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 Anal play can be incredibly intense - if you take it step by step and listen to your body. Many people experience not only arousal but also deep relaxation via the anus. The key is to start slowly, choose soft material and use plenty of lubricant. [emotion emotion_id=&quot;386&quot; ] 
 In this guide, we&#039;ll show you how to get started without fear, what you should bear in mind when preparing and which toys are suitable for beginners, advanced users and curious explorers. 
 Anal sex preparation 
 Your sphincter muscle is not designed for penetration. But that doesn&#039;t mean that anal sex isn&#039;t possible - you just need a little practice, patience and the right approach. Let&#039;s start with the most important basics. 
 
 Preparing for anal sex: Your basic equipment 
 A few simple basics will help you get off to a relaxed start with anal pleasure: a small, well-shaped anal toy, sufficient Anal lubricant and reliable cleaning. This way, you stay in control and can approach the new sensation at your own pace. 
 
  Anal plugs &amp;amp; butt plugs - selection for beginners &amp;amp; advanced users  
  Anal-Lubricant - specially developed for anal play  
  Cleaning &amp;amp; care - to keep toys hygienic  
 
  Tip:  Always start with smaller diameters and lots of personal lubricant. Once your body has gotten used to it, you can slowly increase the size. 
 
 Experiences with anal sex 
   
 People of all genders and orientations enjoy anal sex: homosexual, bisexual or heterosexual, active or passive. Many love this particularly intimate and intense form of sexuality and regularly incorporate it into their love life. 
 If you have no previous experience, it is completely normal to be curious and want to try it out at least once. That&#039;s exactly what this guide is for - so that pleasure, safety and respect go hand in hand. 
  Tip for beginners:  Plan your first Anal experience consciously - not as a quickie. Take a quiet evening, create a pleasant atmosphere, have lube, towels and possibly a small anal toy ready and set yourself just one goal: to feel curious, not to &quot;function&quot;. 
 What is anal sex? 
 The definition of anal sex is simple: during anal sex, the penis or a similar sex toy is inserted into the anus of the passive partner and moved around. It sounds unspectacular, but for many it can feel extremely intense and fulfilling. 
 There are several reasons for this. Firstly, trust plays a huge role. The passive partner must be able to let go and relax for anal sex to feel good. The active part usually enjoys the tightness and intense friction. 
 Many active men describe anal sex as much more intense than vaginal sex. Women like to take the active part and penetrate their partner anal with strap-on dildos. Even if they are not physically stimulated directly, the dominant feeling and visible pleasure can be extremely arousing for the other person. 
 The passive part - whether man or woman - can experience anal sex particularly intensely. There are an extremely large number of nerve endings around the anus. Irritation and penetration can therefore trigger very strong feelings of pleasure. In men, the prostate can also be stimulated via the anus - so an orgasm is possible even without direct stimulation of the penis. 
 Sex positions for anal sex 
 There are some positions that are particularly suitable for anal sex. They ensure that the anus is easily accessible and give you a lot of control over penetration depth and speed. 
 The classic doggy position is very popular. The passive partner stretches their bottom upwards and can comfortably lay their upper body down. The sphincter is easy to reach, you can apply plenty of lube and start slowly. 
 The riding position also works well for anal sex and offers maximum control, especially for the passive partner. You decide how deep and how fast you want to penetrate. The spooning position is also ideal: you have close body contact, can relax and start penetration gently. 
  Tip for advanced users:  Combine positions. For example, start in the spoon position to get things off to a calm start, then switch to the riding position for maximum control and finish in the doggy position when everything is well stretched and relaxed. This way you can increase the intensity and feeling of dominance step by step. 
 First time anal sex 
 Before having anal sex for the first time, you should talk openly with each other. Honest communication is more important here than with many other types of play. Both of you should really want to do it - &quot;just for your partner&#039;s sake&quot; rarely leads to good experiences. 
 Many people have reservations at first: Fear of pain, uncertainty about hygiene or simply an unfamiliar feeling. This is completely normal. 
 That&#039;s why it&#039;s worth taking your time to inform yourself and prepare. With practice, fun and curiosity, even your first anal sex can be a real highlight - for both the active and passive parts. 
 
 First time anal sex as a couple: get off to a relaxed start 
 If you want to discover anal sex together, a few well-chosen basics will help you. This will keep the focus on trust, communication and a good body sensation. 
 
  Anal-Personal lubricant for couples  - for more lubrication and less friction 
  Small Anal plugs  - to slowly get your body used to the stretching sensation 
  Intimate cleansing  - for an additional safe and clean feeling 
 
  Tip:  Decide beforehand what is okay for you, use a safeword and stop as soon as something no longer feels good. 
 
 
 How to find the right personal lubricant for anal sex 
 
 
 Anal sex is one of the most intense forms of mutual pleasure. In addition to trust and relaxation, the ability to stretch the passive part also plays a major role. In order to enjoy anal sex properly and in a relaxed manner, you should use a high-quality  Anal lubricant.  
 Only if the back door is sufficiently supple can both of you fully enjoy the pleasure. 
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 A good personal lubricant is worth its weight in gold 
 Whether man on woman, woman on man, man on man or woman on woman: anal sex is a very intimate and intense way to feel your partner in every constellation. The better the personal lubricant suits you and your area of use, the easier and more enjoyable the actual act will be. 
 In principle, you can also use normal personal lubricant, but products for anal sex are usually better suited to this in terms of consistency and durability. 
 What properties are important for personal lubricant? 
 If you are looking for a good personal lubricant for anal sex, you should know this: Many water-based personal lubricants dry out relatively quickly and then lose their good properties. If this happens in the middle of the act, it can become uncomfortable or even painful. 
 Modern water-silicone-based combinations are often more suitable and provide good lubrication for longer. Many people swear by particularly viscous Anal lubricants because they are easier to apply and last longer. 
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  Gentle on toys and condoms  
 Good personal lubricants for anal sex are also gentle on toys and condoms. Regardless of the safety issue, it is worth using a condom during anal sex - this supports hygiene and lubrication. 
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 Make sure that the personal lubricant you choose is suitable for use with condoms. That way, you don&#039;t have to worry about tears or damage. 
 Personal lubricants for beginners and professionals 
 The large selection of personal lubricants makes it easier for you to find the right product. Some personal lubricants and  lubricant sprays  have side effects such as cooling or slight relaxation - this can make it easier to get started, but is not suitable for everyone. 
 Special  relax sprays and relax creams  can also improve your ability to stretch. They are more suitable for advanced users who specifically want more stretching. For normal anal sex, practice, time and slow pre-stretching are completely sufficient. 
 In the end, it&#039;s up to your taste: some prefer liquid personal lubricants, others love compact, viscous variants. Simply try out different types and find the gel that makes you feel safest and most comfortable. 
 
