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                                            Discover the exciting world of fetishes and how you can live them out safely and sensually. In our guide, you&#039;ll find valuable tips and recommendations for accessories and products, as well as instructions on how to talk to your partner and how to play out your fantasies safely.
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                 Are you interested in fetishes and want to find out more about them? Then you&#039;ve come to the right place! In this guide, you&#039;ll learn everything you need to know about fetishes - from the definition to the different types of fetishes and how to act them out safely. Whether you&#039;re a beginner or an advanced user, this guide will give you everything you need to know. Let&#039;s dive in together and answer your questions! 
 What are fetishes? 
 Fetishes are sexual preferences or interests that relate to certain objects, materials, body parts or practices that are considered unusual or taboo by society. A fetish can be anything from items of clothing such as leather or latex to certain body features such as feet or hair. 
 Fetishes can take a variety of forms and can occur in both men and women. Some of the most common types of fetishes include shoes, stockings, underwear, leather and latex. Others may focus on specific body features such as feet, hands, hair or eyes. There are also fetishes that relate to specific practices such as BDSM or role play. 
 It is important to emphasize that fetishes are about finding a particular thing or practice sexually appealing, not about a disease or disorder. A fetish can be a way to increase sexual arousal and in many cases can be a healthy sexual preference. 
 It is also important to emphasize that not everyone has a fetish. Everyone has different sexual preferences and interests, and it is okay if these preferences cannot be labeled as a fetish. 
 However, it is also important to point out that the acceptance of fetishes varies in society and that in some countries it is still illegal to engage in certain sexual practices. Therefore, fetishes should always be acted out in a safe and responsible way, with respect and consensus between all partners involved. 
 Overall, fetishes are a normal sexual preference and can be a healthy way to increase sexual arousal. Everyone has different sexual preferences and interests, and it is important to live these out with respect and consensus between all partners involved. 
 The different types of fetishes 
 There are a variety of fetishes that can relate to a wide range of objects, body parts or practices. Here are some of the most common types of fetishes: 
 
  Foot fetish:  A foot fetish refers to a sexual preference for feet, toes and/or footwear such as socks or shoes. 
  Leather fetish : A leather fetish refers to a sexual preference for leather clothing, including jackets, pants or boots. 
  Latex fetish : A latex fetish refers to a sexual preference for clothing made of latex, including latex suits or masks. 
  Dominance and submission (BDSM):  BDSM encompasses a variety of sexual practices involving dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. BDSM fetishes can include, but are not limited to, bondage, restraint, whipping or other types of physical punishment. 
  Bondage fetish:  A bondage fetish refers to a sexual preference for tying up or restricting movement during sexual contact. 
  Role-play fetish : A role-play fetish refers to a sexual preference for role-play in which one assumes a specific role or character. 
  Uniform fetish : A uniform fetish refers to a sexual preference for uniforms, including police uniforms, military uniforms or nurse uniforms. 
  Hair fetish : A hair fetish refers to a sexual preference for hair, including head hair or body hair. 
  Stocking fetish : A stocking fetish refers to a sexual preference for stockings or pantyhose. 
  Odor fetish : An odor fetish refers to a sexual preference for certain smells, such as sweat or perfume. 
 
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 Nika Macht&#039;s video guide: Insight into the world of fetishes 
 It&#039;s important to emphasize that these are just some of the most common types of fetishes and that fetishes can be very individual. Everyone has different sexual preferences and interests, and it&#039;s important to live these out with respect and consensus between all partners involved. 
 In this fascinating video, Nika Macht, a renowned expert in the field of BDSM and self-discovery, guides us through the diverse and exciting world of fetishes. With her in-depth knowledge and passionate manner, Nika sheds light on various fetish practices and explains their special features and charms. 
 She not only offers deep insights into the psychological aspects of various fetishes, but also gives practical tips on how to live them out safely and enjoyably. This video is a must for anyone looking to expand their understanding of fetishes and find new inspiration for their BDSM practice. 
 Nika makes it clear that the world of fetishes is colorful and diverse and that everyone has the opportunity to discover and enjoy their personal preferences in a healthy and enriching way. 
   Your browser cannot play this video.  Immerse yourself in the fascinating world of fetishes with Nika Macht. Our video guide offers insights and practical tips for BDSM enthusiasts on Steeltoyz You can access it at  link address .   
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 How do I find out if I have a fetish? 
 First of all, it&#039;s important to understand that sexual preferences and interests are normal and that everyone has different sexual preferences. There are no &quot;right&quot; or &quot;wrong&quot; sexual preferences as long as all parties involved are in agreement and that no boundaries are crossed. 
  If you&#039;re wondering if you have a fetish, there are a few things you can look out for to recognize your sexual preferences:  
 
  Pay attention to your sexual fantasies:  what are your fantasies during sexual contact? Are there certain objects, body parts or practices that trigger your fantasies?   
  Observe your physical reaction:  When you are sexually aroused, what types of stimuli or stimulation cause a particularly strong reaction in your body?   
  Reflect on your past sexual experiences:  Are there certain sexual experiences that you have found particularly arousing or attractive?   
  Notice yourself:  Are there certain objects, body parts or practices that you are sexually attracted to or aroused by when you think about them? 
 
 If you find that you have a preference for certain objects, body parts or practices that could potentially be labeled as a fetish, it&#039;s important to discuss these preferences with your partner to make sure they are okay with it. 
 It&#039;s also important to make sure that you are living out your fetish in a safe and responsible way, for example by being mindful of safe practices and toys, and that you ensure consensus and respect between all partners involved at all times. 
 Overall, it&#039;s important to be aware that everyone has different sexual preferences and interests and that this is normal. If you think you have a fetish, you should not be ashamed or feel guilty about it, but rather accept your sexual preferences and live them out in a safe and responsible way. 
 How do I talk to my partner about my fetish? 
 It can be difficult to talk to your partner about your fetish, especially if you are worried that it could lead to rejection or misunderstandings. Here are some tips to help you make the conversation easier: 
 
  Choose the right time:  it&#039;s important to initiate the conversation at a time when you&#039;re both relaxed and open to talking. Avoid bringing up the topic during sexual contact or in a stressful situation.   
  Use &quot;I&quot; statements:  Instead of saying &quot;I have a fetish&quot;, try expressing it in an &quot;I&quot; statement, such as &quot;I find it arousing when we do certain things&quot;. This helps to focus the conversation on your feelings and sensations, rather than giving the impression that it&#039;s an immutable trait.   
  Be clear and specific:  Make sure you describe your preferences and interests clearly and specifically. Avoid generalizing or paraphrasing what you would like to do.   
  Avoid accusations or blame:  It&#039;s important to maintain open and respectful communication and avoid blaming or assigning blame. Instead, focus on finding a solution together that works for both of you.   
  Listen:  Make sure that you also listen to your partner when they express their concerns or boundaries. Try to understand their perspective and be willing to compromise to find a solution that works for both of you.   
  Stay positive:  Even though the conversation can be difficult, try to stay positive and emphasize finding a solution together. Open and honest communication can help strengthen your relationship and improve your sexual experience. 
 
 Overall, it&#039;s important to emphasize that it&#039;s normal to have sexual preferences and interests and that it&#039;s important to discuss these with your partner. When you are ready to have the conversation, you should try to follow the tips above to facilitate the conversation and find a mutual solution that works for both of you. 
  How can I live out my fetish? 
 If you have a fetish, it can be difficult to find ways to act it out in a safe and responsible way. Here are some tips to help you live out your fetish: 
 
  Communicate openly and honestly:  It&#039;s important that you communicate your sexual preferences and boundaries openly and honestly with your partner. Talk about your fantasies, preferences and boundaries to make sure you both agree.   
  Look for a safe environment:  It is important to find a safe place and a safe environment to live out your fetish. For example, this could be a private apartment or hotel room where you feel comfortable and safe.   
  Pay attention to safety and health:  When living out your fetish, it is important to pay attention to your own safety and health. Always use safe practices and toys to minimize the risk of injury or infection.   
  Set boundaries:  It&#039;s important that you and your partner set clear boundaries to ensure that all parties involved are in agreement. Respect your partner&#039;s boundaries and demand that your own boundaries are respected.   
  Experiment with different practices and toys:  There are a variety of toys and practices that are suitable for different fetishes. Experiment with different toys and practices to find out what works best for you.   
  Look for like-minded people:  It can be helpful to find other people with similar interests to live out your fetish. This could be through online communities, fetish clubs or events.   
  Find a dom or sub:  If your fetish involves submission or dominance, it can be helpful to find a dom or sub who can help you live out your fetish. 
 
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 It&#039;s important to emphasize that every fetish is individual and that there is no &quot;right&quot; or &quot;wrong&quot; way to act it out, as long as all parties involved are in agreement and health and safety are ensured. 
 When acting out your fetish, you should always consider your own safety and health and make sure that you and your partner are in agreement. 
 Here are some examples: 
 
  Bondage and restraint games:  If your fetish involves restraint and bondage, you should make sure that you and your partner have the necessary knowledge and skills to do this safely and responsibly. Make sure that you use high-quality and safe restraints and ropes to avoid injuries. If you are unsure, look for courses and workshops that can teach you the necessary skills.   
  Foot Worship:  If your fetish involves foot fetishism, you should think about how you can do this safely and hygienically. For example, use clean socks or stockings to touch your partner&#039;s feet and make sure you don&#039;t touch any wounds or open areas on their feet.   
  BDSM:  If your fetish involves BDSM, make sure that you and your partner are aware of the necessary safety precautions. Use safe words and talk about boundaries and preferences beforehand to ensure that all parties involved are in agreement.   
  Latex and leather:  If your fetish involves latex or leather, you should make sure that you use high-quality and safe clothing to minimize the risk of injury or allergic reactions. Make sure that you clean the clothing thoroughly after each use to ensure hygiene. 
 
 It&#039;s important that you and your partner are clear that you both agree and that you respect each other&#039;s boundaries and preferences. If you feel unsafe or have questions, look for resources and workshops that can help you live out your fetish in a safe and responsible way. 
 Safety and fetishes 
 Safety is an important aspect when it comes to acting out fetishes. It is important that you and your partner have the necessary knowledge and skills to act out the fetish in a safe and responsible way. 
  Here are some tips to make sure you live out your fetish safely:  
 
  Clarify your boundaries:  It&#039;s important that you and your partner set clear boundaries to ensure that all parties involved are in agreement. Respect your partner&#039;s boundaries and demand that your own boundaries are respected. Talk about your fantasies, preferences and boundaries to make sure you are both in agreement.   
 Take care of your physical health:  It is important that you take care of your physical health when acting out your fetish. Always use clean and safe toys to minimize the risk of injury or infection. If you want to try bondage play, make sure that you and your partner have the necessary knowledge and skills to do so safely and responsibly.   
  Use safe words:  Safe words are an important aspect of acting out fetishes. It is important that you agree on a safe word that means that a certain action should be stopped. This way you can ensure that you respect your boundaries and that you act out your fetish in a safe and responsible way.   
  Look for like-minded people:  It can be helpful to find other people with similar interests to live out your fetish. This could be possible through online communities, fetish clubs or events. In these environments, you will find people who understand your preferences and can help you to live out your fetish safely and responsibly.   
  Know your toys:  If you use toys, you should inform yourself about their use and care. Use them according to the instructions and clean them thoroughly after each use. If a toy is damaged, you should no longer use it.   
  Use protection:  If you perform sexual acts while acting out your fetish, it is important that you use protection to minimize the risk of sexually transmitted infections. Use condoms and other forms of protection if necessary.   
  Consult an expert:  If you are unsure or have questions, consult an expert. Look for a qualified counselor or therapist who can help you live out your preferences safely and responsibly. 
 
 Examples of safe handling of fetishes: 
 
  Bondage and restraint games:  If you want to try out bondage games, you should make sure that you and your partner have the necessary knowledge and skills to do so safely and responsibly. Always use high-quality and safe restraints and ropes to avoid injury. Avoid tying knots that are too tight to disrupt circulation or impede breathing. Shackles should always be attached in such a way that they can be removed quickly and easily.   
  Foot Worship:  If your fetish involves foot fetishism, you should make sure that you do this safely and hygienically. Use clean socks or stockings to touch your partner&#039;s feet and make sure that you don&#039;t touch any wounds or open areas on their feet. Make sure you wash your hands before and after touching their feet to minimize the risk of infection.   
  BDSM:  If your fetish involves BDSM, make sure that you and your partner have the necessary knowledge and skills to do this safely and responsibly. Always use safe words to signal when an action should be stopped and make sure you don&#039;t hit too hard or push too hard to avoid injury. When using toys, make sure they are safe and clean and that they are used correctly. 
 
