention to her breathing, twitching in her stomach or a hollow back - these are strong signals of pleasure. 
 If she is wet enough and feels like it, you can insert a finger into her vagina. You will find the famous G-spot, a slightly rougher, spongy area, about a finger&#039;s depth on the front wall (belly side). Now combine 
 
 a finger inside the G-spot with &quot;come-hither&quot; movements 
 a gentle clitoral massage or pressure on the outside of the clitoral hood 
 
 This combination can lead to particularly deep, wave-like orgasms - and in some cases also to squirting. If you&#039;re interested, it&#039;s worth taking a look at the guide  &quot;What is squirting?&quot;.  
 Clitoral massage with toys 
 Toys are an addition to your clitoral massage - not a replacement. Only use them when she is already clearly aroused and her body is &quot;calling&quot; for more stimulation. 
 Popular aids are, for example 
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            <title type="text">Sex games for more fun in bed</title>
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                                            Sex is fun, releases happiness hormones and is important for a healthy relationship. Nevertheless, the sexual desire must be kept awake and actively played with, so that even in longer relationships between the sheets no boredom moves in...
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                  Different sex games and types of games can keep the love life exciting and thrilling. It is important to keep an open mind and to consider your own limits and the limits of your partner. If you are curious and open-minded, you can discover completely new forms of pleasure for yourself.  
 Sex is fun, releases happiness hormones and is important for a healthy relationship. 
  Nevertheless, sexual desire must be kept awake and actively played with  so that boredom does not set in between the sheets even in longer relationships. 
 How you enrich your sex life with your partner is of course up to you. We show you ten different sex games with which you can spice up your sex life and with which you will have a lot of fun together. 
 Sex games No.1: Sextoys 
 Sex toys are a great enrichment for joint sex and can be used in completely different ways. There are sex toys for men and sex toys for women, toys which you can use during sex and those which give you pleasure before and after. The variety in this area is amazing. 
 There are suitable toys for you for virtually every desire and every form of satisfaction. If you incorporate sex toys into your own love play and use them extensively, you will not only get to know your partner and your own body better, but you can also awaken many a desire in a more targeted way. Take advantage of the wide selection of sex toys at Steeltoyz and get involved in a few experiments. 
 You will surely be surprised how intense sex can feel with the right sex toys. Whether it&#039;s a  cock ring , vibrator, masturbator or dildo, your pleasure will decide the selection.&#039; [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;385&quot; ] 
 Sex games no.2: Self-service 
 Most people satisfy themselves. This is neither a secret nor particularly surprising. But have you ever let your partner watch you do it? Not only can satisfying yourself in front of each other be extremely exciting, but it can also show your partner how you like it best. 
 If you watch carefully, you learn a lot about your partner and can improve many things in your own technique. In addition, it is enormously hot to watch the partner, to see his or her pleasure, to hear and, if necessary, to satisfy yourself. 
 Just try it out. It may seem difficult to overcome at first, but the result will more than delight you.   
 Sex games No.3: Dirty Talk 
 Dirty talking is all in the mind. Many of us are inhibited when it comes to this area of pleasure. To let yourself go completely for once, to hurl your own lust at your partner and to reach deep into the box of dirty words is a real overcoming. 
 But if you manage it and simply impose no limits on yourself during sex, you will be more than thrilled by the effect. Feeling dirty and lustful, moaning all the dirty things and cravings in your partner&#039;s face and sounding like you&#039;re in a real porn movie can increase your pleasure considerably. 
 Many men, for example, are thrilled when their partner surprises you with the dirty talk. However, women can also indulge in their lust many times easier if they realize that the partner also gives free rein to his desires with full energy. 
   
 Sex games No.4: On demand 
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 This is a particularly exciting game for your partnership. You agree on a fixed period of time - for example a week - in which your partner must be available to you and your sexual desires. If the desire overcomes you, your partner should be available and satisfy you. 
  Of course, the following applies here:  As soon as one of you has no more desire the game is to be terminated immediately. With this game you can, for example, sweeten each other&#039;s vacations. But it can be enormously pleasurable if you read, for example, an erotic book, this place captivates you, excites you and takes you and you can ask your partner to satisfy you in the process and this is done in no uncertain terms.   
 Sex games #5: Ouch! 
 SM games can be extremely exciting. After all, it doesn&#039;t always have to come to hardcore SM games. But a little tighter grip, the one or other flap or suitable SM sex toys can definitely enrich the sex life. Remember that SM or BDSM does not only consist of painful games.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;400&quot; ] 
 Role-playing, the game of power and submission and many small elements from these areas can definitely enrich your sex life. Try it out and enjoy the wild ride into new realms of sexuality. Who knows, maybe you will learn something new about yourself or your partner. There are so many different types of play in S&amp;amp;M that you can try out and experience that you can discover new possibilities for many evenings together. 
 There are also quite a few SM studios that rent out their premises and thus offer you the opportunity to try out the various elements without having to remodel your own apartment. 
   
 Sex games No.6: Always at your service 
 Again, dominance and submission is an important part of the game. In one evening, you get to be completely pampered by your partner. And not only in a sexual way. A soaking bath, delicious champagne or sparkling wine, a cooked dinner are good ways to demonstrate your partner your own devotion. 
 Massages, caresses and of course sex and satisfaction make this evening a real highlight. The partner should put all their own needs on the back burner for this evening and concentrate entirely on you and your feelings. This game can bring both partners equally much pleasure, as it is no problem to simply take turns on different days.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;415&quot; ] 
 However, if dominant and submissive traits are already present, they can of course be experienced especially intensively during such a game. 
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 Sex Games No.7: Playing with the Elements 
 Heat and cold are not only fun, but can also significantly increase arousal. Ice cubes and candle wax are the easiest way to try this type of game once. If you are blindfolded and waiting to be touched and then confronted with cold or heat, you will find these touches particularly stimulating. 
 For the candles, please use only real SM candles, which have a lower melting temperature and thus cannot cause burns. So you can enjoy the games safely and with much pleasure. These games are also very popular with bondage games combined, because thus the expectation of the partner can be stimulated much more targeted.   [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;395&quot; ] 
 Sex toys made of stainless steel, for example, can also be used at different temperature levels if you bring them to the corresponding desired temperature in a water bath. Even a few degrees difference can influence the effect enormously.   
 Sex games no.8: When you come, I decide 
 Control plays an important role in sex. Giving up this control and letting your partner completely determine your own sexual satisfaction can be damn hard, but also enormously horny. It is to spoil the partner or the partner with the fingers, the mouth or with sex toys so that the climax is imminent. 
 But the redemption may well be a long time coming. Briefly drinking a glass of water or skillfully keeping the partner at this level can become a delicious torment for the passive partner. You alone determine when your partner may come to the redeeming climax. 
 This is one of the precursors to chastity, where all sexual acts are controlled exclusively by the partner. 
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 Sex games #9: Extraordinary places 
 Sex in unusual places can be enormously hot and tempting. The threat of a casual onlooker, the adrenaline coursing through your veins, and the unfamiliar surroundings provide a very special thrill and make this sex especially pleasurable. 
 For the beginning you should choose a place where you do not have to expect many observers. In summer, for example, look for a well-protected area in the forest, which is far enough away from all paths. Of course you can choose many other places, but you should always make sure that you are not too easy to recognize and to see. 
 Even spacious  locker rooms in stores  regularly become play places for many men and women who are looking for that special kick. 
 Sex games no.10: Don&#039;t touch this 
 Just being pampered during sex and foreplay is difficult for many people. As a rule, men and women want to feel their partner, pamper them, caress them and touch them. But this is exactly what you make impossible in this game. 
 Withdraw skillfully, look for good and safe positions or carefully tie up your partner in case of emergency, when he or she just can&#039;t keep their hands off you. This game provides additional  excitement  and can almost drive your partner crazy. 
 When exactly you want to surrender to the hands and body of your partner, you alone can determine. 
   
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 Sex Games No.11: Tease &amp;amp; Denial 
 Tease &amp;amp; Denial allows you to stall your partner. You don&#039;t keep him chaste forever, but you drag it out until he is allowed to come. It&#039;s all about getting your partner really hot, but not letting him get it on right away. Walk past him in suspenders when you know he has no time. 
 Not even a quickie should be possible for him. Just before he has to go to work is a good time. If he comes home afterwards, he will literally pounce on you. You can always be creative with Tease &amp;amp; Denial and always come up with other things to get your partner hot. 
 It is also allowed to give him a chastity cage, so you make sure that he does not secretly get it himself.   
 Sex games no.12: Experience anal pleasure 
 Anal sex in itself is nothing new anymore. However, still not everyone is aware of anilingus. This is a wonderful sex practice that means the same feelings for both sexes. Anilingus is also called rimjob. This is about anus licking. 
 The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings. Let him lick you and you will see what feelings of pleasure this arouses in you. The tongue can be used in different ways. From vigorous licking to penetration with the tip of the tongue, everything is open to you. 
 Anilingus is also a good foreplay for the actual anal intercourse. A lot of trust and cleanliness are of course basic requirements for this sex practice.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;373&quot; ] 
 Sex games no.13: Try your hand at the Kamasutra 
 If you really want variety in bed, try the Kama Sutra. Nowadays you don&#039;t even need the book. There is the internet. This always offers new excerpts from the ever-popular Kamasutra book. The basic requirement is an unprejudiced attitude towards new things and some flexibility. 
 It can be advantageous if a yoga course has been taken beforehand. However, many positions also work if you are just a little flexible. Through the Kamasutra you will get to know your body and that of your partner in a whole new way. You will touch parts of your body that have hardly received any attention before. 
 This is how easy and fast you can rediscover yourself. But be careful, don&#039;t start with the most complicated positions right away. It makes sense to always increase.   
 Sex games No.14: Now the man becomes a woman 
 Your most secret desire is to have sex in women&#039;s clothes? Okay fine, but you are not a woman? Alright, even then you can be granted sex in women&#039;s clothing. Many women even share the passion and want to force your man into women&#039;s clothing. This is called forced feminization and can bring you a whole new fun in bed. 
 For the woman, it is nice to be able to feel the soft, special fabrics as only the man does otherwise. For the man, forced feminization means humiliation. He is a man and they do not wear women&#039;s clothes. You emasculate your partner and this naturally turns him on. He feels comfortable in the clothes, but is a little ashamed. He wants to be loved. How you do this, you can choose.   
 Sex games No.15: Animal wild 
 Let it get animal wild. Whether it&#039;s a predatory cat or a submissive dog, there&#039;s a lot going on in pet play. You can throw yourself into a sexy catsuit and play the wild feline predator. It&#039;s up to your partner to shame you. If you get prickly, he might reach for the whip to tame you.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;399&quot; ] 
 As a submissive little dog, on the other hand, you can have a collar and leash put on you directly. Let them gently scratch your belly or educate you with harsh measures. For pet play, there are not only collars, leashes and costumes, but also appropriate anal plugs with animal tails.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;393&quot; ] 
 The plugs feature fake hair tails, rods or even curly tails on the outer end. Be animal wild in your very own way. 
 
