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            <title type="text">Doggy style: perfect the most popular position for more pleasure and intensity</title>
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                                            Doggy style is one of the most popular positions, but did you know that you can experience even more control and fun with little tricks and pro tips? In this guide, we&#039;ll tell you how to get the most out of this intense position - including tips from the professionals at Steel...
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                 The  doggy style  is one of those positions that instinctively combine closeness, tension and intense penetration. But real pleasure only arises when technique, communication and sensitivity harmonize. This guide refines the classic - sensual, safe and full of inspiration. 
 Why the doggy style is so popular 
 The position enables  deep, rhythmic penetration  and gives the active partner natural control over speed and intensity. At the same time, it allows the passive partner to surrender, to feel, to breathe - and to consciously experience their own body reactions. The position is versatile, changeable and creates space for playful dominance, closeness and fantasy. 
 Professional tips for the perfect doggy style 
 1. The right preparation 
 Sensual foreplay opens the body and mind. Gentle kisses over the back, caressing hands on the hips and calm breathing create trust. The transition to doggy style should be slow, inviting and pleasurable. 
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 2. Use the right height 
 A  cushion under the  passive partner&#039;s  pelvis  changes the angle - the entry becomes gentler, the depth more intense, the control more precise. Small adjustments create big differences in sensation. 
 3. Lubricant for smoothness 
 High-quality lubricant ensures smooth movements and less friction. The  BIOglide anal lubricant  has a particularly natural and long-lasting effect, ideal for deep, rhythmic thrusts and longer sessions. 
 4. Take control 
 The active part determines the tempo and depth - but true pleasure comes from the interplay: slow, deep movements followed by shorter, faster impulses. Hands on hips or thighs stabilize and intensify the sensation. 
 5. Involve your hands 
 The back, bottom and thighs are sensitive areas. Stroking, light scratching or gentle  spanking  with a paddle from our range intensifies closeness and pleasure without overstepping boundaries. 
 6. Communication 
 Even without eye contact, communication remains the most important element. A quiet &quot;That good?&quot; or a confirming moan can work wonders. Trust creates freedom - and this freedom gives pleasure. 
 Variations of the doggy style 
 1. The &quot;lazy doggy&quot; 
 The passive partner lies flat on their stomach. The position is less intense, but more relaxed - ideal for transitions or for slow, sustained sessions. 
 2. The &quot;standing doggy&quot; 
 Perfect for spontaneous moments: The passive partner stands bent forward, the active partner stands behind them. Intense, direct and wonderfully unplanned. 
 3. Doggy with restraints 
 With  handcuffs  or a  collar , the doggy style takes on a tingling BDSM note: power play, focus and devotion merge. 
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 Important aspects for beginners 
 1. Not too deep, not too fast 
 The passive partner should be able to relax completely. Start gently - thrusts that are too fast or too deep can be uncomfortable. Breathe together and increase slowly. 
 2. Take breaks 
 If the position becomes too intense, a short break can help. Rebalancing, repositioning, finding your feet again - this creates safety and ultimately increases pleasure. 
 3. Supportive toys 
 A small vibrator, a soft plug or a discreet Anal toy can enhance the experience without being too demanding. 
 Tips in three stages 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with a cushion under the pelvis, a slow pace and lots of communication. 
  Tip for advanced users:  Combine doggy with gentle spanking or rhythmic tempo changes for more intensity. 
  Tip for experienced users:  Experiment with restraints, controlled dominance and precise angles. 
 Tips for all levels - doggy style step by step 
 Level 1 - Beginner 
 Concentrate on comfort: cushions, lots of lubricant, gentle pace. Talk about pressure, depth and angles. 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 Vary positions, increase tension with light dominance elements, play with grips and rhythmic patterns. 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 Incorporates toys, works with rituals, breath control or longer sessions with controlled breaks. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 Level 1 - Beginner 
 Simple scenario: Dominant &amp;amp; receptive. Uses safewords, clear agreements and short, playful moments. 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 Expands the setting: restraints, collar, clear rules, longer scenes with stronger dynamics. 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 Deeper psychological elements: controlled surrender, restraints, rituals or guidance through voice and touch. 
 Conclusion 
 The doggy style is much more than a classic position - it is a playground for lust, fantasy and sensuality. With fine adjustments, good communication and the courage to try variations, it becomes one of the most intense experiences of all. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-15T07:30:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The beginner&#039;s guide for your first visit to a swingers club</title>
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                                            Curious about your first visit to a swingers club? Our guide will tell you everything you need to know - from the most important rules to professional tips to make you feel completely at ease.
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                 Have you heard of swingers clubs and are curious about what really happens there? Or maybe you even want to try it out yourself but don&#039;t know what to expect? 
 Don&#039;t worry - this guide is made just for you. Here you&#039;ll find out everything you need to know to prepare for your first visit. We&#039;ll explain what a swingers club is, what the rules are and how you can best prepare for your first experience. 
 No complicated terms or unnecessary shame - just helpful information and pro tips for newbies. By the end, you&#039;ll know exactly what&#039;s important and what to expect. 
 What is a swingers club? 
 A swingers club is a place where couples and singles come together to share sexual experiences in an open and respectful environment. The focus is on the freedom to explore your own boundaries and meet other people with similar interests. 
 The club usually offers various rooms and facilities to create a relaxed atmosphere in which everyone can act according to their preferences. The most important feature: everything happens on a voluntary basis and respectful interaction is the top rule. 
 What rules apply in a swingers club? 
 Regardless of whether you are a beginner or already have experience - the rules in a swingers club are crucial for everyone involved to have fun. Here are a few basic rules: 
 
  Respect : no one is forced to do anything. A &quot;no&quot; always means &quot;no&quot;. 
  Cleanliness : Personal hygiene and cleanliness are a matter of course, both before and during your stay. 
  Condoms are compulsory : In most clubs, condoms are strictly compulsory to ensure everyone&#039;s safety. 
  Communication : Clear communication with your partner is the be-all and end-all. 
  Maintain anonymity : What happens in the club stays in the club. Discretion is a basic rule. 
 
 How do I dress for a visit to a swingers club? 
 The dress code in swingers clubs varies, but the general rule is: sexy but stylish. Some clubs prefer elegant clothing such as evening wear, while others opt for seductive lingerie. Here are a few tips: 
 
  For men : a well-fitting shirt and neat shoes make a good impression. 
  For women : Lingerie, a sexy dress or even an elegant swimsuit - you decide what you feel comfortable in. 
  Pro tip : Many clubs have special theme nights (e.g. masked balls or lingerie parties). Find out in advance so that you are properly prepared. 
 
 What can I expect in a swingers club? 
 When you enter a swingers club for the first time, you may be surprised at how relaxed and friendly the atmosphere is. Many newcomers have the idea that there will be sexual activity straight away - but this is not the case. 
 The evening usually starts in the bar or lounge, where you can get into conversation in peace. From there, you can explore the different rooms, which often have themed areas such as whirlpools, dance floors or private rooms. 
 How do I behave as a beginner? 
 As a newcomer, it&#039;s perfectly fine to just watch at first. Nobody expects you to get active straight away. You can take a relaxed look around and let the atmosphere take effect on you. It is important that you always communicate openly - both with your partner and with other guests. 
 If you feel uncomfortable or have any questions, don&#039;t hesitate to speak to the staff. The staff are trained and will be happy to help you. 
 What should I avoid? 
 There are a few things you should avoid as a beginner: 
 
  Pushing or being pushy : Everyone has the right to say &quot;no&quot; and this should be respected. 
  Drinking too much alcohol : Sure, having a drink to relax is okay, but excessive alcohol consumption can disrupt the atmosphere and cause you to break the rules. 
  Having the wrong expectations : Not every visit ends with sexual activity. It&#039;s primarily about feeling comfortable and having new experiences. 
 
 What professional tips are there for the first visit? 
 
  Familiarize yourself with the club : Many clubs offer guided tours or information evenings. Use this opportunity to find out more before your first visit. 
  Stay relaxed : The first visit can be exciting, but don&#039;t put any pressure on yourself. It&#039;s okay to just observe and enjoy the atmosphere. 
  Set clear boundaries : Discuss with your partner beforehand what is and isn&#039;t okay for both of you. 
  Pro tip : The more relaxed you are, the more you will be able to enjoy the evening. Communication and respect are key. 
 
 Conclusion: Your first visit to a swingers club - relaxed and confident 
 Your first visit to a swingers club can be exciting and overwhelming at the same time. But with the right preparation and an open mind, it can be an unforgettable experience. Take the time to look around and take a relaxed approach to the evening. With the tips above, you will quickly find your way around and be able to enjoy the special atmosphere. 
 Suitable products for your first visit 
 
  Elegant lingerie for women  
  Neat outfits for men  
  Condoms and lubricants  
  Wellness products for relaxation afterwards  
 
 Further resources 
 
 [What you should consider on your first visit to a swingers club] 
 [Testimonials from swingers club visitors] 
 [How to prepare for a visit to a swingers club as a couple] 
 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">A committed relationship or casual dating?</title>
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                                            Casual dating or a committed relationship? Both options have their advantages and disadvantages. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out which differences really matter, when casual dating is the better choice and how you can communicate expectations clearly and openly. Tips included!
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                 Have you met someone but aren&#039;t sure whether you want a committed relationship or casual dating? Don&#039;t worry, you&#039;re not alone. Many people wonder which path suits their current needs better. In this guide, you&#039;ll learn the key differences between casual dating and serious relationships, when casual dating might be the better choice and how to communicate expectations openly and honestly. Find out what&#039;s best for you and your situation! 
 What is casual dating and what makes it different? 
 Casual dating means that you date someone without a firm commitment or long-term expectations. It&#039;s about having fun, meeting new people and enjoying the freedom. There is often less emotional commitment in such relationships, but more flexibility and non-commitment. 
 Advantages of casual dating: 
 
 Freedom and flexibility 
 No long-term commitments 
 Focus on fun and ease 
 Possibility to date several people 
 
 But there are also disadvantages that you should consider. Emotional attachments can still develop, and sometimes it gets complicated when one person expects more than the other. Clear communication is key here. 
 What makes a serious relationship? 
 A serious relationship is the opposite of casual dating. It&#039;s about emotional depth, trust and long-term prospects. You share your life with a person and build a strong bond based on honesty and respect. 
 Benefits of a serious relationship: 
 
 Deep emotional connection 
 Reliability and security 
 Long-term perspective for the future 
 Mutual growth and development 
 
 Of course, a committed relationship requires more commitment and dedication. There is less room for spontaneous decisions, but more emotional stability. 
 When is casual dating the right choice for you? 
 You may be at a stage in your life where you want to focus on other things - such as your career or personal development. Casual dating could be a good option if you&#039;re looking for romantic or sexual encounters but don&#039;t want to make a long-term commitment. 
 Pro tip: If you choose casual dating, it&#039;s important that you set clear boundaries from the start and communicate them. No one should be emotionally hurt because expectations have been left unclear or unspoken. 
 When should you consider a serious relationship? 
 Are you longing for a deep emotional connection, trust and planning for the future together? Then a committed relationship might be the better choice for you. In a serious relationship, you invest time and emotions to create a stable foundation for the future with your partner. 
 Pro tip: Before you get into a relationship, be sure you&#039;re ready to do the emotional work that a relationship requires. Honesty and communication are key to building a happy partnership. 
 Clarify expectations: Communication is everything 
 Whether you choose casual dating or a committed relationship, the most important thing is that you communicate your expectations openly from the start. Misunderstandings often arise when unspoken assumptions are made. 
 How to clarify expectations: 
 
 Be honest with yourself: What do you really want? 
 Talk openly and early on with the other person. 
 Listen to what the other person wants and respect their wishes. 
 Regular conversations about the status of your relationship help to avoid misunderstandings. 
 
 Steeltoyz offers a range of products that are suitable for both casual dating and serious relationships - from sensual accessories to erotic toys that can enrich your experiences together. 
 Conclusion: find your own way 
 Whether it&#039;s casual dating or a serious relationship - in the end, it all comes down to what suits you best at that moment. There is no right or wrong. As long as you communicate your wishes and expectations clearly, you can have fulfilling and exciting experiences in both options. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Polyamory and open relationships: Everything you need to know</title>
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                                            Polyamory or an open relationship? In this guide, you&#039;ll learn how to deal with jealousy, set clear rules and build fulfilling relationships through open communication.
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                 Nowadays, there are many different relationship models, and polyamory and open relationships are becoming increasingly accepted and popular. But what exactly is polyamory and how does it differ from an open relationship? 
 In this guide, we clarify the most important questions, give you an overview of the basic rules of these types of relationships and how you can deal with challenges such as jealousy and communication. 
 By the end, you&#039;ll know exactly how polyamory works, what rules you should follow in open relationships and how to overcome emotional difficulties. 
 What is polyamory and how does it work? 
 Polyamory describes the concept of having several romantic or sexual relationships at the same time, in which everyone involved is informed about the other relationships and accepts them consensually. In contrast to a monogamous relationship, where the focus is only on one romantic relationship, polyamory allows the participants to have several romantic relationships openly. 
 Polyamory is based on honesty, transparency and the consent of all partners. Each relationship within a polyamorous network is individual and can vary in emotional intensity. However, the key principle is that love and affection need not be limited to a single person. 
 Advantages of polyamory: 
 
 Freedom to maintain multiple emotional connections 
 Deeper understanding of love and relationships 
 Transparency and openness in communication 
 
 However, polyamory also has its challenges, particularly in coping with jealousy and the need to divide time and energy between multiple partners. 
 Rules and communication in open relationships 
 Open relationships are similar to polyamory in the sense that they allow partners to have sexual or romantic connections outside of their primary relationship. The difference, however, is that open relationships often focus more on the sexual aspect than on romantic attachments. 
 Rules in open relationships: 
 
  Communication : openness and honesty are key. Both partners need to feel comfortable expressing their desires, boundaries and fears. 
  Set boundaries : It is important to define clear boundaries. These can include whether to talk about outside connections, how often you meet with others, or what type of relationship is allowed. 
  Trust : Trust is the foundation of any open relationship. Without trust, jealousy can quickly become a problem. 
  Health and safety : Having regular conversations about sexual health and using contraception responsibly is a must. 
 
 Open relationships offer the freedom to have sexual experiences outside of the main relationship without the feeling of breaking relationship rules. However, the success of such a relationship depends heavily on how well both partners can communicate with each other and agree on the established rules. 
 Jealousy and emotional challenges in polyamorous relationships 
 Jealousy is a natural human emotion that can occur in polyamorous and open relationships as well as in monogamous relationships. The difference is that polyamory often requires consciously dealing with and managing jealousy rather than suppressing it. 
 Tips for coping with jealousy in polyamorous relationships: 
 
  Self-reflection : jealousy often stems from insecurities or fears. Think about where your jealousy comes from and talk about it openly with your partner. 
  Open communication : Tell your partner how you feel and listen to their perspective. Sometimes it helps to understand that your partner still loves and appreciates you, even if he or she has other relationships. 
  Build trust : Trust is the counterbalance to jealousy. Polyamorous relationships require a conscious strengthening of trust by being honest with each other and supporting each other emotionally. 
  Redefine boundaries : When jealousy arises, it can help to review and renegotiate established boundaries to ensure everyone is comfortable. 
 
 Emotional challenges, such as feeling like you&#039;re not getting enough time or attention from your partner, can also arise. One way to deal with this is to &#039;compartmentalize&#039; - this means looking at relationships as separate and distinct connections rather than comparing them to each other. 
 Pro tip: Schedule regular conversations with your partners to talk about emotions, needs and expectations. This helps to avoid misunderstandings and promote a healthy dynamic. 
 Conclusion: Open communication and clear rules are key 
 Polyamory and open relationships offer alternative ways to experience love and romance. However, they require a high level of communication, trust and self-reflection. By understanding your own needs and those of your partner, you can build fulfilling and respectful connections in both polyamorous and open relationships. 
 Whichever form you choose, it&#039;s important that everyone involved feels comfortable and that jealousy, insecurities and emotional challenges are addressed together. This way, you can experience love and freedom at the same time in an open or polyamorous relationship. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Friendship Plus</title>
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                                            Friendship Plus - the perfect mix of friendship and eroticism. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out how to set clear rules, avoid jealousy and create an exciting, non-committal dynamic - without jeopardizing the friendship.
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                 Friendship Plus - an exciting mix of intimacy and passion. You have a good friend with whom you have always got on well and suddenly this special tension arises between you. 
 You don&#039;t want to give up the friendship, but at the same time you want to enjoy the sizzling eroticism that has developed. But as with any intimate relationship, there are rules and challenges that you should be aware of. 
 In this guide, you&#039;ll find out how to have a successful friendship plus without bringing emotions or jealousy into play. And, of course, how you can enjoy the erotic appeal without jeopardizing the friendship. 
 What is a friendship plus? 
 Friendship Plus describes a relationship in which two people have a close friendship that is complemented by sexual intimacy. Eroticism is at the forefront, without romantic commitments. It is the best of both worlds: Intimacy and affection, coupled with the freedom to let go without the pressure of a relationship. 
 Advantages of a friendship plus: 
 
 You can live out your sexual needs with someone you trust. 
 No obligations or pressure of expectations, like in a committed relationship. 
 The ability to date other people while enjoying the sexual connection. 
 A casual, fun-oriented dynamic without emotional dependency. 
 
 But a friendship plus also requires clear rules and boundaries to maintain the balance between friendship and eroticism. 
 Rules and boundaries for a friendship plus 
 For a friendship plus to work, it&#039;s important to set clear boundaries from the start. Here are some rules to help maintain the erotic tension without compromising the friendship: 
 
 
  Communication : openness is key. Talk early on about what you both expect from the friendship plus. Is it just about occasional sex, or is there room for emotional support? 
 
 
  No expectations : A friendship plus should be based on the principle of freedom. It is important that neither of you develop romantic expectations, as this can disrupt the dynamic. 
 
 
  Fidelity and dating : Clarify whether it&#039;s okay to date other people alongside your friendship plus or whether you prefer exclusivity. You need to agree on what is allowed in terms of other relationships. 
 
 
  Respect each other&#039;s boundaries : It&#039;s crucial that both partners respect their personal boundaries. If one of you no longer wants to continue, this should be accepted without drama. 
 
 
 Erotic pro tip: Create a space where you can talk about your sexual preferences. This not only improves the quality of your sexual encounters, but also ensures a deeper understanding of each other. 
 Avoid emotional challenges and jealousy 
 Even if a Friendship Plus is primarily focused on fun and non-committal eroticism, emotional challenges can still arise. Especially if one of you develops feelings that go beyond mere physical attraction. 
 This will help you avoid jealousy and emotional entanglements: 
 
 
  Open communication : Talk regularly about how you feel. If something changes - whether in terms of your friendship or your sexual encounters - you need to talk about it before misunderstandings arise. 
 
 
  No comparison with others : If one of you is also dating other people, jealousy can quickly arise. Avoid comparing yourselves to each other&#039;s other relationships. Remember that your friendship plus is something special. 
 
 
  Maintain emotional distance : It&#039;s easy to confuse intimate moments with romantic feelings. Avoid mixing your lives too much to keep the difference between friendship plus and a romantic relationship clear. 
 
 
 Erotic pro tip: Keep your dynamic playful. Avoid having too many emotional conversations that go beyond what is necessary. The appeal of a friendship plus lies in the lightness and erotic play. 
 How to end a friendship plus without losing the friendship 
 Even the most erotic friendship plus can end at some point. Maybe one of you develops feelings for someone else or it just gets too complicated. The most important thing at this point is not to lose the friendship when you end the sexual part of your relationship. 
 This is how you proceed if you want to end the friendship plus: 
 
 
  Be open and honest : Tell your friend honestly why you think it&#039;s time to end the erotic part of your relationship. Emphasize that the friendship is still important to you. 
 
 
  Respect emotions : Whether you or your friend makes the decision - respect each other&#039;s feelings. It can be difficult when an intimate connection ends, so give the other person space to process their emotions. 
 
 
  Strengthen your friendship : After ending your friendship plus, consciously do things that have nothing to do with sex to bring the basis of your friendship back into focus. This way, you can maintain the intimacy without it becoming awkward. 
 
 
 Pro tip: Try to make the transition gentle by slowly scaling back intimacy rather than ending everything abruptly. This will help you deal with the changes better and keep the friendship alive. 
 Conclusion: Friendship Plus - combining eroticism and friendship 
 Friendship Plus can be a wonderful way to combine the physical and emotional benefits of friendship with the allure of erotic encounters. However, it is important that you set clear rules from the start and communicate your expectations openly. 
 This way, you can maintain a balance between friendship and passion without emotions or jealousy disrupting the dynamic. And when the time comes to end the sexual component, you can do so without jeopardizing the friendship. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide for sex meetings: Everything you need to know</title>
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                                            Are you planning your first sex date? Our guide gives you the best tips on preparation, safety and successful communication so that you can enjoy the experience to the full.
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                 Are you curious about sex meetings and want to know how to organize your first meeting safely and confidently? Don&#039;t worry, you&#039;re not alone! 
 Many people are interested in these types of encounters, but have reservations or don&#039;t know how to get started. In this guide, you&#039;ll find out everything you need to know to make your first sex date successful and enjoyable. 
 We&#039;ll clarify important questions, give you professional tips and guide you through the process step by step. 
 By the end of this guide, you&#039;ll know how to plan a sex date safely, what to look out for and how to prepare so you can make the most of the experience. 
 What is a sex date? 
 A sex date is an appointment between two or more people that focuses mainly on intimate, sexual encounters. The focus is on all participants openly communicating their needs and desires. Such a meeting can be spontaneous or planned and depends on the preferences of the participants. 
 For many people, the attraction of a sex meeting is the opportunity to live out their fantasies and have sexual experiences in a safe and clear setting. It is important that all parties participate with full consent and feel comfortable doing so. 
 Where can I arrange a sex date? 
 There are various platforms and options for arranging a sex date. Here are some options: 
 
  Online dating sites and apps : There are specific platforms that focus on casual dating or sex meet-ups, such as adult dating sites. Here you can search specifically for people who have similar interests. 
  Swinger clubs and events : Many people use swingers clubs or special events to meet like-minded people and socialize in a safe environment. 
  Private networks : Some also use private contacts or circles of friends to organize open and relaxed sex meetings. 
 
 Pro tip: Make sure you choose platforms that are reputable and value safety and discretion. Read reviews and use platforms with a good reputation. 
 How do I communicate openly and safely before the meeting? 
 Honest and clear communication is the key to a successful sex date. Here are some tips on how best to structure the conversation: 
 
  Openness : Share your expectations, wishes and boundaries right from the start. Also ask about the other person&#039;s preferences and needs to avoid misunderstandings. 
  Safety : Talk about contraception and protective measures, such as the use of condoms. Also be aware of possible health risks and discuss these topics openly. 
  Trust : Build trust by communicating regularly and leaving the other person feeling comfortable. 
 
 Pro tip: A short phone call or video chat before the meeting can help build trust and clear up misunderstandings. 
 How do I prepare for a sex date? 
 Preparing for a sex date is important to make sure you feel comfortable and confident. Here are some steps you should follow: 
 
  Hygiene : thorough personal hygiene is a given. Make sure you arrive at the meeting freshly showered and well-groomed. 
  Outfit : Wear something that you feel comfortable in and that also emphasizes your sensuality. For men, this can be smart casual clothing, for women a sexy but comfortable outfit. 
  Safety precautions : Inform a trusted person about the meeting if you feel unsafe. This will give you an extra safety net. 
 
 Pro tip: Bring condoms and lube, even if you&#039;ve discussed this beforehand. Safety should always come first. 
   
 How do you behave on your first sex date? 
 It&#039;s important to stay relaxed and respectful on the first date. Here are some tips on how to behave: 
 
  Relax : Stay relaxed and easy-going. A relaxed conversation beforehand helps to break the ice. 
  Respect : Respect the wishes and boundaries of the other person at all times. &quot;No&quot; always means &quot;no&quot;, and that should be absolutely clear. 
  Consensus : Everything that happens should be wanted and agreed upon by both parties. Don&#039;t hesitate to ask questions if you are unsure. 
 
 Safety and consensus: the be-all and end-all 
 Safety and consensus are the cornerstones of every sex encounter. Make sure that everyone involved feels comfortable and is on the same wavelength. Contraception should always be used to minimize the risk of sexually transmitted diseases. 
 Pro tip: If you feel uncomfortable or something isn&#039;t going the way you imagined, it&#039;s perfectly fine to break off the date. Your well-being comes first. 
 What should I consider after the date? 
 After the meeting, it is important to talk openly and honestly about the experience if you want to. A short follow-up conversation or an exchange via message can help to clear up misunderstandings and round off the experience. If you felt good, it&#039;s always a nice gesture to let the other person know. 
 Pro tips for a successful sex date 
 
  Self-confidence : The more confident you feel, the more you will be able to enjoy the date. Trust your instincts and be honest with yourself. 
  Communication : Keep communication open and respectful before, during and after the date. 
  Set boundaries : It&#039;s perfectly fine to set clear boundaries and communicate them. 
 
 Conclusion: Your sex date - safe, relaxed and exciting 
 A sex date can be an exciting and rewarding experience if you prepare well and follow the right steps. Communication, safety and respect are the keys to getting the most out of the encounter and having fun in the process. 
   
 Suitable accessories for your date 
 
  Condoms : Indispensable for safety during sex encounters. 
  Lubricant : For a more pleasurable experience. 
  Discreet storage : A small bag for your accessories that you take with you to the meeting. 
 
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                            <updated>2024-09-12T09:45:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about GILF</title>
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                 GILF is an acronym for &quot;Grandmother I&#039;d Like to F***&quot; and describes the erotic attraction to mature, significantly older women who are often already grandmothers. This always refers to adult, unrelated persons. In this GILF guide, you&#039;ll find out why mature women can be so attractive, how to treat this preference with respect and what you should look out for when flirting, dating or entering into a relationship with an older woman. 
 As with the well-known MILF phenomenon, GILF is based on the desire for experience, inner peace and a special erotic aura. It is crucial that all encounters are consensual, respectful and free from familial dependencies. 
  More sensual guides about pleasure &amp;amp; experience: 
 
  Smoking - Smoking as fetish and passion  
  FLR, TPE and female dominance in a relationship  
  Sex positions in the car - the ultimate guide  
 
 
 1. What makes GILFs so attractive? 
 The attraction of mature women is based on various factors that often become more intense over time. Many people describe their GILF preference less in terms of age and more in terms of certain characteristics: 
 
  Experience:  mature women often bring a depth of life and sexual experience to the table. They know their bodies, know what they like and can communicate this clearly. 
  Self-confidence:  As they get older, their composure often grows as well. Many GILFs radiate inner strength and independence - qualities that can have an extremely erotic effect. 
  Mature beauty:  Wrinkles, gray hair or a body that does not conform to perfect ideals are experienced as an expression of history, character and authenticity. 
  Erotic charisma : The mixture of experience, self-confidence and maturity often creates a deep sensual aura that goes beyond mere looks. 
 
  Tip for beginners:  If you notice that you are particularly attracted to GILFs, first perceive this preference without judgment. You don&#039;t have to explain or justify it to anyone straight away. The only important thing is that everyone involved is of legal age and not related and that you treat your fantasies with respect. 
 2. Dealing with the GILF preference 
 If you are attracted to mature women, it is important to live your GILF preference consciously and respectfully. The term itself is often used humorously or in pop culture, but it can also be perceived as objectifying. 
 