 Overall, it is important that you behave safely and responsibly when acting out your fetish. By educating yourself on the necessary knowledge and skills, setting boundaries and using the right tools, you can live out your fetish in a safe and enjoyable way. 
 Recommendations for suitable accessories or products 
 When acting out fetishes, there are often suitable accessories or products that can help to enhance the experience or make it safer. Here are some recommendations for suitable accessories or products, depending on which fetish you want to act out: 
 
  Bondage and restraint play:  If you want to try bondage games, there are a variety of products that can help you do so. Some options include handcuffs, shackles, ropes or bondage tape. It is important that you only use high-quality and safe products to avoid injury.   
 
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  Fetish clothing:  Fetish clothing can be an important part of the fetish experience. Depending on your preference, there are various options, such as leather, latex or wetlook clothing. It is important that the clothing fits well and is comfortable to make the experience enjoyable. Make sure that the clothing is easy to clean to ensure good hygiene.   
  Sex toys:  There are a variety of sex toys specifically designed for use with fetishes. Some examples are dildos, vibrators, butt plugs or gags. It is important that you only use high-quality and safe products to minimize the risk of injury or infection.   
  BDSM toys:  BDSM toys can play an important role in the practice of BDSM fetishes. Some examples are whips, paddles, clamps or wax. It is important that you only use high-quality and safe products to avoid injury. Inform yourself about the correct use of each toy and make sure that you don&#039;t hit too hard or squeeze too hard.   
  Hygiene products:  With many fetishes, it may be important that you use additional hygiene products to minimize infections. Some examples are condoms, lubricant or disinfectant. Only use products that are suitable for use in intimate areas to minimize the risk of skin irritation or infection.   
  Safety equipment:  For certain fetishes, such as BDSM, it can be important to use safety equipment. Some examples are gloves, eye masks or goggles. Educate yourself on the proper use of any equipment and make sure it fits properly and is comfortable. 
 
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 It is important that you only use high quality and safe products to make your fetish experience safer and more enjoyable. Educate yourself on the correct use of each product and make sure you only buy products that are suitable for intimate use. 
 Further resources on the topic of fetish 
 There are many further resources on the subject of fetish that can help you to deepen your knowledge and support you in your fetish experience. Here are some recommendations: 
 
  Online forums:  There are many online forums that are specifically dedicated to the topic of fetish. Here you can interact with other like-minded people, share experiences and find answers to your questions.   
  Fetish communities : There are many fetish communities that meet regularly to live out their fetishes together. These communities provide a safe and supportive environment where you can interact with other like-minded people and have new experiences.   
  Workshops and training courses:  There are many workshops and training courses dedicated specifically to the topic of fetishes. These events offer you the opportunity to deepen your knowledge, learn new skills and network with other like-minded people.   
  Books and articles:  There are a variety of books and articles that deal with the topic of fetish. These resources can help you deepen your knowledge, gain new perspectives and inspire you.   
  Fetish events and fairs:  There are many fetish events and trade shows that take place every year. Here you can discover new products, attend workshops and network with other like-minded people. 
 
 It&#039;s important to educate yourself and stay in a safe and supportive environment if you want to live out your fetish. Use these further resources to deepen your knowledge and support you in your fetish experience. 
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            <title type="text">The shoe fetish: more widespread than you think</title>
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                 If the various surveys are to be believed, many more people in the world have a shoe fetish than is generally believed. However, this is also a very comforting fact for many people who have a shoe fetish themselves. 
 It is neither sick nor perverse to be attracted to shoes.  On the contrary,  it is a part of your sexuality and therefore belongs to you. Nevertheless, many people do not dare to admit their fetish to their partners, remain sexually unfulfilled or are afraid of rejection. 
 Here you can find all the facts worth knowing about the shoe fetish and inform yourself comprehensively. 
 Shoe fetish or shoe tic: clear distinctions 
 Many people talk about a shoe fetish, but they mainly mean a so-called shoe tic. Especially women often call themselves shoe fetishists, because they have many shoes and like them especially. However, according to the definition, this is just not a shoe fetishism. 
 Because a  fetishism is a sexual imprint  by a certain object or a group of objects. Fetishism does not necessarily mean that normal sexuality is no longer possible for this person. Many fetishists enjoy vanilla sex with their partner just as much. 
 However, an important part is missing, which would be necessary for complete sexual satisfaction. Because the fetish of these people is directed at shoes. 
 Here, too, one must clearly differentiate. Because shoe fetishists are not on shoes in general, but usually on certain shoes. A particularly widespread orientation is the so-called altocalciphilia, which is  directed at high shoes, so-called high heels . The high heels and the leg-stretching effect turn most men on. 
   
 However, the excitement of most men at the sight of such a woman is directed mainly to the female. Shoe fetishists, on the other hand, are also aroused by the shoes themselves, often want to touch them, caress them, smell them or get intoxicated by them in various ways. 
  However, such a shoe fetish does not always have to revolve around erotic shoes.  So you can find among the shoe fetishists just as people who are enthusiastic about clogs, for construction worker boots or for rubber boots and whose fetish is focused on this shoe value. 
 The shoe fetish over time 
 Like many other fetishes and sexual expressions, the shoe fetish has been known for many years. Probably the first mention of the sexual potency of shoes can be attributed to the French author  Rétif de la Bretonne . In his work &quot;Le Pied de Fanchette&quot; from 1769, shoes are known as erotic triggers for the first time. 
 However,  as a product of his time, the author limits himself primarily to women&#039;s shoes . But he is not so wrong with that. Because in general, women&#039;s shoes are chosen by most fetishists and also fetishists when it comes to the expression of their own fetish. Whereby it is naturally difficult to find binding and generally valid statements here. 
 Since the imprinting of a fetish often happens in childhood or youth and not everyone makes his fetish public or admits, the dark figure in the area of shoe fetishism is extremely high. A nice thought for all who have not yet dared to confess their fetish to their partner. 
 It may well be that you can hope for more understanding than you dare to hope for. 
   
 Shoe fetish: how to tell your girlfriend? 
 Most surveys show that especially men have a shoe fetish and can hardly live it out. This is mainly due to the fear of admitting their own fetish to their partner. This is a difficult topic and definitely a problem. Especially if you have known each other for a long time, maybe even if you are already married, such a confession can become more and more difficult. 
 But first of all, something basic: Life without living out your own deeply felt sexuality is enormously difficult. Since you only have a shoe fetish, there are no good reasons which should prevent you from living out your sexuality. So the goal should be to be able to live out your shoe fetish with your own partner. 
 Here you have several options. 
 You can: 
 
 freely admit your fetish and hope for understanding. It is important that you always bring the fetish in connection with your partner. This increases the acceptance and reduces the fears that you could &quot;commit&quot; to other people&#039;s shoes.   
 Ask your partner to wear the special shoes during sex. This is especially feasible if your fetish includes shoes that are considered erotic. With high heels, a woman will be more inclined than if you ask her to sleep with you in rubber boots.   
 You can talk about fetishes in general and approach the topic slowly. 
 
 None of these solutions is a guarantee of success.  It is important that you give your partner enough time to get used to the idea.  After all, it can be an enormous adjustment to rearrange your own image of your partner and to get used to the idea. 
 Nevertheless, there are many couples in which one partner fetishistically satisfies the other partner without sharing this fetish himself. And who knows: Maybe your partner will open up to you that he or she has a corresponding fetish of which you didn&#039;t know yet. 
   
 Live out the shoe fetish: Different possibilities 
 The possibility of integrating the shoe fetish into lovemaking is enormously varied. Whether simply wearing the fetish shoes during sex, kissing the shoes, smelling them: There are no limits to your imagination. Ideally, talk to your partner beforehand about what turns you on the most. 
 In the course of time, your partner can adjust to you better and better and make the occasional fetish sessions more and more interesting and intense. 
  You see , a shoe fetish is neither particularly rare nor really problematic. Often you can live out such a fetish in a relationship without any problems and without scaring off your partner. If you have kept your fetish a secret so far, this is a good opportunity to open up. 
 Show your partner this article, explain yourself and your fetish and enjoy the feeling of being able to live out your shoe fetish together with your partner. 
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                                            One day it came over me but then. I wanted to follow my nylon fetish at least a little. My lady has a whole drawer full of nylon stockings, pantyhose and co. I sat down on the bed, opened the drawer and took out a handful of the nylon things.
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                 I am a little older and have been married to my wife for 23 years. The first 14 years I have concealed my little preference. I have a  nylon fetish  and have always suppressed it. I did not cheat on my wife and did not live out my secret fetish with her. She knew nothing about it. For her I was a very simple guy without great preferences in the marriage bed.  But then one day it came over me. I wanted to pursue my nylon fetish at least a little bit. My lady has a whole drawer full of nylon stockings, pantyhose and co. I sat down on the bed, opened the drawer and took out a handful of the nylon stuff. Halterless stockings, pantyhose in various styles and all in this lovely delicate fabric. I got a boner and wanted to enjoy it in peace. Just me and the nylons in my hand. There the bedroom door opened! 
 Caught in nylon madness full 
 My penis grew and swelled like it hadn&#039;t in a long time. I played with the nylons in my hands. Just as I was about to open my pants, my wife came into the room. I could not react at all. I remained sitting frozen, with my back to her. Did she see what I was doing here? Was there anything I could do to talk my way out of it? 
  No, I couldn&#039;t! &quot; Oh, I see you have a secret passion,&quot; my wife stated. I literally sank down into myself. I sadly put all the nylons back into the drawer. I was about to close the drawer when my wife pulled out a nylon stocking. She played around with it, stroking my face with the fabric, and asked if I liked the nylons. &quot;Do you like them?&quot; she asked. I hardly dared to look at them. I felt a little ashamed. 
 But then I saw that she was smiling. It was not an amused smile. She wasn&#039;t smiling at me, she was smiling at me. When you&#039;ve been married for so long, you know your partner. So at least when it comes to certain smiles. It&#039;s easy to gauge whether she&#039;s smiling at you or laughing at you. With what she now did with me, she surprised me but then quite enormous! 
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  The first common nylon sex 
 &quot;Oh yes, I like them a lot,&quot; I finally answered her question. &quot;Will you put them on for me?&quot;, I asked gently, stroking her bare leg. She was wearing a knee-length skirt, but no stockings. She lowered the skirt, put one leg on the bed, and let me watch as she slowly slipped on the classic, black, hold-up stockings. 
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 All she had on was a tight top, a skimpy thong, and the horny nylons. She sat on top of me, looking deep into my eyes. My penis swelled again. After I felt so caught, he hid again. But now it was back again. My wife moved seductively on top of me. My pants were getting too tight, they had to go! No sooner said than done. 
 Now I sat there with a mega boner and looked at my wife standing in front of me. I stroked and kissed her legs. I pushed the thong aside and let her sit on me again. With rhythmic movements, my penis, taken deep inside her, she brought me to climax almost too quickly. 
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  Exchanged roles 
 So now my nylon fetish was no longer a secret. I no longer had to hide, pretend and suppress myself. I could revive and experience sex with my lady in a whole new way. She supported my fetish. Yes, she even enjoyed it. After it was now out that I stand on nylons, she first bought properly. Suspender stockings, hold-up stockings, pantyhose with special features ...    We experienced a lot of nylon sex together. Now my lady actually suggested to swap roles. Secretly you had ordered stockings that were slightly larger. So even I could put them on. I had done something like that before, that is, putting on nylons. However, I had never had sex in this way. So now a new experience in nylon fetish was added for me as well. 
 Hard to believe that this idea came from my great wife. I put on the stockings with feeling. It worked without tearing them. Believe me, it&#039;s not that easy. I was wearing nylons and my wife was wearing nothing. And that&#039;s how we made love. Uncomplicated, acting out and full of lust. These exchanged roles made us both really hot. We drove it almost like savages, so much we wanted each other. 
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 I get to know pantyhose Ouvert 
  What there is not everything so. My wife had now bought plenty of nylons of various kinds. Sometimes also a few pantyhose Ouvert, as she informed me. I had not the slightest idea what they were. &quot;Is that a special brand?&quot;, I asked her. She smiled mischievously and said, reach under my skirt. 
 She was wearing a tight wetlook miniskirt. Her long legs shone in a chic pantyhose in overknee style. Somewhat puzzled and perplexed I grabbed her so under the skirt. Almost startled, I pulled my hand back as if automatically. &quot;Crap, I broke the pantyhose right away, I think,&quot; I said. She laughed out loud, took my hand and pushed it into her warm center again. 
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 Slowly I fumbled around, playing with her best feminine bit, and realized that the pantyhose had to be just the way it was. Ouvert is not a brand. By pantyhose Ouvert, is talking about a nylon that is open in the middle. A dream come true, I tell you! When I realized what the nylon was all about, I turned my wife with her back to me. 
 I pushed her upper body down and rammed my hammer-hard part directly into her. The realization of the Ouvert Nylon had made me so horny that I just wanted to get going. My wife moaned as lustfully as never before.   I once schmoozed. In her drawer are still suspender stockings with labia spreaders ... 
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                            <updated>2022-12-02T20:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Tuxedo - smoking as fetish and passion</title>
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                 The tuxedo fetish is a rather rare fetish, which, however, is particularly highly valued by its followers. It is a fetish that appeals to different senses at the same time and is especially appreciated by men.    We will show you what the Smoking F etish is all about, how it is lived out and what value and what erotic benefits the fetishists draw from this fetish. 
 The Smoking Fetish at a glance 
 The  Smoking F  etish is a rather rare fetish, which has not yet been scientifically studied in detail. It mostly concerns men who watch women smoking various smoking products. 
   