 Sex games no.16: Shoot your own porn 
 Documenting your own love life not only for yourself but also for others can make for even more tingling eroticism. Whether via the well-known video portals or via Onlyfans or cam sites, the possibilities to present yourself are almost endless. 
 Whether you show your own face or hide behind masks and filters is up to you. But joint sex games and hot porn are in the trends and make it even more exciting for couples to diversify your own sex game. 
 Especially if you respond to wishes or comments in the comments and integrate them into your own love game. The supreme discipline in this area is of course live cams, where you can act directly and interactively with your viewers. Whether you then still feel pleasure or whether it is too intimate, everyone must try it out for themselves. 
 Sex games No.17: Role-playing - immerse yourself in another world 
 Hot sex games are very often role plays. These can be sometimes more and sometimes less fancy, but include a whole lot of toys and accessories. It is important that you choose the right equipment for the role plays. Really high heels to match the costume make the sin visible. 
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 Handcuffs and crop make a good figure in many a setting. The nurse in costume, who waits with thermometer and syringe for the next patient, makes the pulse beat up. The demure secretary with glasses, blouse and skirt, which is called to dictation still belongs to the classics in this area. Couples who appreciate not only the setting but also the power imbalance can slip into the most diverse roles. Perfect for those who want a little more variety or like to switch roles. 
 Sex games No.18: From climax to climax 
 Both men and women love to reach orgasm and the relaxation and recovery that comes afterwards. But what if just after reaching the climax you do not stop with the stimulation. Whether it is the penis or the clitoris, further touches can both awaken new desire and be unpleasant. However, if you&#039;re in a position where you can&#039;t or shouldn&#039;t resist, it doesn&#039;t get any easier. 
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 Being further stimulated with handcuffs on the penis and glans or vulva and clitoris can become a tingling torture. Especially by using different sex toys with different stimuli, this can lead to a new climax over and over again. Staggering from orgasm to orgasm is exhausting and gratifying at the same time. And as an active partner, stimulating your partner&#039;s penis or clitoris is as well. 
 
  You see how easy it can be to spice up and enrich your own sex life. Of course, there are no limits to your imagination and our suggestions cover only a very small part of the possibilities. Try to find out which games you enjoy and where your interests lie and then gradually expand your own horizons. 
 Stay curious about each other and your desire will hardly fall asleep. 
  Do you also have great ideas for sex games?  Then write to us! We will then include them. 
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                            <updated>2024-01-20T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Vaginal Fisting - A safe guide</title>
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                 If you are interested in vaginal Fisting, it is important that you are fully informed and pay attention to safety. In this guide you will find step-by-step instructions for Vaginal Fisting as well as important tips for preparation, safety and aftercare. 
 What is fisting? 
 Vaginal Fisting involves penetrating the vagina with the hand or forearm. This can lead to a stretching of the vaginal muscles, which can be felt as particularly intense. The prerequisite for Vaginal Fisting is a sufficient degree of relaxation, moisture and elasticity of the vagina as well as a certain amount of experience and practice. 
 How do I prepare for Vaginal Fisting? 
 Before Vaginal Fisting it is important that you warm up and relax sufficiently. Extensive preparation with plenty of time and patience can minimize the risk of injury. You should also make sure you are sufficiently wet to make penetration more comfortable. Use a water-based lubricant and start stretching slowly. 
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 Step-by-step vaginal instructions Fisting 
 
 Make sure your hands and forearms are clean and that you have short fingernails. 
 Use a water-based lubricant and apply it generously to your hand and forearm. 
 Start stretching slowly, inserting one finger first and then gradually adding more fingers. 
 Use a circular motion to relax the muscles of the vagina. 
 When you are ready, add your forearm and move slowly and carefully. 
 Pay attention to your body&#039;s signals and stop immediately if you feel pain or discomfort. 
 
 Vaginal safety tips Fisting 
 
 To keep vaginal Fisting safe, it&#039;s important that you pay attention to certain things: 
 Always use a lubricant and apply it liberally. 
 Avoid force and be careful not to strain your body. 
 Talk to your partner beforehand about boundaries and communication. 
 Observe your body and watch for pain or discomfort. 
 
 After the vaginal Fisting: Aftercare and regeneration 
 After vaginal Fisting you should take extra good care of your body and give it a chance to regenerate. Use a mild cleanser to clean your vagina and then apply a soothing cream. Avoid sexual intercourse for a few days and make sure you get enough rest. 
 Recommended accessories for vaginal Fisting 
  Fisting there are special accessories that can make the experience safer and more comfortable:  
 1.  Latex gloves:  use latex gloves to improve hygiene and prevent injury. 
 2.  Lubricant:  a water-based lubricant is essential for vaginal Fisting, to make penetration more pleasant and safe. 
 3.  Shower head or water jet:  A shower head or water jet can be used before vaginal Fisting to clean and relax the vaginal muscles. 
 4.  Special dildos or plug training sets:  special dildos or plug training sets can help stretch the vaginal muscles and prepare them for vaginal Fisting. 
  Remember  that you need time, patience and experience to make vaginal Fisting safe and enjoyable. If you have questions or concerns, talk to your partner or seek support from a professional sex coach or therapist. Also, make sure you never feel pressured to do anything you don&#039;t want to or that is uncomfortable for you. Talk to each other about your boundaries and desires, and proceed gently to make the experience safe and enjoyable for everyone involved. 
  In summary,  vaginal Fisting is an intense sexual experience that requires preparation, experience and patience. However, with proper preparation, the right accessories, and attention to important safety information, vaginal Fisting can be made safe and enjoyable.&amp;nbsp; 
 It is also important to  be mindful of your body&#039;s needs and to take care of proper aftercare and recovery. 
 After Vaginal Fisting, you should take extra good care of your body and give it a chance to regenerate. Use a mild cleanser to clean your vagina, and then apply a soothing cream. Avoid sexual intercourse for a few days and make sure you get enough rest. 
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                            <updated>2023-02-28T08:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is a MILF? A comprehensive guide</title>
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                 Hello and welcome! If you want to know what exactly is behind the term  MILF , how it came about and why it is so polarizing, you&#039;ve come to the right place. We&#039;ll take a look at where the term comes from, how it&#039;s used in porn, pop culture and fantasies - and how you can treat it respectfully without reducing women to a cliché. 
 What is a MILF? 
 The abbreviation  MILF  stands for &quot;Mother I&#039;d like to fuck&quot;. The term originally comes from the English-speaking world and was mainly used in porn and pop culture. It refers to women who: 
 
 no longer quite fall into the &quot;girl&quot; category, 
 often (but not necessarily) have children, 
 and have a mature, self-confident, sexually attractive appearance. 
 
 Important:  MILF is not an exact age category . It&#039;s less about numbers on paper and more about how a woman is perceived - mature, desirable, experienced. 
  Tip for beginners:  If the term MILF excites you, first ask yourself: Am I talking about fantasy or real people? Never treat real women like a category.  Tip for advanced users:  Only use terms like MILF if it is clear that they are understood as a compliment - and if in doubt, ask whether your partner likes it.  Tip for experienced users:  Play with role models consciously: Mature woman, younger lover, dominant &quot;mother figure&quot; - but always clearly agreed and respectful. 
 MILF in porn - a category, not a diagnosis 
 In the porn industry, MILF is primarily a  pigeonhole  used to categorize films and actresses. It serves to appeal to certain fantasies: mature women who know what they want, perform lustfully and exude an adult presence. 
 However, there is no uniform definition. Some providers label women in their late 20s as MILFs, others much later. Others pay more attention to the &quot;look&quot;: make-up, clothing, style - less to the actual age. 
 Meaning &amp;amp; differentiation - mother, mature woman or just sexy? 
 The term contains the word &quot;mother&quot; - but  being a mother is not a requirement  to be labeled a MILF. Many porn titles only play with the image of the &quot;hot mom&quot; without the character portrayed even having children. 
 Some therefore see MILF more as a synonym for a  self-confident, mature woman  who is sexually active and knows her pleasure. Others place more value on the mother cliché. The decisive factor is that there is no fixed limit to what &quot;MILF&quot;  has to  be. The term remains subjective. 
 Different interpretations &amp;amp; personal fantasies 
 Because there is no clear definition of age, people interpret MILF very differently: 
 
 For some, MILF begins where the classic &quot;teen&quot; or &quot;college&quot; fantasy ends. 
 For others, a MILF is automatically a woman with children. 
 For still others, it&#039;s a kind of  power fantasy : an experienced, superior woman with a young lover. 
 
 Roles can be exaggerated, especially in fantasies - it&#039;s important that you can  distinguish between fantasy and reality . In bed, many things can be playfully exaggerated, but in real life, people need respect and equality. 
   
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 The charisma of a MILF - maturity is sexy 
 It is often forgotten that there can be a very positive core behind the buzzword MILF: the  eroticism of maturity, experience and self-confidence . Women who are perceived as MILFs often radiate: 
 
 I know my body. 
 I know what I like. 
 I am no longer so easily unsettled. 
 
 This calm, confident manner can be incredibly attractive. Mature sexuality means being able to define boundaries more clearly, express your desires and know your own body better - this often makes encounters more intense. 
 MILF, &quot;Mature&quot; &amp;amp; mature eroticism 
 In the porn and fetish sector, MILF often appears together with the term  &quot;mature&quot; . Both appeal to a similar fantasy: Women who fall out of the typical adolescent pigeonhole and have a special appeal precisely because of this. 
 However,  &quot;mature&quot; does not mean &quot;old&quot;,  but rather emphasizes being an adult. It&#039;s about women who are in life, perhaps have a job, family or long relationship experience - and are still, or precisely because of this, perceived as sexy. 
 Controversies &amp;amp; ethical concerns 
 As popular as the term MILF is, it is not without its problems. Points of criticism include, for example 
 
  Sexist reduction:  women are reduced to their &quot;fuck factor&quot;. 
  Fetishization of mothers:  Motherhood and sexuality are mixed up without asking whether the women concerned want this. 
  Double standard:  While mature women are often desired but at the same time devalued by society, men are celebrated for being &quot;experienced&quot;. 
 