  Respect comes first:  she is not just a &quot;GILF&quot;, but a complete person with a history, feelings and boundaries. Be careful not to reduce her to her age or her role as a grandmother. 
  Language with sensitivity:  Use the word GILF more as a euphemism in private conversations, not as a label in public. Terms such as &quot;mature woman&quot; or &quot;experienced partner&quot; are often more pleasant. 
  No family relationships:  Real-life relationships between relatives are taboo. GILF fantasies relate to older women who are strangers or loosely known, never to family members. 
 
 As with all sexual preferences, as long as everything is consensual, legal and respectful, your GILF preference is a private part of your sexuality. 
 3. Tips for dating mature women 
 If you don&#039;t just want to fantasize, but really want to get to know a mature woman, an authentic, appreciative approach will help you more than flat pick-up lines. 
 
  Confident, but not pushy:  Many older women appreciate young partners who know what they want without coming across as arrogant. Show interest, but leave her room to decide for herself. 
  Genuine interest in her person:  Listen, ask about her life, experiences and passions. Your attention shows that you perceive them as a person - not just as a fantasy figure. 
  Communicate about expectations:  Some GILFs are looking for adventure, others for a committed relationship. Talk about your expectations early on to avoid disappointment. 
  Talk about the age difference in a relaxed manner:  If the difference is big, discuss it openly. Humor and honesty take the pressure off many insecurities. 
 
  Advanced tip:  If you have already had experience with more mature women, be careful not to unconsciously compare every new encounter with previous partners. Every GILF is a unique personality with individual boundaries and desires. 
 4. GILFs in pop culture 
 GILFs appear again and again in films, series and the adult industry. Older women are often portrayed as particularly alluring, confident and sexually very experienced. 
 
  Movies &amp;amp; series:  Stories about relationships with significantly older women or about &quot;late&quot; sexual self-discovery show that attractiveness is not a question of age. 
  Adult entertainment:  Categories relating to MILF and GILF have a firm place in the adult entertainment industry. They reflect fantasies, but are not always a realistic picture of real relationships. 
  Art &amp;amp; literature:  Mature women appear as a muse, a symbol of experience, wisdom and self-determined sexuality. 
 
 Pop culture images can inspire, but are always stylized. For your own encounters, only the real desires and boundaries of the people involved count. 
 5. Advantages and challenges of a relationship with mature women 
 A relationship with a significant age difference can be wonderful, but also challenging. In the GILF context, everyday life plays a major role alongside eroticism. 
 
  Possible advantages:  Maturity, clarity and life experience often lead to less drama and more honesty. Many older women have learned what is good for them - and what is not. 
  Possible challenges:  Different life stages, children, grandchildren or social expectations can create pressure. Comments from those around you sometimes demand extra security and cohesion. 
 
 It is important that you as a couple decide for yourselves whether you want to go down this path together - not those around you. 
  Tip for experienced couples:  If you have been in a relationship with a significant age difference for a long time, it can help to regularly talk about future topics: Health, family celebrations, career plans. This will keep your relationship stable and realistic. 
 Tips for all levels - GILF step by step 
 Whether you&#039;re just fantasizing, want to experience first dates with more mature women or are already in a committed relationship: This overview will help you to consciously shape your GILF preference. 
 Level 1 - explore curious fantasies 
 
 Accept your attraction to GILFs as a part of your sexuality without judging it. 
 Study the image of mature women in the media and ask yourself which aspects really appeal to you: charisma, calmness, experience? 
 Start by talking about your preference with trusted people or in anonymous communities if this helps you to feel more confident. 
 
 Level 2 - first dates and encounters 
 
 Seek contact with mature women via suitable platforms or in real life - always respectfully and without any secret ulterior motives. 
 Be honest, but not crude: You can mention her age as something positive without reducing her to the term GILF. 
 Talk about expectations early on: Are you interested in a fling, a casual liaison or a committed relationship? 
 
 Level 3 - committed relationship with age difference 
 
 As a couple, consciously face your environment: if questions or comments come up, decide together how you want to react. 
 Plan your future realistically: differences in health, career or retirement can shape your everyday life. 
 Actively nurture your sexuality - with openness, humor and mutual curiosity. Maturity does not mean the end of pleasure, but a different pace and focus. 
 
 More fantasies can be added at each stage - from playful dates to special preferences or fetishes that you want to discover together. For example, guides such as the article on  bondage for beginners  can provide inspiration if you want to expand your dynamic in a playful way. 
 6. Conclusion: live your GILF preference with confidence 
 GILF is more than just a buzzword from movies or chats. It&#039;s often based on the desire to meet mature, self-confident women who know who they are and what they want. If you are attracted to older women, you can accept this preference - as long as you act respectfully, honestly and consensually. 
 With clear communication, mindfulness and mutual appreciation, a relationship or affair with a mature woman can be just as fulfilling, intense and loving as any other. The decisive factor is not the year of birth, but how you treat each other - with respect, openness and genuine desire for each other. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about the erotic market</title>
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                                            Discover our comprehensive guide to the adult market! Find out all about current trends, product categories and valuable tips for buying erotic products. Enrich your love life with high-quality articles from Steeltoyz.
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                 The erotic market is a diverse and growing segment that has developed significantly in recent years. With increasing social change and openness towards sexuality, the range of products on offer in this area has also increased enormously. This guide gives you a comprehensive overview of the adult market, from current trends to tips for buying products. 
 1. The adult market through the ages 
 The adult market has changed significantly over the last few decades. While the topic of sexuality was taboo for a long time, we are now experiencing a new openness. Online stores and specialized stores have made access easier and the variety of products has grown enormously. There are also more and more innovative products that are specially tailored to the needs of modern customers. 
 2. The most important product categories in the adult market 
 The adult market is divided into different product categories that have been developed for different needs and preferences. Here is an overview: 
 
  Sex toys:  from classic vibrators and dildos to innovative gadgets such as app-controlled devices, the range is huge. Simple models are recommended for beginners, while more advanced users will enjoy products with additional functions. 
  Love swings and bondage accessories:  For couples looking for variety, there is a wide range of products that can make their love life more exciting. Bondage sets, handcuffs and love swings are just a few examples. 
  Erotic clothing:  Lingerie, corsets and other erotic outfits play a major role in the erotic market. They are not only sexy, but can also boost self-confidence. 
  Lubricants and care products:  These products are essential for a pleasurable experience. They come in different varieties, from water-based to silicone-based lubricants. 
  BDSM and fetish products:  This niche has grown in popularity in recent years. From whips to latex outfits, every lover of extreme play will find the right product here. 
 
 3. Trends and developments in the erotic market 
 The adult market is constantly changing and new trends regularly conquer the scene. The following developments are currently particularly noteworthy: 
 
  Technology in the bedroom:  more and more sex toys are app-controlled, offering completely new possibilities. Virtual reality pornography and interactive gadgets are also opening up new dimensions of pleasure. 
  Sustainability:  Sustainability is also playing an increasingly important role in the erotic market. Products made from environmentally friendly materials, reusable packaging and fair production conditions are becoming increasingly popular. 
  Personalization:  Tailor-made products that can be individually adapted to customers&#039; needs are on the rise. This could be personalized dildos or lubricants specially tailored to the body, for example. 
  Inclusivity:  The market is becoming increasingly diverse. Products for all genders, sexual orientations and body shapes are being offered to meet the needs of a broad target group. 
 
 4. Tips for buying erotic products 
 When buying erotic products, there are a few things to consider in order to have the best possible experience: 
 
  Educate yourself:  Before you buy a product, you should inform yourself extensively. Read reviews, look at test reports and compare different models. 
  Pay attention to quality:  High-quality products are made from safe materials such as silicone, which is hypoallergenic and easy to clean. Avoid products made from cheap materials that may be harmful to your health. 
  Try new things:  The adult market offers an enormous variety. Be open to new things and try out different products to find out what you and your partner like best. 
  Discretion:  When buying online, make sure that the store offers discreet packaging and delivery to protect your privacy. 
  Care and cleaning:  Invest in suitable cleaning products for your toys to ensure their longevity and maintain hygienic standards. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
 The adult market offers something for everyone, regardless of individual preferences and needs. Whether you are looking for new experiences, want to spice up your love life or are simply curious - the variety and innovations in this market are impressive. Take advantage of the numerous offers, inform yourself thoroughly and let yourself be inspired. With the right selection of products, you can take your love life to the next level. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about Joyclub</title>
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                                            Discover our comprehensive guide to the adult market! Find out all about current trends, product categories and valuable tips for buying erotic products. Enrich your love life with high-quality articles from Steeltoyz.
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                 Joyclub is one of the best-known and largest erotic communities in the German-speaking world. With a large number of members, numerous functions and a lively community, Joyclub offers a wide range of opportunities for people who are looking for new erotic experiences or want to exchange ideas with like-minded people. This guide will tell you everything you need to know about Joyclub. 
 1. What is Joyclub? 
 Joyclub is an online community that specializes in erotic topics. The platform offers members the opportunity to exchange ideas with other people, make contacts and take part in various events. Joyclub is much more than a dating platform - the focus here is on a shared interest in eroticism and respectful interaction. 
 2. The most important functions of Joyclub 
 Joyclub offers a variety of functions that enable members to network and actively participate in community life: 
 
  Profiles and photos:  each member can create a personal profile and upload photos. These can be shared privately or publicly, depending on preference. 
  Forums and groups:  Joyclub has numerous forums and groups on a wide variety of erotic topics. Here you can exchange ideas with like-minded people and have interesting discussions. 
  Events and parties:  Joyclub offers an extensive events section where members can find and register for erotic parties and events. 
  Chat and messages:  Members can communicate directly with each other via the chat and messaging functions, making it easy to make new contacts. 
  Testimonials:  In this section, members share their personal experiences and adventures, which can be particularly helpful for newcomers. 
 
 3. How do I find my way around Joyclub? 
 For newcomers, Joyclub can seem overwhelming at first, but with a few tips, using the platform will quickly become second nature: 
 
  Fill out your profile carefully:  A meaningful profile is the key to success on Joyclub. Make an effort to describe your interests and upload authentic photos. 
  Participate actively:  The more active you are in forums and groups, the more attention you will attract. It&#039;s worth joining discussions and writing your own posts. 
  Communicate respectfully:  Joyclub attaches great importance to respectful interaction. Be friendly and respectful in your messages and chats to have a positive experience. 
  Attend events:  Take the opportunity to take part in the numerous events and parties. Here you can not only have fun, but also meet interesting people in real life. 
 
 4. Advantages and challenges of Joyclub 
 As with any platform, Joyclub offers both advantages and challenges: 
 
  Advantages:  Joyclub offers a large and active community, a variety of features and a safe environment for sharing erotic topics. 
  Challenges:  For beginners, the platform can seem complex at first, and it can take time to build a network and find the right contacts. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
  Joyclub  is a unique platform for anyone who is interested in eroticism and wants to network with like-minded people. With an active community, numerous functions and many events, Joyclub offers countless opportunities to gain new experiences and make exciting contacts. Whether you are new to the world of eroticism or already experienced, Joyclub has something for everyone. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about MyDirtyHobby</title>
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                                            Find out everything about MyDirtyHobby! Discover the world of amateur erotica, find tips for users and get insights into the experiences of creators and fans.
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                 MyDirtyHobby is one of the leading platforms for amateur erotica in German-speaking countries and has established itself as a meeting place for both creators and fans. The platform allows users to create their own content, share it with others and even earn an income. 
 At the same time, MyDirtyHobby offers fans the opportunity to consume exclusive and authentic content directly from their favorite creators. In this comprehensive guide, you&#039;ll learn everything you need to know about MyDirtyHobby - from how to register and set up a successful profile to tips on how to maximize your success. 
 1. What is MyDirtyHobby? 
 MyDirtyHobby was founded in 2006 and is now one of the largest and most popular platforms for amateur eroticism in Europe. Here, users can upload their own erotic content, be it in the form of photos, videos or live streams, and share it with an interested community. 
 In contrast to many professional porn sites, MyDirtyHobby focuses on authentic, unadorned eroticism that comes directly from the users themselves. The platform is aimed at anyone who wants to document their own sexual adventures, as well as fans who appreciate these genuine experiences. 
 2. Registering and setting up your MyDirtyHobby profile 
 Registering with MyDirtyHobby is straightforward and can be done in just a few steps. Here&#039;s how to get started: 
 
  Registration:  Visit the MyDirtyHobby website and click on &quot;Register&quot;. You must enter a valid e-mail address and choose a secure password. 
  Set up your profile:  After registering, you can customize your profile. Choose a username that suits you and upload a profile picture. This picture should be appealing but not too explicit and make you want more. 
  Description:  Fill out the profile description carefully. This is your chance to introduce yourself and your preferences. Describe what kind of content you want to create on MyDirtyHobby and what makes you different from other creators. 
  Visibility and privacy:  MyDirtyHobby offers various privacy settings. You can define who can see your profile and your content and whether certain content is only available to paying members. 
 
 3. Create and upload content on MyDirtyHobby 
 Your success on MyDirtyHobby depends heavily on the quality and regularity of your content. The following tips will help you look professional while remaining authentic: 
 
  Technical quality:  make sure your photos and videos are taken in good resolution. Good lighting and a stable camera stand are crucial for appealing results. 
  Authenticity : MyDirtyHobby users appreciate real, credible content. Be yourself and show your natural side instead of over-staging everything. 
  Variety of content:  Offer a mix of different formats - short clips, photo sets, longer videos or small series. Regular updates ensure that your fans stay interested. 
  Live streams : Live streams are a great way to interact directly with your fans. Schedule fixed broadcast times and announce them in advance so that as many viewers as possible tune in. 
 
 Recommended accessories &amp;amp; inspiration for MyDirtyHobby-Creator 
 
 Content ideas &amp;amp; fetish topics for your profile 
 With the right guides and stories, you can quickly find exciting topics that are perfect for clips, photo sets or live shows on MyDirtyHobby: 
 
   CBT Sex -    Guides   - ideal if you want to produce harder cock &amp;amp; ball play or CBT content. 
   Golden showers &amp;amp; golden showers   - gives you an overview of urophilia and creates a basis for fetish videos and special content. 
   Anal plug-Guide   - inspiration for Anal content, preparation, safety &amp;amp; types of play with plugs. 
   Hotwife &amp;amp; Cuckold   - perfect basis for cuckold scenarios, tease &amp;amp; denial and domination content. 
   Erotic fetish stories   - use stories as the basis for series, role-play or POV videos. 
 
 Take your time to choose one or two topics and develop recurring formats from them. This will create a recognizable style on MyDirtyHobby that will retain fans and increase your income in the long term. 
 
 4. Monetize your content 
 MyDirtyHobby offers various ways to earn money with your content. The most important options at a glance: 
 
  Pay-per-view:  You can offer individual videos or photo sets for sale. You set the prices yourself and users pay for direct access. 
  Subscriptions:  Offer your fans a subscription that gives them access to exclusive content. This allows you to build up a predictable, regular income. 
  Tips:  During live streams and in private messages, fans can send you tips to show their appreciation. 
  Merch &amp;amp; extras:  Many creators also offer personalized products or services - such as signed photos, individual videos or special fan packages. 
 
 5. Tips for fans: How to get the best out of MyDirtyHobby 
 As a fan, you can also make the most of MyDirtyHobby to discover exciting, exclusive content: 
 
  Find your favorite creators:  use the search function to find profiles that match your preferences. Subscribe to them so you don&#039;t miss out on new content. 
  Interact with creators:  Comment, like and write messages to build a personal connection. Creators appreciate active, respectful fans. 
  Use favorites:  Save your favorite content so you can access it quickly at any time. 
  Stay respectful:  Behind every profile is a real person. Respectful interaction ensures that the community on MyDirtyHobby remains pleasant for everyone. 
 
 6. Security and data protection on MyDirtyHobby 
 Your security and privacy should always be a priority when using MyDirtyHobby. Pay particular attention to the following points: 
 
  Maintain anonymity:  Use pseudonyms and avoid revealing personal information that could give away your identity. 
  Secure payment methods:  Use the secure payment methods offered by MyDirtyHobby. If possible, use anonymous payment methods such as prepaid cards. 
  Use blocking functions:  If you come across unwanted messages or abusive behavior, use the platform&#039;s blocking and reporting functions. 
 
 7. Legal aspects of using MyDirtyHobby 
 When creating and publishing content on MyDirtyHobby, it is important to observe the legal framework: 
 
  Copyrights:  Only publish content that you have created yourself or for which you own the rights. Using copyrighted material without permission can have legal consequences. 
  Consent:  If other people can be seen in your content, make sure that you have their express consent to publish it. 
  Protection of minors:  Make sure that no minors appear on your content. MyDirtyHobby is for adults only. 
 
 8. Conclusion: Use MyDirtyHobby sensibly 
 MyDirtyHobby offers a unique platform for anyone interested in amateur erotica - whether as a creator or a fan. With the right strategy, regular content and a focus on quality and authenticity, you can build a loyal fan base and have fun creating content at the same time. 
 Always think about security, data protection and legal requirements. Then you can enjoy the variety that MyDirtyHobby offers to the fullest - whether you&#039;re in front of the camera yourself or supporting your favorite creators. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-02T06:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about sex stories</title>
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                                            Discover the world of sex stories! Learn how to write, read and enjoy erotic stories. Get inspiration and tips for your own erotic stories at Steeltoyz.
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                 Sex stories are an exciting way to live out your fantasies and explore new sexual adventures - with no boundaries. Whether you want to write erotic stories yourself or are simply looking for inspiring tales, this guide will give you valuable tips and insights into the world of sex stories. 
 1. Why sex stories are so popular 
 Sex stories are very popular because they allow you to slip into other roles and experience erotic scenarios in a safe and controlled environment. They provide a platform for fantasies that may not be lived out in real life and are therefore an important source of sexual inspiration and fulfillment for many people. 
 2. The different types of sex stories 
 There are a variety of sex stories that cater to different preferences and interests. Here are some of the most popular categories: 
 
  Romantic narratives:  These stories focus on the emotional connection between the characters and combine romance with sensual experiences. 
  Explicit fantasies:  These stories focus on detailed descriptions of sexual acts and are intended for readers who want to delve deeply into physical aspects. 
  BDSM and fetish stories:  These tales explore the world of BDSM and various fetishes, often with a focus on power dynamics and specific preferences. 
  Adventure and role play:  These are stories in which the characters experience unusual or imaginative scenarios, such as role-playing games or sexual adventures in exotic locations. 
  LGBTQ+ stories:  These stories are aimed at the LGBTQ+ community and include a wide range of stories that deal with same-sex love and sexuality. 
 
 3. Tips for writing your own sex stories 
 If you want to write a sex story yourself, the following tips can help you create a gripping and arousing narrative: 
 
  Let your imagination run wild:  there are no limits when it comes to sex stories. Allow yourself to explore unusual or forbidden fantasies. 
  Develop interesting characters:  Good stories live from their characters. Make sure your characters seem authentic and have a certain depth. 
  Use all the senses:  Descriptions that refer to all five senses can make the story more vivid and sensual. Think about smells, sounds and touch. 
  Build suspense:  A good sex story shouldn&#039;t reveal everything at once. Build up suspense and lead your readers step by step to the climax. 
  Be respectful:  Even if it&#039;s a fantasy, you should always make sure that the characters&#039; actions are consensual and treated with respect. 
 
 4. Where you can find good sex stories 
 There are numerous platforms on the internet where you can read sex stories and share them with others. Some of the best-known sites are 
 
  Erotic communities:  forums and community sites offer a wide range of stories written by members. You can also get feedback on your own stories here. 
  Online libraries:  There are specialized websites that offer an extensive collection of sex stories. These are often sorted by category so that you can easily find the right stories for you. 
  E-books and audiobooks:  If you prefer to read or listen offline, you can find a large selection of erotic stories in the popular e-book stores and audiobook platforms. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
 Sex stories are a wonderful way to explore your own sexuality and discover new fantasies. Whether you read them or write them yourself, they can enrich your love life and show you new perspectives. Be inspired by the variety of stories and immerse yourself in the fascinating world of erotic stories. 
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                            <updated>2024-09-01T08:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Clit massage - how to make your partner tremble</title>
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                                            Hey you, would you like to pamper your partner in a wonderful way and give her relaxation and pleasure at the same time? Then a clitoral massage is just the thing for you. In this guide, I&#039;ll show you how you can discover a new dimension of pampering for your partner with a cl...
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                 A gentle, loving clitoral massage can rock her world - with no stress, no pressure to perform, just mindful touch, patience and lots of communication. Instead of &quot;quick and easy&quot;, it&#039;s about slowly building up her desire, reading her body and finding out together what feels really good for her. 
 In this guide, we&#039;ll show you step by step how to perform a clitoral massage so that your partner feels safe, desired and fully seen. You&#039;ll find out exactly where the clitoris is located, how to involve the entire vulva area, which toys are suitable - and why consensuality, trust and a loving approach are more important than any technique. 
  More pleasure &amp;amp; knowledge about clitoral massage: 
 
  What is squirting? Female ejaculation  
  Erotic massage for women - reaching climax with touch  
  Finding the right personal lubricant - guide to slippery pleasure  
  Exciting ideas for sex games for two  
 
 
 Table of contents 
 
  Pussy massage - more than just foreplay  
  Where is the clitoris located?  
  How to start a clitoral massage correctly 
 
  The first touches  
  Inner labia &amp;amp; wet area  
  Touching the clitoris - but not directly  
 
 
  Urethral area &amp;amp; G-spot  
  Clitoris massage with toys  
  Tips for all levels - clitoral massage step by step  
  The most important point: safety, communication, consensuality  
 
 Pussy massage - more than just foreplay 
 Pussy massage focuses on the entire intimate area: outer labia, inner labia, clitoris, urethral orifice and vaginal entrance. The aim is not to bring her to orgasm &quot;quickly&quot;, but to build up her arousal layer by layer. A clitoral massage can last 30-60 minutes - at this pace your body can really relax and open up. 
 Many women experience clitoral massage as a sexual practice in its own right. It is more than foreplay: a sensual ritual in which she doesn&#039;t have to do anything and can simply receive. Your focus is on her pleasure, her reactions, her breathing and what she signals to you. 
  Tip for beginners:  Consciously plan time for the clitoral massage - without TV, cell phone or pressure to &quot;deliver&quot;. Tell her beforehand that today is all about her and that she doesn&#039;t have to give anything back. This feeling of security and devotion alone can be enormously arousing. 
 Where is the clitoris located? 
 The clitoris is much bigger than most people think. The visible button above the vaginal opening is just the tip of the iceberg. The clitoral complex runs like an upside-down &quot;Y&quot; in the body: 
 
 Clitoral head (the visible tip) 
 Clitoral hood (the small fold of skin that protects the tip) 
 Clitoral hood along the labia minora 
 deeper roots that go into the pelvic floor 
 
 So when you give a clitoral massage, you are always stimulating more than just &quot;the spot&quot;. By including the labia, the area around the entrance to the urethra and the entrance to the vagina, you reach the entire structure - and often achieve more intense orgasms. 
 How to start the clitoris massage correctly 
 A good clitoral massage starts long before you touch the clitoris directly. First create an atmosphere in which she can let herself go: 
 
 pleasant, warm light or candlelight 
 a comfortable position for her (lying on her back with a pillow, legs slightly open) 
 clean hands, short nails, gloves if she likes them 
 always have a suitable lubricant ready - depending on her preferences, e.g. according to this guide:  finding the right lubricant  
 
 Talk to her: What kind of touch does she like? Are there any no-goes? Would she prefer soft, gentle and cuddly or more intense, dominant and powerful? A clitoral massage is all about communication. 
 The first touches 
 Start far away from the clitoris and work your way slowly. Stroke your thighs, bottom, stomach and mons veneris. Let your hands warm up and &quot;get to know&quot; her body. 
 
 Calmly stroke the mound of Venus with the flat of your hand 
 gently knead the outer labia without tugging 
 use pressure rather than tickling strokes 
 
 Observe her breathing, small twitches, a soft sigh - these are all signs that her arousal is increasing. 
 Inner labia &amp;amp; wet area 
 As soon as she is noticeably aroused and some moisture can be seen or felt, you can turn your attention to the labia minora. They have more blood flow and are very sensitive. 
 Glide two well-moistened fingers slowly along the edges of the labia minora. You can: 
 
 stroke upwards from the entrance to the vagina with light pressure 
 gently press the labia against each other 
 make small, circular movements without hitting the clitoris directly 
 
 Touch the clitoris - but not directly 
 Many women find direct, rapid friction on the clitoris too intense or even unpleasant - especially at the beginning. Therefore, when massaging the clitoris: start indirectly. 
 First focus on the clitoral hood and the surrounding area: 
 
 gently run a finger over the foreskin, from bottom to top 
 slowly stroke the area above the clitoris from left to right 
 place two fingers to the right and left of the clitoris and apply light pressure inwards 
 
 You can vary the pressure, increase or decrease the speed slightly - but always in conjunction with her reactions. Feel free to ask her to tell you if she wants &#039;more&#039; or if something is getting too much. This won&#039;t make your clitoral massage any less sensual, but even more intense. 
 Urethral area &amp;amp; G-spot 
 Below the clitoris, between the clitoris and the entrance to the vagina, is the area around the entrance to the urethra. It is very rich in nerves and an extremely erogenous zone for many women. 
 Medium, circular pressure can be particularly effective here. Instead of rubbing, place a finger and draw small circles. Again, pay attention to her breathing, twitching in her stomach or a hollow back - these are strong signals of pleasure. 
 If she is wet enough and feels like it, you can insert a finger into her vagina. You will find the famous G-spot, a slightly rougher, spongy area, about a finger&#039;s depth on the front wall (belly side). Now combine 
 
 a finger inside the G-spot with &quot;come-hither&quot; movements 
 a gentle clitoral massage or pressure on the outside of the clitoral hood 
 
 This combination can lead to particularly deep, wave-like orgasms - and in some cases also to squirting. If you&#039;re interested, it&#039;s worth taking a look at the guide  &quot;What is squirting?&quot;.  
 Clitoral massage with toys 
 Toys are an addition to your clitoral massage - not a replacement. Only use them when she is already clearly aroused and her body is &quot;calling&quot; for more stimulation. 
 Popular aids are, for example 
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            <title type="text">Sex games for more fun in bed</title>
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                  Different sex games and types of games can keep the love life exciting and thrilling. It is important to keep an open mind and to consider your own limits and the limits of your partner. If you are curious and open-minded, you can discover completely new forms of pleasure for yourself.  
 Sex is fun, releases happiness hormones and is important for a healthy relationship. 
  Nevertheless, sexual desire must be kept awake and actively played with  so that boredom does not set in between the sheets even in longer relationships. 
 How you enrich your sex life with your partner is of course up to you. We show you ten different sex games with which you can spice up your sex life and with which you will have a lot of fun together. 
 Sex games No.1: Sextoys 
 Sex toys are a great enrichment for joint sex and can be used in completely different ways. There are sex toys for men and sex toys for women, toys which you can use during sex and those which give you pleasure before and after. The variety in this area is amazing. 
 There are suitable toys for you for virtually every desire and every form of satisfaction. If you incorporate sex toys into your own love play and use them extensively, you will not only get to know your partner and your own body better, but you can also awaken many a desire in a more targeted way. Take advantage of the wide selection of sex toys at Steeltoyz and get involved in a few experiments. 
 You will surely be surprised how intense sex can feel with the right sex toys. Whether it&#039;s a  cock ring , vibrator, masturbator or dildo, your pleasure will decide the selection.&#039; [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;385&quot; ] 
 Sex games no.2: Self-service 
 Most people satisfy themselves. This is neither a secret nor particularly surprising. But have you ever let your partner watch you do it? Not only can satisfying yourself in front of each other be extremely exciting, but it can also show your partner how you like it best. 
 If you watch carefully, you learn a lot about your partner and can improve many things in your own technique. In addition, it is enormously hot to watch the partner, to see his or her pleasure, to hear and, if necessary, to satisfy yourself. 
 Just try it out. It may seem difficult to overcome at first, but the result will more than delight you.   
 Sex games No.3: Dirty Talk 
 Dirty talking is all in the mind. Many of us are inhibited when it comes to this area of pleasure. To let yourself go completely for once, to hurl your own lust at your partner and to reach deep into the box of dirty words is a real overcoming. 
 But if you manage it and simply impose no limits on yourself during sex, you will be more than thrilled by the effect. Feeling dirty and lustful, moaning all the dirty things and cravings in your partner&#039;s face and sounding like you&#039;re in a real porn movie can increase your pleasure considerably. 
 Many men, for example, are thrilled when their partner surprises you with the dirty talk. However, women can also indulge in their lust many times easier if they realize that the partner also gives free rein to his desires with full energy. 
   