 
 
 
 Personal lubricant for anal sex: which type is right for you? 
 Not sure which personal lubricant to start with? A rough guide will help you find the right consistency for your anal sex experience. 
 
  For beginners:  more liquid Anal lubes that are easy to spread 
  For longer sessions:  viscous gels with particularly long-lasting lubrication 
  For more comfort:  cooling or slightly relaxing variants for a gentle introduction 
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  Tip:  Try out two different types and stick with the lube that makes you feel the most relaxed. 
 
 Anal sex tips for beginners 
 Pre-stretching is important 
 To really enjoy anal sex, you should slowly get your sphincter muscle used to the new stimuli. Especially at the beginning, it makes sense to gain experience on your own before involving your partner. 
 A warm bath is ideal for such games. The water helps you to relax. With a little lubricant, you can gently play around the sphincter and penetrate carefully with a finger. This will help you get to know your own sensations and find out what speed is comfortable for you. 
 Later, you can incorporate anal play into your foreplay or the actual act. Finger games or toys can help to link the positive feeling of anal stimulation with your pleasure. 
 
 Anal training &amp;amp; warm-up: training for your sphincter muscle 
 If finger exercises feel good, you can take the next step and work with anal training sets. This allows you to increase the size and pressure in a controlled manner - always at your own pace. 
 
  Anal plug-Training sets  - several sizes for your gradual build-up 
  Butt plugs for targeted stretching  - for those who like a slightly firmer pressure 
 
  Tip:  Start with the smallest size, only wear the plug for a short time and slowly increase the duration. Your body will give you feedback. 
 
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 Tip: anal beads to get used to them 
 Anal beads are a great way to get used to the stretching sensation. The balls are arranged in a chain and usually get bigger the further you insert them. This allows you to slowly increase the size and even wear the chain during the act. Many find it extremely intense when the balls are slowly pulled out during climax. 
 Tip: Use butt plugs for targeted stretching 
 Butt plugs are specially developed for anal use. They are easy to insert and, thanks to their shape, can be worn securely without slipping. The permanent, gentle stretching allows your sphincter to get used to the feeling - which makes anal sex much easier later on. 
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  Tip for experienced users:  If you are already familiar with anal sex, you can experiment with larger plugs, longer wearing times or alternating between vaginal and anal stimulation. Pay particular attention to your body&#039;s signals, plan breaks and treat yourself to conscious aftercare - both physically and emotionally. 
 Anal sex stories 
 In our anal sex stories category you will find  erotic Anal  stories with a focus on anal sex. They can give you inspiration and help you discover your own fantasies. 
 Anal sex guide 
 There are no universal instructions for anal sex, but a few basic rules will help you a lot. It is important that the receiving partner is relaxed and ready. Take your time, stretch the anus beforehand and use plenty of lubricant, as the anus itself does not produce any moisture. 
 It has proven to be a good idea to first place the penis or toy against the sphincter from the outside and gently build up pressure without penetrating immediately. This allows the passive part to get used to the sensation and consciously relax. 
 When the sphincter opens, the tip can penetrate slowly. Take your time, take breaks and only gradually increase the depth. Only when you have penetrated completely behind both sphincters should you start moving carefully. 
 What does anal sex feel like? 
 Feelings are difficult to put into words, but one thing is certain: for many, anal sex is something very special. Especially the first time, the feeling is unfamiliar because something firm is penetrating an area that has never experienced this before. Some experience a slight feeling of pressure at first, reminiscent of the urge to urinate or defecate - this usually subsides when you relax and get used to the stimulus. 
 The anus is equipped with an extremely large number of nerve endings. If you are well prepared, use plenty of lubricant and take your time, anal sex can become a real highlight. In men, the prostate can also be stimulated via the rectum, which makes very intense orgasms possible. Many people report that they can climax through anal stimulation alone. 
 Anal sex for men 
 Many men enjoy anal sex not only as an active but also as a passive part. This has nothing to do with sexual orientation, but with the fact that the prostate - often referred to as the male G-spot - is particularly easy to reach via the rectum. 
 This is why many couples use strap-on dildos and strap-ons so that the woman can take on the active part. The passive man enjoys the stimulation of the nerve endings around the anus as well as the stimulation of the prostate. This allows you to discover completely new qualities of pleasure. 
 Why anal sex? 
 There are many reasons why couples try out anal sex or integrate it into their love life. Firstly, the sensation is very different from vaginal sex. The anus is tighter and encloses the penis or toy more intensely, which many find extremely pleasurable. 
 Secondly, anal sex is always a special sign of trust. You have to be considerate of each other, communicate and pay attention to each other. Many people also report an exciting mix of power, devotion and intense pleasure when reversing roles - for example with an active woman and a passive man. 
 If you approach the topic without reservations, but with sufficient preparation and respect, you can both benefit from the sensations of anal sex. 
 Questions about anal sex 
 Is anal sex unhygienic? 
 No. For anal sex, it is usually enough if you clean the area around the anus carefully. The rectum itself is normally a clean place. About two to three hours after your last visit to the toilet, the bowel in this area is usually free of residue, so you can relax and play. The rectum is only full if you feel the urge to defecate - then you should refrain from anal sex. 
  Tip:  If you want to be on the safe side, you can clean the rectum with a small enema or an intimate douche. Many people use this before anal play to feel more comfortable. It&#039;s easy to use and you&#039;ll be ready to go in just a few minutes. 
 Does anal sex go smoothly? 
 This varies from person to person. There are people for whom anal sex works relatively spontaneously. However, most people have to slowly get used to the new feeling and stretch their anus step by step before a penis or a larger dildo can be inserted. 
 It is important to understand that your sphincter consists of two parts. The external sphincter can be voluntarily tightened and relaxed. The inner sphincter reacts more unconsciously. Above all, you need time, rest and positive experiences so that it gradually opens by itself. 
 Is anal sex painful? 
 It doesn&#039;t have to be painful. It usually occurs when you work too fast, too dry or without pre-stretching. Two things are crucial: good preparation, including pre-stretching and relaxation - and sufficient lubricant. 
 The anus does not produce its own moisture. That&#039;s why you can be generous with the lube. It&#039;s better to use a little too much than too little, otherwise friction and unpleasant sensations will occur. If you like, you can also try lubricants with a scent or flavor. Some people find this additionally relaxing and stimulating. 
 Isn&#039;t anal sex actually dirty and does it leave marks? 
 The idea that the rectum is full of residue is a persistent one, but in most situations it is wrong. The area that is stimulated during anal sex is more of a passage. If there is something there, you will normally feel the urge to go to the toilet. If you don&#039;t, the rectum is usually free. 
 Many people feel safer if they cleanse with a  micro-enema or an intimate douche  beforehand. This is uncomplicated and only takes a few minutes. 
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 How can I prepare for anal sex? 
 You can train your sphincter just like any other muscle. Start slowly, caress the area around the anus, work with a finger that glides well and insert it carefully. This will help you get to know your own body sensation. 
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 What else should I bear in mind during anal sex? 
 Lubricate your anus well and use a suitable  anal lubricant . It should not be too runny and should glide for a long time. Don&#039;t skimp on lube - your bottom, penis or toy should be generously lubricated to make penetration easier and more enjoyable. 
 The active partner should take their time and not use pressure. If you are unsure, the passive partner can also take the lead and slowly sit on the penis or toy. This way you can intuitively determine the depth of penetration and speed according to how your body feels. 
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 Will anal sex make me incontinent? 
 This rumor comes up again and again, but it is unfounded. On the contrary: as the sphincter muscle is consciously tensed and relaxed during  anal sex , its control can improve. Regular, well-prepared anal sex will not cause you to &quot;leak&quot;. 
   