 For some women, &quot;MILF&quot; is a  compliment , for others an  insult . Therefore, never use the term automatically - if in doubt, ask if your partner likes it, or rather speak neutrally about her maturity, charisma or experience. 
 MILF in pop culture &amp;amp; media 
 Films, series, music videos and memes have made the term MILF world-famous. It is often used humorously or exaggeratedly - for example as a &quot;typical neighbor&quot;, &quot;hot mom from school&quot; or &quot;forbidden fantasy&quot;. 
 These images can fuel fantasies, but can also put  pressure on real women  to be &quot;always attractive&quot;. It helps to remain critical here: Pop culture plays with clichés - you get to decide for yourself how you want to see and show yourself. 
 History &amp;amp; development of the term 
 The term MILF probably originated in the English-speaking world in the 1990s and first spread in the porn scene, later through films and the internet. From there, it migrated  into everyday life  as a  slang term . Today, many people are familiar with it, even if they don&#039;t watch porn. 
 Over time, different variations have developed: &quot;Step-MILF&quot;, &quot;Hot Mom&quot;, &quot;Mature Babe&quot; - all variations of the same basic motif:  the mature, sexually attractive woman . 
 Tips for all levels - MILF fantasies step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner:  - Start by exploring your fantasy in your mind or with solo sex. - Observe what exactly excites you: Maturity? Dominance? Experience? - Talk to your partner carefully about the topic without pigeonholing him/her.   Level 2 - Advanced:  - Incorporate the topic into role play: e.g. experienced woman &amp;amp; younger lover. - Use outfits such as elegant lingerie or business looks that emphasize maturity. - Define clear boundaries: What remains fantasy, what do you want to live out in real life?   Level 3 - Experienced:  - Combine your MILF/mature fantasies with other BDSM or power play elements if you want to. - Talk regularly about feelings: Does the &quot;mature role&quot; feel empowering or stressful? - Consciously use language, looks and rituals to emphasize the role - and also clearly leave it again. 
 Living MILF fantasies respectfully 
 Whether you like the term MILF or not - what matters is how you treat yourself and others. Here are a few guiding principles to help you make your fantasies pleasurable and respectful: 
 
  Self-determination:  every woman decides for herself what she wants to be called. 
  Consensuality : Role play and names are only erotic if everyone involved agrees. 
  Clarity:  Distinguish between porn fantasies and real expectations of real people. 
 
 A woman is always more than just her &quot;label&quot;. Maturity can be sensual, powerful and incredibly sexy - without you reducing it to three letters. 
  Conclusion:  MILF is a term that originated in porn, but is now deeply rooted in pop culture and fantasy. It usually describes mature, self-confident women with sexual charisma - but remains vague and often cliché-ridden. If you use the term or find yourself in it, you can consciously and self-determinedly fill it with content: as a symbol that mature sexuality can be just as passionate, playful and exciting as any other. 
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                            <updated>2023-01-31T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Pocket pussy - the ideal companion for on the go</title>
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                                            You are on the road a lot and still want to satisfy your sexual needs? Then a pocket pussy is just the thing for you! In this blog post we want to tell you everything you need to know about the pocket pussy and show you how you can use it best.
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 You are on the road a lot and still want to satisfy your sexual needs? Then a pocket pussy is just the thing for you! In this blog post we want to tell you everything you need to know about the pocket pussy and show you how you can best use it. 
 What is a pocket pussy? 
 A pocket pussy is an erotic toy designed primarily for men. It is a small, portable pussy that you can take with you anywhere. Pocket pussies come in a variety of designs and materials, such as silicone, cyberskin, or TPE. 
 How do I use a pocket pussy? 
 Using a pocket pussy is quite simple. First of all, you should clean it thoroughly before using it. After that, you can wet it with some lubricant and then put your penis inside. You can then use it like a normal pussy and enjoy yourself while masturbating. 
 What should I look for when buying a pocket pussy? 
 If you have decided to buy a pocket pussy, there are a few things you should consider. First of all, you should make sure that the material is safe and harmless to the body. Also, you should make sure that the pocket pussy comes from a reputable manufacturer and that it is of good quality. 
 Conclusion: Pocket pussy - the ideal companion for on the road 
 A pocket pussy is a practical and uncomplicated toy for men who travel a lot. It allows you to live out your sexuality on the go and make masturbation more exciting and adventurous. However, it is important that when you buy it, you make sure that the pocket pussy comes from a reputable manufacturer and that it is safe and harmless to the body. 
 
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                            <updated>2023-01-24T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Labia spreader: The application step by step</title>
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 You have decided to try out a labia spreader - perhaps out of curiosity, perhaps out of lust, perhaps out of a desire to take a new, unobstructed look at your vulva. This small, intimate tool can intensify your own body awareness, make access easier and allow erotic games to unfold in a completely new way. To ensure that safety, well-being and pleasure are the focus at all times, this guide will accompany you step by step - respectfully, sensitively and sensually. 
 What is a labia spreader? 
 A labia spreader gently holds the outer or inner labia open. Originally used in sexual medicine, it is now also a popular toy for intimate exploration, BDSM elements and aesthetic play. It is particularly suitable for: 
 
 intensive self-examination &amp;amp; conscious body experience 
 targeted stimulation - manually or with toys 
 oral games and deeper accessibility 
 gynecophilic fetish scenarios 
 Photo shoots &amp;amp; live shows in the BDSM scene 
 
  Suitable categories to browse:    BDSM &amp;amp; Bondage    Role Play    Toy Cleaner &amp;amp; Care  
 How to choose the right labia spreader? 
 To ensure your experience remains pleasant and safe, it&#039;s worth choosing carefully. Pay attention to: 
 
  Size &amp;amp; opening width:  Choose an entry-level size if you are unsure. Spreaders that are too large can be overwhelming at first. 
  Material:  Body-friendly metals, smooth plastics or medical silicone are ideal - easy to clean and stable. 
  Adjustability:  Models with a screw mechanism or flexible brackets allow controlled stretching. 
  Special functions:  Some spreaders can be combined with restraints, vibrators or restraint systems for BDSM play. 
 
 Preparation: hygiene &amp;amp; safety 
 Calm, relaxed preparation creates confidence in your own body and increases pleasure. Note before use: 
 
  Cleaning the device:  wash thoroughly with water and mild soap before each use; metallic models can be sterilized. 
  Body hygiene:  Gentle cleaning of the vulva increases comfort and safety. 
  Plenty of lubricant : It is best to use water-based lubricant - it ensures suppleness and protects sensitive skin. 
  Relaxation : A few deep breaths, some time for yourself - this facilitates comfortable insertion and spreading. 
 
  Useful categories:    Lubricants    Handcuffs    ball gag  
 How to use a labia spreader? 
 Adopt a position that feels natural to you: lying on your back with your legs apart, knees drawn up or a soft cushion under your pelvis. Many also find the squatting position very intuitive. 
 
  Apply lubricant:  Both on the labia and on the contact surfaces of the spreader. 
  Apply gently:  Place the stirrups on both sides; they should rest comfortably and without pressure. 
  Spread slowly:  Increase the opening in small steps. A slight stretch may feel intense - pain, on the other hand, is a stop signal. 
  Check the position:  Is the spreader stable? Is anything pressing or rubbing? Adjust if necessary. 
  Pleasurable use:  Enjoy the unobstructed view, improved sensuality and easy access - whether for oral sex, fingering, toys or visual play. 
 
 Tips for erotic use 
 
  Intense foreplay : The open vulva can make oral sex deeper, more direct and more exciting. 
  Mirror games:  Discover yourself from new perspectives - a moment all to yourself. 
  BDSM combinations:  Restraints, eye masks or fixed positions can intensify the feeling of surrender. 
  Solo games:  Both hands remain free - ideal for vibrators or targeted stimulation. 
 
  For even more intense play:    Clit &amp;amp; breast suckers    Spanking toys    Clinic play accessories  
 Care and storage 
 Gentle care is essential after play to keep your toy hygienic and safe for a long time: 
 
 Clean with water and mild soap or - if possible - sterilize. 
 Allow to dry completely before storing. 
 Check for damage: Cracks, rough spots or loose screws mean replacement. 
 Store dust-free - ideally in a toy box or cloth bag. 
 
 When should you be careful? 
 
 In case of pain, severe burning or unusual sensations 
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            <title type="text">How does a footjob work? - Guide &amp; Tips</title>
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                                            The footjob is particularly popular both in many films and in the sexual lives of many couples. However, this type of sex is by no means just for foot fetishists, but is also loved by many couples without this particular fetish.
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  Footjobs  are an integral part of films, fantasies and the sexuality of many couples - and are by no means just something for pronounced  foot fetishists . In fact, many people are attracted to playing with their feet because it can be unusual, playful and incredibly sensual. 
 During a footjob, the woman (or the active partner with the feet) can be both tender and passively pleasurable as well as very active, demanding and dominant. As always,  communication, mutual consent and a loving focus on the needs of both sides  are important. 
 
  More inspiration around lust &amp;amp; feet:    Erotic games &amp;amp; sex games    Fetish guide &amp;amp; inspiration  
 
 What makes a footjob so special? 
 For many, the foot is not one of the classic erotic zones - which is precisely why playing with it can be so exciting. For one thing, a footjob often involves a  gentle taboo : Feet are considered a &quot;hidden&quot; area of the body that we rarely focus on so openly. This feeling of &quot;you don&#039;t actually do that&quot; can be extremely tingling. 
 On the other hand, brain researchers have shown that the areas for feet and genitals are very close to each other in the brain. It is therefore not surprising that  touching the feet or with the feet  can trigger pleasurable reactions - even without a pronounced foot fetish. 
  Even stroking the leg under the table  with your foot can be a kind of &quot;mini footjob&quot;: discreet, playful, secretly arousing. In public, it is precisely this concealment that creates a very special attraction - ideal for small, quiet role-playing games for two. 
   
 If you stimulate a penis or testicles with your feet, this effect is intensified: the stimulation is different to that with your hand or mouth - unusual, softer or rougher, slippery with oil, playful with your toes.  Even if your partner doesn&#039;t find feet explicitly &quot;erotic&quot; , a lovingly performed footjob can surprise them - in the best sense of the word. 
 You can use  massage oil  or  lubricant  for a particularly pleasant glide. This makes every contact softer, slower and more intense - and the friction more pleasant. 
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 Why is a footjob so appealing for men? 
 In addition to the proximity of the brain areas, there are many very practical reasons why a footjob is so appealing to men: 
 
  Unusual sensation:  feet don&#039;t &quot;grip&quot; like hands. The stimulation is mainly created by pressure, friction, rhythm and the shape of the feet. 
  A variety of surfaces:  The ball of the foot, heel, toes, back of the foot - all of these feel different on the penis and can be varied. 
  Visual appeal:  Many men find well-groomed feet, painted nails or nylons extremely erotic - the sight increases arousal. 
  Power &amp;amp; surrender fantasies:  Some love the idea of lying &quot;at the feet&quot; of their partner; others enjoy having their body played with in this unusual way. 
 
 With oil or lubricant, the feet can glide over the penis and testicles without creating too much friction. This  gently gliding friction  is often experienced as very intense. Many men can easily be brought to orgasm with a well-executed footjob. 
 And even if you don&#039;t have an explicit foot fetish, a footjob can open up a whole new facet of your pleasure - it&#039;s definitely worth giving it a try. 
 
  For velvety-soft, gliding foot play:    Massage oils    Lubricating gels  
 
 How to prepare for a footjob 
 For many, a footjob is only really relaxing if everything is  clean and well-groomed  - after all, your feet come very close to an intimate zone. 
 Important steps: 
 
  Wash your feet  thoroughly with warm water and a little soap before the footjob. 
  Take care of your skin:  Use a little foot cream if necessary to make the skin soft but not slippery and greasy. 
  Trim toenails and toenails:  File off sharp edges to avoid scratches. 
  Look the way you want:  painted nails, toe rings, anklets - if your partner is into it, the sight alone can be incredibly attractive. 
 
