Mistress somehow sounds very nice. It sounds like a particularly polite, friendly person. That's deceptive! A mistress is anything, but certainly not nice and polite. You want to know what mistress means?
Simple answer: it's a dominatrix! Most people are more familiar with the term dominatrix than with the word mistress. But it is simply the female form of Master.
What is a dominatrix?
Most people have at least a rough idea of what a dominatrix or mistress is. These ideas are often completely correct. A dominatrix is a dominant person. She dominates her partner, who in this case is her serf, her slave. A dominatrix can act out in different ways.
There are many fetishes that are associated with this person. Of course, the Mistress is part of the BDSM world.
As a dominatrix, you determine the actions and behavior of your partner. Usually only in relation to sex games, but sometimes it extends throughout the entire partnership.
Actions of a Mistress
As a Mistress, you act confidently and selfishly. You do what gives you pleasure. For example, you can put your slave on a leash and take him for a walk in a thong. You can gag him and whip him. There are real studios where dominatrices can let off steam.
From the St. Andrew's cross to the punishment block, there is plenty to discover that can be put to good use. But often all you need is a suitable outfit made of vinyl and leather and a paddle to set yourself up as a dominatrix. You just need to know how to use your charms, your determination and your small but powerful tools.
Am I suitable as a dominatrix?
Are you wondering whether you are suitable to be a dominatrix? Well, you can find out very quickly. Do you tend to dominate in bed? Do you like to inflict sweet pain and humiliation on your play partner? Then you are definitely suitable as a Mistress. So welcome to the BDSM world full of exciting possibilities.
And no, you don't have to carry dominance through your entire everyday life. Many mistresses are surprisingly quiet and unobtrusive in everyday life. So, even if you think you're a gray mouse that nobody sees, that doesn't mean you don't have what it takes to be a dominatrix.
Learn and be attentive and take care of the slave
A true dominatrix attends training courses to learn how to use bullwhips and the like. Trained dominatrixes can train successors. You learn how to use aids and sex toys. Your self-confidence and expressiveness will be strengthened. Little by little, you will feel stronger and more self-confident.
However, before you start working on a sub, you should also familiarize yourself with the human body, i.e. the human anatomy. You can't just go ahead and beat him or put him under random stimulation. Certain areas of the body are simply taboo, otherwise serious injuries could occur.
Furthermore, as a Mistress you must always take care of your slave. He should suffer, no question. Nevertheless, his needs should also be met and he should be well, you torture him because he wants it that way! So always discuss with your sub beforehand what may and may not be done. A safeword must also be defined so that there is a lifeline for the slave that ends the game immediately.
Thanks to Cruel Reell