 Sex games No.4: On demand 
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 This is a particularly exciting game for your partnership. You agree on a fixed period of time - for example a week - in which your partner must be available to you and your sexual desires. If the desire overcomes you, your partner should be available and satisfy you. 
  Of course, the following applies here:  As soon as one of you has no more desire the game is to be terminated immediately. With this game you can, for example, sweeten each other&#039;s vacations. But it can be enormously pleasurable if you read, for example, an erotic book, this place captivates you, excites you and takes you and you can ask your partner to satisfy you in the process and this is done in no uncertain terms.   
 Sex games #5: Ouch! 
 SM games can be extremely exciting. After all, it doesn&#039;t always have to come to hardcore SM games. But a little tighter grip, the one or other flap or suitable SM sex toys can definitely enrich the sex life. Remember that SM or BDSM does not only consist of painful games.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;400&quot; ] 
 Role-playing, the game of power and submission and many small elements from these areas can definitely enrich your sex life. Try it out and enjoy the wild ride into new realms of sexuality. Who knows, maybe you will learn something new about yourself or your partner. There are so many different types of play in S&amp;amp;M that you can try out and experience that you can discover new possibilities for many evenings together. 
 There are also quite a few SM studios that rent out their premises and thus offer you the opportunity to try out the various elements without having to remodel your own apartment. 
   
 Sex games No.6: Always at your service 
 Again, dominance and submission is an important part of the game. In one evening, you get to be completely pampered by your partner. And not only in a sexual way. A soaking bath, delicious champagne or sparkling wine, a cooked dinner are good ways to demonstrate your partner your own devotion. 
 Massages, caresses and of course sex and satisfaction make this evening a real highlight. The partner should put all their own needs on the back burner for this evening and concentrate entirely on you and your feelings. This game can bring both partners equally much pleasure, as it is no problem to simply take turns on different days.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;415&quot; ] 
 However, if dominant and submissive traits are already present, they can of course be experienced especially intensively during such a game. 
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 Sex Games No.7: Playing with the Elements 
 Heat and cold are not only fun, but can also significantly increase arousal. Ice cubes and candle wax are the easiest way to try this type of game once. If you are blindfolded and waiting to be touched and then confronted with cold or heat, you will find these touches particularly stimulating. 
 For the candles, please use only real SM candles, which have a lower melting temperature and thus cannot cause burns. So you can enjoy the games safely and with much pleasure. These games are also very popular with bondage games combined, because thus the expectation of the partner can be stimulated much more targeted.   [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;395&quot; ] 
 Sex toys made of stainless steel, for example, can also be used at different temperature levels if you bring them to the corresponding desired temperature in a water bath. Even a few degrees difference can influence the effect enormously.   
 Sex games no.8: When you come, I decide 
 Control plays an important role in sex. Giving up this control and letting your partner completely determine your own sexual satisfaction can be damn hard, but also enormously horny. It is to spoil the partner or the partner with the fingers, the mouth or with sex toys so that the climax is imminent. 
 But the redemption may well be a long time coming. Briefly drinking a glass of water or skillfully keeping the partner at this level can become a delicious torment for the passive partner. You alone determine when your partner may come to the redeeming climax. 
 This is one of the precursors to chastity, where all sexual acts are controlled exclusively by the partner. 
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 Sex games #9: Extraordinary places 
 Sex in unusual places can be enormously hot and tempting. The threat of a casual onlooker, the adrenaline coursing through your veins, and the unfamiliar surroundings provide a very special thrill and make this sex especially pleasurable. 
 For the beginning you should choose a place where you do not have to expect many observers. In summer, for example, look for a well-protected area in the forest, which is far enough away from all paths. Of course you can choose many other places, but you should always make sure that you are not too easy to recognize and to see. 
 Even spacious  locker rooms in stores  regularly become play places for many men and women who are looking for that special kick. 
 Sex games no.10: Don&#039;t touch this 
 Just being pampered during sex and foreplay is difficult for many people. As a rule, men and women want to feel their partner, pamper them, caress them and touch them. But this is exactly what you make impossible in this game. 
 Withdraw skillfully, look for good and safe positions or carefully tie up your partner in case of emergency, when he or she just can&#039;t keep their hands off you. This game provides additional  excitement  and can almost drive your partner crazy. 
 When exactly you want to surrender to the hands and body of your partner, you alone can determine. 
   
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 Sex Games No.11: Tease &amp;amp; Denial 
 Tease &amp;amp; Denial allows you to stall your partner. You don&#039;t keep him chaste forever, but you drag it out until he is allowed to come. It&#039;s all about getting your partner really hot, but not letting him get it on right away. Walk past him in suspenders when you know he has no time. 
 Not even a quickie should be possible for him. Just before he has to go to work is a good time. If he comes home afterwards, he will literally pounce on you. You can always be creative with Tease &amp;amp; Denial and always come up with other things to get your partner hot. 
 It is also allowed to give him a chastity cage, so you make sure that he does not secretly get it himself.   
 Sex games no.12: Experience anal pleasure 
 Anal sex in itself is nothing new anymore. However, still not everyone is aware of anilingus. This is a wonderful sex practice that means the same feelings for both sexes. Anilingus is also called rimjob. This is about anus licking. 
 The anus is full of sensitive nerve endings. Let him lick you and you will see what feelings of pleasure this arouses in you. The tongue can be used in different ways. From vigorous licking to penetration with the tip of the tongue, everything is open to you. 
 Anilingus is also a good foreplay for the actual anal intercourse. A lot of trust and cleanliness are of course basic requirements for this sex practice.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;373&quot; ] 
 Sex games no.13: Try your hand at the Kamasutra 
 If you really want variety in bed, try the Kama Sutra. Nowadays you don&#039;t even need the book. There is the internet. This always offers new excerpts from the ever-popular Kamasutra book. The basic requirement is an unprejudiced attitude towards new things and some flexibility. 
 It can be advantageous if a yoga course has been taken beforehand. However, many positions also work if you are just a little flexible. Through the Kamasutra you will get to know your body and that of your partner in a whole new way. You will touch parts of your body that have hardly received any attention before. 
 This is how easy and fast you can rediscover yourself. But be careful, don&#039;t start with the most complicated positions right away. It makes sense to always increase.   
 Sex games No.14: Now the man becomes a woman 
 Your most secret desire is to have sex in women&#039;s clothes? Okay fine, but you are not a woman? Alright, even then you can be granted sex in women&#039;s clothing. Many women even share the passion and want to force your man into women&#039;s clothing. This is called forced feminization and can bring you a whole new fun in bed. 
 For the woman, it is nice to be able to feel the soft, special fabrics as only the man does otherwise. For the man, forced feminization means humiliation. He is a man and they do not wear women&#039;s clothes. You emasculate your partner and this naturally turns him on. He feels comfortable in the clothes, but is a little ashamed. He wants to be loved. How you do this, you can choose.   
 Sex games No.15: Animal wild 
 Let it get animal wild. Whether it&#039;s a predatory cat or a submissive dog, there&#039;s a lot going on in pet play. You can throw yourself into a sexy catsuit and play the wild feline predator. It&#039;s up to your partner to shame you. If you get prickly, he might reach for the whip to tame you.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;399&quot; ] 
 As a submissive little dog, on the other hand, you can have a collar and leash put on you directly. Let them gently scratch your belly or educate you with harsh measures. For pet play, there are not only collars, leashes and costumes, but also appropriate anal plugs with animal tails.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;393&quot; ] 
 The plugs feature fake hair tails, rods or even curly tails on the outer end. Be animal wild in your very own way. 
 
 Sex games no.16: Shoot your own porn 
 Documenting your own love life not only for yourself but also for others can make for even more tingling eroticism. Whether via the well-known video portals or via Onlyfans or cam sites, the possibilities to present yourself are almost endless. 
 Whether you show your own face or hide behind masks and filters is up to you. But joint sex games and hot porn are in the trends and make it even more exciting for couples to diversify your own sex game. 
 Especially if you respond to wishes or comments in the comments and integrate them into your own love game. The supreme discipline in this area is of course live cams, where you can act directly and interactively with your viewers. Whether you then still feel pleasure or whether it is too intimate, everyone must try it out for themselves. 
 Sex games No.17: Role-playing - immerse yourself in another world 
 Hot sex games are very often role plays. These can be sometimes more and sometimes less fancy, but include a whole lot of toys and accessories. It is important that you choose the right equipment for the role plays. Really high heels to match the costume make the sin visible. 
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 Handcuffs and crop make a good figure in many a setting. The nurse in costume, who waits with thermometer and syringe for the next patient, makes the pulse beat up. The demure secretary with glasses, blouse and skirt, which is called to dictation still belongs to the classics in this area. Couples who appreciate not only the setting but also the power imbalance can slip into the most diverse roles. Perfect for those who want a little more variety or like to switch roles. 
 Sex games No.18: From climax to climax 
 Both men and women love to reach orgasm and the relaxation and recovery that comes afterwards. But what if just after reaching the climax you do not stop with the stimulation. Whether it is the penis or the clitoris, further touches can both awaken new desire and be unpleasant. However, if you&#039;re in a position where you can&#039;t or shouldn&#039;t resist, it doesn&#039;t get any easier. 
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 Being further stimulated with handcuffs on the penis and glans or vulva and clitoris can become a tingling torture. Especially by using different sex toys with different stimuli, this can lead to a new climax over and over again. Staggering from orgasm to orgasm is exhausting and gratifying at the same time. And as an active partner, stimulating your partner&#039;s penis or clitoris is as well. 
 
  You see how easy it can be to spice up and enrich your own sex life. Of course, there are no limits to your imagination and our suggestions cover only a very small part of the possibilities. Try to find out which games you enjoy and where your interests lie and then gradually expand your own horizons. 
 Stay curious about each other and your desire will hardly fall asleep. 
  Do you also have great ideas for sex games?  Then write to us! We will then include them. 
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            <title type="text">Vaginal Fisting - A safe guide</title>
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                 If you are interested in vaginal Fisting, it is important that you are fully informed and pay attention to safety. In this guide you will find step-by-step instructions for Vaginal Fisting as well as important tips for preparation, safety and aftercare. 
 What is fisting? 
 Vaginal Fisting involves penetrating the vagina with the hand or forearm. This can lead to a stretching of the vaginal muscles, which can be felt as particularly intense. The prerequisite for Vaginal Fisting is a sufficient degree of relaxation, moisture and elasticity of the vagina as well as a certain amount of experience and practice. 
 How do I prepare for Vaginal Fisting? 
 Before Vaginal Fisting it is important that you warm up and relax sufficiently. Extensive preparation with plenty of time and patience can minimize the risk of injury. You should also make sure you are sufficiently wet to make penetration more comfortable. Use a water-based lubricant and start stretching slowly. 
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 Step-by-step vaginal instructions Fisting 
 
 Make sure your hands and forearms are clean and that you have short fingernails. 
 Use a water-based lubricant and apply it generously to your hand and forearm. 
 Start stretching slowly, inserting one finger first and then gradually adding more fingers. 
 Use a circular motion to relax the muscles of the vagina. 
 When you are ready, add your forearm and move slowly and carefully. 
 Pay attention to your body&#039;s signals and stop immediately if you feel pain or discomfort. 
 
 Vaginal safety tips Fisting 
 
 To keep vaginal Fisting safe, it&#039;s important that you pay attention to certain things: 
 Always use a lubricant and apply it liberally. 
 Avoid force and be careful not to strain your body. 
 Talk to your partner beforehand about boundaries and communication. 
 Observe your body and watch for pain or discomfort. 
 
 After the vaginal Fisting: Aftercare and regeneration 
 After vaginal Fisting you should take extra good care of your body and give it a chance to regenerate. Use a mild cleanser to clean your vagina and then apply a soothing cream. Avoid sexual intercourse for a few days and make sure you get enough rest. 
 Recommended accessories for vaginal Fisting 
  Fisting there are special accessories that can make the experience safer and more comfortable:  
 1.  Latex gloves:  use latex gloves to improve hygiene and prevent injury. 
 2.  Lubricant:  a water-based lubricant is essential for vaginal Fisting, to make penetration more pleasant and safe. 
 3.  Shower head or water jet:  A shower head or water jet can be used before vaginal Fisting to clean and relax the vaginal muscles. 
 4.  Special dildos or plug training sets:  special dildos or plug training sets can help stretch the vaginal muscles and prepare them for vaginal Fisting. 
  Remember  that you need time, patience and experience to make vaginal Fisting safe and enjoyable. If you have questions or concerns, talk to your partner or seek support from a professional sex coach or therapist. Also, make sure you never feel pressured to do anything you don&#039;t want to or that is uncomfortable for you. Talk to each other about your boundaries and desires, and proceed gently to make the experience safe and enjoyable for everyone involved. 
  In summary,  vaginal Fisting is an intense sexual experience that requires preparation, experience and patience. However, with proper preparation, the right accessories, and attention to important safety information, vaginal Fisting can be made safe and enjoyable.&amp;nbsp; 
 It is also important to  be mindful of your body&#039;s needs and to take care of proper aftercare and recovery. 
 After Vaginal Fisting, you should take extra good care of your body and give it a chance to regenerate. Use a mild cleanser to clean your vagina, and then apply a soothing cream. Avoid sexual intercourse for a few days and make sure you get enough rest. 
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            <title type="text">What is a MILF? A comprehensive guide</title>
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                 Hello and welcome! If you want to know what exactly is behind the term  MILF , how it came about and why it is so polarizing, you&#039;ve come to the right place. We&#039;ll take a look at where the term comes from, how it&#039;s used in porn, pop culture and fantasies - and how you can treat it respectfully without reducing women to a cliché. 
 What is a MILF? 
 The abbreviation  MILF  stands for &quot;Mother I&#039;d like to fuck&quot;. The term originally comes from the English-speaking world and was mainly used in porn and pop culture. It refers to women who: 
 
 no longer quite fall into the &quot;girl&quot; category, 
 often (but not necessarily) have children, 
 and have a mature, self-confident, sexually attractive appearance. 
 
 Important:  MILF is not an exact age category . It&#039;s less about numbers on paper and more about how a woman is perceived - mature, desirable, experienced. 
  Tip for beginners:  If the term MILF excites you, first ask yourself: Am I talking about fantasy or real people? Never treat real women like a category.  Tip for advanced users:  Only use terms like MILF if it is clear that they are understood as a compliment - and if in doubt, ask whether your partner likes it.  Tip for experienced users:  Play with role models consciously: Mature woman, younger lover, dominant &quot;mother figure&quot; - but always clearly agreed and respectful. 
 MILF in porn - a category, not a diagnosis 
 In the porn industry, MILF is primarily a  pigeonhole  used to categorize films and actresses. It serves to appeal to certain fantasies: mature women who know what they want, perform lustfully and exude an adult presence. 
 However, there is no uniform definition. Some providers label women in their late 20s as MILFs, others much later. Others pay more attention to the &quot;look&quot;: make-up, clothing, style - less to the actual age. 
 Meaning &amp;amp; differentiation - mother, mature woman or just sexy? 
 The term contains the word &quot;mother&quot; - but  being a mother is not a requirement  to be labeled a MILF. Many porn titles only play with the image of the &quot;hot mom&quot; without the character portrayed even having children. 
 Some therefore see MILF more as a synonym for a  self-confident, mature woman  who is sexually active and knows her pleasure. Others place more value on the mother cliché. The decisive factor is that there is no fixed limit to what &quot;MILF&quot;  has to  be. The term remains subjective. 
 Different interpretations &amp;amp; personal fantasies 
 Because there is no clear definition of age, people interpret MILF very differently: 
 
 For some, MILF begins where the classic &quot;teen&quot; or &quot;college&quot; fantasy ends. 
 For others, a MILF is automatically a woman with children. 
 For still others, it&#039;s a kind of  power fantasy : an experienced, superior woman with a young lover. 
 
 Roles can be exaggerated, especially in fantasies - it&#039;s important that you can  distinguish between fantasy and reality . In bed, many things can be playfully exaggerated, but in real life, people need respect and equality. 
   
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 The charisma of a MILF - maturity is sexy 
 It is often forgotten that there can be a very positive core behind the buzzword MILF: the  eroticism of maturity, experience and self-confidence . Women who are perceived as MILFs often radiate: 
 
 I know my body. 
 I know what I like. 
 I am no longer so easily unsettled. 
 
 This calm, confident manner can be incredibly attractive. Mature sexuality means being able to define boundaries more clearly, express your desires and know your own body better - this often makes encounters more intense. 
 MILF, &quot;Mature&quot; &amp;amp; mature eroticism 
 In the porn and fetish sector, MILF often appears together with the term  &quot;mature&quot; . Both appeal to a similar fantasy: Women who fall out of the typical adolescent pigeonhole and have a special appeal precisely because of this. 
 However,  &quot;mature&quot; does not mean &quot;old&quot;,  but rather emphasizes being an adult. It&#039;s about women who are in life, perhaps have a job, family or long relationship experience - and are still, or precisely because of this, perceived as sexy. 
 Controversies &amp;amp; ethical concerns 
 As popular as the term MILF is, it is not without its problems. Points of criticism include, for example 
 
  Sexist reduction:  women are reduced to their &quot;fuck factor&quot;. 
  Fetishization of mothers:  Motherhood and sexuality are mixed up without asking whether the women concerned want this. 
  Double standard:  While mature women are often desired but at the same time devalued by society, men are celebrated for being &quot;experienced&quot;. 
 
 For some women, &quot;MILF&quot; is a  compliment , for others an  insult . Therefore, never use the term automatically - if in doubt, ask if your partner likes it, or rather speak neutrally about her maturity, charisma or experience. 
 MILF in pop culture &amp;amp; media 
 Films, series, music videos and memes have made the term MILF world-famous. It is often used humorously or exaggeratedly - for example as a &quot;typical neighbor&quot;, &quot;hot mom from school&quot; or &quot;forbidden fantasy&quot;. 
 These images can fuel fantasies, but can also put  pressure on real women  to be &quot;always attractive&quot;. It helps to remain critical here: Pop culture plays with clichés - you get to decide for yourself how you want to see and show yourself. 
 History &amp;amp; development of the term 
 The term MILF probably originated in the English-speaking world in the 1990s and first spread in the porn scene, later through films and the internet. From there, it migrated  into everyday life  as a  slang term . Today, many people are familiar with it, even if they don&#039;t watch porn. 
 Over time, different variations have developed: &quot;Step-MILF&quot;, &quot;Hot Mom&quot;, &quot;Mature Babe&quot; - all variations of the same basic motif:  the mature, sexually attractive woman . 
 Tips for all levels - MILF fantasies step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner:  - Start by exploring your fantasy in your mind or with solo sex. - Observe what exactly excites you: Maturity? Dominance? Experience? - Talk to your partner carefully about the topic without pigeonholing him/her.   Level 2 - Advanced:  - Incorporate the topic into role play: e.g. experienced woman &amp;amp; younger lover. - Use outfits such as elegant lingerie or business looks that emphasize maturity. - Define clear boundaries: What remains fantasy, what do you want to live out in real life?   Level 3 - Experienced:  - Combine your MILF/mature fantasies with other BDSM or power play elements if you want to. - Talk regularly about feelings: Does the &quot;mature role&quot; feel empowering or stressful? - Consciously use language, looks and rituals to emphasize the role - and also clearly leave it again. 
 Living MILF fantasies respectfully 
 Whether you like the term MILF or not - what matters is how you treat yourself and others. Here are a few guiding principles to help you make your fantasies pleasurable and respectful: 
 
  Self-determination:  every woman decides for herself what she wants to be called. 
  Consensuality : Role play and names are only erotic if everyone involved agrees. 
  Clarity:  Distinguish between porn fantasies and real expectations of real people. 
 
 A woman is always more than just her &quot;label&quot;. Maturity can be sensual, powerful and incredibly sexy - without you reducing it to three letters. 
  Conclusion:  MILF is a term that originated in porn, but is now deeply rooted in pop culture and fantasy. It usually describes mature, self-confident women with sexual charisma - but remains vague and often cliché-ridden. If you use the term or find yourself in it, you can consciously and self-determinedly fill it with content: as a symbol that mature sexuality can be just as passionate, playful and exciting as any other. 
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                            <updated>2023-01-31T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Pocket pussy - the ideal companion for on the go</title>
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 You are on the road a lot and still want to satisfy your sexual needs? Then a pocket pussy is just the thing for you! In this blog post we want to tell you everything you need to know about the pocket pussy and show you how you can best use it. 
 What is a pocket pussy? 
 A pocket pussy is an erotic toy designed primarily for men. It is a small, portable pussy that you can take with you anywhere. Pocket pussies come in a variety of designs and materials, such as silicone, cyberskin, or TPE. 
 How do I use a pocket pussy? 
 Using a pocket pussy is quite simple. First of all, you should clean it thoroughly before using it. After that, you can wet it with some lubricant and then put your penis inside. You can then use it like a normal pussy and enjoy yourself while masturbating. 
 What should I look for when buying a pocket pussy? 
 If you have decided to buy a pocket pussy, there are a few things you should consider. First of all, you should make sure that the material is safe and harmless to the body. Also, you should make sure that the pocket pussy comes from a reputable manufacturer and that it is of good quality. 
 Conclusion: Pocket pussy - the ideal companion for on the road 
 A pocket pussy is a practical and uncomplicated toy for men who travel a lot. It allows you to live out your sexuality on the go and make masturbation more exciting and adventurous. However, it is important that when you buy it, you make sure that the pocket pussy comes from a reputable manufacturer and that it is safe and harmless to the body. 
 
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                            <updated>2023-01-24T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Labia spreader: The application step by step</title>
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                                            Discover the world of labia spreaders. From choosing the right product to use and care, you&#039;ll find everything you need to know in this guide.
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 You have decided to try out a labia spreader - perhaps out of curiosity, perhaps out of lust, perhaps out of a desire to take a new, unobstructed look at your vulva. This small, intimate tool can intensify your own body awareness, make access easier and allow erotic games to unfold in a completely new way. To ensure that safety, well-being and pleasure are the focus at all times, this guide will accompany you step by step - respectfully, sensitively and sensually. 
 What is a labia spreader? 
 A labia spreader gently holds the outer or inner labia open. Originally used in sexual medicine, it is now also a popular toy for intimate exploration, BDSM elements and aesthetic play. It is particularly suitable for: 
 
 intensive self-examination &amp;amp; conscious body experience 
 targeted stimulation - manually or with toys 
 oral games and deeper accessibility 
 gynecophilic fetish scenarios 
 Photo shoots &amp;amp; live shows in the BDSM scene 
 
  Suitable categories to browse:    BDSM &amp;amp; Bondage    Role Play    Toy Cleaner &amp;amp; Care  
 How to choose the right labia spreader? 
 To ensure your experience remains pleasant and safe, it&#039;s worth choosing carefully. Pay attention to: 
 
  Size &amp;amp; opening width:  Choose an entry-level size if you are unsure. Spreaders that are too large can be overwhelming at first. 
  Material:  Body-friendly metals, smooth plastics or medical silicone are ideal - easy to clean and stable. 
  Adjustability:  Models with a screw mechanism or flexible brackets allow controlled stretching. 
  Special functions:  Some spreaders can be combined with restraints, vibrators or restraint systems for BDSM play. 
 
 Preparation: hygiene &amp;amp; safety 
 Calm, relaxed preparation creates confidence in your own body and increases pleasure. Note before use: 
 
  Cleaning the device:  wash thoroughly with water and mild soap before each use; metallic models can be sterilized. 
  Body hygiene:  Gentle cleaning of the vulva increases comfort and safety. 
  Plenty of lubricant : It is best to use water-based lubricant - it ensures suppleness and protects sensitive skin. 
  Relaxation : A few deep breaths, some time for yourself - this facilitates comfortable insertion and spreading. 
 
  Useful categories:    Lubricants    Handcuffs    ball gag  
 How to use a labia spreader? 
 Adopt a position that feels natural to you: lying on your back with your legs apart, knees drawn up or a soft cushion under your pelvis. Many also find the squatting position very intuitive. 
 
  Apply lubricant:  Both on the labia and on the contact surfaces of the spreader. 
  Apply gently:  Place the stirrups on both sides; they should rest comfortably and without pressure. 
  Spread slowly:  Increase the opening in small steps. A slight stretch may feel intense - pain, on the other hand, is a stop signal. 
  Check the position:  Is the spreader stable? Is anything pressing or rubbing? Adjust if necessary. 
  Pleasurable use:  Enjoy the unobstructed view, improved sensuality and easy access - whether for oral sex, fingering, toys or visual play. 
 
 Tips for erotic use 
 
  Intense foreplay : The open vulva can make oral sex deeper, more direct and more exciting. 
  Mirror games:  Discover yourself from new perspectives - a moment all to yourself. 
  BDSM combinations:  Restraints, eye masks or fixed positions can intensify the feeling of surrender. 
  Solo games:  Both hands remain free - ideal for vibrators or targeted stimulation. 
 
  For even more intense play:    Clit &amp;amp; breast suckers    Spanking toys    Clinic play accessories  
 Care and storage 
 Gentle care is essential after play to keep your toy hygienic and safe for a long time: 
 
 Clean with water and mild soap or - if possible - sterilize. 
 Allow to dry completely before storing. 
 Check for damage: Cracks, rough spots or loose screws mean replacement. 
 Store dust-free - ideally in a toy box or cloth bag. 
 
 When should you be careful? 
 
 In case of pain, severe burning or unusual sensations 
 In case of infection, inflammation or open sores 
 Immediately after piercings or surgery in the genital area 
 
 Conclusion: A tool for curious connoisseurs 
 A labia spreader can revitalize your sexual experience: more visibility, more intense sensations and completely new erotic and sensual possibilities - alone or as a couple. With calm, attentiveness and a high-quality model, the small toy becomes a great experience full of closeness, devotion and tingling excitement. 
 If you are unsure which model suits you best, it is worth taking a look at the Steeltoyz categories - there you will find spreaders, clinical accessories and additional toys for every level of experience. 
 
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                            <updated>2023-01-24T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Guide: Everything you need to know about erotic stories</title>
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                                            Immerse yourself in the world of erotic stories. Learn how to write, read and enjoy erotic stories. Get tips and inspiration for sensual adventures.
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                 Erotic stories offer a wonderful opportunity to live out fantasies, discover new erotic worlds and explore your own sexuality in a playful way. Whether you want to write stories yourself or are looking for inspiring tales, this guide will give you valuable insights into the world of erotic literature. 
 1. Why erotic stories are so appealing 
 Erotic stories have a long tradition and have fascinated people since time immemorial. They allow you to immerse yourself in a world of fantasy where anything is possible. These stories offer a safe space to live out secret desires and dreams without overstepping real boundaries. They can also enrich your love life by providing new ideas and stimulation. 
 2. The different types of erotic stories 
 Erotic stories are as varied as the fantasies they describe. Here are some of the most popular categories: 
 
  Romantic erotica:  Stories that focus on emotional connection and the romantic aspects of love, paired with sensual moments. 
  Explicit Narratives:  These stories focus on detailed and explicit descriptions of sexual acts and scenarios. 
  Fetish and BDSM stories:  These narratives explore specific preferences and fetishes, often linked to themes of dominance and submission. 
  Adventure and fantasy:  These are stories set in unusual settings, whether in the past, future or fantasy worlds. 
  LGBTQ+ erotica:  These stories are aimed at the LGBTQ+ community and reflect the diversity of sexual orientations and identities. 
 