 Can I reach orgasm through anal sex? 
 Yes, it is possible - but it doesn&#039;t have to be the case for everyone. Some people can reach orgasm through anal stimulation alone, others combine anal sex with clitoral or penile stimulation. Due to the many nerve endings in the anal area, there is definitely a lot of potential. 
 You are free to stimulate yourself during anal sex or leave this to your partner. 
 Video anal sex tips 
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 Tips for all levels - anal sex step by step 
  Level 1 - Beginner:  - Only use finger play and very small plugs. - Lots of lube, warm environment, no hurry. - Get to know your own limits, be allowed to stop at any time. - No goal of &quot;penetrative intercourse&quot;, just pure exploration. 
  Level 2 - Advanced:  - Larger plugs, first attempts with small dildos or penis. - Test anal sex in quiet positions (spooning, riding). - Use intimate douche or enema if it gives you more security. - Establish safeword, agree on clear signs for &quot;slow down&quot; or &quot;stop&quot;. 
  Level 3 - Experienced:  - Longer Anal sessions, changing positions and combining with other practices (e.g. prostate play, Pegging, bondage). - Consciously play with head cinema, dominance &amp;amp; devotion - but always pay attention to body reactions. - After intensive sessions, ensure good aftercare: Cuddling, warmth, conversation, possibly soothing care products. 
  If you approach anal sex with attention, respect and curiosity, it can become a deep, pleasurable and surprisingly loving part of your sexuality - alone or as a couple.  
 
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            <title type="text">Anal Stretching - the best way to do it</title>
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                                            Most people describe anal sex as very intense and particularly beautiful. It is one of the dirtiest types of sex (because of bacteria and co.) but also a very intimate and trusting way of bonding. To be able to have anal sex, you have to be ready to fully relax.
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                 Anal sex is described by many as extremely intense and particularly beautiful. At the same time, it is considered one of the &quot;dirtiest&quot; types of sex due to bacteria in the anal area - and that is precisely why it requires preparation, hygiene and trust. Properly prepared, however, anal sex can be one of the most intimate and deepest forms of sexual connection. 
 For anal sex to work without pain, careful  Anal stretching  is crucial. Your sphincter is a very strong muscle that protects you from accidentally leaking stool. It is constantly in use and usually remains tense. For anal sex, you need to learn to consciously relax this muscle and stretch the anal area step by step. 
 Anal Stretching for beginners: start gently, relax and enjoy 
 If you are new to  stretchingAnal  , always start slowly and gently. A relaxing full-body massage is ideal to calm your nervous system and prepare your bottom for anal fun. The more relaxed you are, the easier it is for the sphincter to open. 
 Use a massage oil that doubles as a lubricant or a good  Anal lubricant . Be careful not to use a strong anaesthetic product over a large area - anaesthetic gels should be applied selectively to the area you want to stretch, not to the whole body. 
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 Massages are the best way to prepare your body for anal sex: You learn to surrender, let go and consciously relax your bottom. You can then gradually increase your anal training. Start with gentle pressure around the anus and increase slowly - never force it. 
 Use a finger to carefully test how willingly the muscles open up. If one finger can be used without resistance, you can add a second finger after a while. Important here: short, clean fingernails and plenty of lubricant to avoid injury. 
 
 
  Anal Stretching without stress: your basic equipment  
 With the right setup, anal training is much more relaxed and safer - especially for beginners: 
 
  Anal-Training sets  - several plugs in ascending sizes for slow Anal stretching. 
  Anal plugs &amp;amp; butt plugs  - perfect for combining stretching and comfort. 
  Anal Lubricating gels  - extra slippery, ideal for longer sessions and anal sex without pain. 
  Anal douches / intimate douches  - for a cleaner feeling before anal play. 
 
 Tip: Always start with the smallest size and slowly increase the diameter and wearing time - this way, your sphincter muscle will gently get used to the Anal stretching. 
 