  Often this happens without sexual stimulation,  but also smoking during handjob or other activities provides the special stimuli for the fetishists. There are few women who share this fetish and have a preference for smoking men, for example. 
 Cigarette, cigar and pipe - many different possibilities 
 The smoke fetish is not limited to cigarettes alone. However, let&#039;s start with these. After all, cigarettes can be smoked both normally and with a cigarette holder, thus appealing to different fetishes and people. 
   
 Cigars and even pipes are also highly erotic for many fetishists and are used accordingly by different ladies.  Everyone has their own preferences and ideas, which the active ladies are often very happy to implement.  
 The phallic approach to cigars, for example, is particularly popular with many men and is savored accordingly by the ladies. 
 A fetish for many senses 
 In the smoke fetish, many senses are addressed. As a rule, the process is carried out in a quiet environment, so that the viewer can concentrate entirely on his fetish.  On the one hand, a certain image is conveyed   
 The smokes in combination with  sensual feminine lips , often with matching  lipstick , are already very erotic for many men. In addition, there is the sound when the lady pulls on the smokes and they glow crackling. 
 The smoke itself, the smell of tobacco and the clouds of smoke can also increase the arousal. 
 The Smoking Fetish in the BDSM Environment 
 Very often, the tuxedo fetish correlates quite well with the field of BDSM. This is because the smoking ladies are very often found in a dominant pose in their position and posture, and their appearance excites the man who is condemned to passivity. 
   
 So it is not surprising that many followers of the smoke fetish also have a high interest in  dominance and submission . Thus, the smoke fetish can be easily combined with many other preferences and games in the BDSM segment. 
 For example, if the sub is tied up motionless, he has to watch how the mistress smokes a cigarette in peace. Also, the  man  can be  used as an ashtray, for example,  to make his role even more clear. 
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                            <updated>2022-11-29T18:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">The big nylon fetish guide - everything about pantyhose, stockings &amp; sensual ...</title>
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                                            Welcome to the nylon fetish guide for men and women! You&#039;re not alone with your weakness for nylon tights, socks and the like. More and more people are open about their nylon fetish, which is widespread and not just limited to men. In this guide, you will learn everything abou...
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                 The nylon fetish is one of the most popular sensual preferences of all - and is far less unusual than many people think. The gossamer texture of tights, socks or stockings can trigger intense erotic stimuli: visually, haptically and emotionally. This guide explains respectfully and sensitively what is behind the nylon fetish, how women and men experience it and how couples can live it out safely and consensually. 
  Important:  As with all erotic preferences, consensus, communication and mutual trust always come first. Talking about needs creates closeness and ensures that the shared experience is wonderful, safe and fulfilling. 
 
  Matching categories at Steeltoyz:  
 
  Nylons &amp;amp; Stockings  
  Bondage toys  
  Inspiration &amp;amp; guide  
 
 
   
 What is the nylon fetish? 
 While many people wear tights or stockings primarily as a fashion accessory, fetish lovers find the material itself erotic. It&#039;s not just the look of the legs, but the  material  that triggers lust and arousal: smooth, cool, delicate and at the same time tight-fitting. 
 For some, the visual appeal is the main attraction, for others the tactile contact on the skin - or the sound of the fabric. Many also enjoy the symbolic character: nylon can express elegance, femininity, dominance, submission or intimacy - depending on how it is incorporated into the game. 
 The nylon fetish in women 
 Women with a nylon fetish often enjoy the feeling of tights or delicate socks directly on their skin. The fabric can trigger a tingling sensation that is both sensually and emotionally enhancing. Many people report that they feel more self-confident, more feminine or more desirable in nylons - and that even putting them on is part of the excitement. 
 Pleasurable role play can also play a role: Some women find it exciting when their partner wears nylons themselves. This has nothing to do with gender roles or cross-dressing, but with the erotic effect of the material on both partners. 
   
 
  Discover more inspiration:  
 
  Erotic games  
  Fetish inspiration  
 
 
 The nylon fetish in men 
 Men often experience the nylon fetish visually - the sight of stockinged legs is elegant, soft, mysterious and eroticizing. Many associate it with fantasies in which nylons play an active role, such as being tied up with tights or wearing their own nylons. 
 The wearing of nylons by men is more common than you might think. It often has nothing to do with clothing preferences, but with the unique feeling and intense stimulating effect of the thin material on the skin. Nylon can convey security, sensitivity or dominance - depending on the dynamics of the game. 
 Nylons &amp;amp; bondage - sensual combinations 
 As nylon is stretchy and surprisingly tear-resistant, it is also used for light bondage games in some situations. It is always important to proceed with safety in mind, not to constrict any joints and to regularly check the feel and circulation. Nylon can be soft and supple - ideal for gentle bondage situations. 
 
  For bondage fans:  
 
  Handcuffs  
  Ankle cuffs  
  Bondage accessories  
 
 
 Worn nylons - a special attraction 
 For some fetish lovers, the scent also plays a role: wearing tights for a long time leaves behind individual scents that are particularly eroticizing for some people. The following applies here: Consensuality, hygiene and clear agreements are essential. Everyone involved should feel comfortable at all times and respect boundaries. 
   
 Tips for couples - how to integrate nylons into the game 
 
  Talk together:  What excites you? Touch, sight, certain items of clothing? 
  Approach it slowly:  first feel, then wear, then playfully incorporate. 
  Try out role-playing games:  Elegant, dominant, playful - nylon is versatile. 
  Combine:  Nylon can be wonderfully combined with bondage, spanking, sensation play or dominance games. 
  Maintain safety:  Never tie up too tightly, check the fabric regularly, take breaks. 
 