 3. Tips for writing your own erotic stories 
 If you want to write your own erotic stories, these tips will help you write captivating and sensual narratives: 
 
  Go for vivid characters:  Interesting and authentic characters make a story really exciting. Give your characters depth and personality. 
  Build up suspense:  A good erotic story takes its time to build up the tension slowly. Let the plot develop before you get to the climax. 
  Use sensual descriptions:  The senses play a big role in erotic stories. Describe smells, sounds, touches and tastes to bring the atmosphere to life. 
  Explore different perspectives:  Tell your story from different points of view to give readers a comprehensive and multi-layered experience. 
  Be creative and experiment:  There are no hard and fast rules when writing erotic stories. Allow yourself to experiment with different styles and narrative techniques. 
 
 4. Where you can read erotic stories 
 There are many places where you can read and enjoy erotic stories. Here are some recommendations: 
 
  Online platforms:  There are numerous websites that offer erotic stories. Many of them are free and offer a wide range of categories and topics. 
  Community forums:  In special forums, members share their own stories and exchange experiences. You can also get feedback on your own stories here. 
  E-books and print media:  Erotic literature is also widely available in book form. You can find a variety of e-books and print books focusing on erotic themes in online stores. 
  Audiobooks:  If you prefer listening to reading, erotic audiobooks offer a sensual alternative. These are often professionally produced and can enhance the atmosphere of a story. 
 
 5. Conclusion 
 Erotic stories are a fascinating way to inspire your imagination and explore new erotic horizons. Whether you read them or write them yourself, they can help you discover and enjoy your sexuality in a new way. Be inspired by the variety of stories and immerse yourself in the world of sensual literature. 
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                            <updated>2022-11-01T08:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Blowjob History: The birthday Blowjob</title>
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                                            Men, I&#039;m sure you&#039;ve already heard one or two sex stories, maybe even various Blowjob stories. But rest assured that this experience report will expand your previous knowledge about oral sex. My boyfriend&#039;s birthday was coming up. Anyone who has had anything to do with men kno...
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                 A striptease as a foretaste 
 What could turn a man on better than an erotic dance? I placed a chair in the middle of the room and let him take a seat. To the sounds of the music, I put one knee between his legs, making the first body contact. I brought my bust very close to his face so that he could pull down the zipper of my top with his mouth. 
 I wore the red bra set he was so into and let him enjoy the sight. His hands landed on my ass and I gyrated my ass a few times for him. After that, I turned around and bent forward so he could undo the clasp of the miniskirt as well. I let him take off the garment for me. 
 Since I was wearing the matching red thong, I knew he was bound to start secretly drooling at the sight behind me.  Now it was my turn to unwrap my gift. Slowly I unfastened every single button of his shirt so that I could tear off the garment a short time later. 
 Now it was his pants&#039; turn. The belt was quickly opened and removed. The button I opened with my fingers, for the zipper I also used my mouth. This had the result that under his pants was already a huge bulge to see. I quickly pulled down the last piece of clothing and let him help me out of my underwear. 
 The Blowjob of his life 
 I took two steps backwards and told him to follow me. Of course, he immediately complied with the request. I led him into the bedroom and pointed to the bed. He willingly lay down and I began to cover his chest with kisses. Very slowly I worked my way down. 
 When he realized where the journey was going, he let out a satisfied grunt. Despite everything, I had to grin. My sweetheart was already unable to speak.  Finally, I arrived at his groin. 
 His cock stood bulging upwards and pulsated with horniness. A really delicious sight, but I still wanted to let him wriggle a bit. I covered the insides of his thighs with kisses and then devoted myself to his testicles. Gently I took one egg after the other in my mouth and began to suck. 
 From a little further up I heard sounds of deepest approval.  Now it was time to give him what we both wanted so much. I enclosed his member with my lips and tasted his glans with my tongue. I went deeper so that I could take more of his penis into my mouth. The tip of my tongue circled his glans. 
 Spurred on by his moans, I began to blow his cock like crazy. I always paid attention to his breathing and adjusted my speed accordingly. After all, I didn&#039;t want him to come before I planned it. 
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 A tingling finish 
 I had to force myself to release his tasty cock. For comfort, I placed a hand around it, moving it gently up and down. With my free hand, I fumbled for the champagne glass I had provided and took a deep sip. 
 The alcohol immediately landed in my blood and revved up my circulation even more. I kept the second sip of the pleasantly tingling liquid in my mouth. Finally, my lips were allowed to close around his best piece again. Now he was allowed to enjoy the caresses of my tongue, while the tingling drink tickled on his glans.   His breath was coming in jerks and he was sweating all over. He was seconds away from cuming. Should I take it all in my mouth, or rather let him come in my face? He would like both. I didn&#039;t need to ask him, since he couldn&#039;t have given an intelligible answer at that moment anyway. 
 So I simply increased the pressure of my tongue and gently inserted my teeth. Already his thick sperm shot into my mouth and mixed with the champagne. The combination made for a decidedly interesting flavor, which I gladly swallowed.  Satisfied, he looked at me gratefully. Smiling, I leaned down to him, my fingers stroking his cock as if at random.  &quot;Would you like some more?&quot; 
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                            <updated>2022-03-18T08:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Anal sex stories: Submissive mare ridden in first anal sex</title>
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                                            Warm up for a horny evening The bed was covered with fresh black sheets, everywhere in the room were candles distributed, which wrapped the room in a pleasant light. The lubricating money lay directly to the massage oil tangible on the bedside cabinet, right next to the crop a...
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                 Tonight it should happen. My little slave had already completed most of her training and I was satisfied with her. Now the submissive slut was to become a submissive threesome mare. She still had no idea that I had planned her first anal sex for tonight. But that should change very soon. 
 Warm up for a horny evening 
 The bed was covered with fresh black sheets, candles were spread all over the room, enveloping the room in a pleasant light. The lube money lay right next to the massage oil within reach on the nightstand, right next to the crop and paddle.  My slave was waiting outside. As ordered, she wore a black miniskirt, high heels and a white blouse. She was also wearing the collar engraved with my name. 
   I checked again to make sure I had thought of everything. There was nothing more embarrassing than having to jump up during a session. All the candles were far enough away from the furniture and anchored in solid stands so that no fire could break out. The shutters were closed and the bed was freshly made. The toys were ready and my music streaming service was on endless loop. Everything was perfect. I lay down on the bed, got myself into an upright position and called for my slave. 
   Immediately the door was opened and my servant entered the room. Somewhat uncertainly, she remained standing in front of the bed, waiting for further instructions.  As always, I took my time at this point to look at her. My little girl was already a hammer woman, there was no other way to put it. In her early twenties, all the proportions of her body sat exactly where they should. 
 Everything in sufficient quantities and in such a way that guys regularly turned around after her. Sure, these guys saw her long brown hair and hazel eyes and were instantly smitten. If they could also see what I was regularly even allowed to touch, they would have been completely out of their minds. 
 My slave had dream dimensions and a flawless body. She was fully shaved, her body always creamed. At the sight I noticed the growing swelling in my pants.  She nervously stepped from one foot to the other. It was time to be active. I ordered her to turn on the music and strip for me. 
 My slave nodded and did as instructed. Shortly after, provocative music sounded in the bedroom.  She began to sway to the beat, making eye contact with me. At first it seemed a bit wooden, but over time she got better and better into the rhythm. 
 The erotic dance was one of the first things I had her perfect in her slave training. She skillfully swayed her hips while she slowly fiddled with her blouse, opening one button after another. Finally I could see her tits. The nipples were already erect, she was at least as horny as I was. Swinging, she turned around and bent forward. Her ass right in front of my eyes she pulled down her skirt. At the sight I licked my lips. If only she knew what I had in mind for today with this magnificent ass ... 
 Horny anal sex must be well prepared 
 I rose, went to her and stroked one finger over her cheek.  &quot;Lie down. Face down and stick your ass out.&quot;  Again I stole a moment to enjoy this magnificent sight. Emphatically slowly, I paced around the bed until I could reach her mop of hair with one hand. 
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 For a while I tickled the back of her head, which she acknowledged with a contented purr. Finally, I let my hand wander downward. Making my way down her back, I used my fingernails until I got to the soft flesh of her ass. 
 While I took a firm grip on one butt cheek, I gave the others light strokes. My slave girl moaned. She especially liked this kind of treatment. I continued the treatment with the light strokes until she was fully heated. A grip between her legs showed me that she was not only wet, but she was leaking. 
 For a moment I let go of her and took the crop. But before I struck, she should still wriggle a little. Therefore, I stroked her thighs with the toy first, until she begged me to finally hit her again. The crop was only used briefly, as I generally prefer the paddle. But even this toy I used today only very moderately. I still had further plans. 
 First anal sex for my mare 
 &quot;There you go, sweetie.&quot; I gave her a slap on the butt. &quot;Now you&#039;re going to have sex for the first time anal.&quot;  She tensed up briefly at the word, but relaxed again right after. &quot;Yes, sir.&quot;  I opened the tube of lube and lubricated the fingers of my right hand. After two more pats, I penetrated her with my pinky finger anal. Nice and slow I moved the finger back and forth. Her ass was still virgin, so a good stretch was very important. 
   &quot;Are you all right?&quot;  &quot;Yes, sir.&quot;  &quot;What&#039;s your safeword?&quot;  &quot;Mayday, Lord.&quot; 
   Good. So my slave knew how to stop the game. It was time for a second finger. This time I let my fingers circle inside her as best I could. I heard a relieved moan as I pulled my fingers out again. But I didn&#039;t want to give my slave any time to recover. I was already much too horny for that. With three fingers I penetrated anal her and let my hand push back and forth. Her moans grew louder until they finally turned into cries of pleasure. 
   &quot;That was three fingers,&quot; I explained to her, &quot;so about the same thickness as my cock. You know what I want to hear now?&quot;  Her head went up. &quot;Fuck me!&quot; 
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                            <updated>2022-03-16T10:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Cunnilingus - properly lick can not everyone</title>
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                                            Some women do not like oral sex. What is meant here is that they do not like to be licked. No wonder, because not everyone can lick properly.
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                 Some women do not like    during oral sex   . What is meant here is that they do not like to be licked. No wonder, because  not everyone can lick properly . Women lick women better than a man will ever get. Myth or yet a bit of truth?     For a woman to enjoy  cunnilingus , she must not only have a good  &quot;pussy licker&quot;  but also love herself. Only those who don&#039;t feel icky down below can really let themselves go and enjoy the special caresses of their partner. 
 The sexual part does not have to look beautiful, it has to work. You have your own body taste, even down there and also a body scent. 
 If you are a normally clean person, your partner will definitely love your smell and taste and not find it repulsive. So stop thinking about such things and just let yourself go. 
 What is cunnilingus actually? 
   Cunnilingus means oral sex.  What is oral sex you ask yourself now? Good question! Everyone probably knows the basics. But only a few know what the whole thing is. Oral sex does not mean to just go ahead and lick. 
 Oral sex for the woman is only nice if the man makes some effort.  It is not ice cream  that you lick here and also nothing that you have to suck out with your mouth. Cunnilingus depends on a lot of sensitivity. 
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 Sensitivity,  a skillful tongue  and at the same time always paying attention to your partner&#039;s reaction. If you have these things on it, you can lick pussy properly! 
   
 With caution and attention the woman comes 
 Approach the woman&#039;s intimate zone with a careful tongue. Also, always be attentive so that you do not miss what she likes and what not. You can experiment with your tongue and  change the rhythm . Your fingers should also come into play. 
  When we talk about using your fingers , we are by no means talking about wildly &quot;poking around&quot; in the woman. What is meant here is rather the gentle stroking of the back, breasts or groin.  Treat the lady&#039;s clitoris with care.  Be tender so that you don&#039;t hurt her. 
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    Cunnilingus techniques    
 When your best part is bitten, it hurts. It&#039;s the same with a woman&#039;s clit. It is very sensitive. Don&#039;t scrub it with your tongue, don&#039;t suck it too hard and don&#039;t bite it. Play around the little pearl gently with a skillful tongue. She will thank you for it. 
 Every woman is different 
 The problem for many men is that women are often very different in their private parts and also in the desired form of stimulation. 
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 A technique that reliably brought one woman to climax may be uncomfortable for another woman or may not stimulate her at all. For this reason, there is no patent remedy to ensure a satisfactory climax during cunnilingus, but always just suggestions. 
 If you can vary your clit licking technique and are willing to learn new things, you can bring almost any woman to climax with your mouth. 
 Licking properly means paying attention to reactions 
 So there is no manual to lick a woman properly. But there are techniques and advice that will help you get better at licking a vagina and using your tongue, lips and possibly your teeth. The most important thing is the reactions of your partner. 
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 If you pay attention to her reactions, you can find out much faster which touches she particularly likes and which technique is not likely to be successful. The better your feeling for your partner&#039;s reactions, the better your cunnilingus performance will be. 
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 It&#039;s a lot of fun to try out the different techniques and find out how you can bring your partner to climax with your mouth. Just remember that there are many different ways and you just have to find the right one. 
    Cunnilingus Tips    
 Even if you are already a real cunnilingus expert and manage to bring your partner to climax with your mouth, you will still find some tips and advice on these pages that you might not have known before. Why not just try something new. 
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 Maybe you&#039;ll find exactly the form of stimulation that makes your performance even better and ensures even more intense climaxes. After all, everyone can improve. In addition, it is also nice for your partner when new elements are brought into play every now and then. 
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                            <updated>2022-01-26T13:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Facesitting Guide: History, techniques &amp; safety</title>
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                                            There are many different types of sexual stimulation. The Facesitting is one such variant, which can be classified as both soft and hard. This depends on the wishes and needs of the partners involved.
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  Facesitting Guide: In-depth insights into history, techniques and safety  
 Facesitting is probably one of the most intimate forms of oral sex: sensual, physically very direct and - depending on the dynamic - with a clear note of dominance and devotion. In this guide, we will look together at the history, positions, BDSM elements, safety and specific role-play ideas at different levels so that you can enjoy this practice responsibly and with pleasure. 
 The history and origins of Facesitting 
 Facesitting is not a modern invention. Many cultures have depictions and stories in which a person literally sits &quot;on top&quot;, expressing power, worship or devotion. What was once often seen as a symbol of dominance is now, for many couples, primarily one thing: an intense, playful form of oral sex that focuses on closeness, trust and sensual control. 
 Facesitting as a sexual practice 
 At Facesitting, one person - often the vulva-bearing partner - sits or kneels on the face of the partner below. The partner pleasures them with their mouth while they control the intensity, position and duration. For many, it is precisely this mixture of oral sex, physical contact and power imbalance that makes Facesitting so exciting. 
 Depending on the role dynamics, Facesitting can be : 
 
 be very tender and cuddly 
 be experienced in a playful and dominant way 
 Be part of a BDSM dynamic with a clear distribution of power 
 
 The important thing is always:  consensual, safe and respectful . 
 Popular positions and variations Facesitting 
 There are many ways in which you can sit on your partner. Try them out slowly and pay attention to what is comfortable and pleasurable for you. 
  Classic Facesitting : You sit frontally on your partner&#039;s face. Your thighs frame their head and you can support yourself with your hands or knees. The focus is on intense oral stimulation and closeness. 
  Reverse Facesitting : You sit with your back to your partner&#039;s face, looking down at their feet. Many find this perspective particularly erotic because you can look at his body &quot;from above&quot;. 
  Sideways Facesitting : You sit sideways on his face or neck area. This can be more comfortable and often allows you finer weight control and more freedom of movement. 
  Kneeling Facesitting:  You kneel over his face without giving up all of your weight. Ideal if you want to be very careful with your partner&#039;s breathing because you can quickly move out of the way or brace yourself. 
   Jeanssitting  a dressed, relatively &quot;harmless&quot; variation. You sit on his face with jeans or other items of clothing. For some, this is more of a fetish and mindgame - your partner feels your weight and closeness, but no direct skin contact. 
   Reverse (naked)  you are naked, sit backwards on his face and pretty much decide exactly how you want to be pampered. Ideal to play with control, looks and small movements. 
   Fullweight  the appeal here lies in using (almost) all of your weight.  This is only for experienced couples with very clear agreements  and a good feeling for body weight, breathing and signals. If in doubt, support yourself more and be more careful - safety first. 
   Asphyx elements  some couples fantasize about reducing their breathing. For safety reasons, you should be extremely careful here:  no breathing games without a lot of experience, a clear safety signal and constant presence . If you are unsure, it is better to leave this area out - there are plenty of pleasurable alternatives without risk. 
   Bound  : Here Facesitting is combined with bondage. The lower part is fixed and has to surrender completely to the situation. This can be very intense psychologically - that&#039;s why safewords, trust and good bondage knowledge are an absolute must. 
  Important:  You often read about extreme variations such as Facesitting under water (&quot;drowning&quot;).  This is strongly discouraged for safety reasons.  Breath reduction plus water is a highly risky combination - it does not fit in with responsible BDSM and can be life-threatening. 
 
  More inspiration about oral sex &amp;amp; BDSM:   Oral sex guide &amp;amp; tips   BDSM guide &amp;amp; inspiration   Bondage &amp;amp; restraint  
 
 Risks &amp;amp; precautions during Facesitting 
 Facesitting is intense - both physically and emotionally. This makes a few clear safety rules all the more important. 
  Breathing control &amp;amp; safety:  The biggest risk is the restricted breathing of the partner lying on the bottom. 
 
 Support yourself with your hands or knees instead of putting your full weight on their face. 
 Pay attention to body reactions: Restlessness, palpitations, tension or feelings of panic are immediate stop signals. 
 Agree on a clear safety signal that also works without speech - e.g. tapping your leg three times. 
 Stay focused: Facesitting is not a moment for &quot;switching off&quot;, but for being alert. 
 
  Hygiene:  The proximity of your mouth and genitals makes hygiene particularly important. 
 
 Take a shower beforehand or freshen up together - this can already be part of foreplay. 
 Pay attention to clean hands, oral hygiene and well-groomed intimate areas. 
 Dental dams or other barriers can be useful for sensitive health or changing partners. 
 
  Communication &amp;amp; consent:  Facesitting only works well if both partners feel safe. 
 
 Talk about fantasies, no-gos and possible fears in advance. 
 If breath control or BDSM elements are involved, safewords are mandatory. 
 No one is &quot;persuaded&quot; to do anything - pleasure comes from voluntary action, not from pressure. 
 
 Facesitting &amp;amp; BDSM - when power plays a role 
 Facesitting can be wonderfully integrated into a D/s or BDSM dynamic. The person on top often takes on the dominant role, while the person on the bottom experiences surrender, being at the mercy of others and service with their mouth. 
  Clear roles &amp;amp; agreements:  Talk about how you feel: 
 
 Do you want to show power as a top/dominatrix - or rather playfully seduce? 
 Does your sub want to be used, worshipped or &quot;used and praised&quot;? 
 How harsh can the tone of voice be - rather loving or rather strict? 
 
  Safewords &amp;amp; signals:  Especially when your mouth is busy, you need non-verbal emergency brakes. An agreed knocking signal, a small object that the sub can drop - all of these can contribute to a safe framework. 
  Respect boundaries:  Humiliation, verbal play, bondage - all of these can be incredibly arousing for some, but too much for others. Don&#039;t make BDSM the standard, make it your playground  together . 
  Aftercare:  Intense Facesitting - especially with elements of power, bondage or breathing - can resonate emotionally. Plan time afterwards to cuddle, talk, drink water and ground yourselves again. 
 Hygiene &amp;amp; feel-good factors during Facesitting 
 Cleanliness is not only a health factor, but also contributes enormously to relaxation. If you feel fresh, you can allow closeness much better. 
 
  Body hygiene:  A quick shower, fresh towels and possibly an intimate wash gel without aggressive fragrances are usually enough. 
  Oral hygiene:  Brushing your teeth, mouthwash or chewing gum beforehand can work wonders. 
  Clean environment:  Fresh bed linen, a clean sheet or blanket create a pleasant setting. 
  Health:  Open wounds, infections or severe irritation in the mouth or genital area are a good reason to postpone the game. 
 
 Experiences &amp;amp; feelings around Facesitting 
 Many people who love Facesitting describe it as a mixture of pleasure, power, closeness and sometimes a little loss of control - on both sides. 
  The person on top often experiences  
 
 a feeling of control and self-confidence 
 strong arousal due to the focus on their pleasure 
 the sensual knowledge that their partner is &quot;at their mercy&quot; 
 
  The person on the bottom often experiences  
 
 intense closeness to the partner&#039;s smell, taste and warmth 
 Devotion, service, perhaps also the feeling of being used - in a positive, consensual way 
 very direct access to fantasies of dominance and submission 
 
 Just as important:  not everyone has to like Facesitting.  If you notice that the situation is stressing you out rather than arousing you, take the pressure off. It&#039;s just one type of play among many, not a &quot;must&quot; for fulfilling sex. 
   
 Role play ideas with Facesitting - level 1 to 3 
 Facesitting can range from gentle lovemaking to a very dominant BDSM ritual, depending on the intensity. These role-play ideas will give you an idea of how you can play at different levels - always with safety and consent as the basis. 
 Level 1 - gentle, curious, playful 
 
  &quot;Spoil me very slowly&quot;:  You start with cuddling and a mountain of pillows. He lies comfortably, you just kneel loosely over his face, support yourself a lot and let him catch his breath in between. The focus is on closeness, laughter and trying things out - not on perfection. 
  &quot;You can stop at any time&quot;:  You agree on a simple knocking signal in advance. You only sit on his face for a short time, keep taking your weight off and quietly ask: &quot;Is that so nice?&quot; - ideal for losing your initial fear of contact. 
  Oral sex with facial proximity:  You sit next to his face at first and he pampers you with his tongue while you slowly move closer and occasionally bring a thigh or your hip a little closer to his mouth. 
 
 Level 2 - clear focus on dominance 
 
  &quot;Your place is under me&quot;:  He lies down on his back, you sit frontally or reverse over his face and give clear instructions - for example, how intensely he should lick or when he should take a break. A slightly strict tone can be very appealing here, as long as you respect your boundaries. 
  Reward &amp;amp; service:  You let him do something for you first (massage, household chores, small task). His &quot;reward&quot; is to spoil you with his mouth while you are enthroned above him. You decide how long - and whether he even reaches orgasm himself. 
  Jeans or underwearFacesitting:  You remain partially clothed (e.g. in underwear or jeans) and use Facesitting more as a gesture of power and closeness. He feels your weight, your warmth and your control, while you playfully determine when he gets more intense contact. 
 
 Level 3 - intense &amp;amp; BDSM-oriented (for the experienced) 
 
  Bound Facesitting : He is secured with soft restraints (e.g. hands on the bed), you have defined safe signals and clear boundaries. You consciously and confidently sit on his face, but remain alert to his signals at all times. Being tied up reinforces the feeling of being at his mercy - therefore only with a lot of trust. 
  Ritualized &quot;throne&quot;:  You set up a little ritual: He kneels, kisses your thighs or bottom before you sit on his face. Certain words, positions or gestures mark the beginning and end of the scene for you - this deepens the D/s dynamic. 
  Combination with other kinks:  He might wear a collar, you use a light gag (as long as breathing and safe signal are clearly regulated) or blindfold him. Facesitting thus becomes part of a larger BDSM setting - with the clear rule: If something becomes too much, the safe signal applies without discussion. 
 
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 Instructions &amp;amp; tips for your first (or next) Facesitting 
 1. Talk before you start  Talk about fantasies, boundaries, taboos and health issues (e.g. breathing problems, panic tendencies, neck problems). Agree on a safety signal and clarify who will take on which role. 
 2. Start slowly  You don&#039;t have to start with intensive variations straight away. Start kneeling over your face, for example, with lots of support and breaks. You can stop at any time, laugh, start again - sexuality can be playful. 
 3. Find the right position  Experiment with pillows under your head or hips, different angles and support points. Comfort is not a luxury, but a prerequisite for pleasure. 
 4. Keep an eye on your breathing  Consciously look down from time to time: Does your partner seem relaxed? Are they breathing calmly? If not, take some weight off or take a break. It&#039;s always okay to take a breath. 
 5. Use feedback &amp;amp; small signals  A gentle squeeze, a lick, a twitch - these are all feedback. Ask calmly: &quot;That okay?&quot;, &quot;More?&quot;, &quot;Too intense?&quot; - Communication is sexy. 
 6. Plan for aftercare  When you&#039;re done, take your time. Cuddle, laugh, talk briefly about what you liked and what you want to do differently next time. This builds trust - and the desire to repeat the experience. 
   
 Conclusion: Is Facesitting something for you? 
 Facesitting can be an incredibly intense, sensual and powerful form of oral sex - if you communicate openly with each other, respect each other and take your boundaries seriously. Maybe it&#039;s exactly the ritual that deepens your eroticism, maybe it&#039;s just an exciting thought that doesn&#039;t necessarily have to be put into practice. 
 The important thing is:  You decide together.  If you both feel safe, seen and desired, Facesitting can become a very special highlight of your sexuality - somewhere between tenderness, dominance and lots of physical closeness. 
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            <title type="text">Rimjob - Rimming: Pleasure instead of disgust</title>
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                                            The rim job gives many a feeling of disgust. Some don&#039;t even know what it is and others love it almost more than anything else. Rimming divides the minds and of course the buttocks!
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                 Rimjob, i.e. stimulation of the anus with the tongue, is a very popular practice among both women and men. Nevertheless, many people are disgusted and have hygienic concerns, which are absolutely unnecessary with the appropriate measures. 
 It is important to pay attention to hygiene  and also to take special care during stimulation, because rimming is experienced as very intense. 
 What is a rimming job? 
  Rimming  or the rimming job is a special sexual preference. It is a fetish that involves the human posterior. The technical term for rimming is anilingus. 
 It involves licking the butt hole with the tongue. It is a particularly intimate way to make love. Not everyone likes it, but now more and more couples practice it. 
 Just try it 
 If you haven&#039;t had any experience with  butt licking , you shouldn&#039;t judge too hastily. Maybe it is something very pleasant after all. Man, like woman can enjoy and practice the rimjob. 
 The anus 
   The anus is a pure nerve center, to these erogenous zones our body responds directly. Feelings will definitely not be absent here.  
 All you need is trust and a little bit of overcoming. Often men can enjoy getting a  rimjob  more than giving one. 
 This is because men not only have a nerve center in the anus, but also the prostate. This is located directly behind the anus and can be well stimulated with the tongue. 
   
 But also the woman can come to orgasm. She also has many nerve endings in and around the anus. If the clitoris is also massaged a little, there is no stopping the ladies. So what&#039;s stopping you from giving it a try? 
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 A clean thing 
 You don&#039;t dare to go for it because the butt is considered dirty? Well, that&#039;s not entirely untrue. It&#039;s already a body part full of bacteria. And a butt is never completely odorless. 
 But if you and your partner are clean people, the risk of infection is very low. And who knows, maybe you will find the scent of the butt quite beguiling. Kiss my ass or can sometimes not only be a saying, but also an invitation. 
   