 Anal training alone: Anal Stretching for singles 
 Even if you are single, you can train your  Anal stretch  without any problems. The important thing is to find a comfortable position in which you can relax and still get good access to your anus. Try different positions: lying on your side, lying on your back with your legs drawn up or in a quadruped position. 
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 Start with an anal massage and gentle pressure around the anus. When you are ready, you can carefully penetrate a little with a well-lubricated finger. Only as far as it feels good - then slowly increase. It can be helpful to use small  Anal plugs vibrator or special beginner dildos can be helpful. 
 Anal Stretching for advanced users: when toys come into play 
 If fingers and light stretching already work well and you can consciously relax your sphincter, you are ready for toys. There are very small beginner&#039;sAnal plugs and narrow dildos that are barely thicker than a finger - ideal for getting to know the feeling of a foreign object in your bottom. 
 If you already have more experience with anal sex or anal training, you can buy plugs in different sizes or dare to try slightly thicker dildos. It&#039;s important to always pre-stretch, insert slowly and use plenty of lube. 
 Even for advanced users, the sphincter muscle contracts reflexively every now and then - this is normal and even healthy. Even those who have regular anal intercourse should never force Anal stretching, but rather work with patience and sensitivity. 
 Useful aids for Anal stretching &amp;amp; anal sex 
  Anal Lubricants  are the be-all and end-all when it comes to  Anal stretching without pain . With the right lubricant, everything becomes more slippery, softer and safer. For beginners, special Anal gels with a cooling or warming effect are exciting, but you should only use numbing gels consciously and very carefully. 
 Toys such as Anal plugs, dildos or  Anal training sets are ideal for gradually increasing stretching. Start with small, narrow shapes and slowly increase in size and girth. This is a good way to test what is already possible and where your body still needs time.  
 Wearing a Anal plugs for a certain period of time is a special form of anal training. You can try out how long you can comfortably hold the foreign object in your bottom and how it feels to move with it. A dildo, on the other hand, is usually moved actively - here you can play with speed and depth until you reach your climax (alone or with a partner). 
  An anal douche  can help you feel cleaner and safer during anal sex. Anatomically speaking, the bottom remains an &quot;unclean area&quot;, but a gentle colonic irrigation reduces residue and allows many to enjoy themselves in a more relaxed way. 
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  If aids, lubricant and anal training work well, you are well on the way to really hot, relaxed anal sex.  
 Things you should never do when stretching Anal 
 There are a few no-goes that you should definitely avoid during  anal training : 
  - Never start directly with a large toy or a thick penis. Stretching Anal must be done slowly and smoothly. Start small, then increase step by step.   - Never penetrate without lubricant. Dry penetration can cause painful tears and injuries - both to the anus and the penis. Lubricant is mandatory, not optional.   - When playing between the vagina and anus,  never go from the bottom to the vagina . Bacteria from the anal area can cause serious infections. From vagina to bottom is okay - but never back.   - If you don&#039;t trust your partner, don&#039;t engage in Anal stretching or anal sex. This practice requires real closeness, good communication and deep trust. 
  FAQ: Anal Stretching &amp;amp; anal sex - frequently asked questions 
  Is anal sex painful?  
 
 Anal sex can be painful if you don&#039;t prepare the Anal stretching, don&#039;t relax or work without lubricant. With slow stretching, plenty of rest and good Anal lubricant, anal sex can usually be experienced with much less pain or even completely pain-free. 
 
  Is anal sex unhygienic?  
 
 The anal area is heavily colonized by bacteria, so hygiene is important. Thorough washing, possibly  an anal douche  and the use of condoms significantly reduce the risk of infection. 
 
  Do I need special aids for anal sex?  
 
 You don&#039;t necessarily need toys, but  lubricant  is practically indispensable. Anal douches, Anal plugs and  Anal training sets can help you to practise stretching  Anal in a controlled manner and make anal sex more enjoyable. 
 
  How do I prepare for anal sex?  
 
 Cleaning, relaxation and gentle Anal stretching are key: warm showers or baths, massages, a finger for pre-stretching and small plugs later. Plus open, honest communication with your partner about boundaries, safewords and pace. 
 
  Is anal sex suitable for everyone?  
 
 No. Anal sex should only take place if you are comfortable with it and feel like it. If you have fresh hemorrhoids, anal fissures or other complaints, you should talk to your doctor and be careful or take a break. 
 
  Can anal sex be harmful?  
 
 Anal sex can be harmful if it is done recklessly, without lubricant or against your will. With slow Anal stretching, lubricant, respect and good communication, the risk of injury is significantly lower. 
 
 Conclusion: Anal Stretching as the basis for relaxed anal sex 
  Anal Stretching  is the basis for low-pain or pain-free anal sex. With time, lubricant, suitable toys and a lot of patience, you can train your sphincter and learn to consciously enjoy anal sex. 
 Tools such as Anal plugs, training sets and anal showers make preparation easier and safer. However, your body awareness, your limits and open communication with your partner are always crucial. 
 Anal sex is not right for everyone - but for many it is a special, intimate and extremely intense form of sexuality if the preparation is right and you take the time to build up your Anal stretching step by step. 
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            <title type="text">Anal fingering: technology, pleasure &amp; safety for women and men</title>
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                                            Proper fingering must be skillful. In your mind, you simply push your finger into your anus and then it&#039;s fine. In reality, however, it takes a lot more than that.
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 Properly fingering anal is much more than &quot;just shoving your finger up your bottom&quot;. The anus is a sensitive nerve center that reacts very intensely to touch - for all genders. So that anal fingering is not painful or embarrassing, but pleasurable, intimate and safe, it requires preparation, sensitivity and good communication. 
 In this guide, you&#039;ll find out how to make anal fingering safe and enjoyable for men and women, what to look out for when it comes to hygiene and how you can pamper yourself anal. 
 Why a finger in the bottom can be so arousing 
 The anus is criss-crossed by many nerve endings - even touching the outside can be extremely arousing.  An anal massage  can trigger strong feelings of pleasure in all genders because 
 
 the skin around the anus is very sensitive, 
 light pressure, circular movements or stretching are intensely felt, 
 the unusual stimulation stimulates the head cinema. 
 
 In men, there is another bonus:  the prostate . It is located a few centimetres behind the anus and can be stimulated with a finger through the anterior intestinal wall. For many men, this feels like a deep, vibrating, almost wave-like sensation of pleasure - unlike the &quot;classic&quot; penile orgasm. 
 Anal fingering for women 
 Anal fingering in women works a little differently than in men because they don&#039;t have a prostate - but the area is also full of nerves and can be incredibly pleasurable. 
 1. Approach slowly  If you want to pleasure your partner anal, sensitivity is key. Approach slowly: 
 
 start with kissing, stroking, maybe a massage, 
 pamper her  vaginally or clitorally  first so that she is relaxed and aroused, 
 slowly move from the front to the back to the bottom - not the other way around. 
 
