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            <title type="text">Tasks for slaves that make you really horny</title>
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                                            Inventing tasks for slaves is not an easy game. The mistress has to keep him busy and make him horny at the same time. Many things could have the opposite effect. As you can see, the job of a dominatrix / mistress is not as easy as you might think.
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  Inventing tasks for slaves is not an easy game.  The mistress has to keep him busy, challenge him - and make him horny at the same time. Many ideas sound hot in theory, but quickly lose their effect in everyday life. As you can see, the job of a dominatrix or mistress is more demanding than many people think. It&#039;s not just about strictness, but also about imagination, timing and a keen sense for your sub. 
 If you force your slave to clean your shoes, it&#039;s best to wear them on your feet. He has a job to do - and will be mesmerized by your beautiful feet at the same time. If, on the other hand, you simply give him a pair of shoes to clean, he&#039;ll quickly run out of steam. The incentive is simply missing.  Always try to find tasks for slaves that are directly related to you  and touch him emotionally and physically. 
 So close to the body and yet so far away 
  Erotic tasks for slaves that are directly related to you are almost mean  - but that&#039;s often the attraction. He may find it difficult to fulfill his tasks to your satisfaction. For example, let him lick your shoes clean while you wear them. He concentrates on every millimeter, feels your closeness - and yet is not allowed to touch you directly. 
 If he touches you anyway, you can punish him or let him start the task again. Make him face the wall. He must not move a millimeter while you step closer and closer to him, playing with your fingers, your breath, your voice. If he doesn&#039;t obey, a consequence will follow. You can extend this game as much as you like. 
  Tasks for slaves are not subject to any rigid guidelines.  You have a free hand - within the framework of your agreements. Be creative and show him that he is very close to you and your body and yet very far away at the same time. It is precisely this area of tension that makes submissive tasks so exciting. 
 Combine tasks for slaves with punishments 
 The purpose of tasks for slaves is to fire him up, focus him - and get him hot. Getting him hot is all you need at first. The second idea behind this is education: you can design tasks in such a way that he could theoretically do them, but it gets harder and harder. 
 Towards the end, make it almost impossible for him to completely satisfy you. This gives you the perfect reason to punish him or guide him more strictly. Of course the tasks also turn your slave on, but it&#039;s often the consequences that make him  really  horny because they make his devotion tangible. 
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 Forbid him to touch you without being asked. He is not allowed to touch himself, he has to be tied up, endure blows, words and commands. He may even be banned from having an orgasm or kept in chastity if it suits you.  Important:  always consensual, clearly agreed and with a safeword - then the game can be intense and yet safe. 
 
  Suitable categories to expand your scenarios:   Restraint &amp;amp; Fixation   Spanking &amp;amp; chastisement   Chastity  
 
 Specific tasks for slaves that get really hot 
 So that you don&#039;t just have theoretical inspiration, but can get started straight away, you will find  specific tasks  here that can challenge, occupy and arouse your slave at the same time. Adapt each task to your experience, limits and your specific D/s dynamic. 
 
 1. Shoe and foot service:  Your slave kneels in front of you, slowly removes your shoes, massages your feet and may then clean them carefully - with a cloth, brush or tongue, depending on your agreement. If he touches you anywhere else, you will receive a penalty point. 
 2. Household chores:  He only does household chores (dusting, cleaning the bathroom, tidying the kitchen) in a collar or with a marking accessory. After each completed task, he must present himself to you and ask for the next task. 
 3. Stand still punishment:  He must remain in a certain position (e.g. hands behind his head, legs slightly apart) while you slowly walk around him, examine him and comment on him. Every wobble leads to a small additional task or light chastisement. 
 4. Writing task &quot;Why I serve you&quot;:  Have him write a handwritten text in which he explains why he wants to serve you, what limits he feels and what he is grateful for. He must read the text to you while kneeling. 
 5. Presentation ritual:  At a set time each day, he must present himself to you in a certain position (kneeling, head lowered, hands behind his back) and wait for your signal - without speaking until you allow it. 
 6. Chastity challenge:  If he wears a Chastity cage or voluntarily abstains from masturbation, he will be given small daily tasks (compliments, massages, acts of service). Points are awarded for obedient days - which you can later convert into rewards or additional games. 
 7. Preparation of the playroom:  He is responsible for ensuring that the room is perfectly prepared: toys arranged, candles or lights set, towels ready, water provided. At the end, you check everything - for every little thing forgotten, a small punishment follows. 
  8. Personal hygiene according to your rules:  Determine how he has to shave, groom or dress when he serves you. The task: He appears before you exactly as you have specified - and accepts your control without comment. 
 9. Gaze reduction:  Give him the task of not looking you directly in the eye for an entire evening, unless you expressly allow it. Any violation will be punished with a predetermined consequence (e.g. a certain number of strokes or additional services). 
 10. Servant on call:  For one evening, his only goal is to anticipate your wishes: Bring a drink, fetch a blanket, give you a massage, without you having to say everything. At the end, you evaluate his attention. 
 11. Ritualized greeting:  Determine how he should greet you when you see each other (e.g. kissing your hand, kneeling, certain words). The task: This greeting must be done correctly and with full devotion every time. 
  12. Controlled speaking:  He may only speak if he asks permission beforehand. His task: To formulate answers briefly, respectfully and clearly. Any violation will earn him an additional command or a small punishment. 
 13. Fantasy diary:  Let him collect his fantasies in a small book over several days - but only fantasies in which he serves you. At the next session, read out selected passages and decide which of them may become reality. 
  14. Dressing service:  You decide that he assists you with dressing or undressing: Close zippers, adjust stockings, lay out clothes. He must keep a respectful distance and observe your body language closely. 
 15. Exercise in patience and frustration:  He sits or kneels near you while you are doing something else (reading, working on your laptop, talking on the phone). The task: He remains calm, does not impose himself and waits until you turn your attention to him. Small provocations on your part are expressly permitted. 
  16. Praise and humility list:  Have him make a list of ten things he admires about you and ten things he sees as &quot;needing improvement&quot; in himself. This list is the basis for new tasks - and shows you how strongly his devotion is anchored. 
 17. Obedience under time pressure:  Give him a series of small tasks (e.g. fetching water, straightening pillows, bringing you a certain toy) and set a clear time limit. If he fails to do so, a mild punishment or withdrawal of a small reward will follow. 
 18. Night task:  Set a time limit for him to send you a short, honest message before going to bed - about three sentences about how he served you, what he learned and what he is looking forward to tomorrow. If you don&#039;t receive the message, an &quot;educational reminder&quot; awaits the next day. 
 
  Important:  You don&#039;t have to use all the tasks at once. Choose a few, combine them with your favorite practices and gradually increase the intensity. Your slave should feel challenged, but not overwhelmed. 
 Tasks by level: how to increase the intensity 
 Depending on experience and dynamics, you can divide tasks for your slave into different intensity levels. This keeps the game manageable - and you can increase it step by step. 
 Level 1 - gentle everyday tasks &amp;amp; basic obedience 
 
 Light household chores (point 2), presentation ritual (5) and greeting formula (11). 
 Simple controlled speech (12) - only in clear play situations. 
 Small tasks of short duration: e.g. report once a day, kneeling, how his day was. 
 
  Goal:  Routine, basic obedience and a familiar feeling for your roles. 
 Level 2 - intensive service &amp;amp; playful strictness 
 
 Shoe and foot service (1) with clear rules, punishment for standing still (3) and service when dressing (14). 
 Presentation rituals at fixed times (5) and evening service &quot;on call&quot; (10). 
 First elements of chastity challenge (6) or lowering your gaze (9), if it suits you. 
 
  Goal:  Obedience under slight tension - punishments and rewards are used more consciously. 
 Level 3 - deep devotion &amp;amp; structured training 
 
 Regular fantasy diary (13) and praise/duties list (16) as a basis for training tasks. 
 Obedience under time pressure (17) and more complex scenarios in which several tasks are combined. 
 Longer chastity phases (6) or recurring night tasks (18), always with a safeword and clear boundaries. 
 
  Goal: To  consciously deepen your D/s structure - without compromising your everyday life or mental health. 
 Don&#039;t forget communication, safety &amp;amp; aftercare 
 As exciting as tasks are for slaves: The basis always remains  consent, trust and clear communication . Talk openly about what types of tasks really excite him, what motivates him - and what would go too far for him. 
 
 Agree safewords or clear stop signals. 
 Check in regularly: &quot;How does that make you feel?&quot; 
 After intense scenes, take time to cuddle, talk and ground yourselves (aftercare). 
 
 Tasks for slaves can then become a powerful tool to deepen your D/s dynamic: he lives his devotion, you live your leadership - and both enjoy the growing closeness that arises from consciously lived power and voluntary submission. 
 
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                            <updated>2024-01-20T11:30:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is ballbusting? Cruel Reell explains the fetish in the video</title>
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                                            Welcome to the world of ballbusting! This practice is one of the more extreme fetishes, in which the passive partner is kicked in the testicles by the active partner. However, despite the pain, many men find this experience very appealing. In this guide, we will show you what ...
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 Ballbusting is one of the most intense forms of  CBT (Cock and Ball Torture) . Pain, power and devotion merge into an erotic tension that many experience as profound and liberating. If the mere thought of a targeted kick sends a tingling sensation through your stomach and abdomen, you&#039;ve come to the right place. 
 What is ballbusting? 
 Ballbusting  Ballbusting  involves targeted kicks or punches to the testicles - usually by a dominant partner. This may seem extreme to outsiders, but in BDSM contexts, the appeal comes  from complete consent , a deliberate power imbalance and emotional surrender. 
 Many tops find Ballbusting erotic because they take  full control . Subs, on the other hand, enjoy being at their mercy, the intensity and the immediate pain that can send the body into tremors of pleasure in seconds. 
 
  BDSM areas that go well with Ballbusting:  
 
  BDSM fantasies  
  CBT &amp;amp; testicle torture  
  Spanking &amp;amp; spanking games  
 
 
 What does Ballbusting feel like? 
 The effect of a kick in the testicles is unmistakable: sharp, intense, overwhelming. At the same time, the body is flooded with  adrenaline and endorphins . Many subs describe an interplay of pain and comforting warmth, loss of control and deep arousal.  Humiliation  can also be an intensifying factor: a single kick is enough to send you to the floor - and this is exactly what makes the power dynamic so appealing. 
 Extensions &amp;amp; sensual combination options 
 The intensity of Ballbusting can be increased in many ways - not necessarily through more power, but through  aesthetic, psychological and fetish-related elements . 
 