 The nylon fetish is a beautiful, delicate yet intense fetish that offers plenty of scope for closeness, sensuality and fantasy. Whether alone, as a couple or in the context of shared fantasies - the decisive factor is always the pleasure of the experience and respectful interaction with one another. 
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                            <updated>2022-11-01T17:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Foot Fetish Stories : Let me love your feet</title>
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                                            I, Jeanette, wanted to earn some extra money many, many years ago. This I tried in the form of selling worn underwear. A sweet, fragrant little business, which ran purely on the Internet and by mail. Until one day I came across something very novel for me
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                 I, Jeanette, wanted to earn some extra money many, many years ago. This I tried in the form of selling worn underwear. A sweet, fragrant little business, which ran purely on the Internet and by mail. Until one day I came across something very new to me.   A man wrote to me with the request to be allowed to love my feet. I didn&#039;t know what the guy meant by that. There was a little chat in which he enlightened me as to what his request meant. And I, yes I went along with it. 
 My own foot slave 
 I got involved in a meeting. We went to meet him, I know, rash or just brave! What I can tell you, the guy looks really hot! It&#039;s funny that he&#039;s into feet. Would not suspect so at all. In short, he is a highly erotic-looking man who passes as quite normal! 
 But he is not so normal, because in the meantime he is my very own foot slave! And you know what? It is horny! But I also have really horny feet that would magically attract any foot fetishist. But, for me, actually the one is enough, because it is pure pampering! 
 So to our first meeting ... 
 Mike, that&#039;s the name of the hot foot slave by the way, offered me a delicious tea and said I should just put my feet up, he&#039;ll do the rest.  He took off my high heels, which he liked very much, and removed my nylon socks. 
 Gently he put my feet down on a soft stool to get the wash bowl and sponge. The scent of fresh roses rose to my nose. It was a fragrant rose water with which he washed my feet.   He pushed the wash bowl aside and lovingly and very meticulously dried my feet, then tenderly caressed them. 
 He took a massage butter with vanilla scent to hand. It was the most amazing foot massage I&#039;ve ever had! He kept telling me in between what horny women&#039;s feet I have. Then he started kissing them, licking them and sucking on the toes.   All this lasted about an hour, then he said that was it for now. He paid me, as agreed, and let me go. I got dressed and left. However, walking felt completely different and new. I walked like I was on clouds because my feet felt so pampered good. 
 Foot fetish stories that offer variety 
 Once I got home, I still wasn&#039;t over this pampering. I hated feet and always found them an unpleasant part of the body. But my foot slave had shown me today that feet can be great and that my feet are beautiful!  I loaded myself on the Internet and looked at videos. I looked for different foot fetish stories to find out what possibilities there are. 
 Finally, I wanted to be able to guide my foot slave and tell him what to do. He had the foot fetish but, I just liked to be in charge. He should become my slave and I his master or masteress.   The next meeting was only a week later and I was already looking forward to a new pampering program. When I arrived, everything was already ready. Rose water, vanilla butter. 
 I let myself fall on the sofa and stretched my feet smugly. Then he took a rope and simply tied them together!  The fright was big, I should have the say, there he could not make me nevertheless simply the slave and tie up! But there was nothing dangerous in his look. He smiled and asked me to trust him. He wouldn&#039;t hurt me and would stop if I interfered with what he was doing. I allowed it ...    He massaged my feet and smeared them with extra massage butter. Now he opened his pants and took out a real gem of a cock! He slid his penis between my bound feet and rubbed against it. He moaned and gasped until he cum in a high arc. 
 It was beautiful to watch and made me so hot that I wanted him so bad. I told him that I wanted him, that I wanted his hot body. But he put me off to the next time. 
 Foot fetish mixed with horny sex that also brings me what 
 His foot fetish was one thing, my desire for him again something else. We had to agree. And that&#039;s what we did in the end. He no longer paid me to take care of my feet and spoil them, but gave me his body. 
 We had sex and I was allowed to take him as I wanted. He had become my slave throughout. My own toyboy, full of sex appeal, horniness and a preference for feet. His penis was big, hard as steel and penetrated me as deep as no one could before. My feet were always part of the love game, whether in the main act or even just foreplay. 
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                            <updated>2022-04-17T12:45:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Tickle stories: Laughed to the climax - tickle torture in the pillory</title>
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                                            I wouldn&#039;t compromise today, I already knew that. That&#039;s why I sent Jennifer straight to the shower after she rang my doorbell. After all, it was not for nothing that I had extended my equipment a little without telling her.
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                 I wouldn&#039;t compromise today, I already knew that. That&#039;s why I sent Jennifer straight to the shower after she rang my doorbell. After all, it was not for nothing that I had extended my equipment a little without telling her. 
 She already knew the floor pillory, but the sex machine was new. And the holder for the Magic Wand was also new and would be used for the first time today. At least, if everything went according to plan. I inspected the playroom again while Jen freshened up for me. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;398&quot; ] 
 The room was pleasantly warm, the toys for the session were ready, covered by a towel so as not to reveal too much to Jen. A quick glance in the mirror to check my outfit. Closer to 30 than 20, but still a good figure. 
 The tight bustier shows off my bust perfectly, the leather pants show off my slim legs. Not that I would have dressed like this for myself, but unfortunately Jen won&#039;t be able to enjoy this look for long. Because when I&#039;m in the pillory, my gaze is almost inevitably directed downwards. 
 But I think I&#039;ll let her lick me afterwards. And then she can undress me in peace. But now it&#039;s time to take care of Jen&#039;s well-being. 
 Tie up and prepare 
 There&#039;s a knock and Jen stands in front of me. As requested, naked, shaved and ready for our session. I nod curtly and point in the direction of the pillory. I can see the anticipation in Jen&#039;s eyes when she sees the pillory and gets into position. The pillory is set up perfectly for her and it doesn&#039;t take long for her hands and feet to be bound. 
 Finally, I put the collar on her and secure her head. Now she can neither move far nor resist my touch. And I know how to take advantage of that. But first I want to see how much she likes being tied up. Without announcing it, I gently grab her from behind between her tightly bound thighs. 
 I&#039;m not surprised, but she&#039;s already wet and squirming under the expert touch of my fingers. I know that I could bring her to climax in a few moments, but I don&#039;t want to. At least not yet. The game of pleasure and pain has only just begun. 
 The touch of your skin 
 So I turn away from the center of Jen&#039;s lust, but let my hands glide slowly over her back. I notice how she presses her body against my fingertips. She&#039;s definitely nervous because - as is so often the case - I haven&#039;t told her in advance which part of her pleasure I&#039;m playing with today. 
 Because Jen is a sub with all her heart, but has a few preferences and weaknesses that I can play with. And she really enjoyed the session with the paddle the other day. But today I have other plans. My fingers now slide down both sides of her body to the level of her ribs. I start tickling her lightly at first, then more and more vigorously. She squirms, squeals and tries to escape. 
 But the restraints make it impossible for her, so I work my way up to her armpits. The squeaking gets louder and louder, her breathing quicker. Suddenly I stop. I go to the table with the accessories. She hears my footsteps on the echoing wooden floor. I have to smile as I decide on the long feather. 
 Feet - the center of Jen&#039;s pleasure and suffering in equal measure 
 I approach the still bound Jen again. The sight is wonderful. The short blonde hair, then the narrow back that merges into wide, feminine hips. The upturned bottom, the moist, shiny lips and then the thighs. 
 And there, now right in front of me, the little feet that I know Jen is particularly sensitive to. The feather is long enough for me to touch Jen&#039;s feet with it while standing.    I immediately get the desired reaction. Jen would have jumped in fright, but the restraints keep her in the pillory. She curses, she gasps and she begs for mercy. But I don&#039;t begrudge her that. I tickle her with the feather on the sole of her foot and between her toes. 
 I can hear her breathing becoming more and more frantic. I give her a rest in between so that she can catch her breath and then carry on. Now it&#039;s time to try out the new toy. 
 Tickled to climax 
 I give Jen time to catch her breath and fetch the toy. I attach the holder for the Magic Wand between her spread legs and position the Fuck Machine. Another reach into Jen&#039;s crotch shows me that I won&#039;t need much lube. I attach the dildo but don&#039;t switch the machine on yet. 
 Then I position the Magic Wand so that it lies exactly over Jen&#039;s clitoris. In between, I don&#039;t miss the opportunity to tickle the soles of Jen&#039;s feet with my fingernails so that she doesn&#039;t get bored. I switch on the Magic Wand and immediately hear a sensual moan from Jen. She probably hadn&#039;t expected that yet. 
 But the surprises shouldn&#039;t stop today either. I set the Fuck Machine in motion with the remote control. I hear Jen suck in her breath as the dildo, which was just between her labia, penetrates her gently but firmly. 
 I increase the pace slightly as I realize how responsive Jen is. The moans become louder and more intense. Time to distract her a little more.    I grab the feather again and tickle her side, her bottom and her feet again and again. The mixture of lust, laughter and defencelessness takes over Jen&#039;s body. She laughs, she moans and she even cries with pleasure and laughter. I tickle her all over her body, getting more and more intense. 
 One grip and the Magic Wand unleashes its full potential. I also increase the frequency of the Fuck Machine thrusts. Now I&#039;m close to Jen, tickling her with my fingertips. Under her arms, on her bottom, on her back and also on her neck. In all the places where she is particularly sensitive. 
 I notice how her body tenses as she climaxes, while the laughter shakes her. Or at least let&#039;s say the first climax of the still young day. 
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                            <updated>2022-03-29T11:45:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Latex story: My first fetish party</title>
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                                            How long had I been waiting for this moment? My first fetish party was just around the corner. For days I could not sleep properly, so nervous I was. The ticket had been hanging on my bulletin board for weeks and I had looked at it a hundred times every day from then on. Final...
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                 How long had I been waiting for this moment? My first fetish party was just around the corner. For days I could not sleep properly, so nervous I was. The ticket had been hanging on my bulletin board for weeks and from then on I had looked at it a hundred times every day. Finally I was allowed to dive into the dark world of eroticism. Rejoice with me, because it will be a latex story. 
 All beginning is difficult 
 About two years ago I noticed that there were some things different with me than with the other boys in my age. I was already into women, that was out of the question very quickly. But I was also interested in power games and had more specific clothing preferences. 
 I was particularly taken with latex. This fabric looked so incredibly sexy and every color came out much better than on other fabrics. Not to mention the body-hugging fit. Every woman looked ten times more attractive in latex.  Now, however, I was only sixteen at the time and knew no one in whom I could confide. 
 In my distress I had even called the organizer of a fetish party and asked if I could come despite the young age. Of course, this was not possible, there was no admission for minors. So I waited a long and agonizing two years until I could finally give in to my inclinations. 
 My first fetish party - welcome home 
 The big night had come. Even though I was going to abstain from alcohol that night anyway, I still took the S-Bahn to the location. Not that I, nervous as I was, built an accident before. The whole way there I hoped that I could sufficiently comply with the dress code. [emotion emotion_id=&quot;536&quot; ] 
 I didn&#039;t own any fetish clothing up to this point, but I planned to change that during the evening. Hopefully the security had mercy with me. The entrance went more uncomplicated than expected. I got in line and was waved through. That was it. I had to grin. All the initial nervousness for nothing.   Inside, I walked down a long, dark hallway, passed several dressing rooms, and entered the main hall. Shortly thereafter, a horny woman in ocher yellow latex overtook me and I reflexively gawked at her butt. 
 The main hall consisted of a large bar, a dance area and an area with tables and chairs. No matter where I looked, there were only warm and smiling faces to be seen. Many of the strangers even took the time to greet me in a friendly manner. I immediately felt at home. I would never have expected such a familiar atmosphere. 
   Then I saw the latex lady from before again. She was on the dance floor, gyrating her hips at a very graceful pace. What a sight to behold. Finally, I realized that I was already staring at her for some time and decided to do something about my dry mouth. At the bar, I treated myself to a Coke and decided to check out the whole building. 
 Insight into the world of games 
 I hadn&#039;t even noticed the stairs leading up at first. Now I climbed the stairs eagerly. Strangely enough, there were only couples on the stairs except for me. At the top, a narrow corridor led to several different rooms. Various sounds came from the rooms where the door was already closed. 
 I heard moaning, sounds of pain and clapping noises. Grinning and somewhat excited, I scurried down the hallway and took a curious look into each room where the door was open.   I saw various playground equipment that I already knew from the Internet. I recognized a love swing, St. Andrew&#039;s crosses, and a floor barrier. For other things, I didn&#039;t know what it was and just asking someone was too embarrassing. Finally, I descended the stairs again and made my way to the stalls. 
 The encounter of all my dreams 
 The stalls held a certain fascination for me, though disillusionment followed on its heels. The S&amp;amp;M furniture and toys on display were great to look at, but far too expensive for someone like me. At a booth that sold clothing and accessories, I stayed longer. I had just found a very appealing pair of latex pants, stroked my hand over the fabric and squinted inconspicuously at the price tag.   &quot;I bet they look good on you.&quot;  I could hardly believe my eyes. Standing next to me was the woman I had admired on the dance floor earlier. Of all the many latex women here, she was by far the most beautiful. And she had addressed me. Panicked, I searched for the coolest possible response, but I couldn&#039;t think of anything.   &quot;I want to see you in those pants. Right now.&quot; She gave me a dreamy smile. &quot;Will you do me the favor?&quot;  Still unable to speak I nodded, pulled out my wallet and bought my first fetish garment.  &quot;You can change over there.&quot; 
 She pointed to a dark corner. &quot;Don&#039;t make me wait too long, though.&quot;  My heart was pounding up to my throat. I walked in the direction instructed and began to undress. I wonder if she was watching me I didn&#039;t dare turn around. The encounter with this latex goddess had given me quite an erection. 
 I was glad when I had the new pants on. The latex fabric felt extremely horny. I went back to my dream girl, who eyed me in detail.   &quot;I like you.&quot; Her gaze went down me. &quot;I see you like me too.&quot;  I felt the blush shoot up my face and held a hand in front of my pants.   &quot;It&#039;s okay, kiddo. You don&#039;t have to say anything. If you keep nodding dutifully, that&#039;s quite enough. I&#039;m still looking for a play partner for tonight and I had you in mind. I hope you can handle the fact that I&#039;m going to set the tone.&quot;  I swallowed and managed a shaky &quot;yes.&quot; 
 Was this all real or just a dream? The most beautiful woman in this universe was going to play with me? It was unbelievable. The day of my first fetish party should also become the day of my first SM session. 
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                            <updated>2022-03-21T12:45:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Kinky parties: an overview of the different forms</title>
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                                            This is about a special kind of party, also known as a fetish party. You may have heard of it before or are curious about what exactly is behind it. Don&#039;t worry, we&#039;re here to tell you everything you need to know about kinky parties. From the rules to the different forms to th...
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                 Kinky parties - often also called fetish parties - are places where people with special preferences, fantasies and BDSM interests come together. They are colorful, diverse, sensual and at the same time safety-oriented. As every party is shaped by its guests and organizers, there is no rigid concept. Nevertheless, there are typical elements that make a kinky party unmistakable. 
 Kink briefly explained 
 To understand what a fetish party actually is, it is worth taking a look at the term  kink . It describes everything that stands out from &quot;ordinary sexuality&quot;: unusual practices, special preferences, fantasy forms, role-playing games or fetishes. A  kinkster  is open to playful, creative and pleasurable experiments - and this is exactly the kind of person who meets at kinky parties. 
 Music, dancing and shared preferences 
 Many people immediately imagine a fetish party to be a public sex orgy - but this is rarely the case. Most kinky parties are first and foremost  meeting places for like-minded people : People dance, talk about fantasies, enjoy the atmosphere and experience the scene in a very social way. 
 Music from the 80s or deeper electronic sounds are often played. People talk about their preferences, share experiences and find like-minded people without having to engage in sexual acts. Many guests enjoy precisely this mixture of freedom, aesthetics and mutual respect. 
 Nothing must, everything may! 
 Of course, there are also parties where &quot;more happens&quot;. Some venues offer separate rooms or play areas where BDSM practices or sexual activities are permitted. But:  Nothing has to happen.  Everything is voluntary and only takes place with the explicit consent of all participants. 
 The outfits are most important 
 Kinky parties thrive on their aesthetics - and the outfit is often part of the identity. Vinyl, leather, latex, masks, bondage elements or unusual fetish fashion show a sense of belonging and subtly communicate someone&#039;s preferences. Clothing becomes a language: playful, dominant, submissive, curious or provocative. 
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 Many parties have dress codes: elegant-fetish, latex only, leather night or creative kink themes. The outfit signal creates a sense of community - and helps to make fetishes visible without saying a word. 
  Discover categories:   Masks &amp;amp; role play   Catsuits   Latex  
 Hardcore BDSM party 
 Some events deliberately go further: so-called hardcore BDSM parties. These are similar to play parties where BDSM sessions are explicitly encouraged. There are areas for spanking, bondage, medical games or sexual games, depending on the location and rules. Important: The type of party must be  clearly communicated in advance  so that everyone knows what they are getting into. 
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 Strict consensus also applies here. Even if a party is &quot;explicit&quot;, this does not mean that everyone wants to be included. Spectators, participants, silent observers or active players - any role is allowed as long as it is done respectfully. 
 How do I find a fetish party? 
 Fetish parties are rarely advertised via traditional media. Instead, they can be found in  online communities , specialized forums and social media groups. Many organizers pay attention to discreet wording there, as platforms have strict guidelines. 
 Forums and BDSM communities are often the safest source for reliable and reputable event information. Locations range from small private apartments and studios to rented halls or clubs. Some events are elegant and intimate, others are pompous, loud and full of show elements. 
 Acceptance and safety 
 The most important common denominator of all kinky parties is  acceptance and safety . No fetish is belittled. Every inclination is respected. Kink thrives on diversity - and on the fact that no one is pressured into doing something they don&#039;t want to do. 
 If you want to live it up, the following applies:  only consensual acts are permitted.  If one person stops, says a safeword or seems unsure, the scene is ended immediately. Responsible hosts and experienced guests actively support this culture. 
  Experience BDSM safely:   Handcuffs   Paddles   Erotic games  
 Tips for beginners, advanced and experienced players 
  Tip for beginners:  Choose a party with a moderate dress code, observe the atmosphere and talk openly with guests. No pressure - you can simply enjoy yourselves and socialize. 
  Advanced tip:  Try parties with play areas. Bring your own clean equipment and clarify your roles and boundaries beforehand. 
  Tip for experienced users:  Attend themed events (latex nights, bondage parties, medical events). Develop your own rituals or role models for recurring parties. 
 Tips for all levels - Kinky parties step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  
 
 Keep dress code simple (black fetish look, leather accents). 
 Observe the atmosphere, have conversations, make contacts. 
 No expectations - just experience. 
 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  
 
 Use costumes, masks, latex or creative outfits. 
 Try out first playrooms - always with a safeword. 
 Shared ritual: get in the mood beforehand, then aftercare. 
 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  
 
 Develop roles (dominatrix, pet player, fetish artist). 
 Play more complex scenarios - e.g. interrogation room, pony play, spanking rituals. 
 Appear at events with performance stages or play an active role. 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - beginners:  
 
 Clear agreement: what role do you want to play at the party? 
 Short, simple scenes - e.g. commands, easy leading, simple rituals. 
 If unsure, step out of role briefly at any time. 
 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  
 
 More intensive role plays: Teacher/pupil, mistress/sub, doctor/patient. 
 Integration of props (mask, paddle, handcuffs). 
 Conscious use of playrooms - short, controlled sessions. 
 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  
 
 Linked storylines throughout the evening (&quot;recruitment&quot;, &quot;dressage&quot;, &quot;ritual test&quot;). 
 Integration of audience (if desired): silent observers, assistants. 
 Aftercare as a fixed conclusion: Water, closeness, reflection. 
 