 This way, anal stimulation feels like a natural progression, not a sudden &quot;assault&quot;. 
 2. Lubricant &amp;amp; gentle entry  The anus does not lubricate itself. Therefore, use  a high-quality anal lubricant  so that the touch is smooth and low-friction. A few drops around the anus are usually enough to make the skin slippery. 
  Important rules:  
 
  You don&#039;t have to penetrate deeply  - most of the nerves are located directly at the anus and in the first few centimeters. 
 Start with gentle pressure and circular movements instead of &quot;just going in&quot;. 
 Use a fingertip first, then slowly use more when she feels comfortable. 
 
 3. From front to back - never back  You can finger her vaginally first and then move to the anus. But:  You can&#039;t go from the back to the front.  If your finger was in the bottom, it has  no business being in the vagina . Otherwise you risk infections because intestinal bacteria can get into the vagina. 
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 Fingers in the man&#039;s anus 
 For men, the topic of &quot;fingers in the bottom&quot; is often associated with shame, prejudice or insecurity - although prostate stimulation can be one of the most intense sexual experiences ever for many. 
 1. Trust &amp;amp; sensitivity   Not every man is immediately ready  to be touched in the back. Proceed slowly: 
 
 start with a relaxing back or bottom massage, 
 stroke the lower back, buttocks and inner thighs, 
 feel out together what feels good - without pressure. 
 
 If your partner remains visibly relaxed, you can  gently approach the anus : first play around it with your finger, then penetrate gently with consent and relaxation - always with good lubrication. 
 2. Prostate stimulation  If your finger is in your bottom, you can feel your man&#039;s  prostate : it is located about two to four centimetres towards the abdominal wall. Many men like: 
 
 light, rhythmic pressure on this area, 
 a &quot;come here&quot; movement with the finger (slightly curved), 
 the combination of prostate stimulation and simultaneous touching of the penis. 
 
 The following applies here: try it out carefully, ask how it feels - and it&#039;s better to start gently than too intensively. 
 Cleanliness, preparation &amp;amp; aids 
 Good preparation helps to ensure that  anal fingering  is not disturbed by insecurity or unpleasant situations. 
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 1. Personal hygiene  A fresh shower takes away many people&#039;s shyness. If you like, you can also carefully clean the rectum. There are suitable  intimate showers  that can be used with lukewarm water. This is not a must, but for many it gives a good feeling of security. 
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 2. Lubricant especially for anal pleasure  The anus does not produce its own moisture.  A good anal lubricant is essential  to ensure that penetration remains gentle and pain-free. Ideally, use a personal lubricant that is designed for anal sex - often formulated to be a little thicker and more nourishing. 
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  3. Hands &amp;amp; fingernails  
 
 Wash your hands thoroughly before playing anal. 
 Keep your  fingernails short, smooth and clean  - sharp edges can injure the sensitive mucous membrane. 
 If you want to be particularly hygienic or avoid small scratches, you can use disposable gloves. 
 
 
  More about anal play &amp;amp; preparation:   Anal toys &amp;amp; anal sex guide   Lubricant &amp;amp; anal lubricant   Intimate douches &amp;amp; cleaning  
 
 How do you finger yourself anally? 
 Fingering yourself anal is often easier than your partner - you know your body best and can directly feel what feels good. Two things are important:  the right position and plenty of lube . 
 Comfortable positions are, for example 
 
 lying on your stomach with your bottom slightly raised (pillow under your hips), 
 lying on your back, legs bent and slightly apart, 
 on your side with your top leg bent. 
 
 Try out where you can reach your anus in the most relaxed way. Use lubricant and massage only the outside at first before slowly penetrating. Your body will clearly show you when it&#039;s too much. Listen to these signals - you should be able to let yourself go, not tense up. 
 How do you finger anally properly? 
 &quot;Fingers in the ass&quot; is not automatically a pleasure - it&#039;  s the technique that counts . It makes sense to practise on yourself first to understand which movements are comfortable and where the limits are. 
 A few basic rules: 
 
 take your time, no frantic penetration, 
 massage the outside first, then apply gentle pressure to the anus, 
 don&#039;t force your finger through, but wait for the moment when the sphincter gives way, 
 short, well-groomed fingernails are a must. 
 
 When penetrating, the finger can initially only stretch the opening and later go a little deeper. In men, the prostate is located towards the abdominal wall; in women, areas towards the vagina can be perceived as particularly pleasant. The aim is not to go &quot;as deep as possible&quot;, but to find the right spot and the right intensity. 
 Anal stretching for men 
 You can start  anal stretch  ing  for men  gently with oil or lubricant and a circular massage around the anus. Once the body is relaxed, the finger can slowly penetrate. If you want more, you can use small  Anal plugs  use. 
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 Anal plugs are available in many sizes - from very small to very expansive. So you can increase the stretch step by step. Some men also wear small plugs in everyday life for a lasting feeling of fullness and as preparation for anal sex. 
 Fingering women properly anal 
 Fingering a woman anal is not as simple as &quot;in and done&quot;. Like men, women have plenty of nerve endings in their anus, but no prostate. So you have to find  a surface and angle  that she likes. Many like gentle stretching combined with vulva or clitoral stimulation. 
 It can be very pleasant to bend your finger slightly in the bottom and move it towards the vagina. This creates an internal pressure that can be combined with external touches. It remains very important:  From front to back yes, from back to front no.  So you can finger her vaginally and then move to the anus, but never bring the &quot;anal finger&quot; back into the vagina or near the urethra - otherwise you risk infection. 
 Safety, communication &amp;amp; boundaries 
 As pleasurable as anal fingering can be - it remains an area with particularly sensitive structures. A few basic principles can help keep play safe: 
 
  Talk about it beforehand : Does your partner want to be stimulated anal? How far should it go? Are there any no-goes? 
  Respect stop signals : &quot;Too strong&quot;, &quot;pause&quot;, &quot;stop&quot; should be taken seriously immediately. 
  Avoid injuries : no hard, jerky movements, no sharp nails, no objects that are not intended for this purpose. 
  Observe safer sex : If other practices are added (e.g. anal sex), adjust condom changes and hygiene accordingly. 
 
 If you feel safe and respected, anal fingering can become an incredibly intimate, bonding and erotic part of your sexuality - whether as preparation for  anal sex , as your own play or as a tingling addition to foreplay. 
 