 The man can also prepare himself: Wash the penis and testicles, possibly shorten the hair a little so that oil and lubricant are distributed more comfortably.  The more comfortable you feel in each other&#039;s bodies, the more relaxed the game will be.  
 Communication &amp;amp; safety: Talk before the feet get going 
 Before you try a footjob for the first time, it helps to have a short, open conversation: 
 
 &quot;How do you generally feel about feet - curious, skeptical, averse?&quot; 
 &quot;Can I also touch your testicles if you give me a signal?&quot; 
 &quot;How fast can I go, how hard do you like the pressure?&quot; 
 
 A  clear stop signal  is particularly important for sensitive areas such as the testicles or anus. You can agree, for example,&amp;nbsp;B: 
 
  &quot;Stop&quot;  or &quot;Pause&quot; as an immediate signal to stop the movement. 
 A hand signal (e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. tap your foot lightly) if you deliberately don&#039;t want to talk. 
 
 This way you can relax while playing because you know that  if it gets too intense for him, he will let you know . And he can enjoy himself uninhibitedly because you have clearly shown that you respect boundaries. 
 How does a footjob work? Basic positions for beginners 
 There are countless ways in which you can pleasure a penis with your feet. Simple positions in which you can control your legs well and the man has stability will help you get started. 
 1. You lie down, he kneels - the &#039;classic&#039; position 
 Lie comfortably on your back with your hips slightly elevated (e.g.&amp;nbsp;with a pillow). Your partner kneels at your feet. 
  Carefully take your partner&#039;s penis between your feet.  
 Now he can  move back and forth between your feet  while you vary the pressure with the inside of your feet. You can: 
 
 gently press together with the soles of your feet, 
 change the rhythm (slow, faster, pauses), 
 occasionally move your toes a little to provide additional stimulation. 
 
 With enough oil or lubricant, he will enjoy a gliding, warm feeling - very different from the hand. 
 2. Inverted missionary position 
 Lie on your stomach and bend your lower legs so that your feet are pointing upwards. Your partner positions themselves behind you or to the side and wedges their penis  between the soles of your feet . 
 He can then move in a similar way to the missionary position while you control the pressure with your feet. This position is particularly comfortable if you don&#039;t want to lift your feet permanently. 
 3. You sit behind him - feet wrapped around him 
 Sit behind your partner when they are sitting or half lying down. Wrap your legs around his body so that you can easily  reach his penis from the front or from below  with your feet. Now you can: 
 
 stroke from bottom to top with the sole of your foot, 
 &quot;pinch&quot; the penis and shaft with both feet and stroke, 
 Vary the speed and intensity while you massage his shoulders or back with your hands. 
 
  Basically, there are hardly any limits to the footjob.  
 Try out different angles, pressure levels and movements. Sometimes with just one foot, sometimes with both, with the sole, with the instep or just with the toes - every little change can feel completely different. 
 
  For playful variety:    Erotic games &amp;amp; couple toys  
 
 Sensitive zones: Testicles &amp;amp; anus during a footjob 
 If your partner is open to it, you can  also include other erogenous zones  during a footjob - but with a lot of caution. 
 Stimulate the testicles with your feet 
 The testicles are extremely sensitive. A careless movement that is too fast or too firm can suddenly be very painful. If you are experimenting here: 
 
 Discuss beforehand whether he even wants this. 
 Use lots of lubricant and  minimal pressure . 
 Work with gentle rolling and stroking rather than firm clamping. 
 Stop immediately if his body tenses up or he gives the impression that it&#039;s getting uncomfortable. 
 
 Exploring the anus with your foot 
 Some men enjoy anal stimulation - even in combination with a footjob. Hygiene and lubricant are particularly important here. For example, if you  gently stroke the anus  with a toe  or penetrate minimally ,&amp;nbsp;the following should always apply: 
 
 Only after a clear agreement and only if you both feel comfortable. 
 Always have fresh, clean feet - and ideally a condom over the toe or a special toy. 
 Lots of lubricant, slow movements, clear focus on his signals. 
 
 If you mix penis and anal stimulation, make sure you  don&#039;t just go back to the penis  without separating the contact hygienically - otherwise germs can be transmitted. 
 Nylon footjob - a particularly erotic variation 
 Would you like to intensify the footjob even more? Then try a  nylon footjob . Many men find legs and feet in nylons highly erotic anyway. Then there&#039;s the special feel of the material:  smooth, slightly rough, shimmering . 
 When your feet in nylons glide over your penis or testicles, several stimuli work simultaneously: 
 
 The visual kick - legs and feet in fine fabric. 
 The feeling of the nylon surface, which feels different to bare skin. 
 The combination with oil or lubricant, which makes the friction even more exciting. 
 
 Play with the intensity: once barefoot, once in nylons - many men report that both variations feel  completely different and each incredibly arousing in its own way . 
 Specific role-play ideas with footjobs (level 1-3) 
 Footjobs can be wonderfully integrated into role play - from tender and playful to clearly dominant dynamics. These ideas will help you try out different levels of intensity. 
 Level 1 - gentle &amp;amp; playful 
 
  Under-the-table flirting:  You&#039;re sitting together at dinner or movie night. You slowly stroke your foot up his leg, play with his calf, occasionally touch his crotch very lightly - without much pressure, more as a teasing announcement. 
  Cuddling footjob in bed:  you lie closely together, kissing. At the same time, you playfully place one foot on his penis, caressing it at first before gently encircling it with both feet. This is more about closeness than &quot;performance&quot;. 
  Spa ritual:  You massage his feet and legs first, then he wants &quot;something back&quot; - you use your feet to gently tease him by his trousers before you decide together how far you want to go. 
 
 Level 2 - deliberately erotic &amp;amp; slightly dominant 
 
  &quot;At my feet&quot;:  He sits or kneels at the end of the bed, you lean back and let him enjoy the sight of you. You decide when he can kiss your foot and reward obedience with gentle, gliding movements of the soles of your feet on his penis. 
  Reward by task:  You give him a small task (e.g.&amp;nbsp;massage you or do something around the house). Only when it has been completed to your satisfaction is he allowed to lie down at your feet - and you decide whether the footjob should lead to an orgasm or just serve as a &quot;tease&quot;. 
  Nylon evening:  You deliberately put on nylons and let him think about it all evening. Only in bed can he touch your feet - and you use the nylon footjob as targeted, rhythmic stimulation where you set the tempo and pressure. 
 
 Level 3 - for experienced &amp;amp; fetish fans 
 
  Feet as the &quot;only reward&quot;:  You agree that he will only be stimulated by footjobs for a while - no hand, no mouth. He knows that when he comes, it will be at your feet. This increases foot focus, devotion and fetish pleasure. 
  Footjob &amp;amp; light dominance games:  He lies naked on the floor or on the bed, you remain (partially) clothed. He may only look at you if you allow it. You use your feet to stimulate his penis and testicles - and deliberately stop just before orgasm to build up the tension further. 
  Combination with chastity or cum control:  After an intense footjob, put a Chastity cage on him or forbid him to orgasm. The footjob becomes a &quot;torture of pleasure&quot; - only recommended with a lot of confidence and experience with orgasm control. 
 
 Tips for him &amp;amp; her - so that the footjob is great for both of you 
 For her (active feet) 
 
 Start slowly and gradually increase. 
 Watch his reactions - breathing, volume, body tension. 
 Dare to ask: &quot;That good? More, less, slower?&quot; 
 Combine the footjob with eye contact, smiling or - if it suits you - dominant instructions. 
 
 For him (receiving part) 
 
 Be honest about how much you like feet - from &quot;let&#039;s try it&quot; to &quot;my biggest kick&quot;. 
 Give clear feedback instead of biting through if something is uncomfortable. 
 Enjoy  being touched in a different way than usual  - without expectations, just curious. 
 
 Footjob, fetish &amp;amp; fantasy 
 For some, a footjob is simply an exciting change of pace. For others, it is part of a real  foot fetish  in which feet, shoes, nylons or stockings play a central role. Both are okay - fetish or no fetish, the important thing is that you treat each other respectfully and openly. 
 You may find that you like more than you thought: the smell of freshly showered feet, the feeling of nylons on your skin, the playful &quot;lying at your feet&quot;. You can share all of this with your partner - without pressure, without judgment. 
 And if you realize that you want more, you can combine footjobs wonderfully with other practices - e.g. with  handjobs, oral sex, chastity or light domination games .&amp;nbsp; 
  Conclusion:  A footjob is much more than &quot;just&quot; a game with your feet. It can be a tender ritual, a dominant statement or a secret little adventure under the table - as long as you communicate openly, pay attention to hygiene and listen to each other, this practice can give you both a completely new quality of pleasure. 
 At Steeltoyz, you&#039;ll find the right companions for this - from high-quality  massage oils  and slippery  lubricants  to  erotic games  with which you can explore your fantasies step by step. 
 
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            <title type="text">Blood penis vs. meat penis - what&#039;s the difference?</title>
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                                            Women should not draw conclusions about the size of a man&#039;s erection from the size of his flaccid penis. Because there are two different penis shapes, which act and react very differently...
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 Blood penis or flesh penis - two terms that are often used but rarely really understood. Yet they vividly describe how different a penis can look when flaccid and erect. This guide explains the differences clearly, respectfully and with a touch of sensual curiosity - so that you can better understand and enjoy body diversity. 
 What is the difference between a blood penis and a meat penis? 
 A glance at the underwear usually reveals the flaccid size - but deducing the subsequent erection size from this often leads to misjudgements. This is because the two penis shapes react differently to arousal, grow at different rates and look different - without this saying anything about pleasure, function or sexual ability. 
 The terms are widely used, but many people rarely classify them correctly. In fact, they describe very vividly how both types behave when pleasure comes into play. 
 The meat penis 
 Around 20&amp;nbsp;% of men have a meat penis. Even when flaccid, it appears large, plump and present. You could say it makes an impression before arousal even arises. 
 During an erection, it hardens and grows a little, but often remains close to its original size. Anyone expecting a strong &quot;pumping up&quot; is sometimes surprised - or disappointed. This is because an impressive resting penis does not automatically mean an exceptionally large erection. 
 The blood penis 
 Around 80&amp;nbsp;% of all men have a blood penis. When flaccid, it is usually rather inconspicuous, smaller and attracts little attention. However, it has a special ability: the ability to grow. 
 When aroused, it fills intensively with blood and its erectile tissue expands considerably. The result can be a significant increase in length and girth - sometimes so much so that an erect blood penis far outstrips a meat penis from the same group of people. 
 The extent of the change is mainly genetically determined. The flaccid size therefore hardly allows any conclusions to be drawn about the later erection size. 
 Functional differences between blood penis and meat penis 
 Even if the growth is different, both penis shapes function equally well during sex. Both can develop stable erections, both can be used with pleasure and both can provide fulfilling sexual experiences. 
 Functional differences depend more on the individual anatomy, state of health and arousal - not on whether it is a blood or flesh penis. It is therefore impossible to say for sure which type is present when erect. [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;417&quot; ] 
  Matching categories for this topic:    cockring    Penis pumps    CBT-Toys  
 Aesthetic differences between a blood penis and a meat penis 
 Many people find a meat penis particularly attractive when flaccid, as it is visibly present. For some, this visual appeal is an advantage - a &quot;presentable&quot; penis that immediately attracts attention. 
 However, the blood penis compensates for this with its strong erectile ability. Some men with a meat penis are amazed when they see the size of a blood penis in an erect state. Both variants have their own aesthetic appeal - and both are perfectly normal. 
 Video: Blood penis vs. meat penis - clearly explained 
 If you want to see the differences even more clearly and easily understandably, the following video provides a compact, clear overview. 
 Conclusion: Two forms, one goal - pleasure 
 Blood penises and meat penises differ primarily in terms of appearance and growth behavior. But functionally, they are in no way inferior. Both are completely normal, both can provide fulfilling sexual experiences - and both show how diverse the male body can be. 
 The important thing is that neither type is &quot;better&quot; or &quot;worse&quot; - they are simply different. And that&#039;s exactly what makes sexuality so exciting. 
 