 Conclusion 
 Kinky parties are diverse, free, respectful and full of expressiveness. They offer space for dance, conversation, fantasy and - if desired - consciously living out fetishes and BDSM practices. The most important principle always remains the same:  everything can, nothing must.  With the right outfit, clear communication and safety awareness, every kinky party becomes a special experience. 
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            <title type="text">Enema sex: the special fetish you should try out</title>
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  Enema sex  is a special fetish that many men and women find equally fascinating. The feeling of being filled, the increasing pressure in the stomach, the intimate control over one&#039;s own body or the power of the dominant part - all of this can have an enormously arousing effect if it is played carefully. 
 This fetish can look very different: from a sensual solo enema in the bathroom to a strict clinic scene with role play, commands and clear rules. We&#039;ll show you what this fetish is all about, how it can be practised in a BDSM and fetish context and what you should definitely pay attention to during enema sex - always with an eye on  hygiene, safety and mutual respect . 
 What is an enema anyway? 
  An en  ema is the introduction of liquid  - usually water - into the rectum using tubes, intimate showers or special enema devices. Originally, enemas were used for medical bowel cleansing, for example in cases of constipation or as preparation for examinations. 
 Today, enemas are still widely used in the medical field. Many people also use enemas to prepare for  anal sex  or other anal oriented games and to feel cleaner and safer. 
   
 In the fetish and BDSM context, the medical purpose usually takes a back seat. Instead, the focus is on  body awareness, control, purity, humiliation, care or power  - depending on the fantasy. 
  Suitable categories for enema games:   Intimate douches &amp;amp; enema accessories   Clinic toys &amp;amp; white eroticism   Clinic supplies &amp;amp; accessories  
 Enema sex: the pleasure of an enema 
 When it comes to enema fetishes, you can roughly distinguish between two areas: 
 
  The pleasure of the physical sensation:  the stretching of the rectum, the increasing pressure, the warm or tingling sensation in the abdomen, and later the liberating emptying. Many enjoy this intense body awareness all to themselves, without role play. 
  The pleasure of the role:  enemas are integrated into scenes - as &quot;medical treatment&quot;, punishment, cleansing before other practices or as humiliating control over the body of the submissive part. 
 
  Enema lovers often enjoy the preparation:  getting the utensils ready, filling the intimate shower, positioning themselves over the bath or on the clinic chair. All of this can feel like a little ritual that builds up tension. 
 In role play - for example in  white eroticism  - the enema can initiate an examination, be ordered as a &quot;compulsory measure&quot; or be the pretext for more intensive &quot;therapy&quot;. In the harder BDSM area, the dominant partner can use enemas as a clear  disciplinary measure  and strictly control compliance or emptying. 
   There are many other BDSM role plays in which enemas can play a role. The spectrum ranges from caring and medical to strict and humiliating. The important thing is always:  consensuality, prior agreements and safety limits  - never simply surprise. 
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  Tip for beginners:  It&#039;s best to try your first erotic enema alone in the bathroom. Use a small intimate shower, lukewarm water, plenty of time and no time pressure. This way, you can take your time to find out how the volume, temperature and pressure feel for you - without any performance stress in front of a partner. 
 Safety &amp;amp; hygiene during enema sex 
 As sensual as enema sex can be, the bowel is a sensitive organ. Safety takes precedence over any fantasies. A few basic rules are essential: 
 
  Never use force:  if something hurts or blocks, stop immediately. Pain is not a &quot;normal part&quot; of the enema, but a warning signal. 
  Only use suitable aids:  Use intimate showers, enema devices or clinic sets that are made for this purpose. Everyday objects do not belong in the bottom. 
  Cleanliness:  Clean nozzles, hoses and attachments thoroughly before and after use and disinfect if necessary. This reduces the risk of infection. 
  Liquid &amp;amp; temperature:  It is safest to use lukewarm water or a medical preparation according to the package leaflet. Water that is too hot or too cold can put a strain on the mucous membranes and circulation. 
  Keep an eye on your health:  Enemas are taboo in the case of acute intestinal diseases, blood in the stool, severe abdominal pain or operations in the abdominal area - if in doubt, speak to a doctor. 
 
  Tip for advanced users:  If you tolerate enemas well, do not increase the amount you put in by leaps and bounds, but in small steps. Keep a mirror or your smartphone handy to observe the insertion angle of the attachment - this helps to avoid injuries and gives many people additional mental stimulation. 
 Liquids &amp;amp; additives - what is useful? 
 There are many &quot;recipes&quot; for enema mixtures circulating online. Caution is advised here. 
 
  Recommended:  clear, lukewarm water or medically approved enema preparations/intimate douches according to instructions. 
  Restricted:  very mild soap solutions can irritate the mucous membrane - this may be intentional as part of a strict fetish scenario, but is not medically unproblematic. 
  Taboo:  harsh additives, essential oils, vinegar, strongly salty solutions or your own &quot;experiments&quot;. They can burn the mucous membrane and cause pain and permanent damage. 
 
 Beware of alcohol in the enema 
 In some forums, you often read about  alcohol enemas and their supposedly rapid intoxicating effect.  This is clearly not advisable. 
  The mucous membrane of the intestine absorbs alcohol extremely quickly.  Some of it bypasses the usual route via the liver and enters the bloodstream almost directly. This can very quickly lead to severe intoxication, unconsciousness or life-threatening alcohol poisoning - long before anyone feels seriously drunk. 
 For erotic play, this means:  stay away from alcohol in enemas . The risks are disproportionate to the attraction. If you want to play with altered perceptions, choose safe means - e.g. controlled breathing techniques, lying positions, light &amp;amp; music or psychological power games, not substances in the bowel. 
  Tip for experienced players:  If you play with more intense scenarios (e.g. &quot;stimulation enema as punishment&quot;), set medical taboos beforehand: no experiments with your own mixtures, no additives that you don&#039;t understand and a clear right for the sub to end the game at any time - even if it&#039;s actually about obedience. 
 Enema and BDSM role play 
 In BDSM, enema sex can play deeply into power and control fantasies. The dominant partner decides on the timing, position, amount to be filled and how to hold it - the submissive partner experiences surrender, being at the mercy of others, perhaps shame, but also security in the control of the top. 
 Typical scenarios: 
 
  Clinic games:  Doctor, nurse, examination room, metal instruments, gloves. The enema is &quot;medically necessary&quot; and must be dutifully endured. 
  Discipline &amp;amp; punishment:  The sub is given an enema as a consequence for disobedience, must hold it or wait in an uncomfortable position until he is allowed to relieve himself. 
  Preparation for anal play:  Enemas as a ritual before anal sex, Fisting or anal toys come into play. This can be very caring and reinforce the feeling of purity and readiness. 
 
  Role play step by step - depending on the level   Level 1 - Beginner:  Short, simple scene in the bathroom. The dominant part prepares an intimate shower, explains every step, asks several times about well-being. Small amount, no time games. Then shower and cuddle together.  Level 2 - Advanced:  Set up a clinic setting (gloves, &quot;examination couch&quot;, possibly clinic clothing). The sub fills out an &quot;admission form&quot; in advance (fantasy profile). The enema is ordered as a &quot;necessary measure&quot;, the sub must hold for a certain amount of time while being questioned or examined.  Level 3 - Experienced:  Longer session with a clear power structure. The top determines several enemas, positions and hold times, combining them with restraints, clinical equipment or other types of play. Safeword, debriefing and loving aftercare are mandatory - especially for emotionally intense scenes. 
 Tips for all levels - enema sex step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  - Use a small intimate shower and lukewarm water. - Keep the amount you fill to a minimum and leave immediately if the pressure becomes uncomfortable. - No additional role play necessary - only your body sensation counts at first. - Consciously reflect after emptying: What felt good, what didn&#039;t? 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  - Slowly increase the volume, if necessary work with several smaller enemas. - Incorporate initial role play (&quot;examination&quot;, &quot;cleaning before service&quot;). - Observe body signs: Cramps, pain or nausea mean stop. - Drink enough, as enemas can affect the fluid balance. 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  - Plan a clear session structure with pre-talk, play and aftercare. - More intensive positions, longer holding or combination with other fetishes only if both are mentally stable. - After the session, plan warmth, rest, possibly light food and a talk about feelings - land well physically and emotionally. 
 Whether you experience enema sex more as a gentle cleansing ritual, as part of your clinic fantasies or as a strict BDSM punishment - if you  take your body seriously, communicate openly and respect clear boundaries , this fetish can become a particularly intimate, sensual and bonding way of playing with your sexuality. 
 
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                            <updated>2022-02-14T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text"> The foot fetish - what makes the foot a fetish object</title>
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                                            The foot fetish is probably one of the best known fetishes in the world. What it has to do with it and what is important for many fetishists in this area, we would like to show you here.
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                 The foot fetish is probably one of the best known fetishes in the world. What it has to do with it and what is important for many fetishists in this area, we would like to show you here. 
 What is a foot fetish? 
 A foot fetish is an amazingly diverse fetishism in which the foot or just parts of the foot serve as fetish objects. Many different factors play a role and can be evaluated differently by the fetishist himself. 
     Sexual preference for feet     
 The shape of the foot, its overall appearance, its clothing (stockings or shoes) and also the smell play important roles here. In addition, there are people who perceive especially washed or dirty feet as a special fetish object. In addition, there are still people who not only appreciate the sight of feet, but also let themselves be satisfied with the help of feet. Here, foot fetishism is particularly pronounced. 
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 These are signs of foot fetishism 
 Many people find the sight of feet to be erotic without now directly developing a foot fetish. Mostly, the feet are shown in a concrete erotic context or emphasized accordingly. However, if sexual arousal occurs as soon as a foot comes into the picture or even if the foot is presented outside of an erotic context, it may well be a foot fetishism. 
 However, since for many fetishists only certain parts of the feet seem erotic or they have to be used in a certain context, there can be considerable differences here as well. 
 How does a foot fetish develop? 
 The origin of fetishes in general is still not finally clarified scientifically. It is assumed that many fetishes are already created in early childhood and the budding puberty. For this reason, it is unfortunately impossible to say more precisely what the individual trigger for a foot fetish can be. 
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 However, there is a working thesis that links the structure of the human brain to the foot fetish. This is because right next to the limbic system, which controls sexual arousal among other things, is the area responsible for sensory input and movement. And the area responsible for the feet borders directly on the limbic system and could thus provide stimulation there. 
 Social facts 
 Foot fetishism is one of the most socially accepted fetishes. Well-known stars and artists such as Orlando Bloom, among others, talk openly about their v    orlove for feet    . Moreover, the foot fetish is probably one of the oldest fetishes in the world, at least in terms of notoriety. Therefore, it is a fetish that very many people can understand and even sometimes share. 
 Tips you can use to satisfy a foot fetishist 
 It would be clumsy to claim that there are easy ways to satisfy a foot fetishist. This is because there is just not one typical foot fetish and foot fetishist, but there are very many manifestations. For this reason, it is especially important to talk openly about the topic and to ask about the preferences and desires of the other person. So it will then also be easier to fulfill these desires with your own feet if necessary. 
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                            <updated>2022-02-03T07:45:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">I have a fetish - so what?</title>
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                                            You have a fetish? So what? One in six people has a preference for special sex practices. So you are certainly not alone with your special preference.
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                 You have a fetish? So what? One in six people has a preference for special sex practices. So you are certainly not alone with your special preference. 
 Unusual sex is becoming more and more common in bedrooms at home. Fetishism itself is no longer a taboo subject. 
     Sexual excitement     
 There are  over 500 different fetishes  in total. There are very small fetishes that are hardly recognized as such. But there are also the big known fetishes like the  nylon  fetish or the  latex f etish. 
 In addition, there are very unusual fetishes such as the balloon fetish or the diaper fetish. No matter what preference you have, you are certainly not alone. 
 Typical fetishes that are no secret 
 Very typical fetishes are the preferences for latex, lacquer and leather. Many live out the typical dominance and submission game and make no secret of it. Bondage is also a fetish that many talk about. BDSM in itself is very extensive and can combine different fetishes. 
 Some are talked about with pleasure, others are rather only lived out, so behind closed doors. The  foot fetish, for example, is actually also a very typical preference , which is practiced but rather in secret. Also the nylon fetish is not necessarily worn outwardly. 
 No man will gladly admit to  wearing nylon pantyhose  or to smell it after a woman has worn it. Far more secretly it goes however with other fetishes. 
 Gladly practiced, but not talked about 
 Some fetishes are very special. The diaper fetish, for example, belongs to the sexual preferences that are practiced, but about which no one speaks freely. The diaper fetish is about surrendering completely to the other and being taken care of. 
 Relieving oneself in diapers and then having the partner change them turns the fetish practitioner on. If a man likes to wear women&#039;s clothes, he likes to be labeled as homosexual. Therefore, this is also a type of fetish that the man does not like to talk about. 
 Because just because the man likes to wear nylons, women&#039;s underwear or dresses, it doesn&#039;t mean that he doesn&#039;t like women. So the women&#039;s clothing fetish has nothing at all to do with homosexuality. 
 A fetish is not a must 
 You prefer to have simple sex, without gimmicks and big specialties? Then you don&#039;t need to be ashamed or hide for it. 
 Even if in the course of time more and more fetishes come to light, this does not mean that you also have to live out one. Always do only what really gives you pleasure and joy. 
 Fetish and fetishism: definition 
 The word fetish is derived from the French fétiche and Portuguese feitiço. It refers to a special preference for certain things. For objects that are particularly beautiful and valuable. Among other things, these things are also said to have a magical or divine quality. 
 So was at least once the original definition of fetish.   It was not until much later, towards the end of the 19th century, that the terms fetish and fetishism took a place in medicine. In psychology, it was now associated with sexuality. Sex preferences to certain objects such as high heels or body parts were described with it. 
 Siegmund Freud 
  Siegmund Freud  also dealt with the issue of sexual fetishism and declared it a disease. He portrayed it as a perversity which needed to be cured.     It is often believed that fetishism describes a particular sexual practice, that is, a preference for something specific during sex. For example, it might describe a preference for role-playing or bondage. But actually, sexual fetishism is a bit different.     Just because you prefer kink sex, that is, something out of the ordinary, doesn&#039;t make you a fetishist. You just like to have more fun in bed than others. 
 A fetish is rather to only go for certain body parts. 
 You can&#039;t do without feet? Then you have a foot fetish. However, pieces of clothing can also become a fetish. For example, there are men who buy worn panties to smell, taste and then pour themselves in the female scent. This is also a fetish and you then accordingly a fetishist.     If you are into special sexual practices, you are a BDSMler. Often, however, the transition between fetish and BDSM is actually fluid. It can be effortlessly intertwined, which is why often the individual definitions are almost dispensed with.     In the BDSM area there are many preferences that can be lived out. Among other things, the diaper fetish often appears here, linked with the preference to submit baby-like. Fetish and power imbalance are connected with each other here. 
 When is a fetish pathological? 
 A fetish can actually become a disease. As wonderful as it can be, it can also become dangerous. So Sigmund Freud was perhaps not entirely wrong in saying that a fetish is something pathological.   The fetish becomes pathological when you really only have your special preference in mind and can no longer cope with your normal everyday life. It becomes dangerous when you harm yourself or even cause harm to others. 
 Fetish dangers 
 For yourself there is also a psychological danger if your fetish takes over your thinking and you act according to your urges. You should seek professional help. First and foremost to protect yourself, but also to avoid becoming a danger to others. 
 At the latest, when you do something that the other person does not want, it is too late. Then you have a mental illness, which must be treated immediately.     As a fetishist you must always watch yourself and your thoughts very closely. It is in your care to live out the fetish with fun and not to let it become a danger. 
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                            <updated>2022-01-28T07:45:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sissy and sissy training: what&#039;s behind the forced feminization</title>
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                                            The term forced feminization refers to the gradual transformation of a male slave into a female appearance and habitus by a dominatrix or master. Slaves who are subjected to forced feminization are generally called sissies or maids.
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 Sissy &amp;amp; Forced Feminization - Guide &amp;amp; Training Plan 
 In the BDSM world, the term  sissy  describes a man who is forced into a female role through playful coercion, dominance and clear feminizing rules. Clothing, posture, obedience, chastity and use by a dominant person shape the sissy step by step - until she deeply internalizes her role. 
 The arousal arises from  loss of control, submission and the conscious humiliation  of being feminized and used. This game always remains consensual, but intense and emotionally demanding. 
 What makes a sissy? 
 