  Shoes &amp;amp; high heels:  particularly popular with shoe and foot fetishists. 
  Bondage:  bound hands increase the feeling of being at the mercy of others. 
  Eye masks:  invisibility increases tension and anticipation. 
  CBT-Toys:  Ballstretcher clamps or weights intensify sensitivity. 
 
 
  Useful additions to the setting:  
 
  Bondage restraints  
  Eye masks  
  Whips &amp;amp; crops  
 
 
 Dangers at Ballbusting - and how to minimize them 
  Ballstretcher kaufen&quot; href=&quot;/ballstretcher/&quot;&amp;gt;     The testicles are extremely sensitive - which is why Ballbusting needs  responsibility, communication and clear boundaries . Shoes with hard or pointed soles in particular increase the risk of injury. 
 
 Always start with  light kicks . 
 Increase slowly - never spontaneously &quot;go all out&quot;. 
 Flat shoes or bare feet are safer for beginners. 
 No Ballbusting for fresh injuries or inflammation. 
 Stop immediately if there is sharp pain, nausea or swelling. 
 
 
  Safe supplements &amp;amp; care:  
 
  CBT-Toys  
  Toy Cleaner  
 
 
 Why Ballbusting is satisfying for both sides 
 Tops are often attracted to  power  - a controlled kick can cause a visible reaction that confirms dominance and influence. Subs, on the other hand, experience the mix of pain, surrender, loss of control and fetish fulfillment. Both sides share an intense, emotional experience that strengthens closeness and trust. 
 Ballbustingcrushing &amp;amp; trampling - clear differences 
 
  Ballbusting:  targeted kicks or blows to the testicles. 
  Ball crushing:  pressure or squeezing of the testicles with a hand, shoe or toy. 
  Crushing:  feet destroy objects - a foot/shoe fetish area. 
  Trampling : the body is stepped on or weighed down. 
 
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 Ballbusting introduce with your own partner 
 Many people hesitate to talk about their fetish. But open communication is key: explain to your partner what excites you, emphasize safety and give her space to express her own boundaries and fantasies. 
 
 Transition via fantasies, stories or videos - instead of directly saying &quot;kick me in the balls&quot;. 
 Describe what exactly excites you: power, pain, submission, visuals. 
 Offer to start slowly and stop at any time. 
 
 
  More inspiration for your dynamic:  
 
  BDSM guide  
  Erotic games  
 
 
 Are you curious about ballbusting? 
 If you want to try Ballbusting, start playfully and with clear agreements. Combine visual stimuli - such as fetish lingerie, boots or high heels - with controlled escalation. 
 
  CBT &amp;amp; Ballbusting: suitable toys  
 
  Stainless steelBallstretcher  
  CBT-Cockstraps  
  Leathercockring  
  Toy Cleaner  
 
 
 Video: Exclusive Ballbusting tips from Cruel Reell 
   Your browser cannot play this video. You can find the video under  this link .   
  Cruel Reell explains Ballbusting and gives tips in the video.  As an experienced dominatrix, she shows you how to start safely, how to choose shoes, how to recognize pain thresholds and how to keep control over intensity. 
 
 Start safely and consciously 
 Suitable footwear for different levels of hardness 
 Pain scales &amp;amp; communication 
 Techniques for precise control 
 
 The video shows you how to design Ballbusting responsibly and yet intensively. 
 Aftercare - the gentle conclusion 
 After an intensive session, the body can still vibrate. Treat yourself to  aftercare : closeness, warmth, water, gentle touches or a short chat afterwards. This makes the experience complete and creates an even stronger bond. 
  Thanks to Cruel Reell for her valuable insights!  
 
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                            <updated>2024-01-20T11:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Tease and Denial - You come when I say so!</title>
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                                            Tease &amp; Denial is a very popular sexual practice that even beginners can try. With Tease &amp; Denial, you can live out a fetish and customize it to your liking. As with most BDSM practices, there is a submissive and a dominant part. The dominant part decides when the other person...
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                 Tease &amp;amp; Denial is a tingling BDSM practice that increases pleasure, sparks the imagination and allows even beginners to get started safely. In this guide, you will learn how to play the game of arousal, control and conscious denial in a sensual, consensual and responsible way. 
 The roles are clear: a dominant partner leads, a submissive partner follows - and the moment of orgasm is solely in the hands of the dominant person. It is precisely this suspended state of closeness, tension and desire that makes Tease &amp;amp; Denial so intense. 
 This is what Tease &amp;amp; Denial is all about 
 With Tease &amp;amp; Denial, you consciously bring your partner to the threshold of orgasm - just to pause there.  Arouse, stop, start again : This game of waves intensifies every sensation, every touch and every look. 
  When the climax seems within reach, you interrupt the game.  You let the body slide down again before lifting it up again. The more often these waves are built up, the more intense the final release becomes. 
 The result? A physical rush that intensely bundles emotions and pleasure. 
   
  Matching categories:   Electrosex  -  CBT &amp;amp; orgasm control  -  Handcuffs &amp;amp; bondage  
 What is teasing? 
 In the context of BDSM, teasing means:  stalling, teasing, arousing expectations - and then breaking them in a controlled manner.  You play with your partner&#039;s hopes that they will come. But the decision is yours alone. 
 Teasing is often associated with  orgasm control : You make it clear that pleasure is a gift - by no means a given. Many combine this game with chastity cages, bondage or rituals. 
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  You decide how much pleasure you grant and how much you deny.  This creates a special mental stimulus that gets under your skin and can captivate you in the long term. 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with short sessions of 10-15 minutes and clarify beforehand how close to orgasm you can play.  Tip for advanced users:  Use Chastity cages or restraints to intensify control.  Tip for experienced users:  Work with rituals, fixed rules and longer periods of chastity to deepen the game emotionally and mentally. 
 How to increase pleasure 
 Tease &amp;amp; Denial thrives on creativity. Anything that builds arousal but doesn&#039;t lead to the end is suitable for your game. 
 
  Surprises:  New lingerie, a change of outfit or an unexpected appearance can trigger a strong surge of arousal. 
  Voyeuristic moments:  Do it to yourself and just let him watch - without letting him touch you. 
  Targeted touching:  Bring him hard to the brink of orgasm - and then stop abruptly. 
  Chastity control:  A cage prevents any secret discharge. 
 
  You can even let him masturbate until the first drop of pleasure  - then stop him, tie him up or put the cage back on. 
 Video: Tease and denial - secrets of pleasure play 
 In the following video, BDSM expert  Nika Macht  explains how to build up arousal, maintain tension and control orgasms. Ideal for anyone who wants to delve deeper into this art. 
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 Orgasm control &amp;amp; frustration with Tease &amp;amp; Denial 
 This BDSM practice is particularly suitable for beginners because it can be increased slowly. Nevertheless,  the  following applies:  withdrawal should never become permanent.  
 If the submissive part is held back too often, it can lead to frustration. Talk to each other openly - the part who is denied should also experience pleasure, excitement and ultimately fulfillment. 
   