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            <title type="text">The Creampie: What is it anyway?</title>
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                                            Creampie refers to the clearly visible leakage of semen from the vagina or anus after sex. Both women and men often find this sight erotic and exciting. We&#039;ll show you how to show off your creampie to its best advantage.
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                 Creampie refers to the clearly visible leakage of semen from the vagina or anus after sex. Both women and men often find this sight erotic and exciting. We&#039;ll show you how to show off your creampie to its best advantage. 
 The Creampie 
 Basically, the creampie is about letting the man&#039;s sperm run out of the partner&#039;s used body opening after unprotected intercourse. 
 So a creampie can be done as an  anal creampie  as well as vaginally and is enormously arousing for many men and some women. The term creampie - meaning cream pie - is used in many ways, especially in the porn scene, to describe a particular sexual practice. 
 This is especially noticeable in the  porn industry . Here the creampie respectively the clear representation of the same takes a very special place. Many men and also a not too small percentage of women enjoy the depiction of one in movies. 
 A special extreme can be found where several men in a session unprotected with a woman and thus an enormous amount of sperm can flow out of the woman. Such practices are rather rare in reality, but can round off many a session and evening excellently. 
 So it may come as no surprise that this form of sexual pleasure is also enormously popular in bedrooms around the globe and is perceived by many couples as an important part of sexual life. 
 Showing off the creampie to its best advantage 
 It is especially beautiful when it is very visible. However, this means that a great arousal should be present in the lady. Because with the arousal, the natural moisture is also significantly increased, which particularly strengthens the flowing out of the sperm and thus the creampie. 
 This can often be achieved either through the use of various sex toys or certain sexual practices. In addition, a creampie is particularly visible after anal intercourse, as the contrast is often strongest here. As a woman, you can clearly influence the emergence of the creampie through targeted pressing. 
 If you position yourself so that your partner has a good and direct view of your orifices, he can enjoy the sight of the creampie in all its glory and let it excite him further. 
 Enjoy the creampie with your partner 
 Experiencing a creampie is exciting for many men and women alike. However, the prerequisite here is that no  condoms  are used. So you should look for a partner for the creampie, which is also healthy. 
 Also the contraception must be done otherwise. Because the sperm running out of the body opening does not mean that a pregnancy can be prevented. 
 The creampie is particularly intense and easily visible either during  anal intercourse  or when the woman is very aroused due to the use of sex toys or by the act itself. In this way, the creampie comes into its own particularly well. 
 However, it can often happen that the creampie does not look impressive or clear enough. Because the amount of sperm is completely different from man to man. Nevertheless, you do not have to do without an impressive creampie. 
 Even if you&#039;ve only had safe sex with your partner so far and don&#039;t want to change that, you can resort to various options. 
 For example, the industry has artificial sperm on offer, which can not only imitate such a creampie excellently, but also serves as an excellent lubricant. 
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 So you can use the artificial sperm not only for various games, but also benefit from its appearance and its properties several times. Simply use the artificial sperm in sufficient quantity during sex - whether anal or vaginal - and benefit from an impressive creampie. 
 As a woman, you can even observe exactly how your partner reacts to the sight without having to worry about the bed linen. Because unlike a real creampie, the creampie made of artificial sperm is water-soluble and therefore easy to remove. 
 The bed linen is spared and there are no unsightly and very sticky stains. In addition, a creampie with such artificial sperm naturally offers the same safety that safer sex can offer you. 
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 Especially with unknown partners or to protect against pregnancy, an artificial creampie can be a great and easy way not to have to give up this form of sexuality. 
 If you are thinking about experiencing a creampie yourself or surprising your partner with such a sight, you can either wait for the right opportunity or get your partner going directly with the artificial sperm. 
  Just try it and show your partner how great a creampie can look with you.  
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            <title type="text">What is FFM sex? Threesome with two women and one man explained</title>
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                                            FFM sex means the joint sexual act between two women and a man. FFM sex is seen as particularly desirable by men, although many women also benefit from this constellation. The women often have to interact more with each other so that everyone gets their money&#039;s worth during FF...
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  FFM sex  - two women, one man, many fantasies. For some it&#039;s the ultimate threesome dream, for others it&#039;s an exciting opportunity to discover new aspects of their own sexuality. However, it takes more than just lust to turn a fantasy into a beautiful, consensual and safe FFM threesome: communication, boundaries, safe sex and a bit of planning. 
 In this guide, you&#039;ll find out exactly what FFM sex means, how it differs from other threesome constellations and how you can organize a threesome so that everyone involved really gets their money&#039;s worth - without drama, without pressure and with a lot of respect for each other. 
  More about threesomes, relationships &amp;amp; open sexuality: 
 
  What is MMF sex?  
  Beginner&#039;s guide for your first visit to a swingers club  
  Guide to sex meetings - everything you need to know  
  Polyamory &amp;amp; open relationships  
 
 
 Table of contents 
 
  What is FFM sex?  
  Why FFM sex can be so appealing  
  Planning FFM sex safely: communication, boundaries, consensus  
  How do you find the third person?  
  FFM sex in practice: roles &amp;amp; scenarios  
  Tips for all levels - FFM sex step by step  
  Role play step by step - depending on the level  
  Feelings, jealousy &amp;amp; aftercare  
 
 What does FFM sex mean? 
 The abbreviation  FFM  stands for &quot;Female Female Male&quot; - i.e. two women and one man. In  FFM sex , all three people have sexual contact together, often as part of a threesome. In many fantasies, the man takes center stage and is pampered by both women - in reality, however, the dynamics can be much more varied. 
 It is also important to distinguish this from other constellations: 
 
  FFM sex:  one man with two women, possibly with erotic contact between the women 
  MMF sex:  two men and one woman - there is a separate guide on this under  &quot;What is MMF sex?&quot;  
 
 FFM sex often involves  same-sex play  between the two women - such as mutual oral stimulation or the use of toys. This allows both women to stay aroused while the man is allowed to relax in between. 
  Tip for beginners:  First ask yourselves honestly: Does FFM sex only appeal to us as a fantasy or really in reality? An open conversation about desires, insecurities and jealousy is the best basis before you even start looking for a third person. 
 Why FFM sex can be so appealing 
 The appeal of  FFM sex  is very different for many people: 
 
  For men:  the thought of being desired and touched by two women at the same time is a common fantasy classic. 
  For women:  The opportunity to have curious same-sex experiences - without having to stick a label on your orientation straight away. 
  For couples:  A shared erotic adventure that can strengthen closeness and trust if it is well prepared. 
 
 FFM sex can also allow you to try out different roles: a more passive, pampered person at the center, a more active, guiding person, plus a third person who sometimes supports and sometimes is the focus. This turns &quot;just a threesome&quot; into a multi-layered play of power and pleasure. 
 Planning FFM sex safely: communication, boundaries, consensus 
 Without clear agreements, FFM sex can quickly become complicated. With honest communication, however, it becomes a safe and intense experience. 
 Express wishes &amp;amp; no-goes 
 Before you talk to a third person, clarify things in pairs (as a couple) or in threesomes: 
 
 What fantasies do you each have? What particularly excites you? 
 Which body parts and practices are taboo? 
 Is kissing allowed - even between the women? Is anal sex allowed? 
 How important is it for the couple to keep to themselves in between? 
 
 Also agree on rules for afterwards: Is it one-off FFM sex or do you possibly want to meet one person regularly? Can you text alone or only in group chats? 
 Safewords &amp;amp; safer sex 
 The same applies to supposedly &quot;harmless&quot; threesomes:  consensus is the basis . Safe words or clear stop signals help if someone feels uncomfortable in the middle of the situation or boundaries are reached. 
 
 Agree on a word such as &quot;stop&quot; or the traffic light system (&quot;red&quot; = stop immediately). 
 Use condoms and gloves if necessary, especially when changing partners. 
 Talk about test results (e.g. STI tests) and limits for bodily fluids beforehand. 
 
 Especially when toys come into play - e.g. vibrators, anal toys or strap-on dildos - these should be thoroughly cleaned or covered with condoms. You can find inspiration in categories such as  classic vibrators  or  strap-on dildos . 
 How do you find the third person? 
 Finding the &quot;right&quot; third person is often the most difficult part of  FFM sex . It is important not to persuade or &quot;use&quot; anyone, but to meet at eye level. 
 Possible ways: 
 
  Circle of friends:  Very tricky - here you need a lot of tact and clear agreements so as not to jeopardize friendships. 
  Online platforms &amp;amp; dating apps:  Many apps offer threesome or couple profiles. Pay attention to honest profiles, respect in the chat and clear communication. 
  Swinger clubs &amp;amp; play parties:  Ideal for meeting people who are open to threesomes. You can find tips for your first visit in the  swingers club beginner&#039;s guide . 
 
 Very important: Everyone involved should like each other - not just the man and the two women. Chemistry, respect and humor are at least as important in FFM sex as physical attraction. 
  Advanced tip:  Create a small &quot;profile&quot; together: What characteristics should the third person have (age, experience, type of relationship)? This will help you avoid spontaneously inviting someone who doesn&#039;t suit you at all. 
 FFM sex in practice: roles &amp;amp; scenarios 
 Once you have found each other, discussed the rules and ensured safe sex, it&#039;s time to put it into practice.  FFM sex  can look very different - it doesn&#039;t always have to be the image from porn where the man is constantly the center of attention. 
 1. Man at the center 
 Perhaps the classic version: both women focus heavily on the man, take turns or spoil him together. The women can interact with each other - but they don&#039;t have to. Important: No one should have the feeling of being an &quot;extra&quot;. 
 2. One woman at the center 
 It gets exciting when one of the women is the center of attention. Both other people pamper her, taking turns with oral sex, touching or toys - for example with a dildo or a  strapon dildo. This creates a very female-centered FFM dynamic.  
 3. Focus on the interaction between women 
 Many fantasies revolve around the encounter between the two women: Kissing, caressing, playing together with vibrators or strap-on dildos. The man can watch, guide, touch or join in later. Toys from categories such as  classic vibrators  help to stimulate both women at the same time. 
 Which option you choose depends on your preferences - whatever is fun, safe and consensual for both of you is allowed. 
 Tips for all levels - FFM sex step by step 
 So that you don&#039;t get overwhelmed, it can help to think about  FFM sex  in stages - from the initial approach to complex threesome dynamics. 
 Level 1 - Curious, but cautious 
 
 Share fantasies as a couple, perhaps watch FFM pornography together and talk about what appeals to you. 
 Flirtatious chats or video calls with a potential third person without arranging a direct sex date. 
 First meeting in a neutral place (café, bar), without any pressure to have sex. 
 