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            <title type="text">Fisting | All info and questions about fisting</title>
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                                            Fisting offers enormous feelings of pleasure through stretching and can be enjoyed by both women and men. A good preparation and a slow stretching is essential. It is important to use good protection and especially high-quality lubricants.
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                  Fisting offers enormous feelings of pleasure through stretching and can be enjoyed by both women and men. A good preparation and a slow stretching is essential. It is important to use good protection and especially high-quality lubricants.  
 Is the whole fist really used when fisting? 
 Basically, this question can be answered with &quot;yes&quot;, since  fisting means fist intercourse . However, this does not have to be meant completely literally in every case. Also the insertion of several fingers or the stretched hand is generally already called fisting.   Especially beginners in the field of fisting should start small at first and gradually feel their way forward. While especially in the beginning often a few fingers are enough, you can gradually work your way up to the stretched hand or the so-called  duckbill position of  the hand. 
 Basically, every fisting lover must develop and get to know his own preferences. It remains important that the passive part remains relaxed and pain-free during fisting. The use of fisting  lubricant  is recommended in any case. 
 What should I consider as a fisting beginner? 
 Two factors are especially important when fisting. A relaxed atmosphere with a lot of trust in the active part and good fisting lubricant. Choose a comfortable and relaxed position in which you can optimally relax your abdomen. 
 For vaginal fisting, resting your pelvis on a pillow can provide the perfect positioning and relaxation. 
   Equally important is very good communication with your partner . After all, fisting should always be absolutely painless. So it is important to proceed slowly and pay attention to the verbal and nonverbal signals of the passive part. 
 Likewise,  hygiene  is enormously important  during fisting . In any case, think about the use of disposable gloves. These hardly affect the sense of touch and sensation, but provide a much higher level of safety. The hands of the active part are also protected by the gloves. 
 Because the fisting lubricant could quickly absorb into the skin and thus make the hand rough and dry. So it would come in the worst case to pain during fisting. Therefore, gloves and good fisting lubricant are crucial factors for a relaxed experience. 
   
 What is the best way to start vaginal fisting? 
 Due to its function as a birth canal, the vagina is very stretchy by nature. Nevertheless, a slow and careful approach is also advantageous here. Take your time and increase the number of fingers or the pressure only carefully. 
 Also when  fisting vaginally , you should always use fisting lubricant, even though a vagina provides moisture on its own. Only through a good slipperiness can fisting be properly enjoyed. 
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 Ideally, you should start by using one or more fingers during extensive foreplay. This way you can not only promote the natural moisture of the vagina, but also already apply the first fisting lubricant. Now slowly increase the number of fingers or the pressure of your hand. 
 You should  refrain from all jerky movements or the use of force . You can also use  disposable gloves  for vaginal fisting to prevent the skin from drying out due to the fisting lubricant and to make the act more beautiful and relaxed. 
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 What are the specifics of anal fisting? 
 The number of  potential risks  is significantly higher with anal fisting than with vaginal fisting. This is due to the structure of the sphincter and the intestine and can only be countered by caution. Use here in any case again significantly more fisting lubricant and work even more slowly and carefully. 
 The great advantage of anal fisting, however, is that both women and men can take over the passive part. Thus, ideally, both partners can communicate with each other much easier and mark the boundaries more clearly. 
 Too vigorous or hectic movements can damage the sphincter muscle. This can lead to a so-called anal fissure - a tear in the intestinal mucosa. This can lead more quickly to an infection or even damage to the sphincter muscle, which can have long-term consequences. 
 Therefore, you should always proceed with absolute calm and relaxation and give yourself and your partner enough time. Because muscles are indeed enormously stretchable and can therefore adapt to a wide variety of demands, but must first learn what is required of them. 
   
 From the first attempt to successful fisting, quite a while can pass, during which the  sphincter muscle must be gradually stretched further and further . As the sphincter muscle becomes accustomed to regular stretching, the comfort level during fisting also increases significantly. 
 The muscle relaxes more easily and the passive part can fully enjoy the tickle of the many nerve endings of the anus. Even orgasms are possible through fisting. 
 Should I empty my bowels before fisting? 
 We recommend emptying the bowels before both vaginal and anal fisting. During vaginal fisting, pressure can be exerted on the bowels, which can quickly lead to cramps in the woman. Relaxed fisting is then no longer possible in most cases. 
  During anal fisting, the bowel should be emptied anyway , since the irritation of the sphincter muscle triggers emptying pressure. So the game can quickly backfire. 
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  Pain and cramping are not part of fisting, but a warning signal from your body  not to overdo it. Listen to your body and take a short break. Use fresh fisting lube and gradually feel your way further. You will enjoy it when you feel a whole fist inside you for the first time. 
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            <title type="text">Pegging - experience the role reversal in bed with relish</title>
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                                            Pegging is a term that you come across time and again. But what does this practice actually mean? We&#039;ll tell you exactly what Pegging is, the best way to broach the subject and everything you need for Pegging together. Quite simply and clearly.
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 Pegging sounds like a daring kink - in reality, this role reversal in bed can be incredibly intimate, bonding and pleasurable. In this Pegging guide, you&#039;ll find out what&#039;s behind the practice, how to broach the subject respectfully and how to move step by step from the initial idea to a fulfilling shared experience. 
 The focus is always on consensus, communication, safety - and a good dose of curiosity about new perspectives on pleasure. 
  Suitable guides &amp;amp; inspiration around Pegging: 
 
  Anal-Fingering - that also needs to be skillful  
  Deep insights thanks to labia spreaders  
  Everything you need to know about femdom  
  Guide - cockring for more control &amp;amp; pleasure  
 
 
 What is Pegging anyway? 
 Pegging describes a sexual practice in which the woman penetrates the man anal with a strapon Often Pegging is part of an  erotic role reversal : she takes on the active, more dominant role, he lets go of control, experiences submission, intense prostate stimulation and completely new feelings of pleasure. 
 The term originates from the English-speaking BDSM and sex community and has long since found its way into the bedrooms of curious couples. Pegging can be romantic and tender, playful or much more dominant in the sense of femdom and power games - the important thing is that it is right  for both of them . 
 Why Pegging appeals to many couples 
 
  New perspectives on pleasure:  Men experience their prostate as a &quot;male G-spot&quot; - often more intense orgasms, different body perception. 
  Role reversal &amp;amp; power games:  She becomes an active lover or dominatrix, he surrenders - a classic BDSM element. 
  More trust:  Those who open up to anal not only reveal a lot about themselves physically, but also emotionally. 
  More equality in bed:  Both experience what giving and taking feels like - physically and mentally. 
 