 Don&#039;t be afraid of blue balls 
 Strong arousal without discharge can lead to  blue balls  - a brief overstimulation with a slight blue tinge and a feeling of pressure. 
 This sounds dramatic, but is harmless. After an orgasm, the blood flow quickly returns to normal. Some BDSM fans even find this pressure additionally arousing. 
 Tips for all levels - Tease &amp;amp; Denial step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner:  - Observe closeness: How does the body react? - Stops at 70-80% arousal. - Short games, clear safeword.   Level 2 - Advanced:  - Use of restraints, blindfolds, positions. - Repeated waves of arousal. - First chastity phases of 1-2 days.   Level 3 - Experienced:  - Longer chastity phases, rituals, psychological control. - Combined play with CBT, Nippelklemmen or Light Pain. - Deeper mental dominance &amp;amp; emotional guidance. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  - Name roles (Dom/sub). - Clear rules: no touching without permission. - Simple commands: &quot;Hands behind your back&quot;, &quot;Don&#039;t come&quot;.   Level 2 - Advanced:  - Use of chastity devices or bondage. - Scenarios: Teaching, questioning, control. - Longer periods of teasing with breaks.   Level 3 - Experienced:  - Deep power play, emotional guidance, rituals. - Psychological teasing: words, looks, expectations. - Control over time, position, permission &amp;amp; discharge. 
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                            <updated>2024-01-20T07:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is forced feminization?</title>
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                                            The term forced feminization refers to the gradual transformation of a male slave into a female appearance and habitus by a dominatrix or master. Slaves who are subjected to forced feminization are generally called sissies or maids.
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 The term  forced feminization  refers to the gradual transformation of a male slave into a female appearance and habitus by a dominatrix or master. Slaves who are subjected to forced feminization are generally called sissies or maids. 
 Forced feminization a role play? 
 Even if the term clearly evokes other connotations, it is very often the slave&#039;s desire to be subjected to such a procedure. The involuntary aspect of forced feminization is more akin to role-playing. 
 In most cases, the slaves in such games already have a strong urge to wear female clothing, high heels and female lingerie and can also be classified as lingerie wearers or transvestites. 
 Transformation - TV education 
 Men often want to take on the female role, especially in sexual terms, without permanently denying their actual life and their actual gender. 
 [Emotion emotion_id=&quot;528&quot; ]    The actions involved in forced feminization can be extremely creative and oriented towards the wishes and ideas of those involved. Starting with the quickly visible changes such as wearing female underwear, styling the hair and applying make-up to the slave. 
 Desire and openness 
 Depending on the slave&#039;s wishes and openness, he may be ordered to seek advice in drugstores and other places in order to further intensify the humiliating effect. In addition, the wearing of high heels often poses further problems for many men. 
 Sexual component 
 Depending on the context, a direct sexual component can also be used, in which the man in his role as a woman is taken by the dominatrix using a strapon anal, for example, and thus made submissive. 
 Video by Nika Macht! 
 In the video on forced feminization,  Nika Macht , known from nika-macht.com, gives advice, shares her experiences and gives tips on this special BDSM practice. The video aims to give a deep insight into the world of forced feminization and covers important aspects such as the psychological dynamics, role play and the inclusion of feminizing elements in BDSM scenarios. 
   Your browser cannot play this video.  In the video on forced feminization, Nika Macht, known from nika-macht.com, gives advice, shares her experiences and gives tips on this particular BDSM practice. You can access it at  link address .   
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                            <updated>2024-01-11T03:15:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">CFNM: Everything you need to know about this fetish</title>
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                                            Welcome to the world of CFNM - an erotic fetish in which a clothed woman dominates a naked man. In this guide you will learn what CFNM is, how it works and how you can organize your own CFNM parties. You&#039;ll see that CFNM can be an exciting and fulfilling experience, as long as...
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                 CFNM -  Clothed Female, Naked Male  - is an erotic power play that captures the imagination of many people. A clothed woman encounters a naked man who deliberately exposes himself and surrenders. This setting creates tension, shame, dominance and a vibrant feeling of control. In this guide, you will find out how CFNM works, what variations there are and how you can make such games safe, respectful and intense. 
 What is CFNM and how does it work? 
 CFNM describes a situation in which women remain clothed while the man is naked - often deliberately, voluntarily and within a playful power differential. The attraction arises from contrasts: the clothed woman&#039;s protection and control meet the naked man&#039;s vulnerability and openness. Whether as a fantasy, role play or real scenario - the focus is always on consensuality, communication and clear boundaries. 
 How is CFNM lived out? 
 CFNM can be gentle, humorous, provocative or very dominant. Some couples use it purely as a power game, others combine it with erotic acts, voyeurism or classic BDSM elements. At CFNM parties, men are often present naked, while women are observers, players or dominant players. None of this is compulsory - CFNM is as flexible as you want it to be. 
  Internal categories - suitable additions:   Masks &amp;amp; Roleplay   CBT &amp;amp; toys for him   Spanking accessories  
 Why do people like CFNM? 
 The pleasure of the power imbalance, shame, attention, the erotic tension between watching and being watched - all this makes CFNM so special. For dominant women, it offers a feeling of control and direction. For submissive men, it creates a moment of perceived defencelessness that can be both pleasurable and liberating. Many also appreciate experimenting with roles that deviate from everyday life. 
 Is CFNM dangerous? 
 CFNM is safe if it is based on clear consent. A brief discussion in advance about expectations, boundaries and taboos creates trust and avoids misunderstandings. Psychological safety is just as important as physical safety: shame can be pleasurable, but never actually hurtful. If someone feels uncomfortable, stop immediately. 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with small situations - such as undressing together while the woman stays dressed.    Tip for advanced players:  Try out fixed roles, easy tasks or commands and observe how the dynamic changes.    Tip for experienced players:  Incorporate additional elements such as bondage, CBT or public (discreet!) moments in a private setting. 
 How do you find CFNM parties or players? 
 There are CFNM events in many fetish communities. It is important to pay attention to seriousness, rules and clearly communicated game frameworks. If you prefer to play privately, you can develop CFNM slowly with a partner - a few role impulses are often enough to bring the power game to life. 
 Examples of CFNM scenarios 
  Use:  The man serves as an object of pleasure - but does not touch himself. Women decide the pace, type of stimulation and limits.   Humiliation:  The man deliberately shows himself to be vulnerable, undresses and performs certain acts in front of the women - always voluntarily.   The servant:  As a pleasure or household slave, he takes on tasks, may wear a Chastity cage and experiences control on both a physical and psychological level. 
 There are also psychological variations such as verbal dominance, playful laughter or voyeurism. What remains important: nothing happens non-consensually, never across boundaries. 
 CFNM and fetish compatibility 
 CFNM can be ideally combined with role play (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. teacher/student, boss/employee), voyeurism, cuckolding or BDSM elements such as bondage and spanking. Whatever gives everyone involved pleasure is allowed - eroticism thrives on shared discovery. 
 Always think about safety 
 Even if CFNM seems harmless, power games require responsibility. Discuss mental boundaries, use safewords and take breaks. Trust is the basis - the dominant woman leads, but with awareness of the man&#039;s feelings. Fear must never become part of the game. 
 Tips for all levels - CFNM step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner: 
 
 Small setting: woman remains dressed, man undresses upper body only. 
 First easy commands such as standing, kneeling, putting your hands behind your back. 
 Calm atmosphere, no pressure, no mockery. 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Full nudity of the man while the woman decides what happens. 
 Small tasks, services or presentations. 
 Optional: Masks, light bondage or verbal domination. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Complex role play with rituals or longer sessions. 
 Combination with CBT, spanking, chastity or voyeurism. 
 Psychological depth through controlled moments of shame and power. 
 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - Beginner: 
 
 Simple scenario: the woman enters the room first, the man waits naked. 
 Clear rules such as &quot;no touching&quot;, &quot;only speak when asked&quot;. 
 Agree on a safeword. 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced: 
 
 Define roles (dominatrix, boss, queen). 
 Have services performed: Massage, bring drinks, kneel. 
 Small power gestures such as forbidding or demanding eye contact. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced: 
 
 Rituals, longer scenes, structured task lists. 
 Combination with symbolic submission: Chastity cage, collar. 
 Psychological intensification via language, posture and spatial staging. 
 
 
 Why is CFNM so popular? 
 Because it is a game with looks, roles and emotions. It creates a special form of closeness and pleasure that can be shameful, attractive, intimate and powerful at the same time. CFNM is a gateway to fantasies that would otherwise remain hidden - and it can revitalize a relationship enormously. 
 Conclusion 
 CFNM is an erotic power game full of depth and variation. Whether gently playful or dominant BDSM style: clear agreements, mutual respect and the desire to explore together are always important. If this basis is in place, CFNM can become an intense experience that excites both mind and body. 
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                            <updated>2023-01-30T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Topping in BDSM: Tips and tricks for a successful start</title>
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                                            Topping in BDSM means taking the dominant role in a scene. It&#039;s an exciting and fulfilling experience, but it can also be a bit scary when you first start out. In this blog post, we&#039;ll discuss tips and tricks to help you get started in the world of topping.
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                 Topping in BDSM means taking the dominant role in a scene. It&#039;s an exciting and fulfilling experience, but it can also be a bit scary when you first start out. In this blog post, we&#039;ll discuss tips and tricks to help you get started in the world of topping. 
 What is topping in BDSM? 
 Topping in BDSM is taking the dominant role in a scene. It means being in control and determining the activities and practices that take place during the scene. It&#039;s important to note that topping doesn&#039;t necessarily mean doing violence or inflicting pain. It is about exercising power and controlling the experience. 
 What do you need to topple? 
 To topping successfully, you need a certain amount of confidence and leadership skills. It is also important that you are familiar with the different practices and techniques used in BDSM. It&#039;s important to always be sensitive to your partner&#039;s needs and boundaries, and to make sure that the scene is enjoyable for both parties. 
 Communication is the key 
 Open and honest communication is key to a successful topping experience. Before you begin a scene, make clear understandings and make sure you understand your partner&#039;s needs and boundaries. During the scene, pay attention to your partner&#039;s signals and be ready to adjust activities at any time if necessary. 
 Get to know your partner&#039;s needs Everyone has different needs and fantasies in BDSM, and it is important to know your partner&#039;s needs before you begin a scene. It is also important to learn how to read and respond to your partner&#039;s signals. This can be achieved through open communication and trying different practices. 
 Experiment with different practices 
 There are many different practices in BDSM, from bondage and discipline to petplay and fetishes. It is important that you are familiar with different practices and willing to try new things. This way you can find out what works best for you and your partner. 
 Examples of topping scenes 
 
 Bondage: The Top ties up the Bottom and is in control of the Bottom&#039;s movements and activities. 
 Discipline: the Top punishes the Bottom for certain behaviors or rule violations. 
 Petplay: The Top takes the role of the animal and the Bottom takes the role of the dog or horse. 
 Fetishes: The Top fulfills the fetishes of the Bottom and has control over the practices and activities. 
 
 Another important element in topping in BDSM is the agreement of safewords. A safeword is a word or phrase agreed upon by the people involved to indicate that the current activity should be stopped. 
 This may be because of discomfort or pain. It is important that both parties know the safeword and make sure it is used when necessary. 
 In conclusion, it is important to emphasize that topping in BDSM is a very personal experience and that everyone must find their own way to be successful. 
 There is no right or wrong as long as you stick to the basic rules of safety and respect and take into account your partner&#039;s needs. The important thing is to always be open to feedback and communication and to create the best possible experience together. 
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                            <updated>2023-01-25T06:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">LARP in BDSM: What you need to know</title>
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                                            LARP (Live Action Role Play) is a form of role play in which participants express their roles through costumes, props and re-enacting scenes. It is often used in BDSM to act out various scenarios and fantasies that one would otherwise not be able to live out in reality.
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                 What is LARP in BDSM? 
 LARP (Live Action Role Play) is a form of role play in which participants express their roles through costumes, props and re-enacting scenes. It is often used in BDSM to act out various scenarios and fantasies that you would otherwise not be able to act out in reality. 
 What are the advantages of LARP in BDSM? 
 LARP in BDSM provides the opportunity to live out various fantasies and scenarios that one would otherwise not be able to live out in reality. It also allows for a kind of &quot;safety&quot; through separation from reality and the ability to take off the role at any time. It can also help improve communication and understanding of your partner&#039;s needs and limitations. 
 What are the risks of LARP in BDSM? 
 Although LARP in BDSM can be considered enjoyable for some people, there are also risks that come along with it. These include: 
 
 An increased risk of injury, as participants often use weapons or other props 
 An increased risk for psychological problems when the separation between fantasy and reality is not clear 
 An increased risk for misunderstandings and uncomfortable situations when communication and agreements are not clear 
 
 How to safely practice LARP in BDSM 
 If you decide to try LARP in BDSM, there are some steps you can take to stay safe: 
 
 Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and boundaries 
 Be aware of the rules and safety measures of the event or group you are participating in 
 Always use safe practices and be aware of the safety of other participants 
 Make sure you always have someone close by that you trust and who is looking out for you 
 Stick to the agreed rules and arrangements 
 Listen to your body and gut feelings. If something doesn&#039;t feel right, stop and seek help if needed 
 Make sure you have enough time after the event to rest and take care of your mental and emotional processing.
 