 Level 2 - First FFM threesome 
 
 Establish clear rules about kissing, penetration, oral sex and toys beforehand. 
 Plan safe sex: condoms, lubricant, possibly a fresh test. 
 Threesome in a familiar environment (e.g. at the home of one of the participants), without alcohol or drug excesses, so that everyone agrees in their right mind. 
 
 Level 3 - Repeated or fixed FFM constellations 
 
 Regular meetings with the same third person or inclusion in an open relationship structure. 
 More complex scenarios, e.g. fixed roles (main partner, second partner, &quot;guest&quot;). 
 Clarity about feelings: What does the relationship mean for each person? How do you deal with jealousy? 
 
  Tip for those with experience:  If FFM sex is a regular occurrence, consciously plan &quot;couple evenings&quot; for just the two of you. This way, the basic relationship remains stable and no one feels like they are being replaced by the threesome constellation. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 FFM sex can be wonderfully combined with light role-playing games - without it having to get complicated. Important: Everything remains play, no one is pressured into anything. 
 
  Level 1 - &quot;Spontaneous visit&quot;:  The third person supposedly comes over &quot;by chance&quot; (agreed beforehand, of course). First a glass of wine, then a hand on the thigh, kisses, at some point all three are in bed. 
  Level 2 - &quot;teacher &amp;amp; pupil&quot;:  One woman takes on the role of the experienced lover who instructs the other on how to please the man - and both enjoy his reactions. Ideal if you like playful dominance. 
  Level 3 - &quot;Fixed ritual&quot;:  The third person has a clear role - e.g. as a &quot;guest&quot; or &quot;maid&quot; who is regularly invited. Fixed rules and ritual times help to keep this constellation stable and emotionally secure. 
 
 Feelings, jealousy &amp;amp; aftercare 
 FFM sex is not only physically intense, but also emotionally intense. Even if everyone is enthusiastic beforehand, unexpected feelings can arise afterwards - insecurity, jealousy, perhaps even sadness. 
 Debriefing &amp;amp; catching up 
 
 Deliberately plan time to talk after the threesome - whether as a couple or a threesome. 
 Ask: &quot;What was nice? What was too much? What would you want differently next time?&quot; 
 Show each other that your relationship is more than just sex: cuddling, eye contact, loving words. 
 
 Couples in particular should consciously strengthen their relationship afterwards: joint activities, small acts of affection in everyday life, perhaps a later conversation about unanswered questions. 
 If you notice that FFM sex triggers old wounds or causes lasting jealousy, it is perfectly legitimate to take a break or give it up altogether. Erotic experiments are not a must, but an offer - the important thing is that you feel safe, respected and connected in your sexuality. 
  Conclusion:   FFM sex  can be an exciting, sensual adventure if you talk to each other honestly, define boundaries and pay attention to safe sex. Then the fantasy of a threesome becomes a real experience that not only arouses desire, but can also bring you closer together emotionally. 
 
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                            <updated>2019-08-14T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sperm - this is a topic that divides opinions</title>
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                                            Again and again you read and hear questions about sperm. Swallowing or spitting out, the change of taste through food and also different sperm games are always a topic We would like to answer the most important questions about sperm for you and show you what is possible with s...
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                 Again and again you read and hear questions about sperm. Swallowing or spitting out, the change of taste through food and also various sperm games are always a topic. 
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 We would like to answer the most important questions about sperm for you and show you what is possible with sperm. 
 
 What is sperm anyway and how is it composed? 
 Sperm is the ejaculate of the man, which shoots out of his penis during climax and which contains the sperm. However, the little floaters make up just 0.5 percent of the total ejaculate. 
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 Between 2 and 6 milliliters of ejaculate are ejected during a man&#039;s climax. Not very much, then. But what exactly is it made up of?     In addition to the liquid, which contains the sperm and makes up around 10 percent of the ejaculate, 20 percent of the ejaculate is made up of prostate secretion and 70 percent of other liquids.    
  Overall, healthy semen is  slightly alkaline and may even have a mild anti-depressant effect when ingested vaginally due to the hormones it contains, according to a study by the  State University of New York . 
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 Sperm and the taste - what&#039;s the truth of the myth? 
 There is a  persistent rum or that men can change the taste of their own sperm by eating a pineapple, for example, and thus make it more pleasant to swallow. However, this is actually just  a rumor . 
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 Although eating habits can change the taste of sperm in parts in the long term, such a short-term effect relationship is not to be expected. As a man, you can practically eat whatever you want without this having any effect on the taste of your sperm. 
 Can sperm transmit diseases? 
 Unfortunately, we have to answer this question with a resounding yes. Sperm can also contain viruses of various diseases. Through unprotected  oral sex , you can contract  diseases  such as HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and other sexually transmitted diseases. 
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 The dangers are a little less than with normal intercourse, but they are still there. So if you don&#039;t know anything about your partner&#039;s health or it&#039;s a one night stand, you shouldn&#039;t do without a  condom  even during oral sex. 
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 Sperm in the mouth - swallow or spit? 
   For many men it seems to be important that their partner swallows the sperm during oral sex.  But let&#039;s be honest, there are no really rational reasons for this. Every man has a different sense of taste and preferences. While some don&#039;t even want to have the semen in their mouth, others enjoy the taste and like to swallow the semen. 
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 No one can be convinced against their will that it would be particularly great or important to swallow the sperm during oral sex.  A suitably ready cloth can simply be used to dispose of the sperm inconspicuously.  
 Is there really a sperm allergy? 
 The term sperm allergy sounds like a funny excuse at first. But this allergy really does exist, even if the people affected are allergic primarily to the protein contained in the semen.  In Germany, however, there are currently only 60 documented cases.  
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 The number of unreported cases in this area, however, should be significantly higher. Symptoms of a sperm allergy are typical of allergies and range from skin irritation to respiratory distress or even anaphylactic shock.      Overall, it can be summarized  that sperm will probably continue to divide opinions in the future. While some people like to have sperm in their mouths and play with it, others want to have as little contact with the liquid as possible and reject the smell and even more so the taste of sperm. 
 
 
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                            <updated>2019-07-01T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Greek - Sex from ancient times</title>
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                                            When talking about Greek sex, a sex practice is meant that dates back to ancient times. Of course, it is still practiced today with pleasure.
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                 When talking about  Greek sex , a sex practice is meant that dates back to ancient times. Of course, it is still a popular practice today.     There are so many things that we have retained from antiquity. So also one or the other sex practice. While  French sex  is known to almost everyone, still not everyone knows anything about Greek sex.  So what is Greek sex anyway?  
 Greek sex is more common than some might think 
   The sex practice Greek means nothing but anal intercourse.  However, few actually know that anal sex is called Greek sex and that it originated in ancient times. In ancient times, love affairs and sexual relations among men were not uncommon and even respected. 
 Homosexuality was not called a disease or anything like that, as it is always the case today.  So anal intercourse was carried over from a very old and tolerant time into modern times.  The only difference is that anal intercourse is now a common sex practice not only among men, but also between women and men. 
 Sex from behind, as it is also called, is a very intimate thing that not everyone likes. However, if you approach it the right way, it can be very nice. 
   
 Greek is not only possible from behind 
 Of course, the &quot;sex from behind&quot; is not only possible from behind. Over time, lovers invented more and more fancy ways to make love in Greek. Nevertheless, even today the  doggy position  is still the most popular. However, Greek is also feasible in the  spoon position . 
 However, you can also take your partner into you anally in the riding position. Anything that fits, is comfortable and pleasurable for both of you is allowed. You can also warm up and prepare well beforehand. There are now numerous  anal toys ,  anal gels  and co. 
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 Always stay clean 
 If you want to have Greek sex, you should be a clean person. Your rear end is always a bacteria hotspot, but you can keep them low with cleanliness. Before you engage in anal intercourse, you should think about a colonic  irrigation . 
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 This way you will have a clean and empty bowel when your partner penetrates your rectum. Your bowels should definitely always be empty when you want to perform Greek sex. Otherwise it can be embarrassing and smelly. Although this is even desirable for some couples. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-30T13:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex in the workplace? From the fetish of role play</title>
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                                            Many of us dream of having sex at work and have already taken a closer look at an attractive colleague. Unfortunately, in reality, this desire usually does not come true.
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                 Many of us dream of having  sex at work  and have already taken a closer look at an attractive colleague.  In reality, unfortunately, this desire can usually not be lived out.  
 However, you don&#039;t have to give up these thoughts.  You can still live out your dreams in role play.  We&#039;ll show you what such a role play might look like, why  real sex on the job can lead to problems , and what makes role plays so fascinating. 
 Sex on the job - not without danger for your own future 
 As tempting as sex in the office or at work may be, as a rule such actions are not a good idea. For one thing, you should always consider the&amp;nbsp; legal situation  if you get caught. 
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  It can very quickly lead to personal problems.  But also the relationship with a work colleague can become problematic, at the latest with the first crises or a flattening of the liaison. For this reason, you should refrain from this thought in any case. 
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 In the worst case, you will spoil the fun and joy of your work in the long term and in the long term, and you can make the atmosphere in the job less attractive for all employees.  After all, the hallway gossip hardly stands still in many companies.  
 Role play as a great alternative 
 Since the thought of sex on the job excites us all, this scenario is lived out in many role plays. Here you can take on exactly the role you want and thus fully realize your desires and fantasies. But what makes the appeal of these role plays? 
   
  Quite simple.  Because most role-playing games in this segment are usually located in the BDSM area, but have nothing to do with SM. It&#039;s mainly about the power imbalance and dominance, which arises, for example, between boss and employee. 
  The active part is the dominating and determining part here,  while for example the employee has to endure sexual humiliation for a pay raise. Exactly these role-playing games are enormously fascinating and can be optimally designed, for example, by matching costumes and clothes. 
 Seduce your partner to role play 
 If you are unsure whether your partner shares your preferences or wants to act them out with you, you can simply try this out during sex. If you dream of being touched harder or being dominated, you can offer him the opportunity to do so. 
   