 Go on a hike 
 If you are still a bit shy about the rimjob, you can slowly go on a hike. The lady may be spoiled orally beforehand, so around and in the vagina. Then the tongue may like to wander into the anal area. 
 But please always keep in mind that the buttocks are a source of bacteria. Never go from butt to vagina, otherwise there is a risk of infection. But the other way around always works. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;390&quot; ]  As a woman you can switch from blowjob to rimjob with the man. Start nicely with the glans and let your tongue move further and further down and then back. Also a gentle penetration into the anus with the tongue is not excluded. 
 
 
 A rimjob does not have to be dirty 
Even though a person&#039;s rear end is not completely odorless, it is not necessarily dirty. Still, of course, it&#039;s not the cleanest body part you&#039;ll choose to lick, either. The anus has entire colonies of bacteria. If you don&#039;t want to expose yourself to these, reach for appropriate tools.
 Use licking cloths 
If you want to keep the rimjob a clean affair, use lick wipes. These are thin sheets that are used to protect against infection. The foils are kept extra thin so that your partner&#039;s tongue can still be felt very clearly. 
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 So a lick cloth takes nothing away from the authenticity of the rimjob. Rimjob / anilingus has the meaning to explore and stimulate the anus region of the partner. Nevertheless, licking cloths can also be used for the vaginal area. 
 Questions and answers: 
 1. Can vagina and anus be licked at the same time? 
Switching from vagina to butt is not a problem. However, the other way around is absolutely taboo! So you must not switch back and forth under any circumstances. First spoil your wife&#039;s vagina and then move to the rear region. The other way around you can cause bad infections in the vagina. 
 2. Are lick wipes flavored? 
Lickcloths are usually not flavored, as they are not meant to spoil the authenticity of anilingus. They don&#039;t let through quite as much of the body odor, but they don&#039;t completely mask it either. You can add flavor by perhaps combining a flavored lubricant with the lick cloth. 
 3. Is there any way to cover up the typical butt smell/taste? 
It will never be possible to completely cover up the butt smell. However, there are flavored lubricants that give off pleasant scents and tastes. Especially for beginners it makes the rimjob a little easier. 
 
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                            <updated>2022-01-15T18:45:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The best blowjob of his life - Guide</title>
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                 The dream of many men is the blowjob. To be spoiled orally simply by the partner or even the partner and to surrender completely to the touches of tongue and lips is enormously pleasurable. Many men call the blowjob as an absolute favorite sexual practice and would not like to do without it. 
 But a perfect blowjob needs some preparation and practice by the active partner. We show you in our blowjob guide, what a blowjob is, what you should pay special attention to during the blowjob and how you can offer your partner a perfect blowjob. 
 What is a blowjob? 
 A blowjob is the stimulation of the penis through the mouth of the partner. During the blowjob, the lips, the tongue, the teeth and the entire oral cavity can be used to bring the partner to climax. The blowjob is also colloquially called &quot;blowing&quot;, even though the activity has much more to do with sucking. 
 Classic blowjob 
 In the classic blowjob, the man remains passive and allows his partner to pleasure him with his mouth until he climaxes. The blowjob is also called French sex and can be enhanced with a variety of tools. Thus, condoms with flavor are particularly popular with many couples. 
 But also lubricant with aroma can give the blowjob a whole new quality and make it even more pleasant for the active part. With our blowjob guide you will be able to experience the perfect blowjob.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;391&quot; ] 
  5 myths about the blowjob - sex tips 
 Around the blowjob are some myths, which can hardly be eradicated. So that you do not also fall for these myths and possibly use the wrong technique during the blowjob, we show you in our guide the most popular myths and explain to you where the mistakes lie with these. 
 Blowjob is a form of safe sex 
 This myth is completely wrong. Because even during an unprotected blowjob, a wide variety of diseases and infections can be transmitted. Whether HIV, syphilis or gonorrhea: all these diseases can be transmitted easily through oral sex. 
 So if you haven&#039;t known each other for a long time and don&#039;t have any tests yet, you should use a condom in any case. Condoms with aroma, such as the Fun Factory Color Moments, are especially pleasant for the blowjob, but the aroma masks the taste of the condom clearly. 
 Deeper is always better 
 It is repeatedly claimed that the depth of penetration also plays an important role in the blowjob. At the latest since the movie &quot;Deep Throat&quot; this myth is enormously widespread. While such a deep throat may feel great for the man, as the throat of the active part provides additional tightness, this technique is not easy to learn and achieve. 
 Gag reflex 
 This is because the suppository in the throat normally triggers a gag reflex. And let&#039;s face it, the feeling is neither particularly sexy nor particularly desirable. Moreover, since most of the nerve endings in the penis are located at the glans, the stimulation from such a deep blowjob is rather low. 
 Stimulating the glans with lips, tongue and (carefully) teeth is much more effective and can stimulate and excite the man&#039;s pleasure much more. 
 Swallowing is mandatory 
 Many men love it when their partner swallows the sperm after the blowjob. But this has nothing to do with the actual pleasure gain. Because seriously, once the sperm is in the mouth, the man has long since reached the peak of pleasure. Whether you swallow the sperm or simply spit it out into a cloth, it doesn&#039;t really matter anymore for the man&#039;s pleasure. 
 It is much more important that you continue to stimulate the man during the climax and thus guide him to a perfect climax, without you hastily jerking back. Because this is rather a real abortionist and for many men the reason why they prefer swallowing. 
 Because a woman who claims to swallow will keep the penis in her mouth until the end and thus also stimulate it. 
 The teeth must not be used during the blowjob 
 This myth arises mainly from the male fear for their best piece. Because the teeth can quickly cause enormous injuries during a bad blowjob. But gentle nibbling or a light scratching of the teeth on the glans can be enormously stimulating. 
 Just try it yourself and pay attention to the man&#039;s reaction. Such careful stimulation with the teeth can even massively enrich the blowjob. 
 Blowjobs are a sign of oppression 
 We owe this myth mainly to the porn industry, which has shaped it through various positions and by treating the woman as a willing piece of meat. In fact, the blowjob in and of itself is simply a sign of affection and love that you want to give to your partner. 
 Finally, the pleasure is based on reciprocity and also the man will want to return this affection to the woman manifold. So it is a give and take, which can be lived out through different practices and different preferences. By the way, approximately 30 percent of women feel pleasure themselves when they spoil their partner with a blowjob, because this blowjob can trigger a certain feeling of power. 
 After all, at this moment the ladies are masters of their partner&#039;s pleasure and arousal. 
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 Problems with a blowjob 
 Anyone who has ever tried a blowjob will be familiar with many of the problems listed here. Of course, not all of the problems from our blowjob guide will apply to you, but some of the problems will have you nodding your head in knowledge. 
 
 Long hair can quickly become a problem during a blowjob. If there is no hair elastic within reach, the blowjob often becomes an artistic torture. 
 The pubic hair of the man can also become a problem. Pubic hair between the teeth, on the tongue or even in the throat is a real turn-off. 
 Even the best blowjob can drag on. After a few minutes of oral gymnastics, a distinct and severe pain in the jaw joint sets in, which gets worse by the minute. 
 The tongue also suffers from a prolonged blowjob. The licking and sucking is exhausting work and makes you long for the end of the blowjob. 
 One twitch of his pelvis and the tip of his penis pushes dangerously close to your uvula. The following gag reflex is neither sexy nor nice. 
 If the man is particularly persistent, the blowjob quickly becomes boring for the woman. Because at some point all techniques are exhausted and you&#039;re just waiting for HE to finally finish. 
 A blowjob is nice when we offer him from us. However, if your partner loves blowjobs, this gift can often become a chore. Not a nice thought. 
 Swallow or spit is a question that you should better ask yourself before the blowjob begins. Because letting the penis slide out of your mouth just before orgasm is often like a cold shower for the man. 
 
   The best blowjob of his life! 
 If you want to really spoil your partner, a blowjob is often the method of choice. Your partner can relax and completely devote himself to his feelings, while you take care of his best piece. With a little preparation and our blowjob guide, you can give your partner your full attention and direct and guide his desire at will. 
 Start the blowjob best with a joint shower or with a relaxing bath for your partner. This not only ensures relaxation, but also the cleanliness of his best piece. After all, you should also have your fun and not be disgusted by him. 
 If you shower together, you can even start the blowjob in the shower and give him a taste. In any case, he will not get any cleaner. However, if you feel like a spontaneous blowjob, you can simply put a&amp;nbsp; condom &amp;nbsp;on your partner. 
 Especially&amp;nbsp;condoms with aroma&amp;nbsp;offer you a good possibility to cover the taste of the rubber and to increase the fun factor for you. 
 A comfortable position is important 
 A blowjob is especially hard on the muscles of the jaw and neck. If your partner lies on his back and you spoil him from above, this will put a lot of strain on your neck muscles in the long run. In any case, it is more relaxed if you kneel in front of your partner and thus spoil him with the blowjob. 
 Find a pleasantly soft cushion for your knees so that they are not put under additional strain in this position. Now you can take care of his best piece in peace. Try different positions to find the best solution for you. 
 Whether the man stands, sits or lies down can significantly influence the angle and the possibilities during the blowjob. 
 Take your time and vary your technique 
 Even if many women hardly believe it: men also appreciate a certain amount of foreplay. So take your time with the blowjob and do not start directly at his best piece. For example, slowly work your way down his body and cover it with kisses. 
 Stroke his skin, run your fingertips over his body and circle his pleasure muscle. This foreplay does not have to last extremely long, but it can significantly increase the man&#039;s sexual tension and thus also significantly shorten the duration of the blowjob. 
 Once you have reached his best piece, you should vary your techniques and tease him in different ways. Especially the glans and the frenulum - the ligament at the back of the glans - are particularly sensitive and often react to the lightest touches. 
 With your lips and tongue, you can already trigger enormously intense feelings here without taking him directly into your mouth. 
 Use your hands for more feeling 
 When you take the penis into your mouth for the blowjob, the depth of penetration is often not really important. Because the main stimulation comes from the play of your tongue and the sucking effect that you trigger. However, it is helpful to gently embrace the penis shaft with your hand and thus support the movements of your head. 
 For the man it feels more intense, because he has the feeling to penetrate deeper into you. But even without the hand on the member, you should not let your hands become idle during the blowjob. There are many erogenous zones in the intimate area of the man, which you can pamper with your fingers and hands during the blowjob. 
  Gently stroke his testicles , slide your fingertips over the insides of his thighs or caress his buttocks. If you and your partner want to, you can also stimulate the man&#039;s prostate with a finger or a suitable prostate stimulator during the blowjob. However, make sure to  use plenty of lubricant . Many men talk about an enormously intense orgasm when the prostate massage is rounded off with a blowjob. 
 Blowjob and the use of teeth 
 Teeth and blowjob are a delicate combination. Many men are afraid of hurting themselves when they feel their partner&#039;s teeth during the blowjob. When you take the man deep in your mouth and suck on the penis and move your head, you should protect the teeth with your lips. Because here the use of the teeth is rather unsuitable. 
 When gently pampering the glans of the shaft with lips and tongue, on the other hand, you can gently use your teeth to intensify the stimulation even more. Just pay attention to your partner&#039;s reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. Deep throat, on the other hand, is a technique that requires a lot of practice. 
 Because you have to learn to suppress the gag reflex so that the man can practically push into your throat. If you want to do this and the technique excites you and your partner, you can practice with a cucumber or a sex toy, for example, and approach it slowly. In this way, you will become less sensitive to the gag reflex over time and can spoil your partner especially deeply and intensively. 
 Swallow or spit: The Gretchen question 
 Sperm is not particularly tasty, but rather salty and slightly bitter. Therefore, you should consider beforehand whether you want to swallow or spit out the sperm. A handkerchief can help you to get rid of the sperm quickly. Important for the man is not necessarily whether you swallow, but that you pull the blowjob through to the end. 
 Because to let the penis slide out of the mouth before the orgasm or when it is reached is a real option only in porn movies. For the man, this rather means that he is not stimulated any further at the exact moment of his climax and the orgasm is therefore much less intense than he would have expected from the blowjob. 
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            <title type="text">Sex stories: Tested in handcuffs</title>
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                                            Soon it should be so far. Jasmin&#039;s wedding was imminent. Only a few more days she could enjoy her life in &quot;freedom&quot; Not that her husband was a tyrant who locked her up or anything like that, but being married is still something else than just living in a partnership. Carol, Ja...
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                 Soon it should be so far. Jasmin&#039;s wedding was imminent. Only a few more days she could enjoy her life in &quot;freedom&quot;. Not that her husband was a tyrant who locked her up or anything like that, but being married is still something else than just living in a partnership. 
 Carol, Jasmin&#039;s maid of honor had been secretly planning a bachelorette party for weeks. Tonight, the planned fun was to get underway.     Carol and five other girls picked Jasmin up Wednesday night. It was the night Dennis, the groom, always went bowling. So the girls had the perfect opportunity to kidnap Jasmin and give her the evening of her life. It started off slow and civilized, with a nice dinner in a real luxury restaurant. 
 Immediately afterwards it was a little hotter, because there was a visit to an erotic store. Jasmin should choose great lingerie for the wedding night. She decided on a red suspender shirt made of transparent floral lace. Dennis would definitely expect white innocent lingerie under the wedding dress. Well, he will be very surprised. 
 Alcohol and a horny party 
   After the shopping trip to the lingerie store, we went on to a small smoky bar. It was nothing special and should be used just to get drunk. After the girls had a slight buzz from the alcohol, they moved out of the pub to go to an exclusive club. 
 Here there were parties of a special kind. Jasmin didn&#039;t know that, but her maid of honor and friends did. They dragged Jasmin to the ladies&#039; room, where they quickly changed the young woman. Instead of a cute summer dress, Jasmin was now in a skin-tight black  latex dress . 
 She had something feline in this outfit and became an eye-catcher for every man. The aim of the whole thing was to show the male world what a hottie would now soon be off the market. Jasmin and her girls didn&#039;t have to pay for a drink that night. 
 All the men invited the ladies and gave them an entertaining evening.   At 10 p.m. the great dance music was turned off and completely different sounds were heard. Melodic, ravishing, erotic! On three tables hot guys stood at once and moved rhythmically, as it was hard to believe. 
 Also on the table at which Jasmin sat, a young man danced. His muscles were clearly visible under his tight-fitting shirt. It was difficult for Jasmin not to touch the body. She felt hot and dizzy. This guy was driving her crazy. A steely bodysuit, ash blond hair styled into a tousled hairstyle and steel blue eyes. 
 A smile that made Jasmine&#039;s heart stop. She would marry on the weekend and got so beside herself with a strange man! Was that allowed? Jasmine did not forget how much she loved her future husband, but she still took the chance to grab. 
 She stood up, jumped to the man on the table and sexily danced around his body. She touched the muscles and poof, the man started to undress. It was a stripper, which somehow reassured Jasmin, because that kind of thing was part of a bachelorette party. She was a loyal soul and left it at a stimulating dance, with undressing the stripper. 
 He whispered in her ear that she could have him whole after the show. Jasmine found it stimulating, got hot cheeks and a wet crotch. Still, she could resist. 
 Test passed - marriage allowed 
 One of the women drank only non-alcoholic drinks the whole evening to be able to take Jasmin and the other girls home. But shortly before Jasmin could be dropped off at home, the ladies were stopped by the police. A deep, harsh-sounding voice demanded their driver&#039;s licenses and vehicle registration papers. 
 Afterwards, all the women were to get out of the car. A complete check was carried out. Jasmin was patted down very thoroughly and by a male police officer. This was not allowed and Jasmin immediately began to protest and refuse the police officer. 
 However, the latter did not allow any protest. He had pulled his police cap deep into his face, so that Jasmin could not see much of the man. Then he turned her around so that she was standing with her back to him. She felt his strong hands running along her body. 
 He touched her in places where he should not. Didn&#039;t her friends see this? Why didn&#039;t anyone help her? Jasmine began to tremble. Why only? She didn&#039;t really know herself. She was not cold, she was not disgusted. Oh dear, she felt turned on by the touch! 
 How could such a thing be? She was happily married and had everything she wanted. Yet the touches felt so damn familiar to her. She told the policeman to stop. She&#039;s as good as married. The cop made her a seductive offer, since she wasn&#039;t married yet. 
 But, as with the stripper, she refused that offer as well. Then she heard handcuffs clicking. They were  Clejuso  heavy handcuffs made of solid metal. She knew this model. She had such ones at home, too! The man turned Jasmine around. He took off his police cap and exposed his face. 
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 It was Dennis, Jasmin&#039;s soon-to-be husband. The whole bachelorette party turned out to be a big test. Jasmin&#039;s fidelity was going to be tested. She had passed the test.     The girls left, leaving Jasmin and Dennis alone. The police car drove away. It belonged to Fabian, a friend of Dennis, who was actually a policeman. The handcuffs were private property of Jasmin and Dennis. 
 He didn&#039;t take them from her either, but pulled her into a dark alley where he seduced her in handcuffs. He showed her all his manhood, took her as he wanted and still asked her exactly the protection she always wanted. 
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            <title type="text">Dirty talk: How to make it hot - practical tips for beginners &amp; advanced users</title>
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                                            Go on, tell me something dirty!&quot; Many of us have dreamed of this sentence, perhaps heard it ourselves or said it ourselves. Even though our eyes and sense of touch play an important role in sexuality, our other senses are also involved in many ways. Dirty talking is one of the...
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  Dirty talk  is the art of arousing lust with words: dirty, playful, sometimes cheeky - but never disrespectful or hurtful. Our fantasies run not only through hands, lips and looks, but also through what we hear. A well-placed sentence can explode the tension, even in long-term relationships. 
 &quot;Go on, tell me something dirty!&quot; - many have heard, said or secretly wished for this phrase. Dirty talking helps you to express your desires more clearly, deepen roles and make your love life more intense without becoming a crude porn copy. It can be sensual, playful and sophisticated. 
 
  More inspiration &amp;amp; advice:   Sex tips &amp;amp; guides   BDSM &amp;amp; Bondage  
 
 What is dirty talking anyway? 
 Dirty talking refers to any form of deliberately erotic language in a sexual context. These can be very direct sentences such as: 
  &quot;Come on, take me already.&quot;  
 as well as imaginative announcements: 
  &quot;I&#039;m about to tie you up and coax every drop of lust out of your body.&quot;  
 Playful requests or submissive phrases are also included - for example in a D/s setting: 
  &quot;Mistress, may I wear your plug to obey you?&quot;  
 Dirty talk allows roles to be lived out even more intensively: a mistress appears more confident with the right words, a sub can express submissiveness, devotion or greed without falling out of character.  Dirty talking is therefore a tool for making fantasies audible.  
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  Dirty talking and BDSM: perfect partners 
 In  BDSM , dirty talk is almost a classic: it reinforces power imbalances, makes role play more lively and provides important feedback without disrupting the flow. A cool silence can be very intense - but specific words can increase the pressure even further. 
 Feedback is particularly important during anal practices, spanking, bondage games or intense toys. Phrases like: 
  &quot;Beg for me to finally insert your plug.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;Tell me how much you want my spanking.&quot;  
 can make dominance and submission audible without destroying the frame. In this way, the active part (top/dom/domina) can strengthen its role, while the passive part (sub/bottom) expresses desires, limits and lust. 
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  Suitable play partners for your words:   Spanking &amp;amp; chastisement   Tying up &amp;amp; fixing  
 
 Basics: How to integrate dirty talking into your love life 
 The first step is often the hardest: jumping over your own shadow. Many people find dirty talk fascinating - but at the same time there&#039;s the fear of sounding &quot;ridiculous&quot;. The good news is that  your partner is usually much less critical than you are . 
 It&#039;s helpful to start by talking about it in a calm atmosphere -  without actually being in bed : 
 
 Which words do you find erotic, which not at all? 
 What is not acceptable (taboos)? 
 How rough or how playful can the language be? 
 
 Maybe pet names like &quot;doggy&quot; or certain swear words turn you off -  then they have no place in your dirty talk . The more clearly you define taboos and no-goes beforehand, the more relaxed you can play later. 
 Once you&#039;ve overcome the first hurdle, dirty talk quickly feels surprisingly natural. The important thing is that you don&#039;t have to be poetic or perfect. It&#039;s enough if you honestly express what you feel or want at the moment. 
 Dirty talking in practical use 
 Imagine you are handcuffed to a bed or even a pillory and don&#039;t know exactly what is going to happen to you. Silence can heighten the tension - but words turn a moment into a mental movie. 
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 When your partner stands in front of you with a tube of anal lube and announces with a smile: 
  &quot;I&#039;m about to shove a plug up your naughty slave butt - and you&#039;re going to feel every second of it.&quot;  
 can cause your arousal to skyrocket. Even small comments have a strong effect: 
  &quot;Oh, you&#039;re so tight today.&quot;  
 while a finger or toy carefully penetrates can intensify pleasure and devotion - even if a gag makes it impossible for you to answer. 
 Comment calmly on what you&#039;re up to or what you&#039;re feeling. Phrases like: 
  &quot;You&#039;ll wear this plug until you&#039;ve satisfied me the way I want it.&quot;  
 can be a threat, a promise and an incentive at the same time. It remains important: Consensuality, safewords and respect always come first. 
 
 What you should pay attention to when dirty talking 
 Whether in &quot;vanilla sex&quot;, BDSM or fetish games:  Words can heal - but they can also hurt.  That&#039;s why boundaries are just as important here as with physical practices. 
 
 Remain respectful - even if you are playing with humiliation. 
 Don&#039;t attack true insecurities or traumas (body, past, family, etc.). 
 Make sure you don&#039;t overrun taboos even in the throes of pleasure. 
 Agree on safewords or stop signals for harder, humiliating forms of dirty talk. 
 
 Some words stick in your mind and can&#039;t simply be forgotten after the session. Ask afterwards:  &quot;Which sentences were hot for you? Where was the limit?&quot;  This will help you grow into it together and build trust. 
 Why you&#039;ll love dirty talking 
 Dirty talk can enrich your love life on many levels because.. 
 
 ...it creates new tensions - even in everyday life. 
 ...it allows you to express your sexual desires more clearly. 
 ...you can give and demand feedback without falling out of character. 
 ...it can be integrated into almost any sexual practice. 
 ...you can finally express parts of your head cinema. 
 ...it gives role-playing games a whole new depth. 
 
 Dirty talking brings more thrills, more openness and often also more closeness - because you say things to each other that would otherwise only happen in your fantasies. 
 Dirty talking in everyday life - more than &quot;just&quot; in bed 
 Dirty talk doesn&#039;t have to be limited to bed. It can quietly permeate everyday life and create that subliminal, simmering tension that gets the evening started in the morning. 
 Examples: 
 
 A short, ambiguous message at the office:  &quot;I want you all to myself tonight.&quot;  
 A sentence on the phone after a stressful day:  &quot;When you get home, I&#039;ll show you how I&#039;m going to distract you.&quot;  
 A whispered promise while shopping: &quot;  When we get home, you&#039;ll undress first.&quot;  
 
 Such sentences don&#039;t have to be extremely dirty. A clear indication that you are thinking about your partner sexually is often enough. Important:  Never hold out the prospect of something you don&#039;t actually want  - dirty talk loses its magic if it&#039;s just empty words. 
 
  For extra thrills during play:   Erotic games &amp;amp; sex games   Fetish guide  
 
 Combining dirty talking with fetishes 
 For many, dirty talk is a small fetish in itself: the desire for words, vocal tones and phrasing. It becomes particularly exciting when you combine dirty talk with other preferences, for example: 
 
  Tease &amp;amp; denial:  You get your partner hot and then make him wait. 
  Bondage games:  Whispered threats while he/she is restrained. 
  Role play:  Nurse, teacher, boss, dominatrix, etc. 
  Fetish clothing:  Nylons, latex, leather, high heels. 
 
 An example of Tease &amp;amp; Denial: You walk past your partner and whisper in his/her ear: 
  &quot;I&#039;m not wearing any underwear today - but you&#039;re still not coming too close to me until I say you can.&quot;  
 and then consciously go about your other business. The longer the tension is built up, the more intense the release can be later on. 
 In doctor/nurse role-playing games, sentences like: 
  &quot;I think I urgently need an injection.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;I need to examine you thoroughly - please undress slowly.&quot;  
 go down very well. In dominant scenarios, a sentence like: 
  &quot;Kneel down, you little shoe licker.&quot;  
 is arousing - provided you have explicitly agreed that such humiliation is okay beforehand. 
 Humiliating dirty talk - sensitive zone 
  Humiliating dirty talk  is used especially in dominatrix games or D/s relationships. The dominant part reprimands the sub, sets rules and can - if desired - also &quot;downgrade&quot; with words. 
  &quot;You are my obedient toy.&quot;  
 or: 
  &quot;You serve me, otherwise you will be punished.&quot;  
 can be incredibly arousing if they are embedded in a safe, familiar setting. Harder words can also have their place - but only if  both sides consciously choose them  and can handle them mentally. 
 Important: 
 
 Talk in advance about which terms are allowed. 
 Use safe words in case a formulation goes too far emotionally. 
 After the session (aftercare), check how certain phrases made you feel. 
 
 Humiliating dirty talking requires a lot of trust, responsibility and aftercare - then it can feel like an intense, protected game, not like an attack. 
 Dirty talking with a difference: notes, messages &amp;amp; pictures 
 You don&#039;t always have to whisper your sentences in your ear. Sometimes an unexpected sentence around the corner has an even stronger effect. Ideas: 
 
 Small notes in your jacket pocket:  &quot;You&#039;re mine tonight.&quot;  
 A text message:  &quot;Think of me when you shower today.&quot;  
 A short voice message in a low or particularly soft voice. 
 
 
  But be careful:   Messenger, social networks &amp;amp; clouds are rarely really secure.  Only send pictures or texts that you can live with in case they do fall into the wrong hands. 
 