 
 
 It is important to stress that LARP in BDSM is not for everyone and that it is important to know your limits and needs and be able to communicate them. Also, you should always feel safe and listen to your gut when it comes to the subject. 
It is also important to be aware of the risks and possible dangers and to do enough research before getting involved in LARP in BDSM. 
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 A historical scenario: a LARP event where participants dress in historical costumes and take on roles from different historical eras, such as the Middle Ages or the Victorian Era. Participants could play roles such as knights, kings, queens, or servants, and recreate scenarios such as intrigue, power struggles, and seduction. 
 
 
 A Fantasy Scenario: A LARP event where participants dress in fantasy costumes and take on roles from different fantasy worlds, such as in a world of magic and dragons or elves. Participants could play roles such as wizards, warriors, queens or elves and recreate scenarios such as adventures, battles and intrigue. 
 
 
 A Prison Scenario: A LARP event where participants dress in prison uniforms and take on roles as prison inmates or guards. Participants could re-enact scenarios such as escape attempts, interrogations, and power struggles. There could also be rules for punishments and punishments carried out within safe word and collusion. 
 
  
 
 
 
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                            <updated>2023-01-24T19:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Fearplay in BDSM - A Guidebook</title>
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                                            You may have heard of Fearplay in the context of BDSM, but don&#039;t know exactly what it means and how it fits into the scene? In this guide we will look into exactly what it means and explain to you what Fearplay means in BDSM and how it can be practiced safely and ethically.
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                 You may have heard of Fearplay in the context of BDSM, but don&#039;t know exactly what it means and how it fits into the scene? In this guide, we&#039;ll look into exactly what it means and explain to you what Fearplay means in BDSM and how it can be practiced safely and ethically. 
 What is Fearplay? 
 Fearplay refers to practices in BDSM where fear, terror or insecurity play a role. This can take place in both role-play and real-life situations, and can be enjoyed by both dominants and submissives. 
 Examples of Fearplay practices may include: 
 
 Role-playing games with horror themes such as kidnapping or crime 
 Use of objects such as knives or weapons in a safe and controlled environment 
 Psychological techniques such as interrogation or threats
 It is important to emphasize that fearplay is not intended to cause actual fear or harm, but rather to create the feeling of fear in order to achieve heightened arousal or a more intense sense of submission. 
 How does one safely and ethically engage in Fearplay? 
 As with any form of BDSM, it is important to act safely and ethically. Here are some tips on how to safely and ethically handle Fearplay: 
 
 
 Set clear boundaries: Before you begin Fearplay, set clear boundaries and make sure everyone involved is in agreement. 
 
 
 Communicate during Fearplay: While practicing Fearplay, you should communicate constantly and make sure that everyone involved is still in a safe zone and that no one is actually experiencing fear or harm. 
 
 Use a safe word: A safe word is a code word that is agreed upon to indicate that the Fearplay should be stopped immediately. It is important that all parties know the safe word and use it if necessary.
 
 
 Use only safe practices: it is important to ensure that all practices used during Fearplay are safe and that all participants can control them. Do not use actual weapons or other items that can cause actual harm. 
 
 
 Respect the boundaries of others: Always respect the boundaries of others and stop when someone says he or she does not want to continue. 
 
 
 Conclusion 
 Fearplay is a form of BDSM that involves fear, terror, or insecurity. It is important to act safely and ethically by setting clear boundaries, communicating, using safe word, and using only safe practices. Always respect others&#039; boundaries and stop when someone says he or she doesn&#039;t want to continue. 
 
 
 
 
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                            <updated>2023-01-24T14:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Being a wank slave: rules and humiliations in BDSM</title>
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                                            Experience a world of pleasure and pain in BDSM as a wanking slave. Your mistress decides when and how you are allowed to jerk off, what types of play you will experience and what humiliations await you. Find out everything about the rules, types of play and humiliation in BDS...
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                 As a wanking slave, you are not allowed to lay hands on your best piece whenever and wherever you want. You live a life in which someone else decides when you are allowed to cum. As a wanking slave, you may only jerk off with your mistress&#039;s permission. If you don&#039;t follow her rules, you will be punished! 
 A game between power and humiliation 
   As a wanking slave, you are part of a power game. Of course, in this case you are not the powerful part, but the one who is being ruled over. Among other things, you will be humiliated. The dominatrix will use various means to do this. She can torture you with painful stimuli or humiliate you with her words. 
 There are various play methods with which you can experience wonderful wanking moments. Or not! If your mistress says no, you certainly won&#039;t be able to conjure up an orgasm. This type of sex play is of course part of the BDSM scene. It can be very intense. 
 Something for the eye 
 Of course, your mistress / dominatrix will also offer you a little something. After all, you should have a nice incentive to get you started. The dominatrix wears appropriate clothing, which can consist of wet-look clothing, latex, leather or rubber. But sexy lingerie made of soft flowing fabric can also be very stimulating.    The mistress sits in front of you in various poses, perhaps even playing with herself a little. She alone decides what happens. You can either just look, maybe touch, maybe jerk off and come. You may even be allowed to have sex. 
 Types of play for wanking slaves 
 Tease &amp;amp; denial is a very popular type of play. The wanking slave is made really hot, but then kept chaste. You might even get played with a little, she takes your thing in her hand, makes it really hard and then just goes shopping. And don&#039;t you dare go on without her!     Ruined orgasm  is a fun way to play for very mean dominas. She gives you permission to jerk off and you are allowed to come. But just before you come, you have to take your fingers off your cock. You cum, but there is no release. You are still horny, a disappointing orgasm without any satisfaction has been bestowed upon you.     CBT Games , i.e. cock and testicle torture, can also be a method of play. As a wanking slave, your testicles can be weighted down or even squeezed. Anything that causes pain to the penis and balls is used. This is often used as a punishment if you have not obeyed.     Chastity  is also a popular method of making the wanking slave suffer. In this case, wanking is prohibited for a certain period of time. So that the mistress can be sure that you comply, she puts your penis in a Chastity cage or puts a chastity belt on you.     Stop and go  is also a lot of fun. Because here you can jerk off on the cue &quot;Go&quot;. If the lady says &quot;Stop&quot;, you have to stop immediately. This goes on for the whole wanking session. This gives you the opportunity to jerk off for a particularly long time.     The countdown  is a very difficult type of game. Not for the dominant partner, but for you as a wanking slave. The lady gives you a countdown. For example, she counts down from 10 to 0. At 10, you start to jerk off. At 0 you have to cum. If you fail to do so, you will be punished.     Men with particularly small cocks  can enjoy a special humiliation when jerking off, they will be laughed at and insulted by the ladies. The dominatrix will humiliate you so that you are really ashamed of your miniature cock. 
 Now try to orgasm while you&#039;re massaging your minidick and she asks you what you&#039;re looking for because there&#039;s nothing there. 
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                            <updated>2023-01-10T07:00:00+01:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text">Clinic sex - the game with white eroticism</title>
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                                            Welcome to the secret world of white eroticism! Clinic sex or doctor games are an exciting role-playing game between doctor and patient that is becoming increasingly popular, and not just in the BDSM sector. Whether gentle examinations or realistic simulations - white eroticis...
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                  Clinic sex  - so-called  white eroticism  - combines medical aesthetics, clear power roles and intense sensuality to create a unique BDSM role-playing game. The sober, sterile atmosphere meets the tingling sensation of devotion, trust and controlled vulnerability. A deliberately staged power imbalance is created between  doctor and patient , which many people find deeply erotic. 
 In this guide, you will find out how diverse clinic sex can be - from gentle examinations to realistically staged simulations - and how you can harmoniously combine fantasy and safety. 
 From gentle examinations to realistic simulations 
 People experience white eroticism very differently. Some love the setting above all: latex gloves, cool metal instruments, the clacking of a stethoscope. Others seek the intense  simulation of real medical treatments  and enjoy the thrill of being &quot;examined&quot; or &quot;treated&quot;. 
 The more realistic the scenes become, the more experience the active role-players need -  and the more important safety becomes . Not every fantasy can be realized without danger. But with knowledge, clear agreements and a sense of responsibility, white eroticism can become an incredibly intense part of your BDSM life. 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with simple examinations such as listening, taking a temperature or visual diagnoses. No real interventions!  Tip for advanced players:  Use a speculum, examination table, medical clothing and realistic scenarios - but still without risky practices.  Tip for experienced players:  If you simulate invasive games, set strict limits beforehand, work sterile and discuss emergency termination rules. 
 Men and women are equally active 
 Clinic sex is not a gendered role play. Women and men enjoy both positions equally: Some love the dominance and competence of the medical role, others like to indulge in examination, control and intimacy. 
   
 Popular practices in white eroticism 
 Many examinations have an erotic tension all of their own. Popular examples include 
 
  Listening with a stethoscope  - the closeness, the warm breath, the calm command to &quot;take a deep breath&quot;. 
  Rectal temperature measurement  - a classic fantasy that combines submission and slight shame. 
  Gynecological or proctological examinations  - intense trust, exposed positions and consciously acted vulnerability. 
 