 feminine clothing, lingerie, stockings, pumps 
 Make-up, wig, feminine posture &amp;amp; language 
 Obedience, willingness to serve, role surrender 
 Chastity &amp;amp; erotic control 
 Use (often with strapon) and clear dominance 
 
 A sissy rarely &quot;chooses&quot; the role actively - she is led into it, pushed into it, controlled. This is exactly where the attraction lies:  the mistress decides, the sissy obeys . 
 Signs that there is a sissy inside you 
 
 The thought of feminization makes you hot. 
 You want to be led, to submit. 
 You respond to humiliation and clear commands. 
 Strapon-Fantasies, chastity or plug training excite you. 
 You want to be &quot;used&quot; instead of &quot;using&quot;. 
 
 Tools for forced feminization 
 Depending on the style of play, different toys are used to intensify the training: 
 
  Chastity cages  - sexual control &amp;amp; discipline 
  Strapons &amp;amp; dildos  - for active use of the sissy 
  Anal plugs &amp;amp; plug sets  - for stretching &amp;amp; preparation 
  Shackles &amp;amp; bondage  - for control &amp;amp; fixation 
  Paddles, whips, floggers  - for discipline &amp;amp; posture correction 
 
 These tools create the basis for true devotion and deep feminizing transformation. 
 
 Sissy training in 3 stages 
 The following training plan guides a sissy in a structured way from the first steps to deep feminization. 
 LEVEL 1 - Beginner Sissy 
 
 daily compulsory lingerie (briefs, stockings) 
 Morning ritual: present kneeling, head lowered 
 Rules: no orgasm without permission, feminine posture, polite language 
 first make-up: lip gloss, mascara; light wig 
 practice &quot;sissy walk&quot; for 10 minutes 
 Body care: shave &amp;amp; lotion 
 
 LEVEL 2 - Advanced Sissy 
 
 permanent  chastity  under the supervision of the mistress 
 Start plug wearing times (10-20 minutes, increasing) - e.g. with  Anal plugs  
 Strapon-Training: from tongue to first penetration - see  strapon selection  
 Rules of etiquette: kneel when asked, hands behind, eyes lowered 
 Mandatory clothing under everyday clothing: briefs, stockings, if necessary Buttplug 
 Tasks: Prepare room, clean toys, report how she has served 
 
 LEVEL 3 - Deep Feminization 
 
 full female role: dress, pumps, wig, full make-up 
 Plug duty for several hours (safe &amp;amp; consensual) 
 Sissy is actively used: strapon positions, commands, fixations 
 Discipline: violations lead to  punishments  (spanking, extra plugging time) 
 emotional submission: daily devotional formulas, gratitude, devotion 
 Symbolic submission: wearing a collar -  collars  
 
 At this level, the sissy is no longer a &quot;player&quot; - she is  property, servant and object of pleasure , fully anchored in her role. 
 
 Combined recommendations according to training level 
 For level 1 
 
  Men&#039;s lingerie  
  Basic make-up  
  discreet collars  
 
 For level 2 
 
  Chastity cages  
  Plug sets  
  Strapons  
  Shackles &amp;amp; bondage  
 
 For level 3 
 
  Whips &amp;amp; Paddles  
  Strapon-Complete sets  
  Spreader bars  
  Chastity for long-term training  
 
 
 Conclusion 
 Sissy training is a powerful erotic dynamic that combines control, humility, pleasure and role reversal. With clear rules, feminizing discipline and the targeted use of toys, a deep devotion is created that leads the sissy permanently into her role. A well-managed sissy is not just dressed up - she is  transformed . 
 
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                            <updated>2021-11-03T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Anal Stories: Welcome to my world of anal stories</title>
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                                            Actually, I am a normal woman, middle-aged. However, I like to live out a small fetish. During sex I like to experience anal stories again and again. Why I am so anal oriented, I do not know. I&#039;m just totally into it and climax better during anal intercourse than during normal...
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                 Actually, I am a normal woman, middle-aged. However, I like to live out a small fetish. During sex I like to experience anal stories again and again. Why I am so anal oriented, I do not know. 
 I&#039;m just totally into it and climax better during anal intercourse than during normal, vaginal intercourse. I would like to share my experiences with you. Today you get a small, exquisite insight into my world, full of anal sex stories. 
  Gentle introduction to anal sex 
 I had my first anal sex when I was a very young 18 years old. My bedmate at the time gently introduced me to the subject. We began with normal caresses and started as always, with the actual act. Then he interrupted this, however, to knead my buttocks with his hands, his fingers wandered into my poritze. 
 [emotion emotion_id=&quot;387&quot; ] 
 He fingered me anally, taking advantage of the moisture to transfer it to my anus with his fingers. He gently massaged my anus, testing very gently to see if he could penetrate me with his finger. I was scared, afraid it would hurt. He stopped because I was too unrelaxed. On his nightstand was a small tube of Just Glide Anal. 
 This is a wonderfully productive lubricant. He applied it to my anus and continued massaging gently. I relaxed and enjoyed his every touch. He penetrated me with his finger. Gently, yet firmly. He stretched my anus, using more and more fingers to do so. 
 Now I was ready. I should enjoy my first, real anal sex. His penis caused a slightly painful stretching of the anal region. It made me so insanely horny that I almost directly experienced the orgasm. 
   
  Sometimes gentle, sometimes strong 
 Since the first time I could not get away from the beloved anal sex. I developed a real fetish and experienced anal stories again and again. Almost automatically, I led my sexual partners to penetrate my rear end. I enjoyed it sometimes gently and sometimes forcefully. 
 It is a wonderful feeling when the anus is gently played around. Some days even that is enough to get me to climax. On other days, however, this playing around gets on my nerves. I think it&#039;s unnecessary. Then the man may penetrate me practically immediately. Hard as nails, without any aids. No lubricant, just a little spit and then it slips. 
 Yes, it hurts, it burns and I can hardly hold back. I moan and groan with pleasure. Louder, more intense, clawing myself into the sheet. Yes well, sometimes it is also the tabletop to which I hold on or even the edge of the bathtub. When I live out my fetish, it does not require a specific place. Only it must be varied. I love to try out unusual positions. It goes quite a lot, if it should be anal. You just have to be a little flexible. That&#039;s not a problem for me. 
 Fuck you! 
 Have you ever told someone that they can kiss your ass? I have! And the man actually put it into practice. He grabbed me, forcefully pulled my pants down. He turned me around, pushed my upper body forward. I stood in front of him with my bare buttocks stretched out. And what did he do? He started to lick! He licked and kissed my buttocks. 
 His tongue slid along my butt crack. With his hands he pulled my buttocks apart to get directly to my anus with his tongue. I experienced here and now, the first time anilingus. 
 The rimjob was fantastic! So many sensitive nerve endings are located at the anus. So it is an almost unbelievably good feeling to be touched, kissed and licked in this place. He even penetrated my anus a bit with the tip of his tongue. Let&#039;s see, maybe I&#039;ll get over myself sometime and return the favor for this horny rimjob. [emotion emotion_id=&quot;373&quot; ] 
 When I am alone and get the desire 
 The sex desire often overcomes me spontaneously. I do not want to give up just because there is no partner at hand. I live out my little fetish therefore also sometimes quite gladly alone. There are enough tools with which you can pamper yourself anally. I have a large selection of different anal plugs at home. 
 I love the ones made of vinyl. These I have in many variations at home. I started with the small anal plug for beginners. Black, smooth silicone, a small diameter and the party can begin. In the meantime, however, I am no longer a beginner. I now spoil myself with really big butt plugs. 
 Even a fucking machine with anal dildo is in my bedroom. That&#039;s fun, I tell you! My fetish is not extraordinary. 
 Anal stories like mine, I have heard from many others. Somehow almost a pity that I am not an exception. That would make it even more interesting. But what the heck, so at least I always find like-minded people. Are you one of them? 
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                            <updated>2021-05-06T10:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Pantyhose fetish stories: Jan in the bonds of lust</title>
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                                            Jan was nervous. Only two weeks ago, after a long evening of cocktails, he had told his wife about his most intimate desires. To his astonishment, she had neither reproached him nor reacted in a deterred manner. Still, Frank didn&#039;t know what to expect that evening
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                 Jan was nervous. Only two weeks ago, after a long evening of cocktails, he had told his wife about his most intimate desires. To his astonishment, she had neither reproached him nor reacted deterred. Still, Frank didn&#039;t know what to expect that evening. 
 After all, every two weeks his son spent a weekend with his grandparents, and Jan and Sabine always had two nights all to themselves. But this weekend everything seemed different than usual. 
  Jan had received an e-mail from Sabine with clear instructions on  what he had to do on Friday evening. The commanding tone of the e-mail was new and had caused a very special tingling in Jan.  He had hardly been able to wait  to finally go home after work. 
 The evening begins 
 Sabine only works part-time and was accordingly home much earlier than he was. His fingers trembled slightly as he unlocked the door with his key. Just as requested in the e-mail, he immediately went through to the bathroom. There, a filled bathtub was already waiting for him. Completely relaxed, Jan let himself slide into the hot water and took the time to clean himself thoroughly. 
 After the bath it went dried and still naked in the direction of the bedroom. The bedroom was discreetly lit and candles provided an atmospheric light. In the middle of the bed lay a black eye mask. Jan gulped, but took the mask as an instruction and slid it over his eyes. 
   