 If you want to combine dirty talk with sex toys, you can write, for example: 
  &quot;Tonight you&#039;ll finally learn what that new plug is for.&quot;  
 or take a photo of your favorite toy - without your face - and send a dirty sentence. The titillation starts long before you actually touch each other. 
 90 sample sentences for dirty talk 
 30 examples of &quot;classic&quot; dirty talk 
 1. &quot;I want to feel you.&quot; 2. &quot;Your body drives me crazy.&quot; 3. &quot;I can&#039;t stop thinking about you.&quot; 4. &quot;You make me so hot.&quot; 5. &quot;I want you here and now.&quot; 6. &quot;Your touch drives me wild.&quot; 7. &quot;I want to explore every inch of you.&quot; 8. &quot;You&#039;re my biggest temptation.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to feel, taste and touch you.&quot; 10. &quot;Your body is perfect for me.&quot; 11. &quot;I love the way you move.&quot; 12. &quot;I want to drive you to climax.&quot; 13. &quot;You&#039;re my secret sex dream.&quot; 14. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to undress you.&quot; 15. &quot;Your voice turns me on.&quot; 16. &quot;I want you close to me.&quot; 17. &quot;Your eyes drive me crazy.&quot; 18. &quot;I want to feel you come.&quot; 19. &quot;You&#039;re my sweet secret.&quot; 20. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to kiss you.&quot; 21. &quot;Your lips make me weak.&quot; 22. &quot;I want to satisfy you so much that you&#039;ll never forget me.&quot; 23. &quot;You&#039;re my most beautiful sexual dream.&quot; 24. &quot;I want to feel your hands all over my body.&quot; 25. &quot;Your movements drive me crazy.&quot; 26. &quot;I want to lose myself completely in you.&quot; 27. &quot;You are my favorite sin.&quot; 28. &quot;I can hardly wait to be alone with you again.&quot; 29. &quot;Your closeness makes me hot.&quot; 30. &quot;I want to experience you again and again.&quot; 
 30 examples of dirty talk in the context of BDSM 
 1. &quot;I want to tie you up and show you who&#039;s in charge.&quot; 2. &quot;Your submissiveness turns me on.&quot; 3. &quot;You get just as much as I want - no more.&quot; 4. &quot;Your quiet pain excites me.&quot; 5. &quot;I want to dominate you and use you as we please.&quot; 6. &quot;Your humility drives me wild.&quot; 7. &quot;There&#039;s a punishment for every misstep.&quot; 8. &quot;Your devotion is mine.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to dominate and subjugate you.&quot; 10. &quot;Your mixture of fear and lust turns me on.&quot; 11. &quot;I will torture you - and you will love it.&quot; 12. &quot;Your submission is beautiful.&quot; 13. &quot;I&#039;ll train you the way I want.&quot; 14. &quot;Your submission excites me.&quot; 15. &quot;I control you - body and mind.&quot; 16. &quot;You obey, and I reward.&quot; 17. &quot;I want to subdue and guide you.&quot; 18. &quot;Your devotion makes me hungry for more.&quot; 19. &quot;For every rule there is a consequence.&quot; 20. &quot;Your way of giving yourself to me turns me on.&quot; 21. &quot;I punish you so that you learn to serve me.&quot; 22. &quot;Your humility is my greatest thrill.&quot; 23. &quot;I want to mold you until you are perfect for me.&quot; 24. &quot;Your devotion is mine alone.&quot; 25. &quot;I want to dominate and control you.&quot; 26. &quot;Your devotion is my favorite gift.&quot; 27. &quot;I demand your obedience.&quot; 28. &quot;Your submission makes me addicted.&quot; 29. &quot;I lead - you follow, that&#039;s our order.&quot; 30. &quot;Your devotion makes every session more intense.&quot; 
 30 examples of dirty talk in the context of fetish 
 1. &quot;I can&#039;t stop thinking about your high heels.&quot; 2. &quot;Your leather jacket drives me crazy.&quot; 3. &quot;I want to feel you in your latex clothes.&quot; 4. &quot;Your nylons turn me on.&quot; 5. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to touch your boots.&quot; 6. &quot;Your corset barely lets me breathe - with lust.&quot; 7. &quot;I want to experience you in your mask.&quot; 8. &quot;Your tights are amazing.&quot; 9. &quot;I want to kiss your ankle boots.&quot; 10. &quot;Your vinyl clothes make me hot.&quot; 11. &quot;I want to feel you in your latex suit.&quot; 12. &quot;Your high heels are my downfall.&quot; 13. &quot;I want to lick your boots clean.&quot; 14. &quot;Your leather gloves excite me.&quot; 15. &quot;I love it when you dress in leather.&quot; 16. &quot;Your nylons drive me crazy.&quot; 17. &quot;I want to feel it when your boots are on me.&quot; 18. &quot;Your shiny vinyl clothes turn me on.&quot; 19. &quot;I want to own you tightly laced in latex.&quot; 20. &quot;Your high heels drive me crazy.&quot; 21. &quot;I can&#039;t wait to kiss your ankle boots.&quot; 22. &quot;Your leather clothes are my favorite look.&quot; 23. &quot;I want to see you dominate in your latex suit.&quot; 24. &quot;Your nylons on my skin are indescribable.&quot; 25. &quot;I want to wear your boots as a sign of your power.&quot; 26. &quot;Your vinyl clothing makes me forget everything else.&quot; 27. &quot;I want to lose myself in your leather scent.&quot; 28. &quot;Your high heels make every step you take erotic.&quot; 29. &quot;I can hardly wait to touch your latex body.&quot; 30. &quot;Your fetish clothing makes you my ultimate fantasy.&quot; 
 When you use dirty talking consciously, respectfully and with a wink, it becomes a powerful tool of pleasure. Combined with matching  sex toys, restraints or fetish clothing , it becomes a game that touches both mind and body. At Steeltoyz, you&#039;ll find the toys and accessories that will turn your words into tingling reality. 
 
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            <title type="text">How does a footjob work? - Guide &amp; Tips</title>
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                                            The footjob is particularly popular both in many films and in the sexual lives of many couples. However, this type of sex is by no means just for foot fetishists, but is also loved by many couples without this particular fetish.
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  Footjobs  are an integral part of films, fantasies and the sexuality of many couples - and are by no means just something for pronounced  foot fetishists . In fact, many people are attracted to playing with their feet because it can be unusual, playful and incredibly sensual. 
 During a footjob, the woman (or the active partner with the feet) can be both tender and passively pleasurable as well as very active, demanding and dominant. As always,  communication, mutual consent and a loving focus on the needs of both sides  are important. 
 
  More inspiration around lust &amp;amp; feet:    Erotic games &amp;amp; sex games    Fetish guide &amp;amp; inspiration  
 
 What makes a footjob so special? 
 For many, the foot is not one of the classic erotic zones - which is precisely why playing with it can be so exciting. For one thing, a footjob often involves a  gentle taboo : Feet are considered a &quot;hidden&quot; area of the body that we rarely focus on so openly. This feeling of &quot;you don&#039;t actually do that&quot; can be extremely tingling. 
 On the other hand, brain researchers have shown that the areas for feet and genitals are very close to each other in the brain. It is therefore not surprising that  touching the feet or with the feet  can trigger pleasurable reactions - even without a pronounced foot fetish. 
  Even stroking the leg under the table  with your foot can be a kind of &quot;mini footjob&quot;: discreet, playful, secretly arousing. In public, it is precisely this concealment that creates a very special attraction - ideal for small, quiet role-playing games for two. 
   
 If you stimulate a penis or testicles with your feet, this effect is intensified: the stimulation is different to that with your hand or mouth - unusual, softer or rougher, slippery with oil, playful with your toes.  Even if your partner doesn&#039;t find feet explicitly &quot;erotic&quot; , a lovingly performed footjob can surprise them - in the best sense of the word. 
 You can use  massage oil  or  lubricant  for a particularly pleasant glide. This makes every contact softer, slower and more intense - and the friction more pleasant. 
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 Why is a footjob so appealing for men? 
 In addition to the proximity of the brain areas, there are many very practical reasons why a footjob is so appealing to men: 
 
  Unusual sensation:  feet don&#039;t &quot;grip&quot; like hands. The stimulation is mainly created by pressure, friction, rhythm and the shape of the feet. 
  A variety of surfaces:  The ball of the foot, heel, toes, back of the foot - all of these feel different on the penis and can be varied. 
  Visual appeal:  Many men find well-groomed feet, painted nails or nylons extremely erotic - the sight increases arousal. 
  Power &amp;amp; surrender fantasies:  Some love the idea of lying &quot;at the feet&quot; of their partner; others enjoy having their body played with in this unusual way. 
 
 With oil or lubricant, the feet can glide over the penis and testicles without creating too much friction. This  gently gliding friction  is often experienced as very intense. Many men can easily be brought to orgasm with a well-executed footjob. 
 And even if you don&#039;t have an explicit foot fetish, a footjob can open up a whole new facet of your pleasure - it&#039;s definitely worth giving it a try. 
 
  For velvety-soft, gliding foot play:    Massage oils    Lubricating gels  
 
 How to prepare for a footjob 
 For many, a footjob is only really relaxing if everything is  clean and well-groomed  - after all, your feet come very close to an intimate zone. 
 Important steps: 
 
  Wash your feet  thoroughly with warm water and a little soap before the footjob. 
  Take care of your skin:  Use a little foot cream if necessary to make the skin soft but not slippery and greasy. 
  Trim toenails and toenails:  File off sharp edges to avoid scratches. 
  Look the way you want:  painted nails, toe rings, anklets - if your partner is into it, the sight alone can be incredibly attractive. 
 
 The man can also prepare himself: Wash the penis and testicles, possibly shorten the hair a little so that oil and lubricant are distributed more comfortably.  The more comfortable you feel in each other&#039;s bodies, the more relaxed the game will be.  
 Communication &amp;amp; safety: Talk before the feet get going 
 Before you try a footjob for the first time, it helps to have a short, open conversation: 
 
 &quot;How do you generally feel about feet - curious, skeptical, averse?&quot; 
 &quot;Can I also touch your testicles if you give me a signal?&quot; 
 &quot;How fast can I go, how hard do you like the pressure?&quot; 
 
 A  clear stop signal  is particularly important for sensitive areas such as the testicles or anus. You can agree, for example,&amp;nbsp;B: 
 
  &quot;Stop&quot;  or &quot;Pause&quot; as an immediate signal to stop the movement. 
 A hand signal (e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. tap your foot lightly) if you deliberately don&#039;t want to talk. 
 
 This way you can relax while playing because you know that  if it gets too intense for him, he will let you know . And he can enjoy himself uninhibitedly because you have clearly shown that you respect boundaries. 
 How does a footjob work? Basic positions for beginners 
 There are countless ways in which you can pleasure a penis with your feet. Simple positions in which you can control your legs well and the man has stability will help you get started. 
 1. You lie down, he kneels - the &#039;classic&#039; position 
 Lie comfortably on your back with your hips slightly elevated (e.g.&amp;nbsp;with a pillow). Your partner kneels at your feet. 
  Carefully take your partner&#039;s penis between your feet.  
 Now he can  move back and forth between your feet  while you vary the pressure with the inside of your feet. You can: 
 
 gently press together with the soles of your feet, 
 change the rhythm (slow, faster, pauses), 
 occasionally move your toes a little to provide additional stimulation. 
 
 With enough oil or lubricant, he will enjoy a gliding, warm feeling - very different from the hand. 
 2. Inverted missionary position 
 Lie on your stomach and bend your lower legs so that your feet are pointing upwards. Your partner positions themselves behind you or to the side and wedges their penis  between the soles of your feet . 
 He can then move in a similar way to the missionary position while you control the pressure with your feet. This position is particularly comfortable if you don&#039;t want to lift your feet permanently. 
 3. You sit behind him - feet wrapped around him 
 Sit behind your partner when they are sitting or half lying down. Wrap your legs around his body so that you can easily  reach his penis from the front or from below  with your feet. Now you can: 
 
 stroke from bottom to top with the sole of your foot, 
 &quot;pinch&quot; the penis and shaft with both feet and stroke, 
 Vary the speed and intensity while you massage his shoulders or back with your hands. 
 
  Basically, there are hardly any limits to the footjob.  
 Try out different angles, pressure levels and movements. Sometimes with just one foot, sometimes with both, with the sole, with the instep or just with the toes - every little change can feel completely different. 
 
  For playful variety:    Erotic games &amp;amp; couple toys  
 
 Sensitive zones: Testicles &amp;amp; anus during a footjob 
 If your partner is open to it, you can  also include other erogenous zones  during a footjob - but with a lot of caution. 
 Stimulate the testicles with your feet 
 The testicles are extremely sensitive. A careless movement that is too fast or too firm can suddenly be very painful. If you are experimenting here: 
 
 Discuss beforehand whether he even wants this. 
 Use lots of lubricant and  minimal pressure . 
 Work with gentle rolling and stroking rather than firm clamping. 
 Stop immediately if his body tenses up or he gives the impression that it&#039;s getting uncomfortable. 
 
 Exploring the anus with your foot 
 Some men enjoy anal stimulation - even in combination with a footjob. Hygiene and lubricant are particularly important here. For example, if you  gently stroke the anus  with a toe  or penetrate minimally ,&amp;nbsp;the following should always apply: 
 
 Only after a clear agreement and only if you both feel comfortable. 
 Always have fresh, clean feet - and ideally a condom over the toe or a special toy. 
 Lots of lubricant, slow movements, clear focus on his signals. 
 
 If you mix penis and anal stimulation, make sure you  don&#039;t just go back to the penis  without separating the contact hygienically - otherwise germs can be transmitted. 
 Nylon footjob - a particularly erotic variation 
 Would you like to intensify the footjob even more? Then try a  nylon footjob . Many men find legs and feet in nylons highly erotic anyway. Then there&#039;s the special feel of the material:  smooth, slightly rough, shimmering . 
 When your feet in nylons glide over your penis or testicles, several stimuli work simultaneously: 
 
 The visual kick - legs and feet in fine fabric. 
 The feeling of the nylon surface, which feels different to bare skin. 
 The combination with oil or lubricant, which makes the friction even more exciting. 
 
 Play with the intensity: once barefoot, once in nylons - many men report that both variations feel  completely different and each incredibly arousing in its own way . 
 Specific role-play ideas with footjobs (level 1-3) 
 Footjobs can be wonderfully integrated into role play - from tender and playful to clearly dominant dynamics. These ideas will help you try out different levels of intensity. 
 Level 1 - gentle &amp;amp; playful 
 
  Under-the-table flirting:  You&#039;re sitting together at dinner or movie night. You slowly stroke your foot up his leg, play with his calf, occasionally touch his crotch very lightly - without much pressure, more as a teasing announcement. 
  Cuddling footjob in bed:  you lie closely together, kissing. At the same time, you playfully place one foot on his penis, caressing it at first before gently encircling it with both feet. This is more about closeness than &quot;performance&quot;. 
  Spa ritual:  You massage his feet and legs first, then he wants &quot;something back&quot; - you use your feet to gently tease him by his trousers before you decide together how far you want to go. 
 
 Level 2 - deliberately erotic &amp;amp; slightly dominant 
 
  &quot;At my feet&quot;:  He sits or kneels at the end of the bed, you lean back and let him enjoy the sight of you. You decide when he can kiss your foot and reward obedience with gentle, gliding movements of the soles of your feet on his penis. 
  Reward by task:  You give him a small task (e.g.&amp;nbsp;massage you or do something around the house). Only when it has been completed to your satisfaction is he allowed to lie down at your feet - and you decide whether the footjob should lead to an orgasm or just serve as a &quot;tease&quot;. 
  Nylon evening:  You deliberately put on nylons and let him think about it all evening. Only in bed can he touch your feet - and you use the nylon footjob as targeted, rhythmic stimulation where you set the tempo and pressure. 
 
 Level 3 - for experienced &amp;amp; fetish fans 
 
  Feet as the &quot;only reward&quot;:  You agree that he will only be stimulated by footjobs for a while - no hand, no mouth. He knows that when he comes, it will be at your feet. This increases foot focus, devotion and fetish pleasure. 
  Footjob &amp;amp; light dominance games:  He lies naked on the floor or on the bed, you remain (partially) clothed. He may only look at you if you allow it. You use your feet to stimulate his penis and testicles - and deliberately stop just before orgasm to build up the tension further. 
  Combination with chastity or cum control:  After an intense footjob, put a Chastity cage on him or forbid him to orgasm. The footjob becomes a &quot;torture of pleasure&quot; - only recommended with a lot of confidence and experience with orgasm control. 
 
 Tips for him &amp;amp; her - so that the footjob is great for both of you 
 For her (active feet) 
 
 Start slowly and gradually increase. 
 Watch his reactions - breathing, volume, body tension. 
 Dare to ask: &quot;That good? More, less, slower?&quot; 
 Combine the footjob with eye contact, smiling or - if it suits you - dominant instructions. 
 
 For him (receiving part) 
 
 Be honest about how much you like feet - from &quot;let&#039;s try it&quot; to &quot;my biggest kick&quot;. 
 Give clear feedback instead of biting through if something is uncomfortable. 
 Enjoy  being touched in a different way than usual  - without expectations, just curious. 
 
 Footjob, fetish &amp;amp; fantasy 
 For some, a footjob is simply an exciting change of pace. For others, it is part of a real  foot fetish  in which feet, shoes, nylons or stockings play a central role. Both are okay - fetish or no fetish, the important thing is that you treat each other respectfully and openly. 
 You may find that you like more than you thought: the smell of freshly showered feet, the feeling of nylons on your skin, the playful &quot;lying at your feet&quot;. You can share all of this with your partner - without pressure, without judgment. 
 And if you realize that you want more, you can combine footjobs wonderfully with other practices - e.g. with  handjobs, oral sex, chastity or light domination games .&amp;nbsp; 
  Conclusion:  A footjob is much more than &quot;just&quot; a game with your feet. It can be a tender ritual, a dominant statement or a secret little adventure under the table - as long as you communicate openly, pay attention to hygiene and listen to each other, this practice can give you both a completely new quality of pleasure. 
 At Steeltoyz, you&#039;ll find the right companions for this - from high-quality  massage oils  and slippery  lubricants  to  erotic games  with which you can explore your fantasies step by step. 
 
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            <title type="text">Our guide: Handjob variations for every occasion</title>
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                                            Whether alone or with your partner. Taking intensive care of a man&#039;s best piece is enormously satisfying and feels very intense. However, a handjob can lose some of its appeal over time if it is always done in the same way. However, if you add a little variety to your performa...
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                 A handjob can be much more than &quot;just jerking off with your hand&quot;. Used correctly, it is a sensual ritual: slowly building up tension, targeted touches, loving attention for his best piece. Whether as foreplay, in between or as the main act - with a little imagination and technique, the handjob becomes an intense experience that he won&#039;t soon forget. 
 The handjob variations at a glance 
 Whether alone or with a partner - taking intensive care of the penis can be incredibly satisfying. But if a handjob is always the same, it quickly loses its appeal. With a few new grips, varying the speed and lots of feeling, you can open up completely new sensations. 
 Two things are particularly important for many of the following variations: plenty of personal lubricant and, if you like, a cockring. Lubricant ensures that every touch glides softly, warmly and pleasurably instead of rubbing. A cockring can support the erection and ensure that the handjob is enjoyed for longer. 
 We describe most variations as if the man is lying comfortably on his back and relaxing. So grab the  lube , the man by your side - and simply try out our handjob instructions.[emotion emotion_id=&quot;414&quot; ] 
  Ideas for suitable accessories:   Lubricant &amp;amp; stimulation creams   cockring made of stainless steel   cockring made from silicone  
 The one-finger handjob 
 Perfect for beginners: slowly warm up his body and build up tension without going straight to the point. 
 Stroke one finger, preferably the index finger, in gentle circular motions around the glans. If present, play with the foreskin, gently push it back and forth and stroke the frenulum with a lot of feeling and patience. You will be amazed at how intensely he reacts if you take your time. 
 Vary the pressure, sometimes as light as a feather, sometimes a little firmer, and observe his reaction. Less is often more. 
 The two-finger pincer 
 This technique quickly brings tension to his body and is ideal if he is already a little aroused. 
 Form a pincer with your index finger and thumb and grasp the glans from above. Position your fingers so that you can stimulate the exact transition from glans to penis shaft. Use plenty of lubricant to keep everything soft and slippery. 
 Now make gentle twisting movements - as if you were carefully opening and closing a bottle - while your hand also glides gently up and down. By now at the latest, he&#039;ll be begging for &quot;more&quot;. 
 The doorknob 
 This handjob variation is ideal for the start or as a playful change in the middle. 
 Use plenty of lube and grip the man&#039;s glans with all your fingers. Your hand forms a kind of soft cap over the tip. 
  - As if you were turning a slippery doorknob  
 Turn your hand slightly back and forth. The lube creates an intense, all-round stimulating sensation - he will squirm with pleasure beneath you. The more lube, the softer and smoother the sensation. 
 The flattener 
 Here you combine pressure and movement to create a very intense but controllable stimulation. 
 Place your flat hand on his penis and press it gently against his abdominal wall. Now slide your hand slowly up and down the shaft without releasing the pressure completely. You can perform this technique with one or both hands. 
 Use lubricant to intensify the sensation considerably. If you incorporate your upper body into the movement, the handjob also looks incredibly sexy - a treat for the eyes and body. 
 The two-finger screw 
 This is where it gets specific and intense. Form a circle with your thumb and index finger and place it gently over the tip of your penis. Make sure that the ring is tight enough to feel intense, but never painful. 
 Now slide it slowly down and up again with light pressure while adding minimal twisting movements. A sort of delicate &quot;screw-top&quot; that moves over the most sensitive area - perfect for taking him to the edge of orgasm. 
 The fakie handjob 
 Your hand position plays the main role in the fakie handjob. 
 Make a fist and wrap it around his member with plenty of lube. Important: The thumb points downwards, towards his feet. The narrowest part of your fist will hit his glans first. 
 When you slide up and down, it often feels amazingly similar to a real act for him - tight, enveloping and very realistic. 
 Flip the switch 
 Here you combine the fakie handjob with the classic &quot;normal&quot; hand position. 
 Let your fist slide up and down the shaft once with your thumbs down and then again in the normal position. Playfully switch back and forth again and again - like flipping a switch. This way, you constantly change the pressure points and the feeling without changing the speed too much. 
   
 Two-hand techniques 
 Two hands not only bring variety, they also take the strain off your muscles - and also give him the wonderful feeling that &quot;one hand is not enough&quot;. 
 Many two-hand techniques work in different positions: He lying down, you next to him, on top of him or between his legs. Find out which position you like best - and don&#039;t forget his reaction on his face. 
 Light a fire 
 Place your palms on the left and right of the shaft of his penis, as if you were rubbing a small stick between your hands. 
 Now gently rub the penis between your palms. If you also incorporate a slight up and down movement, you will create a consistent, warm stimulation. Ideal for warming up or for longer, calmer play. 
 Slippery gripping 
 Very slippery, fast movements can sometimes lead to uncontrolled, unpleasant touching. This variation gives him stability and gives you control. 
 Hold the penis directly on the shaft with one hand and give him clear guidance. With the other hand, hold the upper part and continue to stimulate it with a firmer or gentler grip. This way you &quot;ground&quot; him and keep the action under control at all times. 
 Endless tunnel 
 For this handjob variation, you need both hands and plenty of lube. 
 Guide your first fist to the tip of the penis from above and let it slide slowly down to the base of the shaft. As soon as the glans is free, place your second fist on top and repeat the same movement. 
 Alternating gives him the feeling of &quot;endless penetration&quot;, especially if you gently increase the speed or vary the pressure in between. 
 Milking the bull 
   
 This technique is similar to the endless tunnel, but in the opposite direction. 
 Place one fist closer to the shaft and stroke towards the glans. When the first fist releases the tip, the second starts further down and follows the movement. The repeated &quot;upward stroking&quot; makes it feel as if you are consciously &quot;milking&quot; it again and again - intense and demanding. 
 The twister 
 Place both hands on top of each other around the penis as if you were holding a thick handle. 
 Now turn your hands in opposite directions - the upper one to the left, the lower one to the right - and move them slowly up and down at the same time. The opposite rotation creates a spiral stimulation that can bring him very, very close to orgasm in a very short time. 
 The handjob quickie: the washing machine 
 If you want it to be quick, intense and effective, the &#039;washing machine&#039; is perfect. 
 Enclose his member with both hands and interlock your fingers to create a compact, grippy &#039;tunnel&#039;. Move your hands up and down and add a slight lurching rhythm from left to right - almost as if you were moving laundry in a drum. 
 Hardly any man can withstand this combination of pressure, speed and changes of direction for long before the orgasm overtakes him. 
  Tip for beginners:  Choose one or two techniques and practise them slowly - rather intensively than frantically.   Tip for advanced users:  Combine variations (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. one-finger handjob to start, then doorknob, then washing machine). Alternate speed and pressure.   Tip for experienced users:  Supplement handjobs with cockring, testicle massage or light CBT elements - always only in consultation and never painful. 
 Tips for all levels - handjobs step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner: 
 
 Take your time to &quot;explore&quot; the penis with your hand, without any pressure to perform. 
 Start with slow, simple up-and-down movements and a gentle technique such as the one-finger handjob. 
 Ask yourself: &quot;Is it that comfortable? Would you like slower, firmer, faster?&quot; 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Use several variations in one session, change tempo, hand position and amount of lube. 
 Experiment with two-hand techniques and different grip strengths. 
 Consciously incorporate phases of tension in which you repeatedly stop him shortly before orgasm. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Combine handjobs with other kinks, e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. eye masks, light bondage or dominance games. 
 Play with tease &amp;amp; denial: get him hot, make him wait before you release him. 
 Work with clear signals or words for when he is allowed to come - this intensifies the psychological component enormously. 
 
 
 Video about handjob tips 
 Would you prefer to watch the movements instead of just reading them? Then a video can provide additional inspiration. Use it as a stimulus, but always adapt the techniques to your own preferences and limits. 
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 Conclusion: What are you waiting for? 
 A handjob is anything but &quot;boring manual labor&quot; if you use it consciously, with lots of variety and feeling. With lube, a few new techniques and open communication, you can break your routine and discover lots of new sensuality. Observe his reactions, have fun trying things out - and enjoy it when he completely loses himself under your hands. 
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                            <updated>2020-05-18T17:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Blood penis vs. meat penis - what&#039;s the difference?</title>
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                                            Women should not draw conclusions about the size of a man&#039;s erection from the size of his flaccid penis. Because there are two different penis shapes, which act and react very differently...
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 Blood penis or flesh penis - two terms that are often used but rarely really understood. Yet they vividly describe how different a penis can look when flaccid and erect. This guide explains the differences clearly, respectfully and with a touch of sensual curiosity - so that you can better understand and enjoy body diversity. 
 What is the difference between a blood penis and a meat penis? 
 A glance at the underwear usually reveals the flaccid size - but deducing the subsequent erection size from this often leads to misjudgements. This is because the two penis shapes react differently to arousal, grow at different rates and look different - without this saying anything about pleasure, function or sexual ability. 
 The terms are widely used, but many people rarely classify them correctly. In fact, they describe very vividly how both types behave when pleasure comes into play. 
 The meat penis 
 Around 20&amp;nbsp;% of men have a meat penis. Even when flaccid, it appears large, plump and present. You could say it makes an impression before arousal even arises. 
 During an erection, it hardens and grows a little, but often remains close to its original size. Anyone expecting a strong &quot;pumping up&quot; is sometimes surprised - or disappointed. This is because an impressive resting penis does not automatically mean an exceptionally large erection. 
 The blood penis 
 Around 80&amp;nbsp;% of all men have a blood penis. When flaccid, it is usually rather inconspicuous, smaller and attracts little attention. However, it has a special ability: the ability to grow. 
 When aroused, it fills intensively with blood and its erectile tissue expands considerably. The result can be a significant increase in length and girth - sometimes so much so that an erect blood penis far outstrips a meat penis from the same group of people. 
 The extent of the change is mainly genetically determined. The flaccid size therefore hardly allows any conclusions to be drawn about the later erection size. 
 Functional differences between blood penis and meat penis 
 Even if the growth is different, both penis shapes function equally well during sex. Both can develop stable erections, both can be used with pleasure and both can provide fulfilling sexual experiences. 
 Functional differences depend more on the individual anatomy, state of health and arousal - not on whether it is a blood or flesh penis. It is therefore impossible to say for sure which type is present when erect. [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;417&quot; ] 
  Matching categories for this topic:    cockring    Penis pumps    CBT-Toys  
 Aesthetic differences between a blood penis and a meat penis 
 Many people find a meat penis particularly attractive when flaccid, as it is visibly present. For some, this visual appeal is an advantage - a &quot;presentable&quot; penis that immediately attracts attention. 
 However, the blood penis compensates for this with its strong erectile ability. Some men with a meat penis are amazed when they see the size of a blood penis in an erect state. Both variants have their own aesthetic appeal - and both are perfectly normal. 
 Video: Blood penis vs. meat penis - clearly explained 
 If you want to see the differences even more clearly and easily understandably, the following video provides a compact, clear overview. 
 Conclusion: Two forms, one goal - pleasure 
 Blood penises and meat penises differ primarily in terms of appearance and growth behavior. But functionally, they are in no way inferior. Both are completely normal, both can provide fulfilling sexual experiences - and both show how diverse the male body can be. 
 The important thing is that neither type is &quot;better&quot; or &quot;worse&quot; - they are simply different. And that&#039;s exactly what makes sexuality so exciting. 
 