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 Medical instruments such as  speculums, enemas, catheters  and other tools are also used to make the role play seem more realistic. But be careful: not every object is safe! Absolute hygiene applies to everything that is inserted into the body. 
  Discover suitable BDSM categories:   BDSM &amp;amp; Bondage  -  Clinic games &amp;amp; white eroticism  -  Fetish worlds  
 Doctor games to the limit 
 Some fans of clinic sex make their surroundings particularly realistic: examination tables, lamps, gowns, gloves and instruments make the role play more intense. Gynecological chairs or medical restraints are often used. 
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  However, risky practices such as urethral dilatation or catheterization are not without danger.  They require medical knowledge, sterile conditions and clear boundaries. Simulated operations or infusions also involve risks if they are not professionally prepared. 
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 Tips for all levels - clinic sex step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  - Start with clothing (gown, fishnet stockings, latex gloves). - Use unencumbered practices such as listening, light in the eyes, feeling the pulse. - Introduce a safeword and talk about taboo zones beforehand.   Level 2 - Advanced:  - Use specula, lights, simple restraints, realistic dialog. - Incorporate rituals: Admission sheet, examination steps, orders. - Pay attention to sterile disposables and clear communication.   Level 3 - Experienced:  - Simulates more complex procedures, but never without expertise. - Uses medical furniture for realistic positions. - Agrees on emergency stops, hygiene standards and aftercare. 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  1. Doctor greets patient formally. 2. Medical history: &quot;What brings you to me?&quot; 3. First examination: stethoscope, reflex hammer, visual diagnosis. 4conclusion: gentle touch, suggestion of further examinations.   Level 2 - Advanced:  1. Patient is undressed or brought into position. 2. Use of real instruments (speculum, thermometer). 3. Commands &amp;amp; protocols: &quot;Remain calm. Breathe deeply.&quot; 4. Reward or consequences - depending on the dynamics.   Level 3 - Experienced:  1. Complex scenario (surgical preparation, emergency admission). 2. Controlled psychological elements (thrill, tension). 3. Physical restraints or simulated interventions. 4. Intensive aftercare ritual for emotional compensation. 
 Risks, safety &amp;amp; consensuality 
 Clinic sex can be incredibly intense - but it thrives on clear responsibility. Hygienic conditions, sterile tools, safe and code words and a basic understanding of anatomy are essential. 
 Some fantasies are better left in your head. Be aware of where your boundaries lie - and where those of your partner lie. Pleasure comes from trust, not risk. 
 If you keep these points in mind, a wide, fascinating world of white eroticism will be open to you. 
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                            <updated>2022-12-02T15:30:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Was ist Petplay?</title>
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                                            Es gibt verschiedene sexuelle Spielarten, welche bei einem großen Teil der Menschen auf Ablehnung stoßen, obwohl diese weder sonderlich ausgefallen noch schädlich für andere sind. Hierzu gehört leider auch ...
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                 There are different types of sexual play, which meet with rejection from a large part of the people, although these are neither particularly unusual nor harmful to others. Unfortunately, this also includes the so-called petplay, which is assigned by many people to the BD   SM area    is assigned. 
  However, this type of sexuality has many followers  who feel comfortable with their fetish and their sexual games and know how to live out this sexual type of play in many different ways. In addition, this fetish for the &amp;nbsp;  petplay is very often connected with a fetish for leather or latex and rubber and  can be lived out simultaneously with this. 
 But what is petplay at all? 
 Petplay: A definition 
 Unlike the name suggests, real animals play no role whatsoever in this type of sexual play. Instead, people slip into the roles of the animals and take over their tasks. Equipped with matching masks and other accessories, these people enjoy their new role and often take their cue from active play partners who take on the role of masters and owners. 
 The type of animal depends heavily on one&#039;s own fetish and desires. Especially popular are pets such as dogs (Dog Play), horses (Pony Girl), cats, but also farm animals such as pigs can be found again and again among the chosen animals. 
 In&amp;nbsp;pet play, most participants are less concerned with pure sexual gratification than with the role play itself and the clearly perceptible power imbalance between master and animal. 
   
 Both women and men love the passive role as animal or are confronted with a pet as master or mistress. 
 The&amp;nbsp;Petplay becomes only by the equipment really satisfying 
 Many petplayers not only love to change their own behavior, but also transform themselves visually into the desired animals. Animal masks and corresponding latex suits help here, as do knee pads and appropriate gloves, which make human interaction practically impossible. 
 Also, many pet players use butplugs with matching animal tail applications to make the game even more realistic and also erotically titillating. 
 Petplay can be considered both sexual and asexual 
 Not every pet player associates pet play with a direct erotic component. While lust is aroused and acted out in parts by imitating the animal, the sexual component does not have to be the primary focus. 
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 Many people simply enjoy escaping from everyday life through role play and completely surrendering to the wishes and demands of their master or mistress within a protected space. 
 Thus, petplay can be lived out in normal relationships as well as in the area of venal love. If petplay is evaluated exclusively in terms of its sexual stimulation, it is primarily the strong power imbalance between the play partners that constitutes the attraction. 
   
 In such a game, the &quot;animal&quot; no longer has any decision-making power, is  punished  by the active masters and ladies  for wrong behavior , and thus must operate within a very tight corset of rules with often harsh penalties. For this reason, many active petplayers see themselves more in the masochistic role and live it out in their petplay. 
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                            <updated>2022-11-01T19:00:00+01:00</updated>
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        <entry>
            <title type="text"> With yiffing and furry it will be animal good!</title>
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                                             Yiffing and furry almost sounds like some cryptic language. But it is just plain English. Furry means furry, hairy, covered with fur. The definition of yiffing is actually a bit more interesting to describe, because it originally stands for the mating sound of the arctic fox....
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                 Yiffing and furry almost sounds like some cryptic language. But it is just plain English. Furry means furry, hairy, covered with fur. The definition of yiffing is actually a bit more interesting to describe, because it originally stands for the mating sound of the arctic fox. 
 In the meantime, however, it actually refers to the sounds made by all animals during mating. You see, here comes now nevertheless still something sexual in addition! It will be animal good! 
 What is a Furry? 
 A Furry is a cartoon animal that is humanized. Furries are anthropomorphic animals. Very good examples are Roger Rabbit, Bugs Bunny or Mickey Mouse. Thanks to these examples, everyone should now know the answer to the question, &quot;what are furries?&quot;.   Fans of these characters also call themselves furries or furs. It is a constantly growing subculture, which have preferences for these anthropomorphic little animals. However, there are still big differences in this scene. Some simply find the drawings beautiful and like to look at comics. Many also learn to draw the figures themselves and show their skills in various Furry communities.     However, if you look for furry communities on the Internet, you will quickly come across pages of a special kind. There is also the sexual preference for Furrys. If you search for furry sex comics on the Internet, you will see great sex videos with corresponding animals. You will get similar results if you type yiff comics. 
 Meaning of Yiffing 
 Yiffing has already been briefly described above. Yiff refers to the sexual apparatus of the arctic fox. When we talk about yiffing or furry yiff, we are talking about the sexual intercourse of two furries, i.e. two anthropomorphic animals.   However, yiffing can also mean a fantasy you have while masturbating. Just as well, it can also describe an online role-playing game with a corresponding plot.    Many Furry fans live out their sexual Yiffing fantasies at parties. A Yiff party is very exciting and highly erotic, if the preference for Furries exists. This is because it is all about pet play, so to speak. The participants dress up in fur or decorate themselves with ears, paws or even tails. 
 Everyone can represent the animal, which he always wanted to be. Nevertheless, the clothes themselves are always secondary, because at the Yiff Party a lot happens in the head. Furry Sex is always different, new and imaginative. 
 Furry Sex Games and BDSM 
 Some live out Furry Sex Games only in the form of online games, others enjoy this special variety in different BDSM acts. Furry BDSM again offers a lot of scope for power and submission. Here we are talking about the popular Pet Play. For example, the Furry becomes a submitting puppy, kitten or foal. The dominant part educates his pet with appropriate punishments by a hard hand, cane or similar. 
 Comics, porn and online party 
 Furry and Yiff... a perfect opportunity for comics, porn and a huge online party!     The Internet offers you a wide range of different comics, all about furries. Here we are not talking about cartoons with Mickey Mouse, but about comics aimed at an adult community. They can be comics with action-packed content or romantic love stories. And then there&#039;s the porn!     Furry Yiff porn is all the rage. It can be pure comics, but also computer animated furries with real people. Moreover, there is also a big preference for gay yiff in this scene. Many porn videos have homosexual acts between the anthropomorphic animals. However, there doesn&#039;t even have to be a specific gender designation.     If you like role-playing games, you will love Furry Yiff games! Here you can create your own Furry character and experience many adventures. In the game world you will meet many like-minded people. Chats and individual actions are possible, depending on which online game you play, sexual actions may also occur in the game. 
 Accept the differences 
 It is important that you accept the differences. The topic of Furry is very broad. Not every Furry fan has a sexual preference or inclination towards the Furries. For many fans, it&#039;s simply a form of art, a particular way of drawing. Others may just be comic fans and like the stories between the anthropomorphic animals.     Then there are people who actually fall in love with a Furry. They desire the sexual act and life together with their chosen Furry, but would never think of sex parties or anything like that. Suggestions to participate in petplay or other Furry games would deeply offend this person. In his mind, he wants to start family and live a normal life with Furry as his partner.     And then the kinksters come into play. This is about sexual pleasure, about acting out animal urges. It is allowed to get wild, in every form and possibility.     Everything mentioned has its beautiful advantages and should be accepted by everyone as it is. 
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                            <updated>2022-02-14T08:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Primal Prey - Catch for adults</title>
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                                             Playing catch when you&#039;re already an adult? Yes it can be fun, especially if it is Primal Prey. Because this is the adult game of tag. It&#039;s suitable for those who are a bit kinky and want to get back to the original instincts. Speed, overpowering, rawness and submission are a...
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                 Playing catch when you&#039;re already an adult? Yes it can be fun, especially if it is Primal Prey. Because this is the adult game of tag. It&#039;s suitable for those who are a bit kinky and want to get back to the original instincts. Speed, overpowering, rawness and submission are always present in Primal Prey. 
 Primal Play what is it? 
   Primal Prey or Primal Play is a kind of role-playing game.  It can also be called Primal Kink, because it deviates from the usual sexual way. However, this is not entirely true if you look at the definition of Primal Prey. Primal means origin and Prey means prey. 
 So the Primal Play definition would be to hunt a prey in an original way.  In the past, men would hunt their women, capture them, subdue them, and then take them.  Sex in its primal way, to pursue one&#039;s urges. 
 It used to be for fun, as well as primarily just for reproduction.   Nowadays, a fun, erotic game is made from the original instinct, which belongs to the BDSM area. 
 Game without fixed rules 
 Primal Prey is a game without fixed rules. You can perform it almost vanilla style, if it&#039;s enough for you. In that case, the &quot;prey&quot; is driven into the bedroom in a very naughty playful way and then the normal lovemaking process follows. But it also works in a BDSM way. Primal BDSM can be varied at will. 
 From chasing to complete overpowering, many erotic scenes can be incorporated. Step by step, the game can be planned in advance and always be redesigned.    It can also be held without a game plan. Just get started and see how it goes. Primal Play BDSM on really hardcore, can be combined with a wonderful Rapeplay. In that case, you don&#039;t wait for the prey to surrender and submit voluntarily. 
 The Hunter 
 The hunter in BDSM Primal Play has the dominant role. He or she chases the &quot;prey&quot;, catches it and subdues it. Depending on the resistance, it can be a quick number or it can drag on, but without becoming boring. 
 The hunter must subdue his victim, hold it until the desired goal is reached. Depending on the style of play, appropriate tools can also be used. Bondage sets are well received, bondage ropes, handcuffs, as well as floggers and crops. 
 The Prey 
 The Prey is the submissive role. Well, submissive is not always true, at least not from the beginning. At the beginning the Prey is still fighting, lets himself be hunted and maybe even mocks the hunter. If he is caught, he fights. Things like hair pulling, punching, kicking or even the use of fingernails and teeth may be allowed. Sooner or later, however, the Prey loses and has to submit. 
 Important in Primal BDSM Play 
 Primal Prey is a fine thing if all participants agree on how far they want to go. Since this role play can quickly get out of hand, safewords are indispensable! It must be agreed upon beforehand at which word the complete game will be stopped. Because the hunt and the oppression can also become Rape Play. However, the Prey does not have to want this and can put an end to the whole thing in case of discomfort.     Another point is the use of force. Here applies to both parts, causing pain is allowed, but only to a certain extent. Do not underestimate your physical strength and be careful not to seriously injure anyone. It is a game and should always remain so. 
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                            <updated>2022-02-12T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text"> What is CMNF?</title>
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                                            CMNF is not just about any letters. The letters are significant. It means Clothed Man, Naked Female. Clothed man, naked woman. It is a special love game that requires nothing more than yourselves.
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                 CMNF is not just about any letters. The letters are significant. It means Clothed  Male Naked Female . In German: clothed male, naked female. It is a special love game that requires nothing but yourselves. 
 What is CMNF? 
 CMNF is still a fairly new sex trend. It is a fetish, but it does  not necessarily  have to be attributed to  the BDSM scene . Of course there are also in the hardcore area possibilities to live out this trend, but it can also be pushed well still in the vanilla rail.    Clothed man, naked woman. Sounds a bit strange at first, if you think of the sex act directly. How should that work, if he still has his pants on? Well, the sex itself is secondary in this case. 
 It&#039;s more about the delightful play here.  It can be considered foreplay . But it can also be taken to the point where the man can&#039;t bring himself to undress. It can be about simple eroticism, but it can also be a power play. 
 Clothed Male Naked Female as a power play 
 When CMNF is played out as a power game, there is already a bit of SM behind it. The clothed part is usually the powerful part. He shows his dominance by being able to control the naked body of the woman. 
 The naked lady plays a subordinate role, shows submissiveness and vulnerability. To what extent the scenario is then extended is up to each couple. CMNF can be combined well with other fetishes. So bondage, role-playing games and Co could fit to it. Also with the Cuckolding CMNF is integrated with pleasure with. 
 CMNF to refresh your sex life 
 If you don&#039;t like it that fancy, you can also just use CMNF to freshen up your routine sex life a bit. Just the sight of you standing naked in front of your partner will speak for itself. You can make a light power game out of it, which can also be played the other way around. 
 You are naked, but he is not allowed to touch you and has to stay dressed. This way you can make him really hot before he may finally drop his clothes. On the other hand, he may simply spoil you in a wonderful way, without having to come directly to the train himself. So he keeps his pants on!    You can vary the game around being dressed or naked, shape it anew every time and experience exciting eroticism. It does not always have to be a power game, both partners can meet on the same level, even if one of them is dressed. It also does not always have to be the woman of the naked part. It goes just as well the other way around. This is then called CFNM (clothed female, naked man). 
 CMNF Party 
 Real CMNF parties are also very popular. Often these are lived out in upscale class. While the men show their dominance in fancy clothes, they are welcomed, courted, served by attractive, naked or lingerie-clad women.   Of course, this can also be done in a relaxed club atmosphere. 
 A lot of dancing, a lot of eroticism and at best even fancy sex. At CMNF parties, it is always decided in advance how far it is allowed to go and what is taboo. Everyone who visits a corresponding party should inform themselves about the rules that prevail there, so as not to expect too much or too little. 
 A sex trend that is suitable for everyone 
 CMNF is a trend-setting sex practice that is really suitable for everyone. Those who don&#039;t like anything fancy will love it! Because there is nothing fancy or too intense about it per se. Before it goes to the point, is ultimately mostly one already undressed and the other still has something on. Feel free to expand on this a bit. It is a sex practice suitable for beginners, which can be expanded at will and combined with fetishes. 
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                            <updated>2022-02-08T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text"> The ponygirl - a variety of BDSM with many facets</title>
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                                            In the BDSM segment, there are many types of play that seem unusual at first glance. Ponygirls are also very popular in the BDSM scene. But what are ponygirls and what makes this type of play so appealing? We&#039;ll show you why you should definitely pay attention to ponygirls.
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                 In the BDSM segment, there are many types of play that seem unusual at first glance - and are fascinating for this very reason. One of these is  ponygirl role play : a mixture of elegant staging, clear dominance, playful dressage and a very physical presence. If you enjoy role play, costumes and rituals, it&#039;s worth paying attention to this fetish. 
 What is a ponygirl anyway? 
  A ponygirl is a person - often a woman - who dresses up as a &#039;pony&#039; as part of a BDSM game  and moves and behaves accordingly. The dominant part takes on the role of rider, trainer or owner. The power imbalance between the ponygirl and the active part is thus visually, physically and atmospherically visible. 
 Elements of  dressage  are typical: the ponygirl can jump over hurdles, pull a cart, walk certain steps or be led on the lunge. Very individual fantasies can be lived out through the type of adornment, clothing and equipment - from a noble show horse to a robust working mare. Ponygirls are anything but stereotypical: each pair defines their own role, intensity and style. 
 It all depends on the right equipment 
 The most important part of ponygirl games is the costume. It helps both sides to slip into their roles and combine the mental cinema with the physical experience. 
 Particularly popular are: 
 