  Or you can choose the right outfit and surprise your partner with such a role play.  He may react quickly and positively and join you in the role play. You will be surprised how many men have similar fantasies and are delighted and excited when the partner herself expresses these thoughts and wishes. 
 You can try out the most diverse role-playing games and find the roles that are exactly right for you. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-26T19:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Spanish sex - hot with boobs insertion</title>
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                                            Spaniards are hot-blooded and particularly good lovers. At least that is what is always claimed. But does Spanish sex have anything to do with that?
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                 Spaniards are hot-blooded and particularly good lovers. At least that is what is always claimed. But does Spanish sex have anything to do with it? 
 Well, it is certainly hot-blooded, but in itself, Spanish sex is more about the breasts of the woman. Because they are the ones that the man feels magically attracted to.      Spanish sex  is also called  mommy  sex. In good German we also say &quot;Tittenfick &quot; to it. I think now you know what we are talking about here. The breasts are not caressed with hands or mouth, but with the penis. So actually it&#039;s rather that the breasts spoil the penis. 
 What does Spanish mean during sex? 
 When your man asks you to make it Spanish in bed, he wants to put his penis between your breasts. He wants to rub his penis against your breasts until he climaxes. 
 You can help him by squeezing your breasts a little with your hands. This way a nice tightness will appear between your breasts. By the way, the size of your breasts does not matter. 
 Of course, the man can really dive between large breasts. But you can also have Spanish sex with very small breasts. It always depends on the technique and not on the size. 
 This is the best way to have Spanish sex 
 If you use the right technique or position, Spanish sex works with any breast size. Many men prefer to kneel over the woman. In this case, the man kneels at chest level. You lie on your back and hold your breasts together a little.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;415&quot; ] 
 The man pushes his member between your breasts.   Breast sex also works if you drop to your knees in front of him. Lift your breasts lustfully and the man will know what to do with them.   Do you know 69? Then try to have sex in this position. This way, both of you will get something out of it. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T14:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Russian sex - the thigh sex in focus</title>
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                                            The term Russian sex has been established for years. What is meant by this sexual practice is the so-called thigh sex
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                 The term Russian sex has been established for years. What is meant by this sexual practice is the so-called thigh sex. The man penetrates between the thighs of the woman and comes through the friction and pressure to climax. 
 We will show you how this thigh sex works, where this practice comes from and how you can best practice thigh sex. 
 Where thigh sex comes from 
 As the name suggests, this sexual practice was invented mainly in Russia and was widespread there. In times without safe contraceptives and when losing virginity meant immediate social relegation, thigh sex was a simple and practical solution to still be able to be intimate with each other. 
   
 The practice has survived to this day, but is nowhere near as widespread as it once was in earlier times. 
 What makes thigh sex so appealing 
 For one thing, thigh sex is still a safe way to prevent pregnancy. But most people who practice this form of sex are most likely to be excited by the novel and intense stimulation. 
 Since the distance between the thighs and the pressure of the thighs on the penis can be varied at will by the woman, many men are particularly attracted to this practice. Here it is very easy to regulate how intensively the man&#039;s penis should be stimulated. 
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 Depending on the intensity of the act and depending on the sensitivity of the man, thigh sex can be made a little more intense by using oil or lubricant. 
 Three different positions for fulfilling thigh sex 
 There are many different positions in which you can enjoy sex between the thighs. Which one you practice depends on personal preferences and physical possibilities. 
   
 The missionary position 
 The woman lies on her back and lifts her legs upwards. The partner kneels in front of her and inserts his penis not into the vagina, but between the woman&#039;s thighs. The man can thrust as usual, while the woman in this position can only change the pressure of the legs. 
   
 Doggystyle 
 This is also practically a classic sex position. However, the woman kneels with her thighs tightly closed in front of the man, who now guides his member between her thighs from behind. In this position, the man can additionally stimulate the woman anally with his hand, if she wants and likes it. 
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 On the side 
 The woman lies on her side and bends one leg. A narrow gap is created between the calf and the thigh, into which the man can penetrate with his member. The advantage of this position is that the man can additionally stimulate the woman with his hands. He can easily reach both her breasts and vagina with his fingers. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-19T10:30:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Threesome - Sex for three - top or flop?</title>
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                                            Most men usually think of sex with two women when they think of threesome sex. Women, on the other hand, very often want to have sex with two men.
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                 Both women and men often dream of it: the threesome. For many, sex in a threesome is the fulfillment of deeply held fantasies - exciting, intense and full of curiosity. The idea of experiencing more than two bodies, looks and touches can be electrifying. But as tempting as this thought is: Not every threesome automatically turns into an erotic climax. 
 It takes more than spontaneous lust to ensure that sex in a threesome doesn&#039;t become an emotional endurance test. Clear agreements, honesty and mutual respect are crucial. Conscious preparation creates space for trust, security and real pleasure. 
  Discover related topics:    Role play  -  Bondage  -  Orgasm control  -  Femdom  
 Sex in threesomes - different fantasies for men &amp;amp; women 
 Many men imagine the classic threesome with two women, while women more often fantasize about sex with two men. These differences are completely normal - they show how diverse erotic fantasies can be. The decisive factor is not the fantasy itself, but the open approach to it. 
 A threesome can also be an opportunity to explore your first bi-curious impulses together or to playfully experiment with new roles in  role play . But this only applies if everyone involved feels really comfortable. A &quot;maybe&quot; is not a yes - and hesitation should always be respected. 
   
  Tip for beginners:  Express fantasies without judgment. No one owes the other a certain constellation or action. 
 Clear rules - fewer problems in a threesome 
 Rules are not a pleasure killer when having sex in a threesome, but a safety net. They create emotional clarity and prevent misunderstandings - both physically and emotionally. Especially when several dynamics come together, agreements provide stability. 
  Proven basic rules:   - Always have sex with a condom - protection comes before trust.  - The existing partner remains the emotional focus.  - Closeness after sex (e.g. cuddling or sleeping over) is clearly regulated in advance. 
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  Advanced tip:  Also set stop signals for emotional overload - not just for physical boundaries. 
 Different variations for threesome sex 
 Not all threesomes are the same. The intensity can vary greatly: from watching together to gentle touching to active cooperation between all participants. Elements of  bondage games  or playful distribution of power can also be integrated - if agreed. 
 It is important to clarify all preferences, no-gos and expectations in advance. Nothing destroys the mood faster than surprising practices or unspoken taboos. Topics such as dominance, submission or control from areas such as  orgasm control  are particularly sensitive. 
 It becomes problematic when bi-interested acts are simply assumed or BDSM elements come into play that are not explicitly desired. 
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  Tip for the experienced:  Create a clear &quot;yes / no / maybe&quot; profile of all participants in advance - in writing or verbally. 
 When to be careful with threesomes 
 A threesome is not a means of resolving relationship crises or forcing closeness. On the contrary: unresolved conflicts, jealousy or insecurities can be massively intensified by having sex in a threesome. 
 A stable, honest relationship is the best foundation. Anyone who is insecure or hopes to &quot;fix&quot; something through a threesome should consciously pause. Sometimes an open conversation is more intimate than any fantasy. 
  Tips for all levels - threesome step by step:    Level 1 - beginners:  lots of communication, clear rules, gentle introduction without pressure to perform.   Level 2 - Advanced:  Specific roles, deliberate breaks, intensive aftertalk.   Level 3 - Experienced:  Clear dynamics, emotional self-reflection, conscious after-talk for stabilization. 
 Sex in a threesome can be incredibly enriching - if it is based on trust, honesty and mutual respect. Then the threesome doesn&#039;t become a risk, but a conscious, intense erotic experience that connects rather than divides. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-09T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is MMF sex?</title>
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 The abbreviation  MMF  stands for  Male Male Female  - i.e. two men and one woman. It usually refers to sex in threesomes in very different variations: from tender to wild, from equal threesomes to clear dominance and submissive roles. The focus is often on the woman, who is pampered by both men - but not always. The important thing is that  all participants are of age, consenting and open about their boundaries.  
 
  More inspiration &amp;amp; preparation:  
 
  Sex guide &amp;amp; inspiration  
  Erotic games &amp;amp; sex games  
  Lubricant &amp;amp; anal lubricant  
 
 Read tips, sort out fantasies, clarify boundaries - and then consciously decide whether you really want to live the threesome. 
 
 What exactly is MMF sex? 
 In an MMF threesome,  two men and a woman  meet for sexual activities together. What this looks like can vary greatly: 
 
 all three are active at the same time and pamper each other 
 the woman is the center of attention and is stimulated by both men 
 one of the men is mainly a spectator, helper or stays in the background 
 
 A typical feature of many MMF fantasies is that the woman is the &quot;focus&quot; and receives attention from two sides - both physically and emotionally. This can range from gentle touches to very intense practices. 
 MMF, MFM, FMF - what&#039;s the difference? 
 Several abbreviations appear in personal ads or fantasy descriptions: 
 
  MMF:  two men, one woman - all can more or less interact with each other. 
  MFM:  two men, one woman, but the men usually have  no sexual contact  with each other (e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. one in front, one behind, but without the men touching). 
  FMF / FFM:  two women and one man - the dynamic is correspondingly different. 
 
 In practice, the boundaries are often blurred. The important thing is not so much the label, but that you discuss clearly:  Who is allowed to touch whom and how - and what is taboo?  
 What can MMF sex look like? 
 The spectrum ranges from very gentle, equal encounters to very clear role models. Here are some examples of typical MMF scenarios: 
 
  Focus on the woman:  both men concentrate on her, share tasks (oral, penetration, touching) and coordinate with each other. 
  Cuckold elements:  One man is the steady partner or husband, the other is the &quot;lover&quot;. Depending on the arrangement, the partner can just watch, take part or &quot;clean up&quot; later. 
  Everyone enjoys each other:  all three are open to each other - kissing, touching or sex between the men is possible if there is bisexual curiosity. 
 
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  Many couples find the combination of vaginal and anal stimulation at the same time particularly appealing.  The woman is pampered at two orifices at the same time. This is exactly when  plenty of lubricant, good communication and a slow build-up  are important so that it is intense but not painful. 
 Is MMF automatically &quot;bi&quot;? 
 Many men wonder whether an MMF threesome automatically makes them &quot;bisexual&quot;. The answer:  No.  Sexual orientation is not defined by a single act, but by your feelings and recurring preferences. 
 
 Some men  don&#039;t  want  any contact  with each other - they only focus on the woman. 
 Others are curious about touching each other or having threesomes where bodies inevitably touch. 
 Still others have conscious  bisexual fantasies  and want to live them out in a threesome. 
 
 It is important that  no one is forced into a role . It&#039;s perfectly okay to say: &quot;I don&#039;t want to touch you, but I want to spoil your partner together.&quot; 
 MMF in a relationship: opportunities &amp;amp; stumbling blocks 
 MMF can be a great fantasy for couples - and a challenge at the same time. Before you add someone, it helps to ask honest questions: 
 
 Is our relationship stable enough to invite a third person? 
 Is it about curiosity, a fantasy - or is it to &quot;repair&quot; a deficit? 
 How do we deal with  jealousy  when it arises? 
 