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                            <updated>2020-05-18T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex Stories: The stranger on the farm</title>
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                                            At just 28 years old, I became a widow. My husband died of a rare disease, leaving me with nothing but a small, neglected farm. Two years of mourning passed until I and my farm blossomed into new life. A life full of passion and eroticism.
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                 At just 28 years old, I became a widow. My husband died of a rare disease, leaving me with nothing but a small, neglected farm. Two years of mourning passed until I and my farm blossomed into new life. A life full of passion and eroticism. 
 &quot;Hello, are you Louise?&quot; the strange rider asked from a distance as he rode toward my farm. I had to squint my eyes to see anything at all against the sun. Instead of answering his question, I asked who he was. He rode up to within a few feet of me and swung his wiry body elegantly off the beautiful bay horse. 
 The man smiled kindly and introduced himself to me by the name Nick. He took off his cowboy hat as politeness demanded. Now he stood before me. Tall, athletic, smiling with tousled blond hair. There was sandy dust on his face and clothes, as if he had been on an incredibly long ride. 
   &quot;I&#039;m passing through and looking for work. Not for money, just a place to sleep and something to eat. I was told in town that you might need some help out here. And you&#039;re a good cook, too, I&#039;m told.&quot; His deep raspy voice caused something in me that I couldn&#039;t interpret. But there was no way I was going to send Nick away. 
 The townspeople were right, I could do with someone who could tackle. And I could cook like a star chef in a posh restaurant. Only a little more hearty and filling. I wiped a few strands of hair from my face and asked him to come to my house. There he could drink something and freshen up. Gratefully he accepted, just left his horse and followed me. 
 Unusual attraction 
 Before touching anything in the house, he insisted on freshening up. He was aware that he seemed more than a little dusted. For the moment, the sink in the kitchen was enough for him. The bathroom couldn&#039;t be used at all at the moment, either, since nothing was hooked up except the toilet. Nick stood with his back to me and took off his shirt. Countless muscles stood out on his back. 
 I couldn&#039;t take my eyes off him and followed his every move with curious eyes. He turned around so suddenly that I was downright startled. Nick couldn&#039;t help grinning and then asked for some iced tea.   Together we discussed my living situation. From second to second I felt more and more this unusual attraction. The air between us seemed to really crackle. 
 We agreed that he could stay and work for me. I could not give him any money, but I had a large field and a large garden. So I had enough crops to provide food. I also owned cattle for slaughter. Now that a man was on the farm, this would probably also be slaughtered. I myself couldn&#039;t bring myself to do it and fed the cattle through instead of eating them.     We took his horse to the barn and fed it. It was at least as hungry as Nick. At least Nick looked very hungry. However, he really didn&#039;t want to eat anything, he just wanted me. He had been alone for a long time and had ridden a lot in solitude. Now he wanted to be ridden! The box next to the horse was free and full of fresh straw. 
 Neither of us could have gotten a better offer. I wasn&#039;t wearing nice underwear, so I hastily removed my panties, lifted the skirt part of my dress, and almost immediately sat down on his already waiting, taut member. When I took my place, a pleasant moan escaped from him. 
 He had trouble restraining himself from coming immediately. I moved as slowly as possible, pausing now and then to let him enjoy. He should not cum immediately, but enjoy the warmth and moisture of my pussy. 
 Seduction in hot lingerie 
 Our next sexual encounter was to take place with far less fabric on my body. I wanted to feel him properly. Wanted Nick to touch me all over. He insisted on still sleeping in the barn even after several days. It was not proper to sleep with a widowed lady in the house. The fact that we slept together whenever the opportunity arose made no difference to him. He slept with his horse!    To lure him into the house one night after all, I put on my kimono top. A very short, black kimono. Finest silk, in front completely opaque. In the back, however, made of delicate lace. I pretended to give the horse a few more carrots. I bent extra low and showed myself to Nick from behind. Leaving the barn, I gave him my seductive look. 
 I disappeared back into the house and retreated to my bedroom, which I had already bathed in soft candlelight.   It took less than two minutes for Nick to enter my bedroom. His body seemed downright steely as he stood before me. I asked him to come to my bed and he followed my request. 
 He lay down next to me and began to explore my whole body with almost trembling fingers. He stroked, he paused, he pinched and explored every millimeter of me. &quot;You are beautiful,&quot; he said, kissing my breasts. He spread delicate little kisses on my breasts let his tongue glide over my nipples, soon covering me with his whole body. 
 I felt Nick everywhere. His muscles, his penis and in addition this masculine scent that seemed to emanate from his horniness alone.   I enjoyed this moment, with the thought in my mind to put my body in my garter corsage of two-tone lace for him next time. 
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                            <updated>2020-05-07T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex stories: Vibrations of passion</title>
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                                            I have always been a very open-minded woman who likes to meet new people. I have never had any problems approaching others Nevertheless, there was until recently something where I was actually shy, reserved and downright shy. Fortunately, this also came to an abrupt end. But I...
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                 I have always been a very open-minded woman who likes to meet new people. I have never had any problems approaching others. Nevertheless, there was until recently something where I was actually shy, reserved and downright shy. Fortunately, this also came to an abrupt end. But I&#039;d best start from the beginning.    For three years I have not had a man by my side. I fled after 13 years from a stalled relationship. No sex for years, no passion, no love. So at some point I preferred being alone. But there was no sex for me even after the relationship ended, because I was simply not ready for a new relationship. 
 Sex without love? For me, that&#039;s out of the question. In addition, I am very reserved when it comes to sex. Or rather I was! That was exactly my problem. My great shyness during sex. I never dared to come out of myself. I could never really let myself go. 
 Maybe that was because I had only ever had the one man who just rammed like a rabbit. I never got to try out anything. Recently, however, this finally changed when Dennis came into my life. A man I will never let go. 
 Looks become deeds 
 I was sitting, like almost every weekend with my friends in our regular bar. Most of the time, it&#039;s always the same faces you see there. But on a beautiful spring weekend, a real beau entered the bar. He was tall, athletic, had insanely alert eyes and a particularly warm smile. 
 His hair was steel gray, though he appeared to be only in his mid-thirties. Well groomed clothes and an ass in his pants you wouldn&#039;t soon forget. At least that&#039;s how I felt after that night. He sat at the bar, we sat at the round table. I sat so that I could watch him the whole time.    Already after the first accidental glance he turned slightly to the side, so that he could also see me better. The later the evening got, the more intense our glances became. I would never have thought it possible to get to know each other like that. Just by exchanging glances, we seemed to know each other well. Mutually we undressed then already practically with the looks. When the bar closed, we turned looks into actions.    I didn&#039;t have far to go home and simply took the beau with me. He was so beautiful, one could have thought he was gay. But he was not! He proved that by his hard penis, which became more and more obvious in his gray jeans. We had exchanged a maximum of twenty words in all that time and already ended up in my bed. 
 He kissed my whole body, greedily, ecstatically and I did not know what happened to me, he was already kissing me to orgasm. He smiled mischievously and then just kept going. Kisses, touches and then a super deep plunge into my overly wet vagina! As he entered me, all I could do was groan, close my eyes and enjoy. I never made noises during sex before. 
 With Dennis, however, this could not be avoided. I was ashamed of it, but he gave me to understand that this just made him even hornier. Incidentally, it was only after the night we spent together and four orgasms later that I learned that the attractive guy&#039;s name was Dennis. 
 Discovering the world with toys 
 After the unexpected and incredibly good night, I met Dennis again after only two days. It had somehow totally crackled between us. I was blown away from the first moment, otherwise I would never have taken the guy home with me. As it seems, I had the great luck that it did not happen differently to him.    On our third date, we actually didn&#039;t have sex for once, but talked and got to know each other a bit. We already knew our bodies, but did it fit character-wise? Oh yes, it fits! As already mentioned, I like to approach people and have no problems getting to know them. 
 Dennis and I found a lot to talk about and things in common. Of course, it didn&#039;t escape him that I am reserved during sex and can&#039;t quite come out of my shell. He promised me that would change soon.   We went shopping. 
 But not clothes, shoes or jewelry, but toys! He asked me to just go for it. I wasn&#039;t comfortable with it, but I couldn&#039;t deny this man a wish. He decided to buy a little something vibrating. We only bought two toys at first to see if it was something I liked. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;428&quot; ]  The pink pearl vibrator with 7 vibrations got me into exstasy super fast. Never would I have thought that something artificial could do such a thing in me. The vibrations could be changed again and again. There was always a new rhythm and new waves of power from the vibrations. I literally screamed when I climaxed through this vibrator. This toy we found to be very good.   However, I was not allowed to rest after this mega orgasm. There was still a second sex toy that wanted to test its vibrations on me. This time I should experience a pure clitoral orgasm. This I experienced by Dennis spoiled me with the massage wand PalmPower Massager. 
 It began with a relaxed massage on the back, down to the buttocks and thighs. Vibrating the inner thighs with it already brought me back into sexual heat. I turned onto my back, spread my legs and lay demanding posing in front of Dennis and the massage wand. He guided it to my center, as requested, and let the vibrations run free, just as I gave free rein to my movements, my breathing and my moans.    When I could not for the life of me endure any more, I took the toy away from Dennis and began to pamper him with the massage wand. Why should only women have pleasure with it! Dennis also learned to love the toy very quickly.   Today we go shopping again. ... 
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                            <updated>2020-04-23T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The Creampie: What is it anyway?</title>
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                                            Creampie refers to the clearly visible leakage of semen from the vagina or anus after sex. Both women and men often find this sight erotic and exciting. We&#039;ll show you how to show off your creampie to its best advantage.
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                 Creampie refers to the clearly visible leakage of semen from the vagina or anus after sex. Both women and men often find this sight erotic and exciting. We&#039;ll show you how to show off your creampie to its best advantage. 
 The Creampie 
 Basically, the creampie is about letting the man&#039;s sperm run out of the partner&#039;s used body opening after unprotected intercourse. 
 So a creampie can be done as an  anal creampie  as well as vaginally and is enormously arousing for many men and some women. The term creampie - meaning cream pie - is used in many ways, especially in the porn scene, to describe a particular sexual practice. 
 This is especially noticeable in the  porn industry . Here the creampie respectively the clear representation of the same takes a very special place. Many men and also a not too small percentage of women enjoy the depiction of one in movies. 
 A special extreme can be found where several men in a session unprotected with a woman and thus an enormous amount of sperm can flow out of the woman. Such practices are rather rare in reality, but can round off many a session and evening excellently. 
 So it may come as no surprise that this form of sexual pleasure is also enormously popular in bedrooms around the globe and is perceived by many couples as an important part of sexual life. 
 Showing off the creampie to its best advantage 
 It is especially beautiful when it is very visible. However, this means that a great arousal should be present in the lady. Because with the arousal, the natural moisture is also significantly increased, which particularly strengthens the flowing out of the sperm and thus the creampie. 
 This can often be achieved either through the use of various sex toys or certain sexual practices. In addition, a creampie is particularly visible after anal intercourse, as the contrast is often strongest here. As a woman, you can clearly influence the emergence of the creampie through targeted pressing. 
 If you position yourself so that your partner has a good and direct view of your orifices, he can enjoy the sight of the creampie in all its glory and let it excite him further. 
 Enjoy the creampie with your partner 
 Experiencing a creampie is exciting for many men and women alike. However, the prerequisite here is that no  condoms  are used. So you should look for a partner for the creampie, which is also healthy. 
 Also the contraception must be done otherwise. Because the sperm running out of the body opening does not mean that a pregnancy can be prevented. 
 The creampie is particularly intense and easily visible either during  anal intercourse  or when the woman is very aroused due to the use of sex toys or by the act itself. In this way, the creampie comes into its own particularly well. 
 However, it can often happen that the creampie does not look impressive or clear enough. Because the amount of sperm is completely different from man to man. Nevertheless, you do not have to do without an impressive creampie. 
 Even if you&#039;ve only had safe sex with your partner so far and don&#039;t want to change that, you can resort to various options. 
 For example, the industry has artificial sperm on offer, which can not only imitate such a creampie excellently, but also serves as an excellent lubricant. 
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 So you can use the artificial sperm not only for various games, but also benefit from its appearance and its properties several times. Simply use the artificial sperm in sufficient quantity during sex - whether anal or vaginal - and benefit from an impressive creampie. 
 As a woman, you can even observe exactly how your partner reacts to the sight without having to worry about the bed linen. Because unlike a real creampie, the creampie made of artificial sperm is water-soluble and therefore easy to remove. 
 The bed linen is spared and there are no unsightly and very sticky stains. In addition, a creampie with such artificial sperm naturally offers the same safety that safer sex can offer you. 
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 Especially with unknown partners or to protect against pregnancy, an artificial creampie can be a great and easy way not to have to give up this form of sexuality. 
 If you are thinking about experiencing a creampie yourself or surprising your partner with such a sight, you can either wait for the right opportunity or get your partner going directly with the artificial sperm. 
  Just try it and show your partner how great a creampie can look with you.  
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                            <updated>2019-12-28T11:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is FFM sex? Threesome with two women and one man explained</title>
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                                            FFM sex means the joint sexual act between two women and a man. FFM sex is seen as particularly desirable by men, although many women also benefit from this constellation. The women often have to interact more with each other so that everyone gets their money&#039;s worth during FF...
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  FFM sex  - two women, one man, many fantasies. For some it&#039;s the ultimate threesome dream, for others it&#039;s an exciting opportunity to discover new aspects of their own sexuality. However, it takes more than just lust to turn a fantasy into a beautiful, consensual and safe FFM threesome: communication, boundaries, safe sex and a bit of planning. 
 In this guide, you&#039;ll find out exactly what FFM sex means, how it differs from other threesome constellations and how you can organize a threesome so that everyone involved really gets their money&#039;s worth - without drama, without pressure and with a lot of respect for each other. 
  More about threesomes, relationships &amp;amp; open sexuality: 
 
  What is MMF sex?  
  Beginner&#039;s guide for your first visit to a swingers club  
  Guide to sex meetings - everything you need to know  
  Polyamory &amp;amp; open relationships  
 
 
 Table of contents 
 
  What is FFM sex?  
  Why FFM sex can be so appealing  
  Planning FFM sex safely: communication, boundaries, consensus  
  How do you find the third person?  
  FFM sex in practice: roles &amp;amp; scenarios  
  Tips for all levels - FFM sex step by step  
  Role play step by step - depending on the level  
  Feelings, jealousy &amp;amp; aftercare  
 
 What does FFM sex mean? 
 The abbreviation  FFM  stands for &quot;Female Female Male&quot; - i.e. two women and one man. In  FFM sex , all three people have sexual contact together, often as part of a threesome. In many fantasies, the man takes center stage and is pampered by both women - in reality, however, the dynamics can be much more varied. 
 It is also important to distinguish this from other constellations: 
 
  FFM sex:  one man with two women, possibly with erotic contact between the women 
  MMF sex:  two men and one woman - there is a separate guide on this under  &quot;What is MMF sex?&quot;  
 
 FFM sex often involves  same-sex play  between the two women - such as mutual oral stimulation or the use of toys. This allows both women to stay aroused while the man is allowed to relax in between. 
  Tip for beginners:  First ask yourselves honestly: Does FFM sex only appeal to us as a fantasy or really in reality? An open conversation about desires, insecurities and jealousy is the best basis before you even start looking for a third person. 
 Why FFM sex can be so appealing 
 The appeal of  FFM sex  is very different for many people: 
 
  For men:  the thought of being desired and touched by two women at the same time is a common fantasy classic. 
  For women:  The opportunity to have curious same-sex experiences - without having to stick a label on your orientation straight away. 
  For couples:  A shared erotic adventure that can strengthen closeness and trust if it is well prepared. 
 
 FFM sex can also allow you to try out different roles: a more passive, pampered person at the center, a more active, guiding person, plus a third person who sometimes supports and sometimes is the focus. This turns &quot;just a threesome&quot; into a multi-layered play of power and pleasure. 
 Planning FFM sex safely: communication, boundaries, consensus 
 Without clear agreements, FFM sex can quickly become complicated. With honest communication, however, it becomes a safe and intense experience. 
 Express wishes &amp;amp; no-goes 
 Before you talk to a third person, clarify things in pairs (as a couple) or in threesomes: 
 
 What fantasies do you each have? What particularly excites you? 
 Which body parts and practices are taboo? 
 Is kissing allowed - even between the women? Is anal sex allowed? 
 How important is it for the couple to keep to themselves in between? 
 
 Also agree on rules for afterwards: Is it one-off FFM sex or do you possibly want to meet one person regularly? Can you text alone or only in group chats? 
 Safewords &amp;amp; safer sex 
 The same applies to supposedly &quot;harmless&quot; threesomes:  consensus is the basis . Safe words or clear stop signals help if someone feels uncomfortable in the middle of the situation or boundaries are reached. 
 
 Agree on a word such as &quot;stop&quot; or the traffic light system (&quot;red&quot; = stop immediately). 
 Use condoms and gloves if necessary, especially when changing partners. 
 Talk about test results (e.g. STI tests) and limits for bodily fluids beforehand. 
 
 Especially when toys come into play - e.g. vibrators, anal toys or strap-on dildos - these should be thoroughly cleaned or covered with condoms. You can find inspiration in categories such as  classic vibrators  or  strap-on dildos . 
 How do you find the third person? 
 Finding the &quot;right&quot; third person is often the most difficult part of  FFM sex . It is important not to persuade or &quot;use&quot; anyone, but to meet at eye level. 
 Possible ways: 
 
  Circle of friends:  Very tricky - here you need a lot of tact and clear agreements so as not to jeopardize friendships. 
  Online platforms &amp;amp; dating apps:  Many apps offer threesome or couple profiles. Pay attention to honest profiles, respect in the chat and clear communication. 
  Swinger clubs &amp;amp; play parties:  Ideal for meeting people who are open to threesomes. You can find tips for your first visit in the  swingers club beginner&#039;s guide . 
 
 Very important: Everyone involved should like each other - not just the man and the two women. Chemistry, respect and humor are at least as important in FFM sex as physical attraction. 
  Advanced tip:  Create a small &quot;profile&quot; together: What characteristics should the third person have (age, experience, type of relationship)? This will help you avoid spontaneously inviting someone who doesn&#039;t suit you at all. 
 FFM sex in practice: roles &amp;amp; scenarios 
 Once you have found each other, discussed the rules and ensured safe sex, it&#039;s time to put it into practice.  FFM sex  can look very different - it doesn&#039;t always have to be the image from porn where the man is constantly the center of attention. 
 1. Man at the center 
 Perhaps the classic version: both women focus heavily on the man, take turns or spoil him together. The women can interact with each other - but they don&#039;t have to. Important: No one should have the feeling of being an &quot;extra&quot;. 
 2. One woman at the center 
 It gets exciting when one of the women is the center of attention. Both other people pamper her, taking turns with oral sex, touching or toys - for example with a dildo or a  strapon dildo. This creates a very female-centered FFM dynamic.  
 3. Focus on the interaction between women 
 Many fantasies revolve around the encounter between the two women: Kissing, caressing, playing together with vibrators or strap-on dildos. The man can watch, guide, touch or join in later. Toys from categories such as  classic vibrators  help to stimulate both women at the same time. 
 Which option you choose depends on your preferences - whatever is fun, safe and consensual for both of you is allowed. 
 Tips for all levels - FFM sex step by step 
 So that you don&#039;t get overwhelmed, it can help to think about  FFM sex  in stages - from the initial approach to complex threesome dynamics. 
 Level 1 - Curious, but cautious 
 
 Share fantasies as a couple, perhaps watch FFM pornography together and talk about what appeals to you. 
 Flirtatious chats or video calls with a potential third person without arranging a direct sex date. 
 First meeting in a neutral place (café, bar), without any pressure to have sex. 
 
 Level 2 - First FFM threesome 
 
 Establish clear rules about kissing, penetration, oral sex and toys beforehand. 
 Plan safe sex: condoms, lubricant, possibly a fresh test. 
 Threesome in a familiar environment (e.g. at the home of one of the participants), without alcohol or drug excesses, so that everyone agrees in their right mind. 
 
 Level 3 - Repeated or fixed FFM constellations 
 
 Regular meetings with the same third person or inclusion in an open relationship structure. 
 More complex scenarios, e.g. fixed roles (main partner, second partner, &quot;guest&quot;). 
 Clarity about feelings: What does the relationship mean for each person? How do you deal with jealousy? 
 
  Tip for those with experience:  If FFM sex is a regular occurrence, consciously plan &quot;couple evenings&quot; for just the two of you. This way, the basic relationship remains stable and no one feels like they are being replaced by the threesome constellation. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 FFM sex can be wonderfully combined with light role-playing games - without it having to get complicated. Important: Everything remains play, no one is pressured into anything. 
 
  Level 1 - &quot;Spontaneous visit&quot;:  The third person supposedly comes over &quot;by chance&quot; (agreed beforehand, of course). First a glass of wine, then a hand on the thigh, kisses, at some point all three are in bed. 
  Level 2 - &quot;teacher &amp;amp; pupil&quot;:  One woman takes on the role of the experienced lover who instructs the other on how to please the man - and both enjoy his reactions. Ideal if you like playful dominance. 
  Level 3 - &quot;Fixed ritual&quot;:  The third person has a clear role - e.g. as a &quot;guest&quot; or &quot;maid&quot; who is regularly invited. Fixed rules and ritual times help to keep this constellation stable and emotionally secure. 
 
 Feelings, jealousy &amp;amp; aftercare 
 FFM sex is not only physically intense, but also emotionally intense. Even if everyone is enthusiastic beforehand, unexpected feelings can arise afterwards - insecurity, jealousy, perhaps even sadness. 
 Debriefing &amp;amp; catching up 
 
 Deliberately plan time to talk after the threesome - whether as a couple or a threesome. 
 Ask: &quot;What was nice? What was too much? What would you want differently next time?&quot; 
 Show each other that your relationship is more than just sex: cuddling, eye contact, loving words. 
 
 Couples in particular should consciously strengthen their relationship afterwards: joint activities, small acts of affection in everyday life, perhaps a later conversation about unanswered questions. 
 If you notice that FFM sex triggers old wounds or causes lasting jealousy, it is perfectly legitimate to take a break or give it up altogether. Erotic experiments are not a must, but an offer - the important thing is that you feel safe, respected and connected in your sexuality. 
  Conclusion:   FFM sex  can be an exciting, sensual adventure if you talk to each other honestly, define boundaries and pay attention to safe sex. Then the fantasy of a threesome becomes a real experience that not only arouses desire, but can also bring you closer together emotionally. 
 
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                            <updated>2019-08-14T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex stories: Sex in the wilderness</title>
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                                            She&#039;s famous, so I won&#039;t name her here, but the lady I chauffeured last year had legs I couldn&#039;t resist. Long, defined and in black nylons, the pretty woman stretched one of her legs from the back seat through to the front, to the center console of my Audi
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                 I am a middle-aged man with a relatively normal job. I am a transporter and chauffeur. Sometimes I drive things from point A to point B that I don&#039;t know what it is. Often I drive ladies out of the country that I don&#039;t know if they will ever return. 
 I don&#039;t care either, to me it&#039;s just a job with little talking. Am I a criminal? Well, I don&#039;t know, but I tell myself I&#039;m not. I&#039;m just a chauffeur. And sometimes I have a little adventure or two along the way. 
 Sexy legs that I can&#039;t resist 
 She&#039;s famous, so I won&#039;t name her here, but the lady I chauffeured last year had legs I couldn&#039;t resist. Long, defined and wearing black nylons, the pretty woman stretched one of her legs from the back seat through to the front, to the center console of my Audi. She had to stretch out, she justified her actions. 
 The drive had lasted 3.5 hours by now, I could understand her well. I offered her to take a break. We were already somewhere in the middle of nowhere. All around there was only forest, wilderness and a country road, which was only used by us. I had to deliver the woman at her destination on time, but what was a 20 minute break? So I could have a closer look at the pretty thing.   Tall, slender and rather scantily clad, she now stood next to my car and stretched out her tired body. From top to bottom I examined her, devoured her with my looks, which of course did not escape her. She was the wife of a highly respected man. It was deathly brave of me to look at her like that. But she obviously liked it. She asked if I had ever had sex in the wilderness. 
 Legs from heaven and back entwine around me 
 I actually had to answer her with a no. My sex life had been lying fallow for a long time and what I could previously call sex ... Well, it was simple flower sex, with always only one and the same woman in always the same marriage bed. My wife had been my ex-wife for seven years by now. I was a free bird and yet I never got my turn. 
 And that, although I am a really tight guy, muscles, without even a gram of fat in between. Striking, masculine face, full head of hair and eyes that make hearts beat faster. And quite frankly, what I have in my pants can never be overlooked.   Now the rich lady gently pushed me to the floor and sat on me. She took off my jacket and unbuttoned my shirt. Her fingernails ran scratchily over my bare chest. I reached out, pulling her towards me to get at her nice smelling neck. It tasted of expensive perfume and I loved it. I stood up with her in my arms, pushed her against a tree and told her I was going to fuck her real good now. 
 She laughed and told me to prove what I was made of. And I did! Her panties were quickly pushed aside, my pants down just as quickly. Without hesitating gentleness I penetrated deep into her, so that a pleasant sigh escaped her. Her nylon stockinged legs embraced my hips. Only I and the tree held the woman upright. Those legs ... they were driving me crazy. To make sure I didn&#039;t come too soon, I desperately needed to think of something. 
   
 Handcuffs are never wrong 
 Actually completely unnecessary, since I&#039;m just a chauffeur, but still I always have handcuffs with me. Now these proved to be particularly practical. I pushed the lady away from me and turned her around swinging. She looked at the tree, slightly startled, as I cuffed her hands around it. Never in her life would she have expected my handcuffs. 
 Now I could see her from behind and take her powerfully. No legs that embraced me, just me and her horny butt!   This was not less horny as her beautiful long legs, but I could still control myself until she came screaming loudly to climax. Only then I withdrew from her to unload on her ass. 
 Delivered as requested 
 I helped her clean up and stowed my &quot;goods&quot; back in the car. I had a schedule to keep and we had done everything we felt like. So the trip could continue. In the rearview mirror I saw her sparkling eyes that showed no glimmer of remorse. I had nothing to fear, she wouldn&#039;t say anything to her husband. 
 Because who knows, I might have to chauffeur her somewhere again. I&#039;m sure she would also enjoy the next ride with me very much. So far I&#039;m waiting in vain for another ride with my Miss Hollywood, but I&#039;m left with memories and dreams. Oh wait! My cell phone rings. It&#039;s the number of the lady with the incredible legs ... 
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                            <updated>2019-07-21T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sperm - this is a topic that divides opinions</title>
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                                            Again and again you read and hear questions about sperm. Swallowing or spitting out, the change of taste through food and also different sperm games are always a topic We would like to answer the most important questions about sperm for you and show you what is possible with s...
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                 Again and again you read and hear questions about sperm. Swallowing or spitting out, the change of taste through food and also various sperm games are always a topic. 
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 We would like to answer the most important questions about sperm for you and show you what is possible with sperm. 
 