  Leather &amp;amp; tight-fitting clothes:  corsages, bodysuits or harnesses emphasize body shapes and reinforce the feeling of being &quot;decked out&quot;. 
  Boots:  Long, skin-tight boots - preferably with heels - give the ponygirl an upright, powerful silhouette and create that characteristic sound reminiscent of hoofbeats with every step. 
  Masks &amp;amp; head harnesses:  They slightly depersonalize the wearer, allow the ponygirl to sink more visibly into the role and support the focus on body language instead of facial expressions. 
  Tail &amp;amp; plug:  Many ponygirls love to wear a horse tail. This is often connected to a Buttplug and stays securely in place - good workmanship, the right size and plenty of lubricant are important here. 
 
 How the active part imagines their ponygirl depends on their wishes: playful and delicate, strict and sporty or pompous and glamorous. The important thing is to find out together what feels right, safe and beautiful for everyone involved. 
  Suitable categories to browse through:   Masks &amp;amp; role play   Anal plugs   Handcuffs  
 Ponygirl games often require space 
 Even if ponygirls look impressive standing up, the full harmony of the game only unfolds when they are in motion. Many ponygirls enjoy not only looking like a pony, but also walking like one, being led and completing tasks. 
  Larger rooms  or halls are therefore ideal: Here, ponygirls can practise step sequences, jump over small hurdles or run in circles. Echoing rooms amplify the sound of the boots - the clacking can feel like the clatter of hooves and add to the illusion. 
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 Always think about safety: clear walking paths, no tripping hazards, stable hurdles and a good assessment of your physical strength. A ponygirl who jumps on high heels needs time to practise and someone to secure her attentively. 
 Ponygirls in the great outdoors - the special game of dominance 
 Ponygirl games are particularly impressive when they take place in a  protected outdoor area  (e.g. private property, suitable events). In the great outdoors, elegance, body awareness and the dynamic between dominance and devotion are shown to even greater advantage. 
 From running over soft ground to small jumps over obstacles, many things are possible. Some even set up small &quot;courses&quot;: slalom around pylons, step sequences, being led on the lunge or - where safely possible - pulling small carts or single horses. 
 Perfectly coordinated movements, decorative harnesses and joint immersion in the fantasy world combine dominance and submission in a very sensual way. At the same time: 
 
 Pay attention to  privacy  - no involuntary spectators, no public places. 
 Protect the ponygirl from overexertion (heat, ground conditions, risk of tripping). 
 Never overstrain or involve real animals - ponyplay is about people in roles, not real animals. 
 
  Other matching categories:   Crops &amp;amp; Riding Sticks   Ankle cuffs   Erotic games  
 Safety, communication &amp;amp; consent 
 As with all BDSM games, the following applies:  Safe, Sane, Consensual  or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Ponygirl role play in particular involves movement, the risk of tripping, possible outdoor elements and sensory restrictions - making clear agreements all the more important. 
 
 Establish safewords or hand signals if the ponygirl is unable to speak. 
 Check physical limits beforehand (knees, back, fitness). 
 Increase intensity slowly - from a decorative outfit to light dressage, then to longer scenes. 
 Don&#039;t forget aftercare: get out of the role, get off the &quot;high&quot; and into closeness, warmth and loving affirmation. 
 