  The world around him was swallowed by darkness.  He didn&#039;t know whether to shout or say something, but already he heard footsteps behind him. Sabine nestled against his body from behind, her fingers stroking his belly and chest and playing with his nipples again and again. The tension for Jan became almost unbearable and his best piece clearly indicated his excitement. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;523&quot; ] 
 But Sabine seemed to be less interested in this one at the moment. She directed Jan towards the bed and made sure that he lay down on his back. Again and again her hands slid over his body. Then along his legs. She brought Jan gently but purposefully into the position she wanted. Jan faltered. He felt a touch on his ankle, which he could not place. 
 Then on his other leg and finally on his arms. Sabine had tied him gently but mercilessly to the bed. For this, Sabine had ordered the Keep Still bed restraint set last week and tried it out for the first time today. 
 [emotion emotion_id=&quot;395&quot; ] 
  With his arms and legs spread, Jan now lay on the bed , waiting with a throbbing erection for what would now await him. Jan tried to relax. The whole situation made him hotter than ever before. Again and again he felt Sabine&#039;s hands on his body. But then Sabine left him alone. 
   
 New experiences for Jan 
 He heard fabric rustling as she moved. He heard her footsteps, heard a clack and several other sounds. Then Jan felt Sabine kneel between his legs. When her hot mouth suddenly and without warning embraced his glans, Jan flinched. 
 Sabine&#039;s tongue skilfully played around his manhood and Jan had to control himself not to moan loudly. But then Jan suddenly felt a new sensation. Something cool and wet drilled itself between his easily accessible buttocks. 
 Without warning and also without waiting for a reaction from Jan, Sabine let her finger moistened with lubricant slide up to Jan&#039;s rosette and slowly pushed it into her husband. 
  Jan was irritated and horny at the same time.  He had never felt anything like this before and never expected it from Sabine. Yes, he was slightly submissive, no question about it. But Sabine seemed to be far more absorbed in this game than he would ever have thought possible. Sabine&#039;s groping finger quickly withdrew, however. 
 Jan exhaled briefly in relief as something larger and thicker pushed its way between his cheeks. He felt an ever-increasing pressure on the sphincter, but could not resist something new and much harder sliding into him. He drew in his breath sharply, but then this object touched a very special point inside him. 
 Jan&#039;s lust rose inexorably all at once. It clicked and now the thing inside him began to vibrate as well. Sabine smiled with joy when she saw how well her purchase went down with Jan. So the Wild Boy had not been a bad investment. Now, however, it was time to free Jan from the darkness. 
   
 A dream becomes reality 
 Sabine slid off the bed, slipped the rubber glove off and to the floor and now pulled the mask from Jan&#039;s eyes. Jan drew in his breath sharply. For Sabine was not naked, but wore  pantyhose  as he knew them only from his wildest dreams. The fine net was darker in the area of the overknees and thus provided wonderful contrasts. 
 Jan&#039;s gaze slid higher and he had to swallow audibly. Because the pantyhose was completely open in the crotch. Sabine, perfectly shaved, literally beamed at him. But she did not wait until he had finished his inspection. Sabine got on the bed and let her foot in the pantyhose slowly slide over Jan&#039;s body. 
 He felt like he was in seventh heaven. Sabine&#039;s foot was now gently stroking Jan&#039;s member. He could feel the structure of the pantyhose exactly and wanted to savor the feeling. But Sabine did not give him time to do so. She now stood wide-legged over Jan&#039;s face.   [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;522&quot; ] He nestled his head against the side of her legs and enjoyed the  feeling of the pantyhose on his skin . However, the vibrations inside him kept making him groan in pleasure. His gaze was almost magically drawn to Sabine&#039;s center directly above him. But now Sabine seized control again. 
 Slowly she knelt down, took Jan&#039;s head between her thighs and then carefully and slowly lowered her crotch onto his face. 
 Jan on duty 
 From   Facesitting   jan had always dreamed of. He immediately opened his mouth and let his tongue advance. Apparently this game seemed to please Sabine too, as wet as she was. But slowly Jan also realized that he was running out of air. He gasped for air when Sabine lifted her pelvis and granted him fresh oxygen. 
 But only briefly, then the perfectly formed labia lowered back down onto his face. Jan licked as if there was no tomorrow. Again and again Sabine lifted her bottom briefly to give Jan air, but never for long. All too well Jan could handle his tongue. Sabine&#039;s pelvis twitched, she moaned and it just ran out of her. 
  With a cry it came to Sabine , who now rubbed her pelvis in circular motions over Jan&#039;s face. As her twitching subsided, Sabine gently slid off Jan. His whole face glistened in her pleasure. She grabbed an older pair of pantyhose which lay nearby and now knelt between Jan&#039;s legs herself, breathing heavily. A pressure on the wild boy and the vibrations became more demanding. 
  Jan acknowledged this change with a new moan . But now he could watch Sabine slowly pulling the  pantyhose  over his still erect penis. He trembled and moaned with pleasure. Then Sabine took hold of him courageously. Her cool fingers closed around Jan&#039;s best piece in the pantyhose and caressed it. The movements were powerful, demanding and so experienced. 
  The pantyhose on his skin , the vibrating toy inside him and the sight of Sabine in her open pantyhose were just too much for Jan. He gasped, moaned and poured out in twitching spurts into Sabine&#039;s hand and the pantyhose over his member. 
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                            <updated>2021-03-30T12:45:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Rubber fetish - the pleasure of the special material</title>
            <id>https://www.steeltoyz.com/bdsm-bondage/fetisch-ratgeber-inspiration/fetish-guide/rubber-fetish-the-pleasure-of-the-special-material</id>
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                                            We will show you what makes this fetish so appealing, how people live out this fetish and what possibilities there are to live out this fetish alone or with a partner.
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                 Many people are particularly fond of the material rubber, especially in the form  of latex  in both clothing and  bedding . We will show you what makes the attraction of this fetish, how people live out the fetish and what possibilities there are to live out this fetish alone or with a partner. 
 
 The&amp;nbsp;Rubber fetish at a glance 
 The fetishism for rubber is a real material fetishism and is therefore not limited to certain objects. Most fetishists love both  the feeling of rubber and latex on the skin  as well as the typical smell and the many noises which are created by touch and friction. 
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  The material is impermeable to air and can be worn as clothing on the skin, among other things,  and very quickly feels absolutely natural. However, bedding or sheets made of rubber are also extremely popular and are suitable for a wide variety of games. 
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 Since garments made of latex not only excellently emphasize the figure, but can also easily shape it, these  garments  are  equally popular with men and women . Many people get a special kick when they themselves and the partner are dressed in rubber during sex and thus the materials rub against each other and the most diverse sounds are created. 
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 Rubber fetishists often have other fetishes as well 
 A rubber fetishism can very often be combined well and without problems with other preferences. Very often, especially the  preference for golden shower  can be found. Because the  waterproof and water-repellent material  rubber is perfectly suitable for such games, for example. 
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 But also enema fetishes and white eroticism are very often combined with materials made of rubber and latex and are accordingly very close to this fetish. So if you want to live out different inclinations and feel in you an enthusiasm for latex and rubber, you can easily combine your different cravings. 
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  The clothes are easy to clean and sanitize afterwards,  so you don&#039;t have to worry or worry much about them. 
 Live out your preference for special materials 
 Of course, the great demand for various rubber clothing and accessories has very quickly developed into a large market. Accordingly, you can not only buy a whole range of suitable fetish clothes and accessories online, but also live out your fetish at various fairs and events. 
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 Also various  swingers clubs offer fetish events  where you can get your money&#039;s worth. Here you can  make contacts, live out your f  etish and maybe find a partner with the same fetish. The possibilities in this day and age are pleasantly diverse and flexible. 
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 Also in the BDSM area the&amp;nbsp;rubber fetish is widespread. Here, among other things, subs are dressed in rubber and thus become even more aroused if they can show a fetish for the material. Professional studios often have a very large selection of different accessories in this segment. 
 
 
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                            <updated>2019-05-28T16:30:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Looner - The sexual desire for balloons</title>
            <id>https://www.steeltoyz.com/bdsm-bondage/fetisch-ratgeber-inspiration/fetish-guide/looner-the-sexual-desire-for-balloons</id>
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                                            Lovers of balloon fetishes like to call themselves looners. Looners not only love the feel and touch of the balloons on their skin, but also the noises that the balloons make when rubbed and touched, as well as when they burst.
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                  Discover the world of looners  
 Welcome to a world where something seemingly harmless - a colorful, shimmering balloon - can become a sensual gateway to deep excitement. The Looner fetish thrives on tension, anticipation, sound and feeling. Of latex that stretches. Of the delicate crackling when you touch the smooth surface. The knowledge that the balloon could burst at any moment - or tease you even longer. This pleasure is playful, emotional, intense and completely individual. 
 What makes Looner different? 
 Looners experience balloons as erotic objects - sometimes gentle and tender, sometimes intense and dangerously close to bursting. The stimulation can come from 
 
 the sliding of the latex over the skin, 
 the pressure of a bulging balloon on the body, 
 the sound of rubbing, 
 the vibrating tension just before the pop, 
 or the complete immersion in a room full of balloons. 
 
 Every looner loves something different: some prefer the softness, others the risk. Some stick to cuddling, others chase the thrill of bursting. 
 The depth of the Looner fetish 
 Psychologically, the balloon can serve as a symbol: for control, letting go, tension, surprise or hidden fantasy. For many, the balloon is a kind of emotional projector - an object that brings lust, thrills and inner images to life. 
 The play between stretching and popping, between expectation and fulfillment, can be just as intense in the mind as it is on the skin. 
     
 Where the balloon fetish comes from 
 The exact origins are not scientifically proven. However, many suspect that early experiences with balloons - their bursting, their smell, the tingling sensation when they are inflated - can create a mixture of fear, excitement and fascination. Later on, this feeling turns into excitement for some people. 
 Safety first 
 Looner games seem harmless, but here too, safety and awareness increase pleasure and confidence. 
 
 Use high-quality balloons with good material strength. 
 Keep sharp objects away from the play area. 
 Avoid inhaling small balloon debris - especially when deliberately popping them. 
 Test your stimuli slowly before increasing the risk. 
 
    
 Looners have these characteristics 
 Hardly any fetish is as versatile as the looner fetish. Pleasure can come from: 
 
  Friction:  Female looners in particular like to stimulate themselves with bulging balloons. 
  Popper:  For some, the climax is the bursting itself - the pop as a release. 
  Non-poppers:  Others enjoy the balloon without popping it - playing with uncertainty. 
  Sex in a sea of balloons:  A bed full of balloons intensifies touch, chance and sensual stimulation. 
 
 Whether alone or as a couple: the combination of color, sound and dynamics makes this experience unique. 
     
 Are you a looner too? 
 Many people don&#039;t even know that they have a Looner streak in them. Try it out: Play with an inflated balloon, feel the sound, surface, pressure - and observe whether something stirs inside you. Looner pleasure is often subtle and increases with experience. 
 Tips for all levels - Looning step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner: 
 
 Start with soft, medium sized balloons and gentle touch. 
 Experiment with friction, pressure and sounds. 
 Pay attention to breathing, tension and your comfort zone. 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Use larger balloons or several at the same time. 
 Explore stronger rubbing, sitting or pressing. 
 Consciously start with the game &quot;Does it pop - or does it hold?&quot;. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Use XXL balloons or full rooms for immersive experiences. 
 Incorporate balloons into sexual acts (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. timing the bursting). 
 Combine looning with bondage, dominance or sensory play. 
 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - beginner: 
 
 Simple scenario: one partner teases with the balloon, the other reacts playfully. 
 Gentle instructions: &quot;squeeze harder&quot;, &quot;listen&quot;, &quot;stay still&quot;. 
 Agree safeword, especially for popping scenarios. 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Incorporate BDSM roles such as dom/sub: Balloons as a testing or punishment element. 
 Balloon must be held, ridden or protected. 
 Exciting tasks: &quot;If it pops, there are consequences&quot;. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Balloon rituals, e.g.&amp;nbsp;B. Pushing tasks, control games or pop challenges. 
 Combination with blindfolds, fixation or orgasm control. 
 Aftercare: As the bang can be emotionally intense, aftercare is important. 
 
 
 The Looner Community 
 In the active Looner scene you will find exchange, fantasy and lots of inspiration. Online forums, chats and fetish platforms offer space for understanding, stories, courage and new ideas. 
 Live the Looner lifestyle 
 Looning can be a surprisingly sensual addition to your love life. It combines sound, body, emotion and fantasy in a playful way. You decide whether you want to enjoy it gently or extremely, playfully or riskily, alone or together. 
     
 Balloons in BDSM 
 Airplay can be wonderfully combined with BDSM. Balloons can serve as: 
 
 Aids for sensory play, 
 &quot;soft restraints&quot; or pressure elements, 
 Triggers for anxiety when they are about to burst, 
 Symbol of power: the dom decides when the balloon is allowed to pop. 
 