 The strapon at Pegging - variations and differences 
 At the heart of Pegging is the strapon. Even though people like to talk about &quot;the&quot; strapon, there are different designs that feel very different - both for the active woman and for the receiving man. 
 The strapon is classically a strap-on dildo - but the term is now a bit of a misnomer, as there are several variants: 
 
  Strap-on with harness:  A dildo is clamped into a harness or trouser system. Advantage: very good control, different sizes, depending on the model also with vibration or extra stimulation for the wearer. 
  Strapless-strapon:  This strapon is partially inserted vaginally and held in place by the muscles. This way, the active partner is also stimulated while she penetrates. 
 
 Which variant is more suitable depends on your bodies, your experience and your style of play. For beginners, a classic strapon with a harness is often easier to control. 
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 Pegging addressing - without pressure, but with clarity 
 The fantasy is there, but how do you approach Pegging without running over your partner? No matter which side the desire comes from - it&#039;s important to have a calm moment without pressure. 
 
  Timing:  Talk about it first  outside of  the hot situation, e.g. over a glass of wine or after a nice sex session when you feel close. 
  I-messages:  Phrase your desire as an invitation: &#039;I&#039;d be interested in Pegging...&#039; instead of &#039;You should try...&#039;. 
  Curiosity instead of performance:  Emphasize that it&#039;s not a test, but a joint exploration: You can stop at any time. 
  Define boundaries:  Talk about taboos (e.g. no deep penetration, no pain, no humiliation - or vice versa) and define a safeword. 
 
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 Safeword, consensus &amp;amp; communication - the basis for Pegging 
 Precisely because Pegging involves anal penetration, prostate stimulation and often a clear dominance/submission dynamic, it belongs in the realm of  BDSM and kink . To keep everything pleasurable, you need three basic pillars: 
 
  Consensus:  everyone involved consciously says &quot;yes&quot; - without pressure, without manipulation. An &quot;I don&#039;t know...&quot; is not a clear yes. 
  Safeword:  An agreed word (e.g. &quot;red&quot;) ends the game immediately. &quot;Yellow&quot; can stand for &quot;please slow down/differently&quot;. 
  Aftercare:  Cuddling, talking, having a drink, stroking - after intense sessions, the body and mind need attention. 
 
 Important tips for the active woman during Pegging 
 When you as a woman take on the active role at Pegging, you are both the enjoyer and the person in charge. You control the pace, depth of penetration and intensity. 
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 The most important rules at a glance 
 ✅  Use plenty of Anal lubricant  - anal intercourse without lubricant is quickly painful and can promote injuries. ✅  Stretch slowly  - with one finger, then two, possibly small anal toys. The sphincter muscle should be given time to let go. ✅  Start small  - choose a small one first strapon, you can increase the size and hardness later. ✅  Penetrate slowly  - the receiving partner exhales deeply while you go deeper, inch by inch. ✅  Pay attention to body language  - breathing, muscle tension, sounds: they tell you whether you should change the speed or pressure. 
 The receiving man - devotion, prostate &amp;amp; new orgasms 
 For many men, Pegging is initially more challenging mentally than physically. Shame, role models or fear of losing control can get in the way - and this is precisely where the special opportunity of this practice lies. 
 
  Practice surrender:  Take your time to get used to the feeling of fullness and the role of the recipient. 
  Discover the prostate:  Pleasant pressure on the anterior intestinal wall (towards the abdomen) can lead to intense wave orgasms. 
  Combined stimulation:  Many men particularly love Pegging when the penis or testicles are stimulated at the same time. 
 
  Tip for beginners:  Start with a finger or small plug and only feel the pressure in the resting position - without expecting &quot;real sex&quot; straight away. This will allow you to get used to the new sensation. 
  Tip for advanced users:  If you are already familiar with Pegging, experiment with different positions (spooning, riding position, doggy) and test where the prostate is stimulated most intensely. 
  Tip for experienced users:  Combine Pegging with other BDSM elements such as blindfolds, light restraints or roll commands - always with a clear safeword and agreed aftercare. 
 Tips for all levels - Pegging step by step 
 Level 1 - curious &amp;amp; cautious 
 
 Read the guide together and watch the video below. 
 Clarify boundaries and taboos, set a safeword. 
 Start with Anal fingers and small toys, without penetration pressure. 
 Only go as far as both feel relaxed and curious. 
 
 Level 2 - first Pegging experiences 
 
 Choose a small strapon and work extensively with lubricant. 
 Comfortable position: e.g. the man on his side or on his stomach, she behind him. 
 Penetrate slowly, breathe a lot, maintain eye contact or hand contact. 
 Take a break shortly after each penetration and let your body get used to the fullness. 
 
 Level 3 - intensive role reversal &amp;amp; BDSM feeling 
 
 Experiment with larger strapons, longer sessions and clear power dynamics. 
 Integrate elements such as commands, titles (&quot;Mistress&quot;, &quot;Femdom&quot;, &quot;My Toy&quot;) or light bondage. 
 Test prostate stimulation with different forms of movement: gentle thrusting, circular movements, holding and pulsing. 
 Plan intensive aftercare after the session - cuddling, talking, praise, perhaps a shower for two. 
 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 
  Soft scenario:  You play &quot;curious lover&quot;. She introduces him slowly, whispers soothing words, he describes what feels good. Perfect for first attempts. 
  Mid-level scenario:  Femdom setting light. She sets the pace and position, sets the rules (&quot;You only speak when I ask&quot;), but remains affectionate and attentive. 
  Intensive scenario:  He is her &quot;toy&quot; or &quot;sub&quot;, she wears strapon and perhaps matching lingerie or harness. Commands, light spanking or bondage can be added - always with a safeword and prior agreement. 
 
 
 Cruel Reell about Pegging - first-hand tips (Video) 
   Your browser cannot play this video.  This video shows Cruel Reell in a guide to Pegging. You can access it at  the link address .   
 So that you are even better prepared and the Pegging becomes an intense experience for both of you, we have invited a real expert:  Cruel Reell . In our exclusive video, she gives you her best tips for getting started with Pegging and shows you how to make this special form of role play safe and pleasurable. 
 
  How do you find the right strapon for you both?  
  Which lubricants and aids are really useful?  
  How do you take control as a dominatrix without overwhelming your partner?  
  Which tricks can be used to stimulate the prostate in a particularly targeted way?  
 