 Tips for beginners, advanced and experienced users 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with symbolism instead of full equipment: e.g. just a tail, a collar or simple boots. Practice slow steps indoors and try out commands such as &quot;walk&quot;, &quot;stop&quot; or &quot;kneel&quot;. 
  Tip for advanced learners:  add masks, harnesses or harnesses and try your first small courses. Introduce a ritual: putting on the pony gear, clipping on a lead, a &quot;go out&quot; command at the beginning. 
  Tip for experienced riders:  Play with more complex dressage elements, combinations of indoor and outdoor scenes, single horses or carriages (always with maximum safety). Integrate psychological elements such as assessment, praise, show staging or &quot;tests&quot;. 
 Tips for all levels - Ponygirl step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginners:  
 
 Discuss fantasies together: What kind of pony? Elegant, playful, cheeky? 
 Develop a little ritual: e.g. brushing hair, putting on a collar, a certain phrase to start with. 
 Short sessions of 10-20 minutes with lots of feedback afterwards. 
 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  
 
 Incorporate light dressage elements: Trotting on, stopping, changing direction, small hurdles. 
 Keep a &quot;training log&quot;: Which exercises work well, what would you like to improve? 
 A clear difference between everyday life and pony time (clothing, language, title). 
 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  
 
 Storylines: competitions, demonstrations, tests with points and rewards. 
 Complex equipment, longer courses, perhaps own events or private play parties. 
 Finely tuned dominance: strict commands, targeted breaks, intensive praise - always with room for safewords. 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
  Level 1 - beginners:  
 
  Before the game:  talk briefly about mood, daily form, boundaries. 
  During the game:  Simple commands, slow movements, focus on contact and breathing. 
  After the game:  Carefully put down the ponygear, lots of physical contact, discuss what was particularly nice. 
 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  
 
  Before the game:  Define the setting: Stable, arena or forest path? Adjust music &amp;amp; light. 
  During the game:  Combination of dressage, leading on the lead, possibly light use of whip (only in safe zones). 
  After the game:  Joint &quot;conclusion&quot;: water, blanket, debriefing, possibly grooming rituals such as massaging feet or removing boots. 
 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  
 
  Before the game:  plan longer session, realistically assess physical exertion, define emergency plan (e.g. change shoes, interruption signs). 
  In the game:  Complete immersion in the role, ritualized commands, possibly &quot;tests&quot; with assessment, but always alert for signs of overload. 
  After the game:  Intensive aftercare with lots of closeness, emotional check-in and time to wind down. If necessary, talk about the experience again a day or two later. 
 
 Conclusion: Ponygirl - playful elegance with depth 
 The ponygirl is much more than just a flashy costume: it is a BDSM game in its own right that combines movement, body awareness, dominance, submission and extensive rituals. With the right equipment, lots of communication and a conscious eye for safety, you can use this imaginative form of play to deepen your dynamic - sometimes wild, sometimes elegant, always consensual. 
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                            <updated>2022-01-25T15:15:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">DDLG and Daddykink</title>
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                                            In this blog post we would like to clarify a little bit about DDLG and Daddykink. First of all, it is important to know that both forms are nothing forbidden! All participants of this fetish are at least of legal age, even if many Littles don&#039;t feel that way.
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                 In this blog post we would like to clarify a little bit about DDLG and Daddykink. First of all, it is important to know that both forms are nothing forbidden! Everyone involved in this fetish is at least of legal age, even if many Littles don&#039;t feel that way. 
 What is DDLG? 
 Only a few people know what DDLG is. It&#039;s also hard to guess what it could be about if you have so purely nothing to do with the BDSM scene or with kinksex in general. DDLG means Daddy Dom and Little Girl. Exactly at this point it is often assumed that this is a forbidden sexual father-child relationship. 
 However, this is not the case. The DDLG meaning is merely that the man takes care of his wife in a fatherly way. Although the woman is often younger than the said daddy, she is by no means still a minor, let alone her own child. 
 The woman merely feels like a child and needs the appropriate attention and loving care from the man, i.e. the Daddy Dom. 
 What is Daddykink? 
 Daddykink is made up of the word daddy (father) and kink (kink). When we talk about kink sex or kinky sex, we are talking about fancy sex. Just everything that is different from vanilla sex (normal sex). 
 There is no clear daddy kink explanation because there are different definitions. Daddykink or DDLG fetish can be a sexual act. But it can just as well be the formation of a complete relationship.     If it is only purely about the sex, it is also spoken of DDLG sex or just also of the daddykink sex. The DDLG Kink Sex is a fetish from the area of dominance and submissiveness. However, it is purely about feeling good, about feeling safe. 
 The Littles, the &quot;little&quot; girls, always feel safe and protected during sex with Daddy Dom. Daddy takes care during sex not to hurt his little one and to always lovingly cradle her in safety during the act. 
 DDLG: the relationship 
 The Daddy Dom / little girl relationship is not lived out purely sexually, but runs through the common everyday life at home. Daddy&#039;s Little is treated like a child or toddler at home and the Little actually feels like one. Nothing is played here, but really lived. 
 The Littles are women who keep their inner child. They still want and need to grow and mature inside. In order for them to fully develop and evolve, they need their Daddydom. He raises his Little in a gentle but determined way. 
 Daddy decides when it&#039;s bedtime, makes sure his Little girl dresses warm enough, and also uses a lot of time to cuddle and play. The Little fetish is not just sexual in nature in the relationship, but has a much larger meaning. 
 Daddykink: the role of the woman 
 The role of the woman is associated with a lot of childlike joie de vivre. She is purely outwardly and from the year of birth, adult woman but, actually somehow still child. For example, she likes to watch cartoons, color pictures, do handicrafts and go through life with a light naivety and playfulness. 
 A gentle, vulnerable being, which must be well protected. Tasks in the household the Little Girl, which is also called only Little, takes over only slightly. Only light tasks are assigned to the Little. She should be able to spend her time playing and enjoying life and set her own goals. 
 In these goals, it is always encouraged and supported by its daddy.   As a rule, being a child runs through the entire daily routine. However, there are also Little Girls who have a working life or also experience some independence, such as driving a car. 
 Daddykink: the role of the man 
 The man is the dominant part in the BDSM DDLG fetish. He is the daddy and regulates everything in the relationship. He has a steady job, takes care of his Little Girl and does everything to make sure that his Little can enjoy herself properly. 
 Although he has a dominant role, at the same time he also has a gentle and protective role. A good Daddy Dom must be consistent, but kind. He enforces rules, but must always provide a sense of familiarity and security. The Daddy is not a real father, but a partner or husband with fatherly qualities. 
 Daddykink father complex 
   Outsiders in particular like to claim that Littles have a father complex. Medically, this has not been proven. Yes, the women crave paternal security. However, this does not mean that they want a real daddy. 
 They simply want a man who can protect them and who will take care of them. In their hearts, the ladies are simply very young, they do not want to participate in the turmoil of real life, but only do what they feel like. 
 Of course, experiences from childhood can also be associated with the fetish. Here, however, each Little must find out for herself why she is the way she is. There are no firm studies about whether a father complex is present or not. 
 What is the Little Space? 
 The Little Space is like a world of its own that the Little Girls create for themselves. They do not live in the Little Space all the time, but only for a more or less short period of time. But the special state is only created when the Little has a really trustworthy daddy. 
 During the time the girl is in Little Space, she is especially sensitive. It is a kind of trance, a very intense moment that the girl experiences there. She falls back into a really childlike age. This is shown by the pronunciation, which can be infantile. But it also shows up based on the actions and new hobbies. 
 For example, cartoons have taken on even more importance. Toys for toddlers are preferred. Some women also demand a pacifier or suck their thumb. Others want to eat only porridge for children. In this special time, it is important that the Daddy Dom is always there for his little one and pays attention to the health of the apparent child. 
 World with children&#039;s eyes 
 The world is perceived with children&#039;s eyes. Everything looks even more colorful than it is. A small butterfly alone can make for big, shiny eyes. However, things can also turn into the opposite. If Daddy ever scolds, it can lead to deep sadness or even defiance.     Sexually, Little Space is perfect for enjoying a true BDSM Little. The girls love costumes during this time. This allows for some delightful role play. Pet Play is also very popular, as the Little Girl can also &quot;transform&quot; into a puppy or a putty. 
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 Rules in Daddykink partnerships 
 In a Daddykink partnership, there needs to be firm rules in order for it to harmonize. Neither of them must feel overburdened or even taken advantage of. It must be ensured that both parts are aware of their roles, respectively their way of life. 
 It must not be played, it must be real. Played daddies are quickly overwhelmed. Those who only play a little girl may soon feel misunderstood or even abused. Clear agreements are necessary, firm Daddykink rules simply belong to it. 
 Sometimes the Littles grow out of their roles. This should not make a daddy fall into sadness, but into pride. Because only by his support the Little could grow and mature. 
 DDLG Community 
 The Internet now offers a good range of DDLG communities. Especially in Germany this fetish becomes more and more popular. There are real DDLG Germany groups, where you can exchange information. 
 The internet also offers the perfect opportunity to find a Daddy Dom or a Little Girl. In addition, there are rooms where the DDLG rules can also be clearly agreed before the first meeting. 
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                            <updated>2022-01-24T09:00:00+01:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">What is the wifesharing?</title>
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                                            Wife sharing is a term from the porn scene and is also common in the BDSM area in parts. The term is composed of the words Wife and ...
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                  Wifesharing  is a term from the American porn scene and is also common in the BDSM area in parts. The term is composed of the words Wife and Sharing. This term is mainly used to describe situations in which the wife or partner of one man has sexual intercourse with another man in his presence. 
 The man can either serve as a spectator and be aroused by the sight or participate in the act himself. In these cases, this combination is also called MMF. In the practice of Wifesharing jealousy plays a big role. Because this may and can hardly be present in the men. Thus, many of these men also proudly call themselves Wife-Sharer and go in this role completely.     The background is to be found with the  wife sharing  often in the fact that a single man is not always able to satisfy all needs of a woman on sexual level. Thus, the partner can be provided by a further sexual partner a clear advantage. 
 In addition, many men find it extremely exciting to watch their wife have sex with another man and thus simply observe them. In many cases, the practice of wifesharing surprisingly comes more from the men than from the women, even though they often then do not miss such an opportunity.     In some relationships, wifesharing can take on even stronger characteristics. Triangular relationships between a married couple and a housemate may develop, in which the meetings do not always take place between the three of them. Thus, the wife and the house mate can meet and indulge in their lust even without the presence of the husband. 
 Openness is an important part of wife-sharing. The husbands are informed about the meetings and approve, support or even desire them&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; 
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                            <updated>2019-08-28T09:45:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Rapeplay - A game between dominance and submission</title>
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                                            Rapeplay is a very fiery love game. It is about dominance and submission. Rape means rape and play means to play. It is therefore rape play and not real abuse!
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                 Rapeplay is a very fiery love game. It is about dominance and submission. Rape means rape and play means to play.  It is therefore rape play and not real abuse!     Rape play is often played out in a BDSM session with a partner. It combines several fetishes. For example, the bondage fetish, the nylon fetish and the pain fetish can be integrated into the abuse games. 
  The rape fantasy can always go as far as both participants really want it to.  
     
 Abduction games of a special kind 
   Abduction games are exciting role-playing games  in which unexpected twists and turns can occur.&amp;nbsp;Rapeplay can be agreed in advance. But it&#039;s much more fun if the course of events is simply unplanned. 
   