 Balloons add a light, playful component to BDSM - without losing any of the intensity. 
 Conclusion 
 Immerse yourself in the world of looners: a fantasy full of excitement, colors, sounds and touch. Explore what excites you, try things out, play - and let the soft latex take you to a new dimension of pleasure. Perhaps your new favorite game is waiting behind the next bang. 
 FAQs 
 What is the appeal of the Looner fetish? 
 The mixture of excitement, the danger of banging, the feeling of latex and the deep, physical tingling is what makes it so appealing. 
 Can anyone be a looner? 
 Yes - if you are open to new sensations, you can discover whether balloons trigger an erotic echo in your body. 
 Where can I find like-minded people? 
 Online communities and fetish forums offer exchange, ideas and support. 
 Thanks to Cruel Reell 
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                            <updated>2019-05-23T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Crossdresser - the desire for the strange clothes and role</title>
            <id>https://www.steeltoyz.com/bdsm-bondage/fetisch-ratgeber-inspiration/fetish-guide/crossdresser-the-desire-for-the-strange-clothes-and-role</id>
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                                            Crossdressing is not a new topic and has been practiced since ancient times. It is the sexual desire to wear clothes of the opposite sex. However, it has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the people involved
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                 Crossdressing is not a new topic and has been practiced since ancient times. It is the sexual desire to wear clothes of the opposite sex. However, it has nothing to do with the sexual orientation of the people involved. 
 Crossdressers are usually  heterosexual  and especially love this form of disguise, in which the clothes, but also typical movements and actions are adopted. 
 The role reversal in its perfection 
 Crossdressers experience many areas of sexuality entirely differently than other people, at least when they fill their role. Of course, like many other people with fetishes, crossdressers can have a completely normal sex life and only act out the urge alone and secretly, for example. 
 Thus,  men like to  wear  women&#039;s  clothes and women the clothes of typical male type. Often, however, the disguise goes even further. Thus, in addition to the pure clothing, their own appearance is also changed accordingly. 
 Women, for example, tie  their breasts flat to their bodies  to get a more masculine look, while some men want to put on makeup and get close to their feminine ideal with wigs. 
   
 Entering and enjoying new sexual territory 
 Many crossdressers are content to dress up and live out their most intimate fantasies. However, there are other crossdressers who also want to experience the sexual act itself in the role of the opposite sex. 
 Of course, this works especially well when both partners feel the desire to crossdress and share these needs. As a rule, the women in these cases use a strap-on  dildo  and take over the active part. 
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 They penetrate their partner with this dildo and thus ensure a perfect implementation of the gender swap. Both women and men often experience the highest possible excitement during this form of sexual contact and enjoy living out their own fetish and preferences. 
 Relationship with crossdressers 
 As a rule, relationships with crossdressers are not a problem even for partners who do not share this fetish. On the one hand, such a fetish can be lived out without affecting the partner too much. 
 On the other hand, many crossdressers live out their fantasies and ideas alone anyway and it is enough for them to be in the clothes of the opposite sex for some time and to masturbate frequently while doing so. In normal everyday life crossdressers are absolutely inconspicuous. 
 They do not let their preferences be noticed and can lead harmonious and long-lasting monogamous relationships without any problems. 
 After sex - common behaviors 
 Surprisingly, but typical for many crossdressers is that the clothes are usually discarded very quickly after the passion subsides. This is because the disguise and the associated excitement has nothing to do with everyday life and is accordingly quickly discarded. 
 Thus, after the climax, the normality of reality can return very quickly and let the crossdresser return to his normal outfit. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-21T14:30:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Pedal Pumping - that&#039;s behind the new sex fetish</title>
            <id>https://www.steeltoyz.com/bdsm-bondage/fetisch-ratgeber-inspiration/fetish-guide/pedal-pumping-that-s-behind-the-new-sex-fetish</id>
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                                            Basically, fetishes are quite normal and part of a healthy sexuality. A sexual fetish is a sexually strong attraction to certain objects, materials, body parts or even settings and practices.
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                 For a few years now, a new fetish has been spreading across the various networks. It is called pedal pumping. More and more men are watching  pedal pumping  videos. We&#039;ll show you what it&#039;s all about and what excites men about these videos. 
 Basics: Sexual fetish 
 Basically, fetishes are quite normal and part of a healthy sexuality. A sexual fetish is a sexually strong attraction to certain objects, materials, body parts or even settings and practices. 
 Those who have such a fetish often find sexual fulfillment when they incorporate the objects of their desire as a stimulant in their own lovemaking. This can be materials like lacquer, latex or leather as well as beautiful women&#039;s feet. 
   
 Pedal Pumping - what is that anyway? 
 Pedal pumping videos can now be found in large numbers on the relevant porn sites. These are videos of women who sit in cars dressed provocatively and step on the gas pedals of the vehicles with well-groomed and pedicured feet in erotic high heels. 
 Especially often you can find stylish laced high heels, which particularly emphasize the narrow and slender ankles of the ladies. The ladies step thereby again and again, often rhythmically the gas pedal through and thus let the engine howl again and again. 
 The videos are usually filmed from two perspectives, with the focus clearly on the women&#039;s feet. 
 Why do these videos turn on many men? 
 Here, some different fetishes directly come to the fore, while there is also a basic psychological explanation. Let&#039;s start with the fetishes. Beautiful and well-groomed women&#039;s feet in provocative shoes attract many men and seem enormously erotic. 
 The movements of the feet during rhythmic movements are also very tempting for many men. But for this the women would not have to sit in a car. And here the psychological explanation takes effect. On the one hand, many men see themselves as the car, which is moved by the women&#039;s feet. 
 The loud roaring of the engine resembles their own ever-increasing libido and lust, while the movements of the women&#039;s feet are pleasantly steady and can be harmonized with the movement of their own masturbation. 
   
 Pedal Pumping Videos - the new trend on the net 
 Currently, a lot of these videos can be found on the relevant sites or unlocked for small money. This is not surprising, as it is practically the easiest way to present sexual videos. The women are dressed, so the videos can be shot practically anywhere and the content can be reproduced very easily. 
 A selection of different shoes and a few pieces of clothing are enough to be able to shoot many videos in a row. And since many men love these videos and watch them for a long time, good money can be made by shooting these pedal pumping videos. 
 So it&#039;s no wonder that more and more videos of this kind end up on the market. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-15T12:00:00+02:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Diaper fetish - a preference with a few representatives</title>
            <id>https://www.steeltoyz.com/bdsm-bondage/fetisch-ratgeber-inspiration/fetish-knowledge/diaper-fetish-a-preference-with-a-few-representatives</id>
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                                            Even if the diaper fetish is often assigned to the BDSM area, it hardly plays a significant role in Germany. Projections speak of a few thousand representatives with this preference in Germany
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                 Even if the diaper fetish is often assigned to the BDSM area, it hardly plays a significant role in Germany. Projections speak of a few thousand representatives with this preference in Germany. 
 We will show you how the diaper fetish manifests itself, how you can live it out and why this fetish is not pedophilia. 
 The diaper fetish as an object fetish 
 Similar to rubber or latex fetishists, there are also people who find diapers particularly desirable mainly because of their feel and sounds or because of their appearance. 
 Here, the diaper itself serves as the  fetish object  and the setting around the diaper is relatively indifferent to many of those affected. They wear the diaper themselves or the partner wears it and that is already enough to experience the desired sexual pleasure. 
 The diaper fetish as a behavioral fetish 
 The other area in the diaper fetish segment mainly concerns  Adult Baby Play , which is a special type of sexual play. Here, a person assumes the role of a baby or toddler and thus has to wear the diaper, as the necessary toilet control has not yet been learned. 
  The Adult Baby area is often socially ostracized and is thus rarely acted out publicly.  Here, the accusation of pedophilia is always in the room, even if this is basically negated by those involved. The Adult Baby lives out a completely different fetish. 
 The complete detachment from responsibility and the security with &quot;mother&quot; or &quot;father&quot; in role play can be completely savored as a baby. They are cared for and do not have to make their own decisions. 
 Thus, this diaper fetish is  a particularly intense role play , which can even be operated asexually by many players. Thus, during the role-play, there is no significant sexual interaction between the game partners, as this would completely destroy the role. 
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 Finding a partner with diaper fetish is enormously difficult 
 Since it is hardly possible to come out as a diaper fetishist without prejudice, many people in this field do not find a partner who shares the fetish or who wants or is able to take the other role. 
  For this reason, especially offers from the horizontal trade are used , which are tailored exactly to the Adult Baby. Here you can also determine exactly how far and to what extent the role play should take place. 
 Not every diaper is connected with the fetish 
 There are other practices in the field of BDSM in which diapers can definitely play a role.  In white eroticism and also in the SM area of BDSM, diapers are used from time to time and  serve either as a hygienic safeguard or as a punishment and humiliation of the wearer. 
 Here the diaper does not serve as a fetish object, but rather as a tool and toy to fulfill another purpose. The wearer thus benefits erotically not from the diaper itself, but from the humiliation or games that made wearing the diaper necessary. 
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            <title type="text">Tickle torture - a fetish that is finding more and more followers</title>
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                                            Tickle torture is also known as tickling. It is therefore clear that the fetish comes from the English or American region. Tickling has been practiced in the USA for a long time. For many, it is part of everyday sex life. But here in Germany, too, tickling torture is gaining m...
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                 Tickle torture, a practice that arouses both curiosity and fascination, is a form of sensual play in which tickling is deliberately used to create a mixture of pleasure and mild discomfort. This type of stimulation can be both psychologically and physically intense, ranging from mild tickling to more intense forms that elicit strong sensory responses. 
  Tickle torture  is also known as  tickling . It is therefore clear that the fetish comes from the English and American regions. Tickling has been practiced in the USA for a long time. For many, it is part of everyday sex life. But here in Germany, too, tickling torture is gaining more and more followers. 
   Tickle torture video: A fetish on the rise - video with Nika Macht   
 In this video, Nika Macht presents the fascinating world of tickle torture, a fetish that is gaining more and more followers. She provides insights into the practices, the psychological significance and the growing popularity of this fetish. 
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   Your browser cannot play this video.  Nika introduces you to the fascinating world of tickle torture, a fetish that is gaining more and more followers. You can access it at  link address .   
 Basic techniques: 
 There are various techniques in tickle torture, ranging from basic to advanced: 
  Light touch:  This simple technique involves gentle stroking or light tickling on sensitive areas of the body. It is ideal for beginners and is used to elicit a response without excessive intensity. 
  Use of objects:  Here, objects such as feathers or soft brushes are used to provide more intense stimulation. This method offers more variation and can increase sensitivity. 
  More intense tick  ling: For advanced users, more intense tickling can be used, which involves more pressure and speed. This technique should be used gently and with the consent of your partner. 
 The transition from simple to more complex techniques requires communication and careful observation of the partner&#039;s reactions. It is important to develop a mutual understanding of boundaries and preferences to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. 
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 Safety and consent: 
 Safety and mutual consent are paramount in tickle torture. It is important to clearly establish what is and is not allowed beforehand. Communicate openly about boundaries and use a safeword to indicate when a break or stop is required. 
 Equipment and accessories: 
 Different items such as feathers, soft brushes or even electric toothbrushes can be used to create different sensations. Quality and safety should be considered when choosing equipment. In addition, proper cleaning and care of the equipment is important to ensure hygiene and longevity. 
 Tickling as torture 
 If tickling becomes torture and  makes you totally horny, then  you have a tickling fetish! In the BDSM scene, you can live out tickling torture perfectly. You can either let yourself be tickled or &quot;torture&quot; your partner with it. This is usually accompanied by bondage games. One partner is tied up or tied somewhere and the other lends a hand and tickles diligently. 
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 There are now numerous aids  that can be used for tickle torture. Popular tools are of course feathers, brushes and brushes. Even toothbrushes can be used. There are also some vibrators that can be used for tickle torture. Those who like it really hard and humiliating don&#039;t use brushes or feathers. 
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 The tickling fetish can be combined with the defilement fetish. In this case, dirty objects are used. In this case, you tickle with toilet brushes, for example, which don&#039;t have to be brand new. 
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  What are the benefits of tickle torture? 
 If tickling excites you, it can even bring you to climax. For some, watching or tickling a sub excites them so much that they don&#039;t need anything else to have  an orgasm . But be careful, some people also like to pee with laughter. 
 Your partner should be warned about this. But if you like champagne games, it can be a great combination. The tickling fetish can be combined with numerous other fetishes. 
   Popular body parts for tickling 
 Everyone has their own special places where they are extremely ticklish. However, you will probably be most successful if you stick to the soles of the feet and armpits. The  ribcage and stomach  are also  very  popular. But the groin area is even more erotic. The skin in the groin area is particularly delicate and vulnerable.  Successful tickling is almost guaranteed here.  
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