 In this video, you&#039;ll learn everything you need to know to discover Pegging as an enriching part of your relationship - from preparation to more advanced techniques. 
 Watch the video with  Cruel Reell  and discover Pegging from a completely new perspective! 
 
  Are you curious?  
 Are you fascinated by the idea of pegging or would you like to try it yourself? If your partner or femdom is also interested - why not? With the right strapon, enough lubricant, clear communication and a good safeword, Pegging can turn from a taboo into a pleasurable, intimate journey into a new role. 
 Thanks to the right accessories and a conscious, consensual approach, you can expand your sex life - away from habits and towards curious discovery. And maybe swapping roles in bed is just the bit of freedom you&#039;ve been missing. 
  Thanks to Cruel Reell for her valuable insights!  
 
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            <title type="text">Anal licking - anilingus for the most intense sex experiences</title>
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                                            Anilingus requires a lot of trust and hygiene, but is then an intense feeling for both man and woman. You can use anilingus to gently and intensely provide intense sensations and bring your partner close to climax. With the right aids, the feelings can even be intensified so t...
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 Anilingus - also known colloquially as rimjob or anus licking - can be a very intense experience, but requires more preparation than many other practices. Trust, hygiene and a clear agreement between you are crucial. This guide will show you how you can make anilingus safe, conscious and pleasurable for both of you. 
 What does anilingus mean? 
 Anilingus is the oral stimulation of the anus. Common terms are  rimjob, rimming, anal kissing or anal licking . It always means the same thing: the anus is stimulated with lips and tongue. 
 The anus is heavily supplied with nerves in all people and can react very sensitively to touch. Anilingus is therefore interesting for all genders - regardless of who is licking and who is receiving. 
 Anilingus - intense stimulation for all genders 
 Anal licking is not tied to a specific gender. Anyone can give or receive anilingus. The anus is an erogenous zone where many nerves lie just under the skin. Light touches can therefore trigger strong reactions. 
 So that both of you can relax, you should talk openly beforehand about your wishes, boundaries and also about possible risks such as bacterial transmission. Only when you feel safe and informed should you start. 
  Tip for beginners:  Talk openly about hygiene, positions and a stop signal beforehand. The clearer the agreements, the easier it will be for you to let yourselves go. 
 Tongue games around the anus 
 Anilingus doesn&#039;t have to be complicated. Many people find even gentle licking around the anus very intense. You don&#039;t have to be a &quot;tongue acrobat&quot; - it&#039;s more important that you react attentively and take your time. 
 
  Around the anus:  Use the tip of your tongue or a flat tongue to stroke in a circle around the anus. 
  From the coccyx downwards:  With a pointed tongue, start at the top of the butt crease and slowly move down to the anus. 
  Flat tongue:  Place the tongue flat on the anus and move it with light pressure. 
  Combination with other zones:  For women, anilingus can be combined with classic oral sex - but always ensure the correct sequence (see hygiene). 
 
 Many receptive people can reach orgasm through anilingus alone, others need additional stimulation. Both are normal - there is no &quot;obligatory reaction&quot;. 
 
 Preparing for anal sex with anilingus 
 Anilingus can be a good introduction to further anal play or anal intercourse. The tongue can be used to stimulate and relax the area in very fine doses. 
 
  Start off slowly:  first just lick and circle the outside. 
  Increase carefully:  If it is pleasant, the tongue can penetrate the anus minimally - just a few millimetres. 
  Combine with fingers or toys:  Later, fingers or small  Anal plugs  can be added to slowly increase the stretching. 
 
 It is important to give the receiving part time. The body decides the pace - not the head. 
 Aids for anilingus 
 If you like it more hygienic or protected, you can use aids: 
 
  Dental dams:  Thin cloths that are placed between the mouth and anus and protect against direct contact with bodily fluids. 
  Flavored lubricant:  Special flavored lubricants can make the smell and taste more pleasant. 
  Anal toys:  Vibrators or plugs for the anal region can provide additional stimulation and intensify the experience. 
 
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  Link tip - suitable products:   Intimate &amp;amp; anal douche  -  Anal- lubricant -   anal toys  
 Cleanliness and safer sex aspects of anilingus 
 The anus is naturally an area with lots of bacteria. Hygiene is therefore particularly important during anilingus - for both comfort and health reasons. 
 
  Preparation:  Shower or bathe together, clean the anal area thoroughly. 
  Optional anal shower:  A gentle  anal shower  can increase the feeling of well-being, but is not a must. 
  No switching from anus to vulva/penis without protection:  Never switch directly from the anal area to the vulva or penis without cleaning - this can promote infections. 
  Use lick wipes:  Highly recommended for additional protection against germs and when changing partners. 
 
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  Important note:  Anyone with pre-existing conditions, a weakened immune system or uncertainties about the risk of infection should seek medical advice beforehand. This guide does not replace medical advice. 
 Tips for all levels - anilingus step by step 
 
 Level 1 - Beginners 
 
 Only start with a trusted partner. 
 Shower together and clear agreement in advance. 
 Initially only external touches around the anus. 
 Be able to stop at any time - agree a safeword if necessary. 
 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 
 Include licking cloths, flavored lubricant or anal toys. 
 Combination with other erogenous zones (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. penis, breast, vulva). 
 Try light penetration with the tongue if desired. 
 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 
 Use anilingus specifically as preparation for anal intercourse. 
 Combine with plug or finger training. 
 More complex scenarios or longer sessions - with breaks, feedback and clear safer sex rules. 
 
 
 Role play step by step - depending on the level 
 
 Level 1 - Beginner 
 Simple scenes: one of us spoils, the other lets himself go passively. Clear instructions on when to start and when to stop. 
 Level 2 - Advanced 
 Incorporate roles such as &quot;service&quot;, &quot;reward&quot; or &quot;special attention&quot;. Anilingus can be linked to certain conditions (e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. as a reward after a task). 
 Level 3 - Experienced 
 Integrate anilingus into more complex BDSM or power play scenarios, e.g.&amp;nbsp;e.g. as a fixed ritual or part of a session structure - always with clear boundaries and a safeword. 
 
 Conclusion: Enjoy anilingus consciously and safely 
 Anilingus can be very intense and varied - provided that hygiene, trust and open communication are right. If you take time for preparation, safe sex and clear agreements, you can integrate anal pleasure into your sex life in a relaxed and responsible way. 
 
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