 Of course, you can  &#039;t just kidnap , tie up and &quot;rape&quot;  your partner unexpectedly . Of course, this MUST be agreed beforehand. Talk about when and how the scenario should take place beforehand. 
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 Then just get started. It is important that nothing is done that the other person does not want. 
 Come up with a code word 
 Before you get into the rape play    BDSM session    speak a code word. If the chosen word is called out, it is a sign that the other person no longer wants it, that it is getting too intense. Please pay attention to this and stop. 
   
 Otherwise the rape play fantasy will turn into bitter seriousness. If you like it, everything else can be practiced. From bondage to torture and even minor injuries. However, the code word, i.e. the safe word, must always have an immediate effect. In everything you do! 
 Rapeplay important points 
 Rapeplay is a fetish that is much loved, but should also be treated with a lot of respect. There are many points to bear in mind so that no one gets into real fear or danger. The fantasy of being raped can be very arousing. However, acting it out carries a certain risk if all the important points are not observed and adhered to.    The topic of rape play should be approached with a great deal of caution. Everyone has their secrets and their past. If your partner has a violent past that you don&#039;t know about, the topic of rape play is very difficult to broach. So approach it gently and ask carefully.   As with many fetishes, it is also important with rape play that you know and trust each other. The more familiar you are with each other, the more unusual and violent the rapeplay can be.  Violence must not really take place, everything must be consensual. Brutality is acted out, but never actually carried out. Pain is allowed, but only to a limited extent. 
 Rapeplay in public 
 No one may be hurt, this refers in particular to the point at which the &quot;victim&quot; is penetrated. Forcible penetration is only acted out in the rape play. Lubricant or other moisturizing aids may still be used.  Let the public out! Rape play or rape play gives a special kick when it happens in public.   However, this is not advisable at all, as outsiders do not realize that it is just a game. They could also be triggered and suffer psychological damage. Even if it is a very intense fetish, neither participants nor outsiders should have negative experiences with it. 
 Conclusion 
 Last but not least, don&#039;t forget to make up a safeword. A certain word puts an immediate end to the rape game. 
 
 Discuss with caution 
 Never with strangers 
 Violence is just an act 
 No rape play in public 
 Make out safeword / traffic light words 
 
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                            <updated>2019-06-05T14:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Sexy schoolgirl - role play with a special kick</title>
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                                            Most people associate the concept of sexy schoolgirls in uniform mainly with Japan. Not without reason, these role plays are particularly widespread there.
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                 Most people associate the concept of  sexy schoolgirls in uniform  mainly with Japan. Not without reason, these  role-playing games  are particularly widespread there. 
 On the other hand, this is also due to the very iconic schoolgirl uniforms, which are known practically all over the world and can be recognized at any time. However, these role-playing games are also particularly popular in our country. 
  We&#039;ll show you why that is, what the role-playing games can look like and what possibilities they offer.  
 Role play during sex - an act of pure fantasy 
 Role-playing  during sex can take on very different forms  and is used in many relationships to enrich sex life. The role play with the schoolgirl uniform represents only one of many aspects, but for many couples it is associated with a special pleasure gain. 
 The role plays are usually accompanied by different settings in which the  partner can also take on different roles .  From the strict teacher to the school principal , many roles are possible. 
   
 Also, different fetishes and preferences can be combined with the role play. The  schoolgirl in uniform at the school doctor  can pass many a fantasy. 
 The special feature of the sexy schoolgirl disguise 
 What makes the very special appeal of this disguise, then, anyway? First of all, of course, the appeal of the forbidden. After all, having sex with a &quot;schoolgirl&quot; as a grown man, i.e. with a young woman who has just come of age, is not forbidden per se, but it is still socially outlawed. 
 After all, the age difference in such relationships is often very large. In role-playing, however, these points have no meaning.  Even if the partner is her own age , she can  slip into  the role of a  young schoolgirl  in the game and be treated accordingly by her partner. 
     Innocence also plays an important role in these games. Often the schoolgirls in their uniforms are seen as sexually inexperienced and treated accordingly. Thus, it is definitely also a  role play with power imbalance , since the male partner usually sets the tone with his &quot;experience&quot; and directs the game. 
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 Schoolgirl sex and BDSM - a popular combination 
 The role-playing games with the schoolgirl uniforms are also frequently used in the BDSM field, in order to further emphasize and reinforce the powers in various role-playing games.  The most important thing here is that the schoolgirls have to be submissive or chastised and punished.  There is no limit to the imagination of the individual games in this context. 
   
 Just try out role-playing games 
 If you want to surprise your partner, you can simply buy a matching schoolgirl uniform and surprise him with it. There are only a few men who do not react with excitement to such a sight and get into role play. 
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 Who knows,  if you both find fun in it , you can incorporate the  costume  into many more role plays and everyday sex. It is definitely worth a try. 
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                            <updated>2019-05-22T09:00:00+02:00</updated>
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            <title type="text">Trampling: The ultimate guide for beginners</title>
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                                            Trampling as a fetish is widespread. The passive part makes their body available so that the active lady can use it as a carpet. She walks over the body, which can cause both pain and pleasure. Depending on the personal fetish, the woman&#039;s clothing plays an important role in t...
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                 Trampling is a form of BDSM play in which one partner kicks or tramples the body of the other with their whole body or parts of it. Find out everything you need to know about trampling here. 
 What is trampling? 
 Trampling is a BDSM practice that involves pain as well as dominance and submission. The active partner tramples on the body of the more passive partner. It is a form of physical and power discipline that provides special stimulation for both participants. 
 How is trampling performed? 
 Trampling can be practiced in a variety of ways, with most methods involving the use of feet or shoes. It can be performed on bare skin or with clothing and can be both gentle and hard. It is important that both partners discuss and agree the rules and boundaries before playing. 
 Trampling advice video with Nika Macht! 
 In this video, Nika Macht, a renowned BDSM and fetish expert, guides you through a comprehensive beginner&#039;s guide to trampling. She shares her valuable experience and gives practical tips focusing on safety, techniques and the psychological importance of trampling. 
   Your browser cannot play this video.  In this video, Nika Macht, a renowned BDSM and fetish expert, guides you through a comprehensive beginner&#039;s guide to trampling. You can access it at the  link address .   
 What equipment is needed? 
 Trampling can be performed without special equipment, but some BDSM fans prefer to wear special clothing or shoes. High heels or boots are particularly suitable for trampling as they can increase the pressure. 
 Examples of trampling games: 
 
 Foot trampling with high heels 
 Boot trampling with steel toe caps 
 Shoe trampling with platform shoes 
 
 Trampling as a fetish 
 Trampling as a fetish is widespread.  The passive part makes their body available so that the active lady can use it as a carpet.  She walks over the body, which can cause both pain and pleasure. 
 Depending on the personal fetish, the woman&#039;s clothing plays an important role in trampling. Whether shoes, nylon stockings, erotic tights or bare feet: the choice has an enormous influence on the pleasure of the passive part in many parts. 
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 The different forms of trampling 
 Trampling depends above all on the personal fetish of the person involved. Trampling depends on the choice of footwear, among other things. While many foot fetishists prefer trampling with bare feet, this can be intensified by the use of nylon stockings or erotic tights. 
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 Shoe fetishists, on the other hand, love touching the shoe of their choice during trampling and thus experience  unimagined climaxes  of pleasure. Trampling with high heels is a special form of trampling. Special care is required here. 
   
 The erotic high heels may look extremely seductive and feel wonderful on the skin, but the heels can be a real danger when trampling. 
 Alternating between closeness and distance 
 The fetish of trampling is a game of power and submission, of pain and release and of closeness and distance. Although the power differential between the active top and passive sub is extremely high in this game, this distance is dissolved again thanks to the direct contact with the foot or shoe. 
 Many  active players  enjoy this change enormously and love to both torment and pamper the sub with touches. Trampling can therefore be combined with various other types of erotic play to significantly increase the effect for the passive partner. 
 The submissive man, on the other hand, is trapped in his role in this game. He is used by the active top and is nothing more than a piece of the floor covering. At the same time, however, he is able to live out his own fetish. He feels the top&#039;s feet on his skin, can enjoy the sight of her long legs from a perfect position and can enjoy the touch of his fetish object. 
 The  additional pain  is just as welcome as the direct touch, creating a combination of pleasures that can hardly be compared to any other form of play. 
   
 Dangers of trampling 
 Various factors play an important role in trampling. Firstly, of course, the footwear. While bare or stockinged feet are not a problem when trampling, the situation is quite different with high heels or other shoes with heels, for example. 
 Due to the very high concentration of mass at a narrow point, damage and injuries can quickly occur. Absolute caution is the order of the day. In addition, the weight of the women also plays an important role in trampling. 
 If you want to be active, you should also know enough about the anatomy of the body to avoid critical points and prevent injury.  The joints  in particular must be protected when trampling. 
 But you should also pay attention to the various nerve nodes and avoid them if possible. Otherwise, significant damage could occur, which should be avoided at all costs during such a game. 
 What precautions must be taken? 
 Trampling can be dangerous if it is practiced without sufficient precautions. It is important that both partners discuss clear rules and boundaries and agree a safe word that stops immediately if spoken. It is also important that the passive partner has enough space and support to be comfortable and safe. 
 You should always pay attention to this when trampling 
 When trampling, the sub should lie on a surface that is as soft as possible but not yielding. This allows you as an active lady to determine the optimum pressure. It is also helpful if you can support yourself while trampling. This not only helps with balance, but also allows you to distribute your weight optimally. 
 This means that not all the weight is on your feet and sub. Attention also plays an important role. Always pay attention to the signals and reactions of the man lying on the floor. 
 This way, you can apply the pressure and your weight optimally without making the pain too intense. This way, you can effectively control your partner&#039;s pleasure so that pain and lust are in balance. 
  Do you like the powerful touch when a lady uses your body during trampling?  Do you enjoy the feeling of being completely at her mercy and enduring the painful touches on your body? At Steeltoyz you will find various ways to experience the touch even more intensely. 
 Use a matching eye mask to experience your mistress&#039;s touch even more intensely during trampling. Dress her in high heels, nylon stockings or matching tights and enjoy her feet and shoes against your skin. 
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 We offer you many possibilities to experience trampling as intensely as possible. 
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