 What is sperm anyway and how is it composed? 
 Sperm is the ejaculate of the man, which shoots out of his penis during climax and which contains the sperm. However, the little floaters make up just 0.5 percent of the total ejaculate. 
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 Between 2 and 6 milliliters of ejaculate are ejected during a man&#039;s climax. Not very much, then. But what exactly is it made up of?     In addition to the liquid, which contains the sperm and makes up around 10 percent of the ejaculate, 20 percent of the ejaculate is made up of prostate secretion and 70 percent of other liquids.    
  Overall, healthy semen is  slightly alkaline and may even have a mild anti-depressant effect when ingested vaginally due to the hormones it contains, according to a study by the  State University of New York . 
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 Sperm and the taste - what&#039;s the truth of the myth? 
 There is a  persistent rum or that men can change the taste of their own sperm by eating a pineapple, for example, and thus make it more pleasant to swallow. However, this is actually just  a rumor . 
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 Although eating habits can change the taste of sperm in parts in the long term, such a short-term effect relationship is not to be expected. As a man, you can practically eat whatever you want without this having any effect on the taste of your sperm. 
 Can sperm transmit diseases? 
 Unfortunately, we have to answer this question with a resounding yes. Sperm can also contain viruses of various diseases. Through unprotected  oral sex , you can contract  diseases  such as HIV, syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and other sexually transmitted diseases. 
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 The dangers are a little less than with normal intercourse, but they are still there. So if you don&#039;t know anything about your partner&#039;s health or it&#039;s a one night stand, you shouldn&#039;t do without a  condom  even during oral sex. 
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 Sperm in the mouth - swallow or spit? 
   For many men it seems to be important that their partner swallows the sperm during oral sex.  But let&#039;s be honest, there are no really rational reasons for this. Every man has a different sense of taste and preferences. While some don&#039;t even want to have the semen in their mouth, others enjoy the taste and like to swallow the semen. 
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 No one can be convinced against their will that it would be particularly great or important to swallow the sperm during oral sex.  A suitably ready cloth can simply be used to dispose of the sperm inconspicuously.  
 Is there really a sperm allergy? 
 The term sperm allergy sounds like a funny excuse at first. But this allergy really does exist, even if the people affected are allergic primarily to the protein contained in the semen.  In Germany, however, there are currently only 60 documented cases.  
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 The number of unreported cases in this area, however, should be significantly higher. Symptoms of a sperm allergy are typical of allergies and range from skin irritation to respiratory distress or even anaphylactic shock.      Overall, it can be summarized  that sperm will probably continue to divide opinions in the future. While some people like to have sperm in their mouths and play with it, others want to have as little contact with the liquid as possible and reject the smell and even more so the taste of sperm. 
 
 
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                            <updated>2019-07-01T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex on the sofa is not boring</title>
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                                            Sex on the sofa is considered boring by many. This is partly because for many it is nothing more than a bed. What is there great possible, apart from the conventional bedroom positions? The sofa sex is absolutely hot, erotic and spontaneous! If he is boring, it&#039;s up to you!
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                  Sex on the sofa  is considered boring by many. This is partly because for many it is nothing more than a bed. What is there great possible, apart from the conventional bedroom positions? The sofa  sex is absolutely hot , erotic and spontaneous! If it is boring, it is up to you!     A couch or an armchair can become a desired lust object. Turn your armchair into a lustful sex armchair. Let the sex on the couch become something special. It doesn&#039;t take much to do this, except for determined positions and maybe some muscle. 
 Positions that turn the simple sofa into an experience couch 
 You see your partner sitting on the couch,  writing on the cell phone  or gambling on the console! Use your chance and push the everyday life aside. Take a seat and ride the gentleman so that he quickly forgets games and Co. The sofa offers the ideal place for riding games. 
    So that you also have guaranteed your fun, you can clear your legs a little out of the way. Take the riding position again, but stretch your legs upwards and put them on your partner&#039;s shoulders. However, your partner should hold you tightly so that you don&#039;t fall off the couch. In this position he can hit your G-spot perfectly!     The missionary position also works on the couch. Yes, this is where the typical bedroom sex comes out again. But!!!! On the sofa there are guaranteed numerous decorative pillows. With these you can change the simple missionary position ideally. Just a small pillow under your pelvis can make a lot of difference. 
      Spooning is actually the typical position for falling asleep. So off to the couch for a nap! Or would you rather not sleep? You lie in front, he lies behind. Angle your legs a bit and stretch your buttocks backwards with pleasure. He will feel your round buttocks in the groin and think of everything but sleeping.     Feel free to get creative with armchairs, couches, decorative pillows, armrests and backrests. Create a great love nest and try out something new. You can also try out something from the Kamasutra. But keep in mind that the couch is narrower than your bed. 
 You don&#039;t have to buy a new sofa 
 Now you have had sex on the sofa. Does that mean you have to get a new couch? After all, others still want to sit on it. Of course, you don&#039;t have to get rid of the couch right away. Everybody has sex on the sofa or the armchair. 
   
 Of course, you don&#039;t have to tell your guests, who usually sit on it, right away. It&#039;s best to always put a blanket or something similar on the seat so that you don&#039;t leave any stains on the sofa.  If your body fluids do end up on  the seat, then simply dab them out with some dish soap or soap and water. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-21T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex in the bath - always a challenge</title>
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                                            Sex in the bathroom is always a real challenge. In fantasy wonderful sex positions happen, wild, uninhibited and totally easy to realize
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                 Sex in the bathroom is always a real challenge. In the imagination, wonderful sex positions occur, wild, uninhibited and totally easy to realize. But when you actually want to realize them, disillusionment sets in quickly. In the shower it still works, but  sex in the bathtub , is that possible?     Sex in the tub is possible, but it will never be really comfortable. However, this should not prevent you from simply doing it. The only important thing is that you directly assume not to be able to perform any kamasutra works of art in the tub. 
 Bathtub sex in common positions 
 If you want to have bathtub sex, it is certainly not about trying out the best position. It&#039;s simply about being close to each other and giving in to your desire. Bath sex can be planned or spontaneous. It is  best to avoid standing positions , as the risk of slipping is simply too high. Lying, sitting or kneeling you can also have fun in the hot tub. 
   
    Doggystyle  is very popular, but think about your knees, they could quickly start to hurt. Otherwise, the missionary position and the rider position also work. The latter, however, requires a lot of muscle strength in the upper part. Alternatively, you can simply use  the edge of  the tub. One sits on the edge of the tub and the other spoils him orally. 
 Make yourselves comfortable 
 If you plan to have sex while bathing, then make yourselves comfortable. Make sure the  bathroom is warm  and comfortable and that the lighting is pleasant. Place a few candles, but in such a way that you can&#039;t knock them over during the act. Buy a good smelling bubble bath and have a wiper ready to wipe up the overflowing bath water afterwards.    Also prepare a  lubricant  that is silicone-based. Toys can also be used in the bath. Make sure you have everything ready beforehand so that you don&#039;t have to get out of the tub in between. 
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 Grab cozy bath towels, a fragrant body lotion and make yourself comfortable on the sofa or in bed. You will then come up with suitable sex games ideas. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-21T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Masturbation - even alone you can have fun</title>
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                                            Self is the woman, even when it comes to sexual satisfaction. Men can do great things with you, but sometimes solo sex is also quite nice. You can explore yourself in many different positions.
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                 Self is the woman, even when it comes to  sexual satisfaction . Men can do great things with you, but sometimes solo sex is also quite nice. You can explore yourself in many different positions.     Yes, a woman satisfies herself. That&#039;s not uncommon and there&#039;s nothing wrong with it. After all, men do this too. So female masturbation should no longer be a taboo subject. 
  On the contrary , as a woman you can always explore yourself anew and try out a lot. 
 Find your favorite position 
 When women masturbate, they do it exactly the way they like it. It doesn&#039;t matter where or in what position. Everything that makes you happy is allowed. You can let your hands slowly caress your body and explore you completely. Maybe you will also find a few, previously undiscovered erogenous zones. 
 Many women prefer masturbation while lying down. The supine position is often used for this. You lie on your back in bed and simply massage your clitoris until you come. 
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 The prone position also allows for relaxed masturbation. On the subject of relaxation, it should be mentioned that a woman can even masturbate herself to sleep. If the position is comfortable and your body is completely relaxed, it may react by falling asleep instead of orgasming. 
   
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 So better make sure that no one can come into your room and find you in appropriate pose.    Masturbation while sitting or standing  is also possible. Some women even satisfy themselves in a squatting position. Each lady has her own preferences. 
 Sextoys and other aids 
 For men, yes, there is this typical cliché of porn film, lubricant and tissues. But is that really only something for men? No, you as a woman can also use all kinds of tools for masturbation. You can also watch a hot porn movie and get wet with lube. 
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 Sex toys like vibrators, dildos and co can also be used. However, not every lady likes this silicone, latex or plastic toys. In that case, maybe high quality stainless steel toys would be an interesting alternative. 
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                            <updated>2019-06-01T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Greek - Sex from ancient times</title>
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                                            When talking about Greek sex, a sex practice is meant that dates back to ancient times. Of course, it is still practiced today with pleasure.
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                 When talking about  Greek sex , a sex practice is meant that dates back to ancient times. Of course, it is still a popular practice today.     There are so many things that we have retained from antiquity. So also one or the other sex practice. While  French sex  is known to almost everyone, still not everyone knows anything about Greek sex.  So what is Greek sex anyway?  
 Greek sex is more common than some might think 
   The sex practice Greek means nothing but anal intercourse.  However, few actually know that anal sex is called Greek sex and that it originated in ancient times. In ancient times, love affairs and sexual relations among men were not uncommon and even respected. 
 Homosexuality was not called a disease or anything like that, as it is always the case today.  So anal intercourse was carried over from a very old and tolerant time into modern times.  The only difference is that anal intercourse is now a common sex practice not only among men, but also between women and men. 
 Sex from behind, as it is also called, is a very intimate thing that not everyone likes. However, if you approach it the right way, it can be very nice. 
   
 Greek is not only possible from behind 
 Of course, the &quot;sex from behind&quot; is not only possible from behind. Over time, lovers invented more and more fancy ways to make love in Greek. Nevertheless, even today the  doggy position  is still the most popular. However, Greek is also feasible in the  spoon position . 
 However, you can also take your partner into you anally in the riding position. Anything that fits, is comfortable and pleasurable for both of you is allowed. You can also warm up and prepare well beforehand. There are now numerous  anal toys ,  anal gels  and co. 
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 Always stay clean 
 If you want to have Greek sex, you should be a clean person. Your rear end is always a bacteria hotspot, but you can keep them low with cleanliness. Before you engage in anal intercourse, you should think about a colonic  irrigation . 
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 This way you will have a clean and empty bowel when your partner penetrates your rectum. Your bowels should definitely always be empty when you want to perform Greek sex. Otherwise it can be embarrassing and smelly. Although this is even desirable for some couples. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-30T13:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Expressing sex desires instead of giving up orgasms</title>
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                                            Repeated sex without orgasm leads to frustration, which can then burst out of you very unflattering. So rather express sex wishes, instead of doing without orgasms
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                 Sex is part of every relationship. But if the sex is bad, then the relationship will suffer at some point.  Repeated sex without orgasm leads to frustration , which can then burst out of you very unflattering.  So it&#039;s better to express your sex wishes  instead of foregoing orgasms.      It actually sounds quite simple to express sex wishes.  But of course it is not. Everyone has a certain sense of shame. Then you don&#039;t want to offend your partner if you suddenly start to criticize and express your wishes. In addition, the right time should be chosen.  And finding the right time is a big challenge.  
     
 It&#039;s best to talk casually 
 Sex should already play a role at the beginning of the relationship. So it&#039;s best to talk about what you like in bed. This way you will quickly find out if you are on the same sexual wavelength. 
  Of course, it&#039;s not a good idea to start right away on the first date.  But after the third date, the time for this topic is already ripe. On the first date it would lead in the wrong direction. 
 Here you should only bring up the subject if you are more interested in hot sex rather than a committed relationship. However, if you have clarified the topic quite at the beginning,  the first joint sex is no longer so difficult . After all, it is already known what each of you likes. 
   
 Express your wishes during sex 
 You can express your wishes during sex.  However, you  must be  careful not to be too brisk , you must not complain and correct everything. Your partner also wants to have fun. 
 So don&#039;t become a lust killer when you express your wishes during sex.  Many actions are much better than many words.  Just show him what you want. 
 You can really lead him to where he should go. If he caresses your clit too hard, then take his hand and guide him a little. He will quickly understand and respond. In return, he can also guide you a little in the right direction.     If you are bad at talking, you don&#039;t have to despair. Many things are easier to write than to say. So, if you lack the courage to talk or show it directly,  write a letter to your lover , even if it sounds childish at first, it can save your relationship and your sex life. 
   
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                            <updated>2019-05-27T17:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Sex in the workplace? From the fetish of role play</title>
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                                            Many of us dream of having sex at work and have already taken a closer look at an attractive colleague. Unfortunately, in reality, this desire usually does not come true.
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                 Many of us dream of having  sex at work  and have already taken a closer look at an attractive colleague.  In reality, unfortunately, this desire can usually not be lived out.  
 However, you don&#039;t have to give up these thoughts.  You can still live out your dreams in role play.  We&#039;ll show you what such a role play might look like, why  real sex on the job can lead to problems , and what makes role plays so fascinating. 
 Sex on the job - not without danger for your own future 
 As tempting as sex in the office or at work may be, as a rule such actions are not a good idea. For one thing, you should always consider the&amp;nbsp; legal situation  if you get caught. 
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  It can very quickly lead to personal problems.  But also the relationship with a work colleague can become problematic, at the latest with the first crises or a flattening of the liaison. For this reason, you should refrain from this thought in any case. 
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 In the worst case, you will spoil the fun and joy of your work in the long term and in the long term, and you can make the atmosphere in the job less attractive for all employees.  After all, the hallway gossip hardly stands still in many companies.  
 Role play as a great alternative 
 Since the thought of sex on the job excites us all, this scenario is lived out in many role plays. Here you can take on exactly the role you want and thus fully realize your desires and fantasies. But what makes the appeal of these role plays? 
   
  Quite simple.  Because most role-playing games in this segment are usually located in the BDSM area, but have nothing to do with SM. It&#039;s mainly about the power imbalance and dominance, which arises, for example, between boss and employee. 
  The active part is the dominating and determining part here,  while for example the employee has to endure sexual humiliation for a pay raise. Exactly these role-playing games are enormously fascinating and can be optimally designed, for example, by matching costumes and clothes. 
 Seduce your partner to role play 
 If you are unsure whether your partner shares your preferences or wants to act them out with you, you can simply try this out during sex. If you dream of being touched harder or being dominated, you can offer him the opportunity to do so. 
   
  Or you can choose the right outfit and surprise your partner with such a role play.  He may react quickly and positively and join you in the role play. You will be surprised how many men have similar fantasies and are delighted and excited when the partner herself expresses these thoughts and wishes. 
 You can try out the most diverse role-playing games and find the roles that are exactly right for you. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-26T19:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The best way to seduce your man</title>
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                                            A man wants to be seduced, he wants to be driven crazy again and again. This does not require changing ladies, but only something creative of a single woman
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 A man wants to be seduced, he wants to be driven crazy again and again.  This does not require changing ladies , but only something creative of a single woman.     You do not need to be afraid that your man cheats on you or even leaves you,  if you only seduce him again and again properly . You have to stay creative so that everyday life doesn&#039;t rule over you in bed at some point as well. 
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 Of course, every man has his own preferences. But certain things heat up every guy in any case. A few of these things we would like to tell you here now. 
   
 Make the man hot with words 
 The power of words is greater than you think.  Dare to talk dirty  and see how your partner reacts to it. You are also allowed to think sexually in everyday life and to express this specifically. Don&#039;t hold back when you feel so much desire. 
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 Even in the seemingly most unfavorable moments, your husband will, for example, jump at the phrase &quot;I&#039;m horny &quot;. He will not let you sit with your horniness, but become horny himself. So you can have beautiful spontaneous sex. Hau quietly erotic sayings out, which can only come to mind.  The men are on it!  
     
 Sex in unusual places 
   Men love sex in unusual places.  So do not always pull him only in the direction of the bed.  Sex on the kitchen table  can also be quite tingling. Look for great places where you can also vary the positions a little. Often  a simple wall  or a small  changing room  is enough, to which he can push you to the edge.    
   
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 Also in the  shower  it can be neatly wet in all respects. For most men, oral intercourse is also part of it. So you should be able to give your partner a blowjob. To blow properly, that he comes, is not easy, but you will manage that too. Tips on how to give a blow job properly can be found  here , among other places. 
   If you want to have sex in bed again, leave out the pajamas and jump into bed naked.  Naked women in bed do not need great seduction talents to get the man around.  
 
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                            <updated>2019-05-25T19:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Men - good sex everyone feels differently</title>
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                                            What do men like in bed? Or what do men like in women? These are questions to which there is no blanket answer. Every man has different needs and desires.
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                 What do men like in bed? Or what do men like in women? These are questions to which there is no blanket answer. Every man has different needs and desires.  Good sex is always in the eye of the beholder.      Even if there is no secret recipe for good sex and no regular answer to what men want, a few tips can help. Probably the most important tip is:  Communicate with your partner!!!!  Only by talking and trying things out can you find out together what you&#039;re into. 
  You can dare to ask your boyfriend directly about his preferences . That way he knows that his needs are important to you. Maybe he doesn&#039;t even know what he likes yet. Then you can get started right away and experiment together. 
 What turns men on when they have sex 
 Of course, there are certain things that turn many men on. So it is already times the female body itself. What are men into when it comes to the female body? Clearly, the breasts and the buttocks.  But the eyes also play an important role.  
     
 Many men love it when they  can look into the eyes of their partner  during  sex . Often they also want to see as much of the woman&#039;s body as possible in general. In this regard, the  riding position  is highly recommended. The man can see you completely in action. 
 He can look you in the eyes or look at your breasts as they move beautifully. Everything that pleases the man, he also wants to touch. So find positions in which the man can not only see, but also feel. Do you know the floating position? Here he can touch your buttocks, breasts and back. 
   
 Be self-confident, but let yourself be dominated 
   Men find it terrific to have a confident woman in bed . A woman who is not ashamed of her body, who doesn&#039;t care about bodily fluids and who is ready to participate in any position. At the same time, the man wants to be able to dominate. 
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 You need to be confident, but also be able to subordinate. Numerous men make it really hot when they can suppress the woman a little bit during sex. If you like it very pronounced, you will quickly find yourself in the SM and BDSM scene. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-22T10:30:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sex with a woman better than with a man?</title>
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                                            Women have fantasies that are very far-reaching. Fantasies of sex with a woman are not excluded. Is this now something bad or reprehensible? No, it is not! Such fantasies may even be lived out.
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                 Women have fantasies that are very far-reaching. Fantasies of sex with a woman are not excluded. Is this now something bad or reprehensible? No, it is not! Such fantasies are even allowed to be lived out.      The first lesbian experience  may be a bit difficult and feel strange. Or you may feel comfortable right away and enjoy it. Or maybe you are one of those women who immediately notice that they don&#039;t like it. You can only find out if you simply try it out. 
 Woman and woman can harmonize very well. Because who knows better how the woman wants to be caressed than a woman. During  lesbian sex  you can even experience multiple orgasms, which is often a real rarity with a man. 
 Women love longer and more tenderly 
 The fact is that women are very changeable in bed. They can be prickly, but also very passionate and loving. A man often does not understand these transformations and tries to put the woman in a certain drawer. 
 If the woman likes it rough, the man tries to implement this every time. At the same time she would rather like to have a lot of tenderness and gentleness. This is a good point to try it with a woman after all. First lesbian sex does not mean that it must take place in this way again and again. 
 Women love longer and more tenderly, but they can also exercise some SM sometimes. Women among themselves are able to communicate even during sex and make clear what is desired.  Even caressing for hours is not a problem  and does not lead to falling asleep, but to passion. 
 Creativity in bed 
 A man often represents a great inhibition threshold for women as far as creativity in bed is concerned. New positions are not even tried, because you could embarrass yourself in front of your partner. The fear of looking stupid during sex is very big for women.     
  Women among themselves try however very gladly  failed sex positions . Lesbians therefore obviously have better sex. But do we have to be lesbians to have sex with a woman? 
 You are far from being a lesbian 
 You are not a lesbian just because you think about having sex with a woman. Even if you find one you like, you are not a lesbian. It is just a sexual desire that you would like to live out. It is exciting to simply feel something other than the typical male body. 
 Delicate, fragrant skin and the softness that men don&#039;t radiate are a temptation. You are only a lesbian when you realize that you are not interested in men. You then feel magically attracted only by women and have rather an aversion to the male sexual organ. 
 If you love men and women equally, you get the stamp of being bi. But for a brief escape into a novel sexual world, you don&#039;t have to be any of those things. Do not worry about such divisions, but just live yourself out. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T15:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Spanish sex - hot with boobs insertion</title>
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                                            Spaniards are hot-blooded and particularly good lovers. At least that is what is always claimed. But does Spanish sex have anything to do with that?
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                 Spaniards are hot-blooded and particularly good lovers. At least that is what is always claimed. But does Spanish sex have anything to do with it? 
 Well, it is certainly hot-blooded, but in itself, Spanish sex is more about the breasts of the woman. Because they are the ones that the man feels magically attracted to.      Spanish sex  is also called  mommy  sex. In good German we also say &quot;Tittenfick &quot; to it. I think now you know what we are talking about here. The breasts are not caressed with hands or mouth, but with the penis. So actually it&#039;s rather that the breasts spoil the penis. 
 What does Spanish mean during sex? 
 When your man asks you to make it Spanish in bed, he wants to put his penis between your breasts. He wants to rub his penis against your breasts until he climaxes. 
 You can help him by squeezing your breasts a little with your hands. This way a nice tightness will appear between your breasts. By the way, the size of your breasts does not matter. 
 Of course, the man can really dive between large breasts. But you can also have Spanish sex with very small breasts. It always depends on the technique and not on the size. 
 This is the best way to have Spanish sex 
 If you use the right technique or position, Spanish sex works with any breast size. Many men prefer to kneel over the woman. In this case, the man kneels at chest level. You lie on your back and hold your breasts together a little.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;415&quot; ] 
 The man pushes his member between your breasts.   Breast sex also works if you drop to your knees in front of him. Lift your breasts lustfully and the man will know what to do with them.   Do you know 69? Then try to have sex in this position. This way, both of you will get something out of it. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T14:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">French sex in bed for him and her</title>
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                                            Sex is very diverse, this is reflected not only in the many possible positions, but also in the possibilities of pampering art. A particularly beautiful form of pampering is sex in French.
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                   French sex can be extremely pleasurable for both women and men. There are certain techniques that can increase the pleasure even more    
   We show which methods and possibilities can be used to experience French sex even more intensively.   
 Sex is very diverse, this is shown not only in the many possible positions, but also in the possibilities of pampering art. A particularly beautiful form, of pampering is the sex in French.     With French woman and man can be equally spoiled. But first you have to know: What is French?! Of course, it is a language. But that is not the point in this case. 
 We are talking about a special sex practice. So the question is rather:  What does French sex mean?  To make it short, it is oral sex. 
 French for the lady 
 Oral sex in French is not a quick number, but something  for real connoisseurs . It is also often compared with a multi-course menu of the French star cuisine. The man has the opportunity to enjoy you fully. 
  He may taste, smell and feel you . All senses are used during oral sex. You just sit back and enjoy. The man can show what he can do during French sex. He has to prove gentle fingers, tender lips and a skillful tongue. 
 With these talents, he must be able to really put you in exstasy. Connoisseurs know that we are talking about cunnilingus here. Gentle kisses are breathed on body and pubic. The tongue goes exploratory and playful ahead. 
 French for the man 
 French oral sex for the man is also called fellatio. French sex is about seducing with persistence and a lot of sensitivity. You must really enjoy each other. The woman may now also feel, smell and taste. 
  The fingers are allowed to come into play . While lips and tongue spoil the glans, the woman can massage the shaft of the penis a little. This way, the man can experience oral sex even more intensely. The tongue can glide from the glans down the shaft. 
 You can give the tongue a break in between and continue only with the lips. Spread gentle kisses on the groin, penis and testicles. When you are ready, look deep into his eyes once again and then let his best piece disappear into your mouth. 
 If you have a strong gag reflex, put only the glans in your mouth. It is not necessary to get it in as far as possible. 
    Some men like to feel a slight pain . In this case, you can use your teeth and nibble a little in between. 
 But always do this with special care and gentleness. Men who prefer to have oral sex in the old French way, reject bites and nibbles completely and want to be spoiled only with tongue and lips. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-20T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Russian sex - the thigh sex in focus</title>
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                                            The term Russian sex has been established for years. What is meant by this sexual practice is the so-called thigh sex
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                 The term Russian sex has been established for years. What is meant by this sexual practice is the so-called thigh sex. The man penetrates between the thighs of the woman and comes through the friction and pressure to climax. 
 We will show you how this thigh sex works, where this practice comes from and how you can best practice thigh sex. 
 Where thigh sex comes from 
 As the name suggests, this sexual practice was invented mainly in Russia and was widespread there. In times without safe contraceptives and when losing virginity meant immediate social relegation, thigh sex was a simple and practical solution to still be able to be intimate with each other. 
   
 The practice has survived to this day, but is nowhere near as widespread as it once was in earlier times. 
 What makes thigh sex so appealing 
 For one thing, thigh sex is still a safe way to prevent pregnancy. But most people who practice this form of sex are most likely to be excited by the novel and intense stimulation. 
 Since the distance between the thighs and the pressure of the thighs on the penis can be varied at will by the woman, many men are particularly attracted to this practice. Here it is very easy to regulate how intensively the man&#039;s penis should be stimulated. 
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 Depending on the intensity of the act and depending on the sensitivity of the man, thigh sex can be made a little more intense by using oil or lubricant. 
 Three different positions for fulfilling thigh sex 
 There are many different positions in which you can enjoy sex between the thighs. Which one you practice depends on personal preferences and physical possibilities. 
   
 The missionary position 
 The woman lies on her back and lifts her legs upwards. The partner kneels in front of her and inserts his penis not into the vagina, but between the woman&#039;s thighs. The man can thrust as usual, while the woman in this position can only change the pressure of the legs. 
   
 Doggystyle 
 This is also practically a classic sex position. However, the woman kneels with her thighs tightly closed in front of the man, who now guides his member between her thighs from behind. In this position, the man can additionally stimulate the woman anally with his hand, if she wants and likes it. 
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 On the side 
 The woman lies on her side and bends one leg. A narrow gap is created between the calf and the thigh, into which the man can penetrate with his member. The advantage of this position is that the man can additionally stimulate the woman with his hands. He can easily reach both her breasts and vagina with his fingers. 
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            <title type="text">Ladies, this is how you make your men happy</title>
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                                            That men have special preferences during sex is nothing new. But that you can make your man happy even with little things, is certainly something new for you. Not every man wants to experience particularly unusual things.
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                 That men have special  preferences during sex  is nothing new. But that you can make your man happy even with little things, is certainly something new for you. Not every man wants to experience particularly unusual things.     More and more surveys confirm it, men can also be made happy with little things during sex. It does not always have to be fancy things that cost you a lot of effort. Sure, there are guys who are into certain fetishes, but usually it&#039;s pretty normal things that turn a man on. 
 Scratch me, bite me, give me dirty names 
 Your fingernails and teeth are not weapons, but real  sex instruments . Many men are into it when you scratch their backs, give little love bites and offer dirty talk. Dirty talk means that you make him hot with words. Explain to him what a bad girl you are, that you have dirty fantasies and more.    What many ladies don&#039;t know is that men like confident women in bed. Some women don&#039;t like being on top because they feel downright exposed and watched. When you ride your partner, show him that you are doing well and having fun. 
 Do not be shy, but live yourself quite obviously. Other pleasures bring the &quot;titty fuck&quot; the blowjob and general experimentation. 
 Fancy things like bondage or role-playing games 
 Of course, not all men are happy with a lustful look or special touches. Some like then but rather something quite unusual. What usually always goes down well is lingerie. If you get yourself a  sexy costume  you can experience exciting role plays.   [emotion emotion_id=&quot;397&quot; ] 
 Depending on the costume, maybe some bondage can be incorporated. As partners, you are sure to be on the same wavelength in every way. So don&#039;t let any sexual secrets come up. Try out and test what you both really like. 
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 In the end, it&#039;s a great thing if you make your man happy. But your desire and your fun in sex must not be lost in the process. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-18T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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