  A shared fantasy is a good start, but is no guarantee that the threesome will work in reality.  Talk openly about expectations, fears and possible &quot;no-goes&quot; before you take the next step. 
 The right communication in advance 
 For MMF sex to be pleasurable instead of stressful, clear agreements are needed. It makes sense to have three levels of conversation: 
 
  Before the threesome:  roles, boundaries, safer sex, location, duration, how to say goodbye. 
  During:  short check-ins (&quot;Everything okay?&quot;, eye or hand contact), respectful signals to change the tempo or intensity. 
  Afterwards:  open debriefing about what was nice, what you would do differently. 
 
 Ask yourselves e.g.&amp;nbsp;B: 
 
 Who is allowed to sleep with whom and in what form? 
 Is kissing with everyone okay - or only with your partner? 
 How do we proceed if someone feels uncomfortable? 
 
 Safe sex in an MMF threesome 
 Where three bodies, three stories and three health realities come together,  safe sex  is  a must . This includes: 
 
  Condoms  for all penetration (vaginal, anal, oral as needed). 
 Change the condom when switching from Anal to vaginal - never the other way around. 
 No &quot;finger travel&quot; from the bottom back to the vulva without cleaning. 
 Open communication about STI tests, contraception and individual risks. 
 
 An MMF threesome can be incredibly hot - but it shouldn&#039;t end with worries about health or unplanned consequences. 
 How to find a third man? 
 Finding a suitable third man is often the hardest part. Options include&amp;nbsp;: 
 
 Online platforms and dating apps with threesome filters or explicit &quot;Couple +1&quot; areas. 
 Fetish or swinger communities, regulars&#039; tables, clubs. 
 Friends or acquaintances - special caution and clarity are important here to avoid putting a strain on relationships. 
 
 It is important not to regard the third man as an &quot;accessory&quot;, but as a  fully-fledged person with his own boundaries and needs . Respect applies to all three. 
 Typical fantasies &amp;amp; variations in MMF 
 Many fantasies can be roughly categorized: 
 
  The spoiled queen:  the woman lies or sits in the center, one takes care of oral sex, the other takes care of penetration, massages, kisses. 
  Double dominance:  Both men are dominant, the woman surrenders - clear safewords and boundaries are essential here. 
  Cuckold / Hotwife:  The partner watches, holds or serves, while another man takes over the &quot;main part&quot;. 
  Equal threesome:  Everyone is sometimes active, sometimes passive; roles can flow and change. 
 
 You don&#039;t have to strictly decide on a scenario - allow yourselves to play, laugh and adapt things spontaneously. 
 Emotional aftermath &amp;amp; aftercare 
 As intense as a threesome is, the feelings afterwards can be just as strong: Elation, relief, pride - but also doubt, quiet jealousy or emptiness. 
  Aftercare helps to integrate the experience well:  
 
 Cuddling, showering together or simply lying quietly next to each other. 
 Tell each other honestly what was particularly nice - without comparing or judging. 
 Leave room for insecurity instead of playing it down. 
 
 Especially in committed relationships, it&#039;s important to realize afterwards that  we are a team and that the threesome was our joint project.  
 Conclusion: Is MMF something for you? 
 MMF sex can be an incredibly intense experience: double the focus, double the hands, double the pleasure - but also double the responsibility. If you share your fantasies openly, talk honestly about boundaries, take safe sex seriously and take time for each other after the experience, a threesome with two men and one woman can enrich your sexuality. 
 If, on the other hand, you realize that jealousy, insecurity or relationship conflicts prevail, MMF can  remain  a  fantasy  - without you &quot;missing&quot; anything. In the end, only one thing is important: that you live sexuality in a way that feels right, safe and pleasurable for you. 
 
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            <title type="text">What is squirting: the female ejaculation</title>
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                                            Squirting is a form of female ejaculation. It is usually triggered by intense stimulation of the G-spot and cannot be voluntarily controlled by women. Basically, it is claimed that every woman could squirt, but only some of the women ever come to this pleasure.
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                 Squirting is for many women and also men the holy grail of female pleasure. When a woman squirts with pleasure for the first time, it is a real surprise for many men and also women. Often panic spreads: Did I just urinate in bed or even on my partner? 
 Don&#039;t worry. Many men feel the squirting of the partner as the utmost form of recognition and love it when the woman squirts. And also many women feel the climax through squirting more intense and fulfilling and hardly want to do without it. 
 Squirting: A definition 
 Squirting is a form of female ejaculation. This is mostly triggered by intense stimulation of the G-spot and cannot be controlled willingly by women. Basically, it is claimed that every woman could squirt, but only some of the women ever come to this pleasure. 
 This is partly due to the different anatomy of women and the different stimulation of the G-spot area. In addition, the entrance of the urethra, through which squirting takes place, is pulled very far inward in many women when they become aroused and is therefore hardly accessible. 
 Such an anatomy can make squirting enormously difficult. But do not worry. Because squirting can be practiced and the exercises together with your partner can be highly exciting and pleasurable even without squirting. 
  The G-spot and the prostate 
 During the development of our sexual organs, man and woman are still enormously similar in the first months as an embryo. So it is not surprising that many physical features are built the same in both men and women. 
 The prostate, also known as the prostate gland, lies close to the urethra and vas deferens and can be made to secrete secretions by stimulation. This is known as prostate massage in men and can lead to effusion without climax. Such an area is also present in women.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;394&quot; ] 
 The G-spot is similarly close to the urethra and can secrete a secretion in case of stimulation, which is pushed outward during squirting. The reason why not all women ejaculate is mainly due to the lack of stimulation of the G-spot and the low excitability of this region in some women. 
 In addition, the urethral entrance is closed during arousal in many women. Thus, a female effusion can occur, which, however, flows back into the bladder due to anatomical reasons and does not penetrate to the outside. This, so-called retrograde ejaculation, also occurs in men and is called dry orgasm. 
 A sign of such an orgasm is a strong urge to urinate after sex. If you pay attention to this as a woman, you can quickly determine if you have had such an orgasm. If the liquid is rather light and odorless when you go to the toilet, this is usually the secretion that was released during squirting. 
  Every woman can squirt? 
 There are different theories about squirting. While one theory says that squirting is just the secretion of urine, other theories know better. However, the fact is that most women are able to squirt if they train and practice hard enough. 
 This is because men can&#039;t have a prostate orgasm right away either, they have to train and practice this ability as well. Therefore, it is important that you take enough time to slowly introduce yourself or your partner to squirting and discover this form of sexuality. 
 After all, many women react completely differently to stimulation of the G-spot. This is because it is differently pronounced, can be reached differently well and is also differently excitable. So it is definitely worthwhile to take your time to explore the possibilities with your partner&#039;s body or your own body. 
 Even if you or your partner are not able to squirt, you will have a lot of fun trying and practicing. 
 Urine or not? That is the question 
 The question of urine comes up again and again and is a factor of uncertainty for many women. Because hardly any woman wants to urinate unintentionally in bed or on her partner during sex. This leads to a cramping posture, which makes squirting almost impossible. But the liquid that is secreted during squirting is transparent and hardly smells. 
 Therefore, it is not very likely that it is urine. So, as a woman, you don&#039;t have to worry that your partner will be disgusted. Quite the opposite. Many men get excited by the thought that their partner can and does squirt. 
 After all, this is an ultimate proof that the partner can be stimulated sufficiently strong. You can hardly give your partner a better award. 
  Learn squirting: a guide 
 The basis for squirting is a well-trained pelvic floor muscles. You can easily train them with love balls. You will notice a real increase after just a few weeks. Among other things, you need these muscles to voluntarily stop the stream when urinating. Just try it out and you will feel the muscles you need. 
 But that&#039;s not all. The G-spot is responsible for squirting. You have to  stimulate it long and intensively . And you have to stimulate it intensively until it triggers an orgasm. The easiest way to do this is with a partner or with a suitable toy. 
   In any case, it is important that you use enough lubricant, as this reduces friction and makes the whole game more pleasant.    
 If you want to stimulate your partner&#039;s G-spot, you can insert two or three fingers into her vagina and feel the G-spot on the top of the vaginal wall. You will find a slightly rough spot, about the size of a coin, which will enlarge slightly when stimulated. The higher the woman&#039;s arousal, the more intensely she can enjoy stimulation of the G-spot. 
 In any case, it is helpful to go to the toilet and empty the bladder before the act. This gives the woman a safe feeling and provides more peace and relaxation. Now massage the G-spot with your fingertips in a &quot;come here&quot; motion. The resulting feelings of pleasure can radiate to both legs and are a good indication that you are on the right track. 
 The woman can now assist the process by knowingly tensing and relaxing the pelvic floor muscle. Just squeeze as if you need to urinate and then relax again. If you repeat this regularly, you will feel how the arousal increases more and more. 
 If the G-spot is now stimulated further and more and more, the woman will eventually feel the need to go to the toilet. 
    You are now on the right track and close to climax.      
 Because the bladder is empty, the feeling is only triggered by the stimulation of the G-spot. If you now once again tense the pelvic floor muscle and press, then you start to squirt. Don&#039;t be afraid. It is not urine, but the secretion of your G-spot, which now leaves you. 
 Squirting with sex toys 
 Not always your partner&#039;s fingers or your own fingers are able to stimulate the G-spot sufficiently. Fortunately, there are some sex toys that can help you in this case. You can use commercially available  G-spot vibrators , which are shaped in such a way that you achieve intense stimulation. 
 The strong vibrations and the smooth surface of the vibrator help you to stimulate the G-spot comprehensively and intensively. So with a little practice you can also enjoy squirting and make a whole new experience. In addition, you can also use normal vibrators if you do not want to buy an extra G-spot vibrator. 
 The stimulation is also possible with these, but due to the anatomy it is much more difficult, because the G-spot can only be hit with difficulty. 
 Squirting: Don&#039;t put yourself under pressure 
  Not every woman wants to squirt  and can share this experience with her partner. If you find that you don&#039;t like the feeling or are disgusted by squirting, you should simply not do it. Also, it is not always possible to reach such a climax. 
 Many women report that they could only experience such a squirting climax with a single partner or that it just happened to them once. As long as you don&#039;t put yourself under pressure, you can practice at your leisure and continue to discover your body alone or together with your partner. 
 And let&#039;s be honest. Even if squirting doesn&#039;t work out. At least then you will know exactly where your G-spot is and how intensively you react to its stimulation. This is also important and can give your sexuality a new boost. 
 Enjoy the stimulation - whether with fingers or sex toys - and don&#039;t worry so much about squirting. If it happens, it&#039;s nice, but if it doesn&#039;t, it&#039;s not the end of the world. The important thing is that you and your partner are satisfied. 
 If you are interested in squirting and want to experience it yourself or with your partner, there are many possibilities. In our guide you will find many tips and ideas on how you can provide the necessary stimulation. 
 You can get the right toys and  lubricants  quickly and easily at Steeltoyz. So you can experience squirting yourself and enjoy it with all your senses. 
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